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Getting engaged after < 1 year of dating/knowing each other
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Date: November 21st, 2017 4:54 PM Author: fantasy-prone prole Seems weird right? Is it cause the chick is hitting 30 and desperate or what? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3804996&forum_id=2#34742129) |
Date: November 21st, 2017 4:56 PM Author: mewling lodge who cares (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3804996&forum_id=2#34742139) |
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Date: November 21st, 2017 4:56 PM Author: fantasy-prone prole (desperate 30 year old woman) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3804996&forum_id=2#34742142) |
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Date: November 21st, 2017 4:58 PM Author: Razzle tripping property filthpig I did this. and now I'm we're separated ~26 months later. and she took my kid and is not letting me see her on thanksgiving. because she moved us all to an area where her friends are but I know no one, i'll be totally alone too. she was 31 when we met and I was 29. so there's one data point supporting your implied point (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3804996&forum_id=2#34742156) |
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Date: November 21st, 2017 5:00 PM Author: fantasy-prone prole are you the one with the doctor wife or is that someone else
sounds crazy. so you pretty much didn't know each other and already had a kid? wtf. i hope you end up OK.
in situations like this, i just assume the woman is desperate to get married because of the big 3-0. |
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Date: November 21st, 2017 6:19 PM Author: Razzle tripping property filthpig I got the timeline a little wrong:
-met 2/14
-engaged after 8 months (10/14)
-married after 19 months (9/15)
-kid after 33 months (11/16)
-separated after 45 months (11/17)
not the one with the doctor wife |
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Date: November 21st, 2017 5:00 PM Author: deranged purple affirmative action (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3804996&forum_id=2#34742178) |
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Date: November 21st, 2017 4:59 PM Author: henna coffee pot terrrrrrrible idea (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3804996&forum_id=2#34742174) |
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Date: November 21st, 2017 5:00 PM Author: plum trailer park These marriages rarely work out. I know a chick in one of these and she's absolutely miserable only 3 years into the marriage. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3804996&forum_id=2#34742180) |
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Date: November 21st, 2017 5:02 PM Author: fantasy-prone prole you have to live together for YEARS before knowing whether it will work out or not. otherwise, you have no idea what you are doing and have no idea who the other person is.
some women just really want to be married and don't care who she marries. |
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Date: November 21st, 2017 5:04 PM Author: amethyst contagious stead chad lol "will work out or not"
I'm not endorsing the idea that people should get engaged too early, but the idea that divorce is even an option is why marriages fail. It isn't some passive thing, you have to choose to make it work. |
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Date: November 21st, 2017 5:05 PM Author: fantasy-prone prole if marriage is too much work, then might as well quit
work is work, don't want my personal life to be work too
i think if a person has to change a lot to be in a marriage, then it wasn't meant to be. you have to find someone where you can be yourself 100% of the time. |
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Date: November 21st, 2017 5:40 PM Author: arousing tattoo but people change. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3804996&forum_id=2#34742562) |
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Date: November 21st, 2017 5:44 PM Author: grizzly boistinker life is work, bro. no escaping it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3804996&forum_id=2#34742595) |
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Date: November 21st, 2017 6:25 PM Author: Jet parlour stain "you have to find someone where you can be yourself 100% of the time."
This is some fairy tale bullshit. The real you, absent effort to be civilized and socially acceptable, is a glorified ape. Just like the rest of us. |
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Date: November 21st, 2017 6:37 PM Author: beady-eyed brass roast beef I think this is true for a lot of people.
But this is also part of why you people are Trash, and justly called out as such.
Divorce = you are trash. Arguments to the contrary are just designed to avoid blame. We run the brutal honesty shtick here on xo, and this is just one more hard cold fact. |
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Date: November 21st, 2017 5:43 PM Author: plum trailer park The chick I know was in a hurry to get married because she was almost 30 and her younger sister was already married. As a result, she basically married the first guy that was interested in getting married. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3804996&forum_id=2#34742587) |
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Date: November 21st, 2017 5:02 PM Author: Curious fighting area cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3804996&forum_id=2#34742202) |
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Date: November 21st, 2017 5:07 PM Author: Insane temple Aweful idea (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3804996&forum_id=2#34742243) |
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Date: November 21st, 2017 5:43 PM Author: concupiscible space It's reasonable to have a shorter courtship with older age. If youre >35, 10 months is acceptable (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3804996&forum_id=2#34742585) |
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Date: November 21st, 2017 5:50 PM Author: odious menage telephone So like 95% of Mormon marriages (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3804996&forum_id=2#34742661) |