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Getting engaged after < 1 year of dating/knowing each other

Seems weird right? Is it cause the chick is hitting 30 and d...
opaque costumed cuckold toilet seat
  11/21/17
who cares
supple elastic band
  11/21/17
(desperate 30 year old woman)
opaque costumed cuckold toilet seat
  11/21/17
I did this. and now I'm we're separated ~26 months later. an...
Curious Stag Film Quadroon
  11/21/17
are you the one with the doctor wife or is that someone else...
opaque costumed cuckold toilet seat
  11/21/17
I got the timeline a little wrong: -met 2/14 -engaged ...
Curious Stag Film Quadroon
  11/21/17
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galvanic rusted orchestra pit generalized bond
  11/21/17
terrrrrrrible idea
brilliant provocative patrolman
  11/21/17
These marriages rarely work out. I know a chick in one of th...
Exciting personal credit line coldplay fan
  11/21/17
you have to live together for YEARS before knowing whether i...
opaque costumed cuckold toilet seat
  11/21/17
lol "will work out or not" I'm not endorsing th...
lemon community account
  11/21/17
if marriage is too much work, then might as well quit wor...
opaque costumed cuckold toilet seat
  11/21/17
but people change.
spectacular infuriating french chef
  11/21/17
life is work, bro. no escaping it.
Geriatric disturbing box office electric furnace
  11/21/17
"you have to find someone where you can be yourself 100...
impressive pit place of business
  11/21/17
I think this is true for a lot of people. But this is al...
Violent boiling water school cafeteria
  11/21/17
The chick I know was in a hurry to get married because she w...
Exciting personal credit line coldplay fan
  11/21/17
cr
Maniacal emerald field
  11/21/17
Aweful idea
green ratface market
  11/21/17
It's reasonable to have a shorter courtship with older age. ...
at-the-ready electric twinkling uncleanness step-uncle's house
  11/21/17
So like 95% of Mormon marriages
Silver house pistol
  11/21/17


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Date: November 21st, 2017 4:54 PM
Author: opaque costumed cuckold toilet seat

Seems weird right? Is it cause the chick is hitting 30 and desperate or what?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3804996&forum_id=2#34742129)



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Date: November 21st, 2017 4:56 PM
Author: supple elastic band

who cares

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3804996&forum_id=2#34742139)



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Date: November 21st, 2017 4:56 PM
Author: opaque costumed cuckold toilet seat

(desperate 30 year old woman)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3804996&forum_id=2#34742142)



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Date: November 21st, 2017 4:58 PM
Author: Curious Stag Film Quadroon

I did this. and now I'm we're separated ~26 months later. and she took my kid and is not letting me see her on thanksgiving. because she moved us all to an area where her friends are but I know no one, i'll be totally alone too. she was 31 when we met and I was 29. so there's one data point supporting your implied point

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3804996&forum_id=2#34742156)



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Date: November 21st, 2017 5:00 PM
Author: opaque costumed cuckold toilet seat

are you the one with the doctor wife or is that someone else

sounds crazy. so you pretty much didn't know each other and already had a kid? wtf. i hope you end up OK.

in situations like this, i just assume the woman is desperate to get married because of the big 3-0.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3804996&forum_id=2#34742177)



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Date: November 21st, 2017 6:19 PM
Author: Curious Stag Film Quadroon

I got the timeline a little wrong:

-met 2/14

-engaged after 8 months (10/14)

-married after 19 months (9/15)

-kid after 33 months (11/16)

-separated after 45 months (11/17)

not the one with the doctor wife

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3804996&forum_id=2#34742961)



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Date: November 21st, 2017 5:00 PM
Author: galvanic rusted orchestra pit generalized bond



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3804996&forum_id=2#34742178)



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Date: November 21st, 2017 4:59 PM
Author: brilliant provocative patrolman

terrrrrrrible idea

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3804996&forum_id=2#34742174)



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Date: November 21st, 2017 5:00 PM
Author: Exciting personal credit line coldplay fan

These marriages rarely work out. I know a chick in one of these and she's absolutely miserable only 3 years into the marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3804996&forum_id=2#34742180)



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Date: November 21st, 2017 5:02 PM
Author: opaque costumed cuckold toilet seat

you have to live together for YEARS before knowing whether it will work out or not. otherwise, you have no idea what you are doing and have no idea who the other person is.

some women just really want to be married and don't care who she marries.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3804996&forum_id=2#34742200)



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Date: November 21st, 2017 5:04 PM
Author: lemon community account

lol "will work out or not"

I'm not endorsing the idea that people should get engaged too early, but the idea that divorce is even an option is why marriages fail. It isn't some passive thing, you have to choose to make it work.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3804996&forum_id=2#34742220)



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Date: November 21st, 2017 5:05 PM
Author: opaque costumed cuckold toilet seat

if marriage is too much work, then might as well quit

work is work, don't want my personal life to be work too

i think if a person has to change a lot to be in a marriage, then it wasn't meant to be. you have to find someone where you can be yourself 100% of the time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3804996&forum_id=2#34742229)



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Date: November 21st, 2017 5:40 PM
Author: spectacular infuriating french chef

but people change.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3804996&forum_id=2#34742562)



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Date: November 21st, 2017 5:44 PM
Author: Geriatric disturbing box office electric furnace

life is work, bro. no escaping it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3804996&forum_id=2#34742595)



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Date: November 21st, 2017 6:25 PM
Author: impressive pit place of business

"you have to find someone where you can be yourself 100% of the time."

This is some fairy tale bullshit. The real you, absent effort to be civilized and socially acceptable, is a glorified ape. Just like the rest of us.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3804996&forum_id=2#34743016)



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Date: November 21st, 2017 6:37 PM
Author: Violent boiling water school cafeteria

I think this is true for a lot of people.

But this is also part of why you people are Trash, and justly called out as such.

Divorce = you are trash. Arguments to the contrary are just designed to avoid blame. We run the brutal honesty shtick here on xo, and this is just one more hard cold fact.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3804996&forum_id=2#34743145)



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Date: November 21st, 2017 5:43 PM
Author: Exciting personal credit line coldplay fan

The chick I know was in a hurry to get married because she was almost 30 and her younger sister was already married. As a result, she basically married the first guy that was interested in getting married.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3804996&forum_id=2#34742587)



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Date: November 21st, 2017 5:02 PM
Author: Maniacal emerald field

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3804996&forum_id=2#34742202)



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Date: November 21st, 2017 5:07 PM
Author: green ratface market

Aweful idea

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3804996&forum_id=2#34742243)



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Date: November 21st, 2017 5:43 PM
Author: at-the-ready electric twinkling uncleanness step-uncle's house

It's reasonable to have a shorter courtship with older age. If youre >35, 10 months is acceptable

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3804996&forum_id=2#34742585)



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Date: November 21st, 2017 5:50 PM
Author: Silver house pistol

So like 95% of Mormon marriages

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3804996&forum_id=2#34742661)