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Help, asexual girlfriend likes porn

https://www.reddit.com/r/asexuality/comments/7hycbe/helpgirl...
invite only sex orgy at a Manhattan loft
  12/07/17
"I'm a sexual person [okay?]"
HodlUpHodlUpWait
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EARTH TO RETARD
  12/07/17
ljl millennials
sepsis
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HodlUpHodlUpWait
  12/07/17
I'm a sexual person, but have got to the point where I like ...
Tjhooker
  12/07/17
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HodlUpHodlUpWait
  12/07/17
And there are still people who doubt the wisdom of xo Ted
Pow Wow Chow
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LTDanKaffe
  12/07/17
Hey buddy, I am ace and I write/read porn. Do you think w...
Kilns4Kikes
  12/07/17
Sup~ It's embarrassing as heelllll to begin with, but I w...
invite only sex orgy at a Manhattan loft
  12/07/17
asexual =/= girlfriend
Punctuation Monica
  12/07/17
Just read the comments. Like stepping to a different univers...
Kilns4Kikes
  12/07/17
Those people are precisely the end state of what Jew/shitlib...
hardiman
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alzabo
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Now I am become Chad, the destroyer of roasties
  12/07/17
death to America death to liberalism
Now I am become Chad, the destroyer of roasties
  12/07/17
Death to video games, death to internet
EARTH TO RETARD
  12/07/17
(modern lib)
.,.,....,.,.,.,:,:,...,:::,....,:,.,.:...,:.::,.
  12/07/17
Lmao
EARTH TO RETARD
  12/07/17
Iím confused about what an ace is and who she is typing to
Belisarius
  12/07/17
ace = asexual
metaphysique
  12/07/17
If you couldn't infer these things from the context there is...
hardiman
  12/07/17
behavioral sink
Troughman
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hardiman
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Now I am become Chad, the destroyer of roasties
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Date: December 7th, 2017 4:50 AM
Author: invite only sex orgy at a Manhattan loft

https://www.reddit.com/r/asexuality/comments/7hycbe/helpgirlfriend_ace_likes_porn/

In a relationship where my girlfriend is an ace (sex repulsed and even can't stand cuddling most of the time) but seems to enjoy role playing sexual/romantic/dom encounters online with strangers. These are typed out and through characters, if that makes a difference. At first I accepted it as she stated she has feelings for me and these don't matter, but now I'm just feeling jealous and feel like it's bordline cheating. She's never even mentioned shed like to write out a fantasy with me, and so I'm feeling left in the dark. I'm just so confused. I'm a sexual person, but have got to the point where I like dating a person for them, and not having sex doesn't bother me. But because she does this, and excludes me, just feels like she's grilling a steak and not sharing it. Am I ok in feeling this way? I know there is a part of her that cares about me, but if I mention this topic, it feels like its buried under a rug. The response I get is, the person I come to is you, I have no feelings for them. Some she has really gotten involved with and talks on messenger or skype. I keep telling myself they're role plays.....but what about me. I'm beginning to feel extremely sexually frustrated over time, just knowing this. I feel like I'm not giving her something she needs, but she says its fine.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820592&forum_id=2#34859118)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 4:55 AM
Author: HodlUpHodlUpWait

"I'm a sexual person [okay?]"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820592&forum_id=2#34859124)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 7:09 PM
Author: EARTH TO RETARD



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Date: December 7th, 2017 4:56 AM
Author: sepsis

ljl millennials

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820592&forum_id=2#34859125)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 6:03 AM
Author: HodlUpHodlUpWait



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Date: December 7th, 2017 7:20 AM
Author: Tjhooker

I'm a sexual person, but have got to the point where I like dating a person for them, and not having sex doesn't bother me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820592&forum_id=2#34859447)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 7:21 AM
Author: HodlUpHodlUpWait

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Date: December 7th, 2017 7:31 AM
Author: Pow Wow Chow

And there are still people who doubt the wisdom of xo Ted

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820592&forum_id=2#34859470)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 7:17 PM
Author: LTDanKaffe



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820592&forum_id=2#34864004)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 7:39 AM
Author: Kilns4Kikes

Hey buddy, I am ace and I write/read porn.

Do you think watching porn is cheating on her? What if you asked a guy to film a certain scene? Are you cheating on her with the guy that filmed it?

Tbh it's the same thing for me. There is zero connection with the other person, I'm just relying on them to make up a character because while I COULD write an entire erotica book on my own, I'm lazy and it's easy to have someone else write half. I give zero shits about the writer, I just want someone write porn for me, and they're volunteering.

I never role-play ME and THEM, it's always random characters because I'd never want to touch them, never want to engage myself as a sexual creature with them, never want to connect with them emotionally or romantically. I occasionally play lip service to keep them interested because most people get mad if you tell them flat out that you're just using their typing skills, and you don't give a shit about them (Some people are cool with it, a mutual writer's agreement)

I can (and do, often) ghost them on accident because I completely forgot they exist. It doesn't bother me, because I don't think we made any sort of relationship worth keeping. To me, they're just a random writer offering their services for free, and the book happens to be porn. To me, they're no different than the guy who graciously uploaded a porn video. I'm using them, plain and simple.

The reason I don't roleplay with my SO is because my SO always want to make the story about THEM and ME, which is not the point of the RP at all. It's about OTHER people. Other characters we make up, so I don't have to think about someone having sex with ME. (Because frankly that's a turn-off) - It's like asking "Hey do you want to have sex and record it to watch later?" Uh, no, I just want to watch porn someone else made. Maybe I wrote the script that the actors adhere to, but that doesn't mean I want to have sex with the guy who filmed it.

You should talk with her. I think you feelings are very valid and reasonable to have, and the two of you should sit down and have a discussion. However, I think she's probably telling the truth when she says she doesn't care about the other author in any way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820592&forum_id=2#34859486)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 6:50 PM
Author: invite only sex orgy at a Manhattan loft

Sup~

It's embarrassing as heelllll to begin with, but I was quietly pleased when my SO found some of my porny fanfictions online and used them to (ehem) satisfy certain things. It let me be a part of that side of him, without having to get naked and physically involved.

I did also take requests sometimes from people who wanted me to write a certain scene, so maybe you could ask if she'd take a writing request? Like "Hey I want to commission you to write a het scene with bondage, and I'll buy you your favorite food as payment~"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820592&forum_id=2#34863861)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 7:43 AM
Author: Punctuation Monica

asexual =/= girlfriend

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820592&forum_id=2#34859493)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 7:43 AM
Author: Kilns4Kikes

Just read the comments. Like stepping to a different universe. Those people are broken.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820592&forum_id=2#34859495)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 6:56 PM
Author: hardiman

Those people are precisely the end state of what Jew/shitlib erosion of values has been doing to society. Through the looking glass--beyond hardcore porn addiction and promiscuity--to asexuality and compulsive smut-writing. They generate cultural rot and at the same time will not reproduce, allowing muds to demographically supplant them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820592&forum_id=2#34863893)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 7:03 PM
Author: alzabo



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820592&forum_id=2#34863932)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 7:04 PM
Author: Now I am become Chad, the destroyer of roasties



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820592&forum_id=2#34863933)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 7:06 PM
Author: Now I am become Chad, the destroyer of roasties

death to America

death to liberalism

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820592&forum_id=2#34863946)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 7:10 PM
Author: EARTH TO RETARD

Death to video games, death to internet

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820592&forum_id=2#34863965)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 7:11 PM
Author: .,.,....,.,.,.,:,:,...,:::,....,:,.,.:...,:.::,.


(modern lib)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820592&forum_id=2#34863973)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 7:08 PM
Author: EARTH TO RETARD

Lmao

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820592&forum_id=2#34863959)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 7:13 PM
Author: Belisarius

Iím confused about what an ace is and who she is typing to

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820592&forum_id=2#34863982)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 7:17 PM
Author: metaphysique

ace = asexual

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820592&forum_id=2#34864003)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 7:26 PM
Author: hardiman

If you couldn't infer these things from the context there is a good chance you're a nigger.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820592&forum_id=2#34864060)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 7:22 PM
Author: Troughman

behavioral sink

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820592&forum_id=2#34864033)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 8:14 PM
Author: hardiman



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820592&forum_id=2#34864384)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 10:16 PM
Author: Now I am become Chad, the destroyer of roasties



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820592&forum_id=2#34865187)