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10 Things Every Intersectional Feminist Should Ask On a First Date
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Date: December 10th, 2017 4:20 PM Author: Charcoal deer antler Alright fellas how many boxes do you check off? Let's make this a fun competition. >0 you kill yourself
https://everydayfeminism.com/2017/12/intersectional-feminist-first-date/
As a queer femme of color, I keep close relationships with people who go beyond allyship; they’re true accomplices in the fight against white supremacy, queerphobia, and misogyny. If you’re not going to support marginalized folks, then we can’t be friends, let alone date. The personal is political.
1. Do you believe that Black Lives Matter?
I don’t want to have to have laborious discussions where I have to prove to someone that white privilege or non-black privilege exists. If they are willing to learn and listen and make the space to decenter their whiteness (if they are white), that’s a good place to start.
2. What are your thoughts on gender and sexual orientation?
The gender binary is a tiny box and I wish it didn’t exist, but it does. I wouldn’t want to be with anyone who is queer-phobic. One out of many important elements to dismantling patriarchy is to abolish gender roles as well as the limited understanding that we have about sexuality and gender itself.
3. How do you work to dismantle sexism and misogyny in your life?
It is crucial for cishet men to learn how to decenter their male privilege in order for them to understand the multitudes of interpretations of femininity and womanhood.
Beyond Misogyny 101, does the person you are with understand rape culture, systemic sexism, and misogynoir?
4. What are your thoughts on sex work?
You may scratch your head at this one, but much like racism and misogynoir, being pro-sex worker is a necessary pillar of dismantling the patriarchy.
5. Are you a supporter of the BDS movement?
BDS stands for “Boycott, Divest, Sanctions” — an effort to end international support for Israel’s oppression of Palestinians.
6. What is your understanding of settler colonialism and indigenous rights?
I didn’t grow up in the United States. I was raised in Switzerland, so my understanding of how Europeans committed genocide against indigenous populations here in the U.S. was fairly limited
7. Do you think capitalism is exploitative?
Anti-capitalism, especially in the U.S., is imperative if you have an understanding of systemic racism, the prison industrial complex, the 13th Amendment, and exploitation. Capitalism, for one, teaches us that we are only valuable if we produce capital. That means that if you aren’t contributing to the system with your labor, your life means almost nothing.
8. Can any human be illegal?
We live on a tiny planet, with land and water within a galaxy surrounded by a universe with an inconceivable number of other galaxies and planets. Yet here we dictate where we are and who is allowed to be where we are. It’s mind-boggling that borders are even a thing, so to call people “aliens” or “illegal immigrants” is so inhumane and despicable.
9. Do you support Muslim Americans and non-Muslim people from Islamic countries?
I can’t think of any other religion which has been vilified and lied about more than Islam in a cultural and systemic way. I am not Muslim, so I will stay in my lane, but I cannot imagine for a second even claiming to be a feminist if I didn’t stand in solidarity with my Muslim friends and family — especially now, especially after 9/11.
10. Does your allyship include disabled folks?
As an able-bodied woman, again, I will stay in my lane, but intersectionality has to include a solid platform for disabled people — and not just the visible disabilities. |
Date: December 10th, 2017 4:23 PM Author: Mischievous mint legend den My god (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34883933) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 4:24 PM Author: out-of-control state pozpig "I cannot imagine for a second even claiming to be a feminist if I didn’t stand in solidarity with my Muslim friends and family"
lol, libs |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 5:01 PM Author: excitant police squad ceo “Don’t waste your time and energy on dating someone who thinks that Islam is inherently violent or misogynistic.“
But... I mean... they don’t... in Saudi Arabia... the Koran.... uh. |
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Date: December 11th, 2017 9:50 AM Author: Impressive opaque library potus ljl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34888897) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 4:26 PM Author: nighttime impertinent principal's office Imagine actually sitting across the table from someone like this on a date. I'm not a political person but I would probably just walk out without saying anything. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34883955) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 4:55 PM Author: disgusting hospital rigor i just need to catch a quick cigarette, ill be right back in to get the bill
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Date: December 10th, 2017 4:56 PM Author: Pink provocative hell I went on a date with a girl who once ragged on gay people, not because she was homophobic, but because she was just SO LIBERAL that she couldn't stand how bad the gay community was at organizing and shit (which is hilariously untrue but whatever); knew instantly I'd never see her again but still tried to get laid (did not) even though I figure women like that are mega-sluts (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884164) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 5:29 PM Author: nighttime impertinent principal's office (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884397) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 9:08 PM Author: Disturbing Party Of The First Part (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34886255) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 4:27 PM Author: Bright Locale what's funny is we had a thread about a clickbait piece with this EXACT title like 4-5 years ago. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34883963) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 4:31 PM Author: out-of-control state pozpig it's the same "article" apparently
http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3549883&mc=149&forum_id=2#32805118 |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 4:32 PM Author: Charcoal deer antler lol they just publish the same shit every few months lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34883997) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 4:33 PM Author: Bright Locale whoops, I guess I got the timeline way off. though the title certainly would've been doable back then, just with different content. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884002) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 4:27 PM Author: Mind-boggling green menage It’s mind-boggling that borders are even a thing (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34883968) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 4:28 PM Author: Cracking Bonkers Nibblets 11. Are you a supporter of an IBS movement? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34883974) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 4:28 PM Author: Bisexual diverse dopamine genital piercing (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34883977) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 9:20 PM Author: Razzle-dazzle Striped Hyena (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34886394) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 4:29 PM Author: Dashing Swollen Idea He Suggested What is a "queer femme of color?" Or is my privilege not decentered enough to understand? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34883985) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 4:31 PM Author: out-of-control state pozpig stay in your lane (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34883995) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 4:35 PM Author: Dashing Swollen Idea He Suggested Fuck, this is hard (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884017) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 4:30 PM Author: sapphire nursing home Love how she made sure to include the squib about I GREW UP IN SWITZERLAND (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34883990) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 4:33 PM Author: Cracking Bonkers Nibblets and for the reason that she can separate herself from European genocide-- "so my understanding of how Europeans committed genocide against indigenous populations here in the U.S. was fairly limited" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884004) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 4:55 PM Author: sapphire nursing home (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884160) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 4:36 PM Author: Pink provocative hell Unreal how "BDS" just slips in with dismantling queer-phobia; what the fuck is #11? Do you recognize Armenian genocide? Is dating to these freaks a model UN conference?
this is why I hate the fucking left
"LathamTouchedMe: but nooooo this is just a tiny portion"
this is what the DNC base wants as their fucking platform |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 5:34 PM Author: at-the-ready stead lol kike. that part is actually the single good thing about this writeup. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884450) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 4:37 PM Author: Exhilarant degenerate shitlib lol I would score a -10, that is, literally the opposite of everything she believes "It’s mind-boggling that borders are even a thing"....unfuckingbelievable |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 4:43 PM Author: Angry Church "Do you support...non-Muslim people from Islamic countries?"
not sure wtf zhe's getting at here, but i think i can generally answer yes to this one |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 5:03 PM Author: excitant police squad ceo But at the same time, to suggest that Muslims in Muslim countries don’t would probably ding you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884203) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 5:00 PM Author: Cream kitchen depressive she just wants you to fight her then fuck her (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884180) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 5:07 PM Author: stirring address feces "4. What are your thoughts on sex work?
You may scratch your head at this one, but much like racism and misogynoir, being pro-sex worker is a necessary pillar of dismantling the patriarchy."
So, wait, racism and misogynoir are neccesary to dismantle the patriarchy?
In any event, what's the correct answer to this question?
"Sex workers? I love them! Have you met Violet? She works out of The House of Negotiable Affection in midtown." |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 5:12 PM Author: Frozen crimson juggernaut im pro-legalizing hookers so I guess I'm a 1. but it's funny how I'm diametrically opposed to the other 9- couldn't be more further apart. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884269) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 5:26 PM Author: Exhilarant degenerate shitlib Being "pro-sex worker" is a lot more than legalizing hookers People like this expect you to have no prejudice against sex workers (i.e. you would never discriminate against dating them) I have had this argument with an app chick before. They think you're bigoted if you consider a sex worker's lifestyle a ding. |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 7:06 PM Author: Frozen crimson juggernaut ljl. libs are mentally ill (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34885213) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 9:29 PM Author: razzmatazz bossy brunch So now you have to call them sex workers? Using the word hooker would likely get you dinged by this nut job (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34886464) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 5:16 PM Author: Angry Church (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884294) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 5:20 PM Author: out-of-control state pozpig looking her up, I thought she was going to be a cow. nope:
https://www.instagram.com/p/BbqRlN4jg6s/?hl=en&taken-by=femmefeministe |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 5:21 PM Author: Frozen crimson juggernaut i'd make her for a rape fetishist (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884320) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 5:21 PM Author: Pink provocative hell odds she's into "ethical non-monogamy?" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884323) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 9:10 PM Author: Supple Bawdyhouse 100% chance she likes to get RAPED consensually (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34886279) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 5:21 PM Author: Pink provocative hell anyone who writes that much about "patriarchy" and various "anti-women" shit, but then parades around as a pseudo-model on insta is fucked in the head; she does that for male attention and female jealousy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884321) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 5:31 PM Author: out-of-control state pozpig https://www.instagram.com/p/BPJiuugh-fr/?hl=en&taken-by=femmefeministe (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884416) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 5:22 PM Author: out-of-control state pozpig https://www.instagram.com/p/BaCIHGIjS7C/?hl=en&taken-by=femmefeministe (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884329) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 5:23 PM Author: out-of-control state pozpig https://www.instagram.com/p/BYJhdaeja6G/?hl=en&taken-by=femmefeministe (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884338) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 5:25 PM Author: Pink provocative hell *categorizes entire group of humanity*
"REJECT STEREOTYPES, ALL HUMANS ARE DIFFERENT" |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 5:29 PM Author: out-of-control state pozpig https://www.instagram.com/p/BPk3ljeBTfu/?hl=en&taken-by=femmefeministe (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884391) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 5:30 PM Author: Pink provocative hell welp im not gettin laid (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884402) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 5:25 PM Author: out-of-control state pozpig https://www.instagram.com/p/BW5vOB8jZSD/?hl=en&taken-by=femmefeministe (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884356) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 5:26 PM Author: Pink provocative hell you're hurting my soul plz stop (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884363) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 5:26 PM Author: out-of-control state pozpig https://www.instagram.com/p/BU1srPHDVOo/?hl=en&taken-by=femmefeministe (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884366) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 5:26 PM Author: Pink provocative hell "haha but fuck jews, right?
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Date: December 10th, 2017 9:00 PM Author: Vibrant sticky garrison "I kept whispering, “but Gal, what about the children in Gaza?”" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34886183) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 5:27 PM Author: translucent hideous legal warrant "1. Do you believe that Black Lives Matter?
I don’t want to have to have laborious discussions where I have to prove to someone that white privilege or non-black privilege exists. If they are willing to learn and listen and make the space to decenter their whiteness (if they are white), that’s a good place to start."
I wonder what happens if the white male listens in good faith and either challenges anything she has to say or, heaven forbid, ultimately disagrees with her. I'm sure she reacts in a totally rational way. |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 5:28 PM Author: Pink provocative hell it's like a fucking religion, she *can't* be wrong on its very face, therefore you're categorically evil, there's nothing irrational in her mind about it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884385) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 5:31 PM Author: Angry Church ur not gonna believe this but
http://www.philly.com/philly/news/20150423_Sex-assault_survivor_reclaims_her_voice.html |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 5:33 PM Author: Exhilarant degenerate shitlib EVERY | FUCKING | TIME (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884433) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 5:33 PM Author: Pink provocative hell (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884444) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 5:39 PM Author: translucent hideous legal warrant (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884516) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 5:36 PM Author: translucent hideous legal warrant Jesus lol. Also, from the first line: "THE NEWS doesn't lack for headlines about sexual assaults...." Lack for? Does she mean "want for?" I hate pretentious assholes who only use a particular word or phrase in an attempt to seem intelligent, but I hate them even more when they botch it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884473) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 8:39 PM Author: Frozen crimson juggernaut The most difficult part after the attack was not only knowing that the man who did this is still free, but that 98 percent of rapists never spend a day in jail and only 68 percent of rapes are reported to the authorities, according to the Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network.
It is easy to blame a victim for not reporting a rape, but the reality is that we do not live in a society that has made it safe for all victims to have their voices heard.
It is easy to blame a victim for not reporting a rape, but the reality is that we do not live in a society that has made it safe for all victims to have their voices heard.
It is easy to blame a victim for not reporting a rape, but the reality is that we do not live in a society that has made it safe for all victims to have their voices heard.
It is easy to blame a victim for not reporting a rape, but the reality is that we do not live in a society that has made it safe for all victims to have their voices heard. |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 5:37 PM Author: Effete Pocket Flask now come on. just find something flame as fuck and throw it up there as representative of all nontrumpmos. give me a break (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884490) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 8:40 PM Author: Frozen crimson juggernaut yeah this isn't mainstream shitlibbery at all (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34885963) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 5:42 PM Author: white cerebral sanctuary kitty cat "non-black privilege"
lol, azns, libs are coming for you... |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 6:14 PM Author: Angry Church (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884890) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 6:50 PM Author: internet-worthy boistinker jewess this thread has been made at least two other times already:
http://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3549883&mc=149&forum_id=2 |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 8:51 PM Author: Adulterous parlor Every single DM thread that is not some taking Qs bullshit or his terrible financial advice is just a reddit repost or he copies old threads that got a lot of attention.
I guess I appreciate that he tries but he's a really mediocre and unfunny poster. |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 9:02 PM Author: charismatic frum cumskin pit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34886207) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 9:14 PM Author: Supple Bawdyhouse tbf for whatever reason this piece went viral again today so he might not have seen that (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34886324) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 7:29 PM Author: vermilion idiotic house volcanic crater The funniest part is, I think she's half white, half turd (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34885387) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 8:36 PM Author: Angry Church on twitter she appears to hold herself out as half kenyan (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34885941) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 9:08 PM Author: Tantric skinny woman “Desi-Kenyan” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34886261) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 9:49 PM Author: Angry Church so right? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34886632) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 9:07 PM Author: Tantric skinny woman “I am an intersectional feminist writer and freelance journalist. I was born and raised in Geneva, Switzerland and I moved to Philadelphia in 2010. I received my BA in Journalism from Temple University and interned at the Philadelphia Daily News as a full-time news intern and reporter.”
LOL zero percent chance this chick is Swiss. Clearly the child of two NGO scum. |
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Date: December 11th, 2017 9:53 AM Author: Impressive opaque library potus she probably spent like 3 years there yet claims to ignorant of US history (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34888918) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 9:23 PM Author: electric abode bring back the guillotine. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34886425) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 9:26 PM Author: Frozen crimson juggernaut "stay in my lane" tells you everything you need to know about these diseased zombies. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34886443) |
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Date: December 11th, 2017 9:47 AM Author: out-of-control state pozpig (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34888865) |
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Date: December 10th, 2017 10:17 PM Author: hyperactive crackhouse Shocked that this queer WOC doesn't seem to understand what "capital" is. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34886922) |