The most prestigious law school admissions discussion board in the world.
|
 |
 
|
10 Things Every Intersectional Feminist Should Ask On a First Date
Poast new message in this thread
Date: December 10th, 2017 4:20 PM Author: avocado trump supporter Alright fellas how many boxes do you check off? Let's make this a fun competition. >0 you kill yourself
https://everydayfeminism.com/2017/12/intersectional-feminist-first-date/
As a queer femme of color, I keep close relationships with people who go beyond allyship; they’re true accomplices in the fight against white supremacy, queerphobia, and misogyny. If you’re not going to support marginalized folks, then we can’t be friends, let alone date. The personal is political.
1. Do you believe that Black Lives Matter?
I don’t want to have to have laborious discussions where I have to prove to someone that white privilege or non-black privilege exists. If they are willing to learn and listen and make the space to decenter their whiteness (if they are white), that’s a good place to start.
2. What are your thoughts on gender and sexual orientation?
The gender binary is a tiny box and I wish it didn’t exist, but it does. I wouldn’t want to be with anyone who is queer-phobic. One out of many important elements to dismantling patriarchy is to abolish gender roles as well as the limited understanding that we have about sexuality and gender itself.
3. How do you work to dismantle sexism and misogyny in your life?
It is crucial for cishet men to learn how to decenter their male privilege in order for them to understand the multitudes of interpretations of femininity and womanhood.
Beyond Misogyny 101, does the person you are with understand rape culture, systemic sexism, and misogynoir?
4. What are your thoughts on sex work?
You may scratch your head at this one, but much like racism and misogynoir, being pro-sex worker is a necessary pillar of dismantling the patriarchy.
5. Are you a supporter of the BDS movement?
BDS stands for “Boycott, Divest, Sanctions” — an effort to end international support for Israel’s oppression of Palestinians.
6. What is your understanding of settler colonialism and indigenous rights?
I didn’t grow up in the United States. I was raised in Switzerland, so my understanding of how Europeans committed genocide against indigenous populations here in the U.S. was fairly limited
7. Do you think capitalism is exploitative?
Anti-capitalism, especially in the U.S., is imperative if you have an understanding of systemic racism, the prison industrial complex, the 13th Amendment, and exploitation. Capitalism, for one, teaches us that we are only valuable if we produce capital. That means that if you aren’t contributing to the system with your labor, your life means almost nothing.
8. Can any human be illegal?
We live on a tiny planet, with land and water within a galaxy surrounded by a universe with an inconceivable number of other galaxies and planets. Yet here we dictate where we are and who is allowed to be where we are. It’s mind-boggling that borders are even a thing, so to call people “aliens” or “illegal immigrants” is so inhumane and despicable.
9. Do you support Muslim Americans and non-Muslim people from Islamic countries?
I can’t think of any other religion which has been vilified and lied about more than Islam in a cultural and systemic way. I am not Muslim, so I will stay in my lane, but I cannot imagine for a second even claiming to be a feminist if I didn’t stand in solidarity with my Muslim friends and family — especially now, especially after 9/11.
10. Does your allyship include disabled folks?
As an able-bodied woman, again, I will stay in my lane, but intersectionality has to include a solid platform for disabled people — and not just the visible disabilities. |
Date: December 10th, 2017 4:23 PM Author: wonderful tattoo box office My god (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34883933) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 4:24 PM Author: godawful beady-eyed school "I cannot imagine for a second even claiming to be a feminist if I didn’t stand in solidarity with my Muslim friends and family"
lol, libs |
 |
Date: December 10th, 2017 5:01 PM Author: insanely creepy black becky “Don’t waste your time and energy on dating someone who thinks that Islam is inherently violent or misogynistic.“
But... I mean... they don’t... in Saudi Arabia... the Koran.... uh. |
|
Date: December 11th, 2017 9:50 AM Author: provocative emerald whorehouse selfie ljl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34888897) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 4:26 PM Author: Charismatic mischievous crackhouse Imagine actually sitting across the table from someone like this on a date. I'm not a political person but I would probably just walk out without saying anything. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34883955) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 4:55 PM Author: green shivering regret lay i just need to catch a quick cigarette, ill be right back in to get the bill
|
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 4:56 PM Author: red fanboi I went on a date with a girl who once ragged on gay people, not because she was homophobic, but because she was just SO LIBERAL that she couldn't stand how bad the gay community was at organizing and shit (which is hilariously untrue but whatever); knew instantly I'd never see her again but still tried to get laid (did not) even though I figure women like that are mega-sluts (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884164) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 5:29 PM Author: Charismatic mischievous crackhouse (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884397) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 9:08 PM Author: Passionate Yellow Sanctuary Travel Guidebook (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34886255) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 4:27 PM Author: soul-stirring puce principal's office sweet tailpipe what's funny is we had a thread about a clickbait piece with this EXACT title like 4-5 years ago. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34883963) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 4:31 PM Author: godawful beady-eyed school it's the same "article" apparently
http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3549883&mc=149&forum_id=2#32805118 |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 4:32 PM Author: avocado trump supporter lol they just publish the same shit every few months lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34883997) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 4:33 PM Author: soul-stirring puce principal's office sweet tailpipe whoops, I guess I got the timeline way off. though the title certainly would've been doable back then, just with different content. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884002) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 4:27 PM Author: frozen pearl hall dysfunction It’s mind-boggling that borders are even a thing (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34883968) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 4:28 PM Author: heady flirting round eye 11. Are you a supporter of an IBS movement? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34883974) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 4:28 PM Author: Sepia Exciting Abode (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34883977) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 9:20 PM Author: Razzle-dazzle corner (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34886394) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 4:29 PM Author: twinkling jewess What is a "queer femme of color?" Or is my privilege not decentered enough to understand? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34883985) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 4:31 PM Author: godawful beady-eyed school stay in your lane (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34883995) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 4:35 PM Author: twinkling jewess Fuck, this is hard (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884017) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 4:30 PM Author: Mildly autistic brindle gunner Love how she made sure to include the squib about I GREW UP IN SWITZERLAND (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34883990) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 4:33 PM Author: heady flirting round eye and for the reason that she can separate herself from European genocide-- "so my understanding of how Europeans committed genocide against indigenous populations here in the U.S. was fairly limited" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884004) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 4:55 PM Author: Mildly autistic brindle gunner (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884160) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 4:36 PM Author: red fanboi Unreal how "BDS" just slips in with dismantling queer-phobia; what the fuck is #11? Do you recognize Armenian genocide? Is dating to these freaks a model UN conference?
this is why I hate the fucking left
"LathamTouchedMe: but nooooo this is just a tiny portion"
this is what the DNC base wants as their fucking platform |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 5:34 PM Author: pea-brained trailer park potus lol kike. that part is actually the single good thing about this writeup. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884450) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 4:37 PM Author: irate canary half-breed marketing idea lol I would score a -10, that is, literally the opposite of everything she believes "It’s mind-boggling that borders are even a thing"....unfuckingbelievable |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 4:43 PM Author: chocolate generalized bond "Do you support...non-Muslim people from Islamic countries?"
not sure wtf zhe's getting at here, but i think i can generally answer yes to this one |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 5:03 PM Author: insanely creepy black becky But at the same time, to suggest that Muslims in Muslim countries don’t would probably ding you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884203) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 5:00 PM Author: Coral sadistic theater stage she just wants you to fight her then fuck her (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884180) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 5:07 PM Author: hyperactive sneaky criminal "4. What are your thoughts on sex work?
You may scratch your head at this one, but much like racism and misogynoir, being pro-sex worker is a necessary pillar of dismantling the patriarchy."
So, wait, racism and misogynoir are neccesary to dismantle the patriarchy?
In any event, what's the correct answer to this question?
"Sex workers? I love them! Have you met Violet? She works out of The House of Negotiable Affection in midtown." |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 5:12 PM Author: Bearded Spot Affirmative Action im pro-legalizing hookers so I guess I'm a 1. but it's funny how I'm diametrically opposed to the other 9- couldn't be more further apart. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884269) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 5:26 PM Author: irate canary half-breed marketing idea Being "pro-sex worker" is a lot more than legalizing hookers People like this expect you to have no prejudice against sex workers (i.e. you would never discriminate against dating them) I have had this argument with an app chick before. They think you're bigoted if you consider a sex worker's lifestyle a ding. |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 7:06 PM Author: Bearded Spot Affirmative Action ljl. libs are mentally ill (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34885213) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 9:29 PM Author: Misunderstood juggernaut So now you have to call them sex workers? Using the word hooker would likely get you dinged by this nut job (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34886464) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 5:16 PM Author: chocolate generalized bond (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884294) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 5:20 PM Author: godawful beady-eyed school looking her up, I thought she was going to be a cow. nope:
https://www.instagram.com/p/BbqRlN4jg6s/?hl=en&taken-by=femmefeministe |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 5:21 PM Author: Bearded Spot Affirmative Action i'd make her for a rape fetishist (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884320) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 5:21 PM Author: red fanboi odds she's into "ethical non-monogamy?" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884323) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 9:10 PM Author: Dashing Range 100% chance she likes to get RAPED consensually (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34886279) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 5:21 PM Author: red fanboi anyone who writes that much about "patriarchy" and various "anti-women" shit, but then parades around as a pseudo-model on insta is fucked in the head; she does that for male attention and female jealousy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884321) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 5:31 PM Author: godawful beady-eyed school https://www.instagram.com/p/BPJiuugh-fr/?hl=en&taken-by=femmefeministe (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884416) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 5:22 PM Author: godawful beady-eyed school https://www.instagram.com/p/BaCIHGIjS7C/?hl=en&taken-by=femmefeministe (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884329) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 5:23 PM Author: godawful beady-eyed school https://www.instagram.com/p/BYJhdaeja6G/?hl=en&taken-by=femmefeministe (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884338) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 5:25 PM Author: red fanboi *categorizes entire group of humanity*
"REJECT STEREOTYPES, ALL HUMANS ARE DIFFERENT" |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 5:29 PM Author: godawful beady-eyed school https://www.instagram.com/p/BPk3ljeBTfu/?hl=en&taken-by=femmefeministe (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884391) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 5:30 PM Author: red fanboi welp im not gettin laid (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884402) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 5:25 PM Author: godawful beady-eyed school https://www.instagram.com/p/BW5vOB8jZSD/?hl=en&taken-by=femmefeministe (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884356) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 5:26 PM Author: red fanboi you're hurting my soul plz stop (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884363) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 5:26 PM Author: godawful beady-eyed school https://www.instagram.com/p/BU1srPHDVOo/?hl=en&taken-by=femmefeministe (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884366) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 5:26 PM Author: red fanboi "haha but fuck jews, right?
|
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 9:00 PM Author: Stimulating Painfully Honest Dog Poop Cuck "I kept whispering, “but Gal, what about the children in Gaza?”" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34886183) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 5:27 PM Author: Blathering pocket flask "1. Do you believe that Black Lives Matter?
I don’t want to have to have laborious discussions where I have to prove to someone that white privilege or non-black privilege exists. If they are willing to learn and listen and make the space to decenter their whiteness (if they are white), that’s a good place to start."
I wonder what happens if the white male listens in good faith and either challenges anything she has to say or, heaven forbid, ultimately disagrees with her. I'm sure she reacts in a totally rational way. |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 5:28 PM Author: red fanboi it's like a fucking religion, she *can't* be wrong on its very face, therefore you're categorically evil, there's nothing irrational in her mind about it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884385) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 5:31 PM Author: chocolate generalized bond ur not gonna believe this but
http://www.philly.com/philly/news/20150423_Sex-assault_survivor_reclaims_her_voice.html |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 5:33 PM Author: irate canary half-breed marketing idea EVERY | FUCKING | TIME (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884433) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 5:33 PM Author: red fanboi (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884444) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 5:39 PM Author: Blathering pocket flask (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884516) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 5:36 PM Author: Blathering pocket flask Jesus lol. Also, from the first line: "THE NEWS doesn't lack for headlines about sexual assaults...." Lack for? Does she mean "want for?" I hate pretentious assholes who only use a particular word or phrase in an attempt to seem intelligent, but I hate them even more when they botch it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884473) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 8:39 PM Author: Bearded Spot Affirmative Action The most difficult part after the attack was not only knowing that the man who did this is still free, but that 98 percent of rapists never spend a day in jail and only 68 percent of rapes are reported to the authorities, according to the Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network.
It is easy to blame a victim for not reporting a rape, but the reality is that we do not live in a society that has made it safe for all victims to have their voices heard.
It is easy to blame a victim for not reporting a rape, but the reality is that we do not live in a society that has made it safe for all victims to have their voices heard.
It is easy to blame a victim for not reporting a rape, but the reality is that we do not live in a society that has made it safe for all victims to have their voices heard.
It is easy to blame a victim for not reporting a rape, but the reality is that we do not live in a society that has made it safe for all victims to have their voices heard. |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 5:37 PM Author: Mustard lascivious site now come on. just find something flame as fuck and throw it up there as representative of all nontrumpmos. give me a break (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884490) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 8:40 PM Author: Bearded Spot Affirmative Action yeah this isn't mainstream shitlibbery at all (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34885963) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 5:42 PM Author: Electric Library "non-black privilege"
lol, azns, libs are coming for you... |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 6:14 PM Author: chocolate generalized bond (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34884890) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 6:50 PM Author: Twisted obsidian telephone this thread has been made at least two other times already:
http://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3549883&mc=149&forum_id=2 |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 8:51 PM Author: Stirring White Orchestra Pit Every single DM thread that is not some taking Qs bullshit or his terrible financial advice is just a reddit repost or he copies old threads that got a lot of attention.
I guess I appreciate that he tries but he's a really mediocre and unfunny poster. |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 9:02 PM Author: cracking blood rage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34886207) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 9:14 PM Author: Dashing Range tbf for whatever reason this piece went viral again today so he might not have seen that (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34886324) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 7:29 PM Author: olive people who are hurt The funniest part is, I think she's half white, half turd (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34885387) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 8:36 PM Author: chocolate generalized bond on twitter she appears to hold herself out as half kenyan (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34885941) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 9:08 PM Author: Mind-boggling copper internal respiration base “Desi-Kenyan” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34886261) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 9:49 PM Author: chocolate generalized bond so right? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34886632) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 9:07 PM Author: Mind-boggling copper internal respiration base “I am an intersectional feminist writer and freelance journalist. I was born and raised in Geneva, Switzerland and I moved to Philadelphia in 2010. I received my BA in Journalism from Temple University and interned at the Philadelphia Daily News as a full-time news intern and reporter.”
LOL zero percent chance this chick is Swiss. Clearly the child of two NGO scum. |
|
Date: December 11th, 2017 9:53 AM Author: provocative emerald whorehouse selfie she probably spent like 3 years there yet claims to ignorant of US history (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34888918) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 9:23 PM Author: Titillating insecure resort antidepressant drug bring back the guillotine. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34886425) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 9:26 PM Author: Bearded Spot Affirmative Action "stay in my lane" tells you everything you need to know about these diseased zombies. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34886443) |
|
Date: December 11th, 2017 9:47 AM Author: godawful beady-eyed school (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34888865) |
|
Date: December 10th, 2017 10:17 PM Author: orange theater haunted graveyard Shocked that this queer WOC doesn't seem to understand what "capital" is. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3823983&forum_id=2#34886922) |