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Wife trying to arbitrage the nanny market

She wants to pay a dollar more an hour than the gym day care...
high-end karate
  01/03/18
u get what u pay for when it comes to nannies, imho it's wor...
stirring dull lay marketing idea
  01/03/18
(TC talking to wife)
high-end karate
  01/03/18
i understand ur wife is irrational but what is the "pri...
stirring dull lay marketing idea
  01/03/18
She thinks these desperately poor women living in one of the...
high-end karate
  01/03/18
she sounds like a real gem
white pontificating university
  01/03/18
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hairraiser ivory sweet tailpipe
  01/03/18
This all doesn't bode well. Have her stay home.
dead partner pistol
  01/03/18
guy who hasn't been following op's saga
stirring dull lay marketing idea
  01/03/18
She is working from home part-time. Gets off at 2 every day....
high-end karate
  01/03/18
LOL she is the primary earner. She makes 3x what OP makes. R...
geriatric really tough guy
  01/03/18
She doesn't make three times what I make and it is part-time...
high-end karate
  01/03/18
only because she's working part-time now. when FT, she clear...
geriatric really tough guy
  01/03/18
She will eventually make $400K full time and yes that is why...
high-end karate
  01/03/18
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obsidian business firm
  01/03/18
You need to get on some heavy gear and get JACKED AS FUCK.
coral house-broken lettuce
  01/03/18
what do you do for a living? what kind of doctor is she?
vigorous mildly autistic school black woman
  01/03/18
I work in corporate development/M&A for a large company....
high-end karate
  01/03/18
dont let a radiologist boss you around dude.
vigorous mildly autistic school black woman
  01/03/18
Not a radiologist
high-end karate
  01/03/18
but something like that. That is the laziest lifestyle spec...
vigorous mildly autistic school black woman
  01/03/18
Dermatology, brother
massive cruise ship jew
  01/03/18
Your wife should give free Botox in exchange for childcare. ...
mustard mad cow disease volcanic crater
  01/03/18
NANNY SHARE NANNY SHARE NANNY SHARE NANNY SHARE NANNY SHARE ...
coral house-broken lettuce
  01/03/18
GREAT idea bro. I have never heard of this before and am loo...
high-end karate
  01/03/18
JFC -- you don't have crypto?
coral house-broken lettuce
  01/03/18
Risk averse pussy here who considered getting into Bitcoin a...
high-end karate
  01/03/18
Only needed to invest a few K.
coral house-broken lettuce
  01/03/18
Also -- JFC, that's cheap. It's more like $25-30/hour CA...
coral house-broken lettuce
  01/03/18
majority of people are paying $17-20/hr in manhattan
stirring dull lay marketing idea
  01/03/18
I was referring to total price for nannyshare. Still cheaper...
coral house-broken lettuce
  01/03/18
Just how your wife is speaking on this insignificant topic.....
contagious bistre stage toaster
  01/03/18
what's the difference between 15/hour and 12/hr for a single...
Beady-eyed garrison water buffalo
  01/03/18
it's like $50-100 assuming full-time (40-50hrs/week); though...
stirring dull lay marketing idea
  01/03/18
Cheap, extremely cheap
high-end karate
  01/03/18
it is exploitative ATD
Wonderful striped hyena prole
  01/03/18
What happened to the are-country nanny? http://autoadmit.co...
Blathering stead
  01/03/18
She dinged her in favor of this other nanny that would live ...
high-end karate
  01/03/18
No joke can you provide me the info for the one who wanted $...
mustard mad cow disease volcanic crater
  01/03/18
Think she already accepted another position. Will ask wife. ...
high-end karate
  01/03/18
Hmm lack of references is a huge red flag. I guess it just ...
mustard mad cow disease volcanic crater
  01/03/18
lol she was willing to hire someone who couldn't provide ref...
obsidian business firm
  01/03/18
She had other good references and said that the previous par...
high-end karate
  01/03/18
she sounds perfect for nutella
obsidian business firm
  01/03/18
lmao $450 per week is $22.5k per year! for a full time perso...
obsidian business firm
  01/03/18
Yeah and she lives in SoCal. Insane.
high-end karate
  01/03/18
what's the point of her living with you M-F but then kicking...
Galvanic Judgmental Private Investor
  01/03/18
She is married and wanted to spend weekends at home. She liv...
high-end karate
  01/03/18
sounds like a real winner
Galvanic Judgmental Private Investor
  01/03/18
Good work, Clouseau.
unhinged metal heaven mexican
  01/03/18
At least she's focused on saving money
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i don't think this is a terrible idea. Our sitter is gone f...
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I don't think it is a bad idea either. I am fine with it. It...
high-end karate
  01/03/18
i agree, that's a lot of stress to go endure for not that mu...
Beta tanning salon
  01/03/18
You are lucky to have a wife who is so sensible about money....
Domesticated offensive mother school cafeteria
  01/03/18
I pay for it bro. I do appreciate her thriftiness overall.
high-end karate
  01/03/18
wrong. there's being sensible about money and then there's b...
obsidian business firm
  01/03/18
That was another point I made. We may get someone desperate ...
high-end karate
  01/03/18
agreed
obsidian business firm
  01/03/18
This
Mint church
  01/03/18
lol, and when you point out to her that you were right about...
trip ungodly kitchen
  01/03/18
Haggling over a few hundred a month over somebody who is pro...
mustard mad cow disease volcanic crater
  01/03/18
They won’t go for it for under $20/hr because the work of na...
mustard mad cow disease volcanic crater
  01/03/18
You guys do daycare when your mom is not watching right?
vigorous mildly autistic school black woman
  01/03/18
Yeah daycare offers the socialization. We didn’t see the poi...
mustard mad cow disease volcanic crater
  01/03/18
She dinged her in favor of live in slave, who then turned us...
high-end karate
  01/03/18
your wife sounds 180, give her to me
Effete casino persian
  01/03/18
at least she didn't get an abortion like my ex did.
Cracking misunderstood locus legal warrant
  01/03/18
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high-end karate
  01/03/18
Is your wife Chinese? What the fuck is wrong with her? T...
vigorous mildly autistic school black woman
  01/03/18
way to trash (half of) your race
Cracking misunderstood locus legal warrant
  01/03/18
I have never met any woman with a small child willing to sac...
vigorous mildly autistic school black woman
  01/03/18
100% German Aryan who was raised by a poor single mom and fi...
high-end karate
  01/03/18
I fight for every penny in life too - but I also understand ...
vigorous mildly autistic school black woman
  01/03/18
sad
electric duck-like national
  01/03/18
dude, you married a mentally ill child of divorce? yikes.
obsidian business firm
  01/03/18
Her mom was married FOUR times and was an inattentive mother...
high-end karate
  01/03/18
Every thread of yours reveals another red flag that you some...
Blathering stead
  01/03/18
I think we need some pics of this sexy German Aryan doctor t...
obsidian business firm
  01/03/18
Probably going to regret this one. But here is a body pic th...
high-end karate
  01/03/18
ooh damn not bad at all brother body pic of my girl as a ...
obsidian business firm
  01/03/18
Very nice
high-end karate
  01/03/18
Goddammitt! -- I leave for ten minutes to do actual work and...
Blathering stead
  01/03/18
I will leave this up for a couple more minutes for you
high-end karate
  01/03/18
Good man.
Blathering stead
  01/03/18
can kinda see why he got tripped up, especially if she wasn'...
obsidian business firm
  01/03/18
...
Blathering stead
  01/03/18
...
high-end karate
  01/03/18
god dammit how do I always miss these
trip ungodly kitchen
  01/03/18
Does your wife even work? If so, ok. If not, tell her to STF...
Balding giraffe
  01/03/18
not only does she work, she makes 3x what OP does. she runs ...
geriatric really tough guy
  01/03/18
Fuck off Pumo, all untrue
high-end karate
  01/03/18
ljl at the web of rationalizations you've spun to shield you...
geriatric really tough guy
  01/03/18
No, she won't unless a relationship filled with constant fig...
high-end karate
  01/03/18
She is going to start working part time
high-end karate
  01/03/18
Then why the fuck does she need a full time nanny? Also, ...
Underhanded Windowlicker Range
  01/03/18
CTK
deep lavender stage preventive strike
  01/03/18
Why no au pair?
confused concupiscible azn
  01/03/18
She offered a (Hot Brazilian) au pair a job, then quit her j...
high-end karate
  01/03/18
So she quit the job that you moved to SoCal for, but found a...
vigorous mildly autistic school black woman
  01/03/18
She will be part time for a while. It is very easy to find h...
high-end karate
  01/03/18
We paid $15 eight years ago, why is your wife so cheap?
excitant spruce stag film
  01/03/18
Doesn't the job she's starting pay like 350k/ year? And she ...
insanely creepy chrome church building haunted graveyard
  01/03/18
Correct. If she works 30 hours a week it will end up being a...
high-end karate
  01/03/18
180 flame
wild goal in life
  01/03/18
She will be making $200 an hour working 6-2 four days a week...
high-end karate
  01/03/18


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Date: January 3rd, 2018 1:35 PM
Author: high-end karate

She wants to pay a dollar more an hour than the gym day care and hire one of the girls that work there to take care of our kid. She is refusing to pay the going rate for nannies out of principle and we have had two nannies turn us down already because of our low ball hourly rate. Meanwhile she starts work next week and we have no child care. Odds are I am going to be paying to fly my parents out last minute because of this.

https://imgur.com/a/19G8N

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071407)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 1:37 PM
Author: stirring dull lay marketing idea

u get what u pay for when it comes to nannies, imho it's worth an extra buck or three an hour to get someone who won't be on their bluetooth headset all day talking to their relatives overseas in a language other than english

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071434)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 1:38 PM
Author: high-end karate

(TC talking to wife)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071446)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 1:39 PM
Author: stirring dull lay marketing idea

i understand ur wife is irrational but what is the "principle" that she feels she is upholding with this course of action?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071461)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 1:43 PM
Author: high-end karate

She thinks these desperately poor women living in one of the most expensive places to live in the world are exploiting parents by charging $15 plus an hour (tax free) and then collecting benefits from the government.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071518)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 1:36 PM
Author: white pontificating university

she sounds like a real gem

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071425)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 1:57 PM
Author: hairraiser ivory sweet tailpipe



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071651)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 1:37 PM
Author: dead partner pistol

This all doesn't bode well. Have her stay home.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071439)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 1:38 PM
Author: stirring dull lay marketing idea

guy who hasn't been following op's saga

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071449)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 1:40 PM
Author: high-end karate

She is working from home part-time. Gets off at 2 every day. It is an easy, high-paying job.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071470)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:01 PM
Author: geriatric really tough guy

LOL she is the primary earner. She makes 3x what OP makes. Really, OP should be staying at home

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071704)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:08 PM
Author: high-end karate

She doesn't make three times what I make and it is part-time contract work. I make a good six figure salary and my job provides all of our healthcare benefits.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071769)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:09 PM
Author: geriatric really tough guy

only because she's working part-time now. when FT, she clears 400-500k EASY. this is why she gets to call the shots and you get to impotently whine on xo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071788)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:14 PM
Author: high-end karate

She will eventually make $400K full time and yes that is why there is a fucked up power dynamic despite my solidly UMC salary

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071843)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:17 PM
Author: obsidian business firm



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071876)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:21 PM
Author: coral house-broken lettuce

You need to get on some heavy gear and get JACKED AS FUCK.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071913)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:25 PM
Author: vigorous mildly autistic school black woman

what do you do for a living? what kind of doctor is she?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071957)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:28 PM
Author: high-end karate

I work in corporate development/M&A for a large company. She is in a lucrative lifestyle specialty.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071983)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:29 PM
Author: vigorous mildly autistic school black woman

dont let a radiologist boss you around dude.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071989)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:29 PM
Author: high-end karate

Not a radiologist

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071998)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:35 PM
Author: vigorous mildly autistic school black woman

but something like that. That is the laziest lifestyle specialty that I can think of. Anesthesiologists have fairly stressful jobs trying to not kill people. Ob-Gyn and Peds don't make that much money (I think).



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35072080)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 3:55 PM
Author: massive cruise ship jew

Dermatology, brother

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35072928)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 3:59 PM
Author: mustard mad cow disease volcanic crater

Your wife should give free Botox in exchange for childcare. This is LA

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35072975)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 1:39 PM
Author: coral house-broken lettuce

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(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071452)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 1:42 PM
Author: high-end karate

GREAT idea bro. I have never heard of this before and am looking into it. TY. Would tip you crypto if I had any.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071503)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 1:47 PM
Author: coral house-broken lettuce

JFC -- you don't have crypto?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071553)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 1:50 PM
Author: high-end karate

Risk averse pussy here who considered getting into Bitcoin as far back as 2011.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071589)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 1:57 PM
Author: coral house-broken lettuce

Only needed to invest a few K.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071655)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 1:39 PM
Author: coral house-broken lettuce

Also -- JFC, that's cheap.

It's more like $25-30/hour CASH in MFH

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071458)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 1:40 PM
Author: stirring dull lay marketing idea

majority of people are paying $17-20/hr in manhattan

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071469)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 1:43 PM
Author: coral house-broken lettuce

I was referring to total price for nannyshare. Still cheaper though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071519)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 1:39 PM
Author: contagious bistre stage toaster

Just how your wife is speaking on this insignificant topic... holy shit i feel for you bro.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071459)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 1:40 PM
Author: Beady-eyed garrison water buffalo

what's the difference between 15/hour and 12/hr for a single employee? 15 dollars a week? how cheap is your wife?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071475)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 1:41 PM
Author: stirring dull lay marketing idea

it's like $50-100 assuming full-time (40-50hrs/week); though i think op's wife is only going back to work p/t so yes it's even less

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071494)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 1:45 PM
Author: high-end karate

Cheap, extremely cheap

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071538)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 1:41 PM
Author: Wonderful striped hyena prole

it is exploitative

ATD

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071491)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 1:44 PM
Author: Blathering stead

What happened to the are-country nanny?

http://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834391&mc=97&forum_id=2

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071527)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 1:47 PM
Author: high-end karate

She dinged her in favor of this other nanny that would live with us M-F and do all of our cooking, cleaning, laundry and provide baby sitting fir a flat fee. Then the second nanny backed out because my wife was only offering $450 a week and she wanted $600.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071550)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 1:56 PM
Author: mustard mad cow disease volcanic crater

No joke can you provide me the info for the one who wanted $600/week? That’s like slave wages and I’ll easily provide her more if she does a good job. Nutella1@gmail.com

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071642)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:01 PM
Author: high-end karate

Think she already accepted another position. Will ask wife. She might be more trouble than it is worth - she could not provide references for her last two nanny jobs because of conflicts with the parents. But it was like slave wages for sure. She was willing to be a a nanny, maid, cook, dog walker, and baby sitter on demand for next to nothing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071705)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:12 PM
Author: mustard mad cow disease volcanic crater

Hmm lack of references is a huge red flag. I guess it just sounds too good to be true. Your wife was really willing to hire her despite this?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071816)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:15 PM
Author: obsidian business firm

lol she was willing to hire someone who couldn't provide references at 75% of what this poor candidate was asking for

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071852)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:16 PM
Author: high-end karate

She had other good references and said that the previous parents had creepy demanding Asian fathers. Frankly it sounded like she had an attitude and did not like being told what to do by Asian men.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071863)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:20 PM
Author: obsidian business firm

she sounds perfect for nutella

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071900)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 1:58 PM
Author: obsidian business firm

lmao $450 per week is $22.5k per year! for a full time person!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071660)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:02 PM
Author: high-end karate

Yeah and she lives in SoCal. Insane.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071716)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:17 PM
Author: Galvanic Judgmental Private Investor

what's the point of her living with you M-F but then kicking out and making her find somewhere else to stay on weekends? she prob would have done it if you just 100% covered her housing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071874)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:21 PM
Author: high-end karate

She is married and wanted to spend weekends at home. She lives a couple hours away. Also, we wanted to have the house to our self over the weekend.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071910)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 4:06 PM
Author: Galvanic Judgmental Private Investor

sounds like a real winner

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35073036)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 1:48 PM
Author: unhinged metal heaven mexican

Good work, Clouseau.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071561)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 1:47 PM
Author: grizzly mewling library

At least she's focused on saving money

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071552)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 1:47 PM
Author: Beta tanning salon

i don't think this is a terrible idea. Our sitter is gone for a chunk of the summer and we had to put our son in a chain daycare to cover her vacation.

One of the women who worked there was very good and if we were looking for a long-term solution I completely would've tried to poach her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071560)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 1:49 PM
Author: high-end karate

I don't think it is a bad idea either. I am fine with it. It is just the last minute scramble when we could have someone locked in to take care of our kid over $2 an hour ($240 a month extra).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071578)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:04 PM
Author: Beta tanning salon

i agree, that's a lot of stress to go endure for not that much $.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071732)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 1:48 PM
Author: Domesticated offensive mother school cafeteria

You are lucky to have a wife who is so sensible about money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071565)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 1:50 PM
Author: high-end karate

I pay for it bro. I do appreciate her thriftiness overall.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071581)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:00 PM
Author: obsidian business firm

wrong. there's being sensible about money and then there's being stupid about money, especially as it relates to one's time.

this is stupid. they are scrambling and spending tons of time dealing with this for a small amount of $ per month given what his wife will be earning.

and the worst part: whomever she hires will be underpaid and overworked and will be looking to upgrade to a better gig, and they'll likely be in the same shitty position in 8 months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071690)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:04 PM
Author: high-end karate

That was another point I made. We may get someone desperate for a job at $12-$13 an hour but they will be looking to quit ASAP and then we are fucked because we have no family support. Better to pay a little more now than have me fly my parents out at the last minute and scramble to find a replacement nanny.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071733)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:21 PM
Author: obsidian business firm

agreed

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071921)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 3:39 PM
Author: Mint church

This

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35072772)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 3:58 PM
Author: trip ungodly kitchen

lol, and when you point out to her that you were right about this 8 months down the road her response is going to be:

"Why you ALWAYS have to throw shit like this back in MY face??!"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35072961)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:08 PM
Author: mustard mad cow disease volcanic crater

Haggling over a few hundred a month over somebody who is providing childcare is the most ridiculous thing ever. I do think childcare is overpriced and expensive, but that’s just the nature of the market. The workers themselves are often underpaid and overworked, which is what accounts for high staff turnover at daycare centers and underpaid nanny situations, particularly when it’s an infant.

What you want to do in this situation is treat the nanny well and pay her well so she is happier and won’t leave. A nanny quitting without warning happens all the time and people are left scrambling and taking vacation days to cover last minute and hire another shitty nanny.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071776)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 1:54 PM
Author: mustard mad cow disease volcanic crater

They won’t go for it for under $20/hr because the work of nannying full time is a lot more work than working at a gym daycare or even a normal daycare facility. They only have to watch each kid for an hour or two.

Edit: also what happened to the are country girl or au pair option?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071623)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:08 PM
Author: vigorous mildly autistic school black woman

You guys do daycare when your mom is not watching right?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071778)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:17 PM
Author: mustard mad cow disease volcanic crater

Yeah daycare offers the socialization. We didn’t see the point of getting a nanny part time. I wouldn’t put a child under 1 in daycare though so OP needs a nanny.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071871)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:11 PM
Author: high-end karate

She dinged her in favor of live in slave, who then turned us down. Then our backup option turned us down this morning.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071810)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:06 PM
Author: Effete casino persian

your wife sounds 180, give her to me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071749)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:07 PM
Author: Cracking misunderstood locus legal warrant

at least she didn't get an abortion like my ex did.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071759)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:08 PM
Author: high-end karate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071779)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:08 PM
Author: vigorous mildly autistic school black woman

Is your wife Chinese? What the fuck is wrong with her?

This is your kid and you guys make tons of money. The extra $100 per week will make a difference in the quality of childcare.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071771)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:09 PM
Author: Cracking misunderstood locus legal warrant

way to trash (half of) your race

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071793)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:15 PM
Author: vigorous mildly autistic school black woman

I have never met any woman with a small child willing to sacrifice the welfare of that child and their sanity over a few bucks.

Generally the only rich people I know who are super cheap about stupid stuff are Chinese and Persians - and it doesn't sound like the OP is married to a Persian.

That said, mainland Chinese (not Taiwanese) also have some of the most spendthrift people obsessed with conspicuous consumption. The only friends of mine who post photos of their Rolex on social media are mainland Chinese. The only people I've seen taking photos of their Birkin bag with the Eiffel Tower in the background are Chinese.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071851)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:12 PM
Author: high-end karate

100% German Aryan who was raised by a poor single mom and fights for every penny in life

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071813)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:16 PM
Author: vigorous mildly autistic school black woman

I fight for every penny in life too - but I also understand that money pays for convenience and less stress. Sometimes you need to spend the money - especially when you have a lot.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071864)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:20 PM
Author: electric duck-like national

sad

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071902)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:21 PM
Author: obsidian business firm

dude, you married a mentally ill child of divorce? yikes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071911)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:26 PM
Author: high-end karate

Her mom was married FOUR times and was an inattentive mother who prioritized dating over raising her kid. This has led to all kinds of emotional issues. I am paying the price.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071963)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:34 PM
Author: Blathering stead

Every thread of yours reveals another red flag that you somehow missed. It is truly fascinating. I mean, no offense, love is love and you look past a lot when you are at that bloom stage and want to get married.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35072057)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:34 PM
Author: obsidian business firm

I think we need some pics of this sexy German Aryan doctor to understand why TC made the moves that he did

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35072067)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 3:20 PM
Author: high-end karate

Probably going to regret this one. But here is a body pic that I will probably delete in 5 minutes.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35072551)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 3:27 PM
Author: obsidian business firm

ooh damn not bad at all brother

body pic of my girl as a thank you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35072623)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 3:29 PM
Author: high-end karate

Very nice

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35072644)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 3:31 PM
Author: Blathering stead

Goddammitt! -- I leave for ten minutes to do actual work and...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35072667)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 3:33 PM
Author: high-end karate

I will leave this up for a couple more minutes for you



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35072689)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 3:35 PM
Author: Blathering stead

Good man.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35072720)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 3:46 PM
Author: obsidian business firm

can kinda see why he got tripped up, especially if she wasn't showing signs of mental illness and she was good in the sack

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35072848)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 3:49 PM
Author: Blathering stead



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35072872)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 3:52 PM
Author: high-end karate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35072901)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 3:59 PM
Author: trip ungodly kitchen

god dammit how do I always miss these

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35072980)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:10 PM
Author: Balding giraffe

Does your wife even work? If so, ok. If not, tell her to STFU.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071800)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:11 PM
Author: geriatric really tough guy

not only does she work, she makes 3x what OP does. she runs the family

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071811)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:13 PM
Author: high-end karate

Fuck off Pumo, all untrue

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071823)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:14 PM
Author: geriatric really tough guy

ljl at the web of rationalizations you've spun to shield your manhood. when she works FT, she makes hundreds of thousands of dollars more than you do. she's gonna order you around and you're gonna take it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071845)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:17 PM
Author: high-end karate

No, she won't unless a relationship filled with constant fights and a divorce

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071870)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:13 PM
Author: high-end karate

She is going to start working part time

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071828)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:21 PM
Author: Underhanded Windowlicker Range

Then why the fuck does she need a full time nanny?

Also, ljl at calling $1 more an hour "exploitive" when you are essentially hiring a slave for what amounts to minimum wage in SoCal.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071920)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:17 PM
Author: deep lavender stage preventive strike

CTK

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071873)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:21 PM
Author: confused concupiscible azn

Why no au pair?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071912)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:28 PM
Author: high-end karate

She offered a (Hot Brazilian) au pair a job, then quit her job and backed out of the agreement since she was going to be a SAHM. That little gem in decision making cost me about $1K for nothing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35071978)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:31 PM
Author: vigorous mildly autistic school black woman

So she quit the job that you moved to SoCal for, but found a new job working PT and will move to FT? Must be nice being that easy to find work.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35072016)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 2:32 PM
Author: high-end karate

She will be part time for a while. It is very easy to find high paying jobs if you are in the right specialty as a doctor.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35072038)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 3:47 PM
Author: excitant spruce stag film

We paid $15 eight years ago, why is your wife so cheap?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35072853)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 3:54 PM
Author: insanely creepy chrome church building haunted graveyard

Doesn't the job she's starting pay like 350k/ year? And she feels she's being exploited?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35072922)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 3:57 PM
Author: high-end karate

Correct. If she works 30 hours a week it will end up being about $280K. If she switches to full time it will be north of $350K. This is WFH too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35072951)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 3:58 PM
Author: wild goal in life

180 flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35072962)



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Date: January 3rd, 2018 4:03 PM
Author: high-end karate

She will be making $200 an hour working 6-2 four days a week. Not flame.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3848178&forum_id=2#35073007)