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Any board olds have 4+ kids?
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Date: January 15th, 2018 6:23 PM Author: Multi-colored angry bawdyhouse What did you notice as you went from 3 to 4+? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35162904) |
Date: January 15th, 2018 7:06 PM Author: elite library Well, there's EPAH unless you subscribe to the 3/5 rule. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35163229) |
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Date: January 15th, 2018 7:28 PM Author: marvelous buff set dog poop Heteronormative, Cisgendered bro has 5 if i'm not mistaken (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35163362) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 7:41 AM Author: ruddy gaming laptop Having fifth this spring
Lifestyle change for us was greatest from 1-->2. Even more so than just having our first. Could barely tell when the fourth one came lmao |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 10:32 AM Author: bateful french wrinkle dopamine DESCRIBE the lifestyle of 1 kid. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167200) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 10:54 AM Author: ruddy gaming laptop In retrospect it was quiet, serene, peaceful. You dote on the kid and feel like you and ur wife are on this special journey. Your focus changes in a good way. Life becomes full of these precious moments with the kid, not a bunch overwhelmingly profound ones necessarily, just small waves of contentment.
Then that second motherfucker comes and you find out what fatigue is all about. |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 10:55 AM Author: bateful french wrinkle dopamine Interesting. We might end up 1-kidmos, and this sounds perfect. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167393) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 10:57 AM Author: ruddy gaming laptop It doesn't feel peaceful until you've had a second, third, fourth etc (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167407) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 10:58 AM Author: bateful french wrinkle dopamine Explain. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167413) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:00 AM Author: ruddy gaming laptop I mean all those good feelings I described exist, but you also *think* ur tired, u *think* the kid is expensive, u *think* u don't have free time, u *think* every thing is a big goddamned deal.
None of those things are true, u just don't have perspective to know any better. |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:10 AM Author: bateful french wrinkle dopamine You mean with 1 kid or with 2+? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167500) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:12 AM Author: ruddy gaming laptop U think those things when you have ONE. When you start having more u LOL@how naive you were (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167514) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:12 AM Author: bateful french wrinkle dopamine How bad is 2 kids? Is it life-destroying? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167516) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:13 AM Author: ruddy gaming laptop No it's awesome. The good things far far outweigh the bad. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167519) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:14 AM Author: bateful french wrinkle dopamine Assume you're like me and don't really like kids, lol. Different answer? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167527) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:19 AM Author: ruddy gaming laptop You may not even like 1 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167550) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:30 AM Author: bateful french wrinkle dopamine :( (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167615) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:44 AM Author: Tantric excitant abode This is 100% true lol.
Having more than one allows you to watch the sibling relationships develop, which is one of the most 180 things about having kids. |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 12:14 PM Author: bateful french wrinkle dopamine Eh, I'm trying to not hate my life. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167939) |
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Date: January 15th, 2018 7:29 PM Author: Motley Light Boiling Water Liquid Oxygen I have 6 kids. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35163370) |
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Date: January 15th, 2018 10:49 PM Author: Multi-colored angry bawdyhouse What kind of car do you have? I am having my fourth soon. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35164941) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 10:31 AM Author: Motley Light Boiling Water Liquid Oxygen I own several automobiles. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167193) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 10:55 AM Author: Erotic area striped hyena to own and to rent out? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167398) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:12 AM Author: hairraiser national (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167512) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:12 AM Author: bateful french wrinkle dopamine (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167517) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:15 AM Author: iridescent hateful point partner (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167529) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:22 AM Author: rough-skinned ticket booth dysfunction (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167563) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:37 AM Author: Bat shit crazy forum crotch (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167651) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:38 AM Author: ivory fragrant pisswyrm (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167656) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 12:15 PM Author: Motley Light Boiling Water Liquid Oxygen (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167945) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 2:35 PM Author: Greedy codepig patrolman (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35169232) |
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Date: February 15th, 2018 1:29 AM Author: hairraiser national *use (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35407284) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 2:28 PM Author: Multi-colored angry bawdyhouse What's your primary one you use when you have to drive all the kids somewhere?
Been looking at some cars that look like airport shuttles |
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Date: January 15th, 2018 7:31 PM Author: Bull headed bespoke old irish cottage weed whacker Met a dude with 8 kids yesterday. Fucking nuts. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35163389) |
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Date: January 15th, 2018 10:49 PM Author: Multi-colored angry bawdyhouse same mother? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35164943) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:34 AM Author: Bull headed bespoke old irish cottage weed whacker Yeah (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167636) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 7:42 AM Author: dark mentally impaired digit ratio were you in 1950s ireland? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35166548) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:34 AM Author: Bull headed bespoke old irish cottage weed whacker 2018 Houston (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167635) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 2:28 PM Author: Multi-colored angry bawdyhouse Mormon or very religious at all?
At 4 I am starting to get some random questions like I have an alternative lifestyle that I never got at 3. |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 2:36 PM Author: ivory fragrant pisswyrm flip it around on them. make them feel as though they have the alternative lifestyle (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35169238) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 7:16 AM Author: coral really tough guy 3-4 more talkative. You still do everything for them. Not hugely different. Early death age due to newfound climbing skills. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35166472) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 7:18 AM Author: Violet Theatre Jap He's talking about number of kids, not age. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35166477) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:04 AM Author: ivory fragrant pisswyrm 180 thread. god bless (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167450) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:35 AM Author: Tripping ladyboy azn Tons of these being grown at the firm. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167637) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 12:13 PM Author: Bright corner Not much yet. It's all a blur though. I think it will be a bigger hurdle when #4 hits the really destructive phase (walking, etc.). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167927) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 2:37 PM Author: Greedy codepig patrolman Counterintuitively, the most stressful number for parents (based on surveys, etc) is 3. Once you get above 3 I think parents learn to slide and let do. Also I think there are enough kids that they play with each other and don't need as much mom/dad time any more (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35169242) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 2:38 PM Author: ivory fragrant pisswyrm they also probably start to have older kids who can help with the younger kids (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35169249) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 2:41 PM Author: ruddy gaming laptop This was it for me. When we had only 2, they were both helpless and required 100% attention. The first year after our third was largely the same, but after a while our oldest was able to pitch in a little here and there at least, which helped a ton (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35169272) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 2:45 PM Author: Bright corner Our oldest being able to pour cereal in the morning and turn on cartoons for the kids was a godsend. She can do more when motivated. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35169293) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 2:44 PM Author: Greedy codepig patrolman cr my neighbors down the block have 5, and I know the teenagers help a lot with the youngest 3. it also forces the kids to become more competent and self-reliant. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35169289) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 2:48 PM Author: sapphire bearded nibblets mother going from 0 to 1 is life changing.
going from 1 to 2 really depends on age gap imo. 2 kids in 2 years is completely different from 2 kids in 5 years.
3 is the most stressful according to surveys. 4 is the least stressful.
any more and it's just marginal.
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Date: January 16th, 2018 5:35 PM Author: histrionic know-it-all trailer park how many do you have beautiful (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35170490) |