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Date: January 15th, 2018 6:23 PM Author: bossy blood rage What did you notice as you went from 3 to 4+? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35162904) |
Date: January 15th, 2018 7:06 PM Author: white adventurous love of her life Well, there's EPAH unless you subscribe to the 3/5 rule. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35163229) |
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Date: January 15th, 2018 7:28 PM Author: impressive burgundy tanning salon boiling water Heteronormative, Cisgendered bro has 5 if i'm not mistaken (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35163362) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 7:41 AM Author: maniacal sadistic native Having fifth this spring
Lifestyle change for us was greatest from 1-->2. Even more so than just having our first. Could barely tell when the fourth one came lmao |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 10:32 AM Author: rose bbw mood DESCRIBE the lifestyle of 1 kid. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167200) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 10:54 AM Author: maniacal sadistic native In retrospect it was quiet, serene, peaceful. You dote on the kid and feel like you and ur wife are on this special journey. Your focus changes in a good way. Life becomes full of these precious moments with the kid, not a bunch overwhelmingly profound ones necessarily, just small waves of contentment.
Then that second motherfucker comes and you find out what fatigue is all about. |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 10:55 AM Author: rose bbw mood Interesting. We might end up 1-kidmos, and this sounds perfect. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167393) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 10:57 AM Author: maniacal sadistic native It doesn't feel peaceful until you've had a second, third, fourth etc (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167407) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 10:58 AM Author: rose bbw mood Explain. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167413) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:00 AM Author: maniacal sadistic native I mean all those good feelings I described exist, but you also *think* ur tired, u *think* the kid is expensive, u *think* u don't have free time, u *think* every thing is a big goddamned deal.
None of those things are true, u just don't have perspective to know any better. |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:10 AM Author: rose bbw mood You mean with 1 kid or with 2+? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167500) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:12 AM Author: maniacal sadistic native U think those things when you have ONE. When you start having more u LOL@how naive you were (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167514) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:12 AM Author: rose bbw mood How bad is 2 kids? Is it life-destroying? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167516) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:13 AM Author: maniacal sadistic native No it's awesome. The good things far far outweigh the bad. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167519) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:14 AM Author: rose bbw mood Assume you're like me and don't really like kids, lol. Different answer? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167527) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:19 AM Author: maniacal sadistic native You may not even like 1 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167550) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:30 AM Author: rose bbw mood :( (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167615) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:44 AM Author: misanthropic gas station This is 100% true lol.
Having more than one allows you to watch the sibling relationships develop, which is one of the most 180 things about having kids. |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 12:14 PM Author: rose bbw mood Eh, I'm trying to not hate my life. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167939) |
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Date: January 15th, 2018 7:29 PM Author: Soggy Sinister Library I have 6 kids. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35163370) |
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Date: January 15th, 2018 10:49 PM Author: bossy blood rage What kind of car do you have? I am having my fourth soon. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35164941) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 10:31 AM Author: Soggy Sinister Library I own several automobiles. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167193) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 10:55 AM Author: copper turdskin to own and to rent out? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167398) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:12 AM Author: Supple Market (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167512) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:12 AM Author: rose bbw mood (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167517) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:15 AM Author: submissive marketing idea (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167529) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:22 AM Author: Frum senate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167563) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:37 AM Author: Mind-boggling Yapping Locale Ladyboy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167651) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:38 AM Author: Vibrant Sweet Tailpipe Nowag (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167656) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 12:15 PM Author: Soggy Sinister Library (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167945) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 2:35 PM Author: Vermilion messiness (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35169232) |
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Date: February 15th, 2018 1:29 AM Author: Supple Market *use (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35407284) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 2:28 PM Author: bossy blood rage What's your primary one you use when you have to drive all the kids somewhere?
Been looking at some cars that look like airport shuttles |
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Date: January 15th, 2018 7:31 PM Author: Electric Fear-inspiring Temple Met a dude with 8 kids yesterday. Fucking nuts. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35163389) |
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Date: January 15th, 2018 10:49 PM Author: bossy blood rage same mother? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35164943) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:34 AM Author: Electric Fear-inspiring Temple Yeah (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167636) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 7:42 AM Author: naked field were you in 1950s ireland? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35166548) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:34 AM Author: Electric Fear-inspiring Temple 2018 Houston (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167635) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 2:28 PM Author: bossy blood rage Mormon or very religious at all?
At 4 I am starting to get some random questions like I have an alternative lifestyle that I never got at 3. |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 2:36 PM Author: Vibrant Sweet Tailpipe Nowag flip it around on them. make them feel as though they have the alternative lifestyle (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35169238) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 7:16 AM Author: Trip theater stage 3-4 more talkative. You still do everything for them. Not hugely different. Early death age due to newfound climbing skills. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35166472) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 7:18 AM Author: narrow-minded drunken goal in life He's talking about number of kids, not age. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35166477) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:04 AM Author: Vibrant Sweet Tailpipe Nowag 180 thread. god bless (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167450) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 11:35 AM Author: topaz splenetic trust fund Tons of these being grown at the firm. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167637) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 12:13 PM Author: Excitant insanely creepy national pistol Not much yet. It's all a blur though. I think it will be a bigger hurdle when #4 hits the really destructive phase (walking, etc.). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35167927) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 2:37 PM Author: Vermilion messiness Counterintuitively, the most stressful number for parents (based on surveys, etc) is 3. Once you get above 3 I think parents learn to slide and let do. Also I think there are enough kids that they play with each other and don't need as much mom/dad time any more (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35169242) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 2:38 PM Author: Vibrant Sweet Tailpipe Nowag they also probably start to have older kids who can help with the younger kids (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35169249) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 2:41 PM Author: maniacal sadistic native This was it for me. When we had only 2, they were both helpless and required 100% attention. The first year after our third was largely the same, but after a while our oldest was able to pitch in a little here and there at least, which helped a ton (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35169272) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 2:45 PM Author: Excitant insanely creepy national pistol Our oldest being able to pour cereal in the morning and turn on cartoons for the kids was a godsend. She can do more when motivated. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35169293) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 2:44 PM Author: Vermilion messiness cr my neighbors down the block have 5, and I know the teenagers help a lot with the youngest 3. it also forces the kids to become more competent and self-reliant. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35169289) |
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Date: January 16th, 2018 2:48 PM Author: histrionic domesticated orchestra pit going from 0 to 1 is life changing.
going from 1 to 2 really depends on age gap imo. 2 kids in 2 years is completely different from 2 kids in 5 years.
3 is the most stressful according to surveys. 4 is the least stressful.
any more and it's just marginal.
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Date: January 16th, 2018 5:35 PM Author: bat shit crazy keepsake machete stead how many do you have beautiful (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3860615&forum_id=2#35170490) |