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wife is having babby #2 in June - how fucked?

our kid will be 3 1/2 when the new dude comes. two boys.
Maniacal talented school cafeteria
  01/16/18
Dude you’ve already had one so you know what to expect. As y...
Mauve Stag Film Deer Antler
  01/16/18
yea i can't imagine the tantrums going forward. my only hop...
Maniacal talented school cafeteria
  01/16/18
kiss your free time goodbye
nubile slate lettuce
  01/16/18
already did that 3.5 years ago BROTHER
Maniacal talented school cafeteria
  06/16/18
Depends, are you the father?
Supple site
  06/16/18
allegedly but i do not know for sure
Maniacal talented school cafeteria
  06/16/18
...
pearl market messiness
  06/16/18
i was kidding brother. but who ever REALLY knows.
Maniacal talented school cafeteria
  06/16/18
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pearl market messiness
  06/16/18
whats you're wife like right now as a pregnant mom? one p...
Vivacious step-uncle's house travel guidebook
  06/16/18
she has no energy, in pain all the time. i have two brief...
Maniacal talented school cafeteria
  06/16/18
those two are going to fight all the time.
ultramarine razzle stead
  06/16/18
cr to have #1 out of diapers before #2 pops
Bat Shit Crazy Point People Who Are Hurt
  06/16/18
yeah having two in diapers would be TTT. #1 is hyperactive ...
Maniacal talented school cafeteria
  06/19/18
On the other hand, #1 still in diapers means you don't have ...
poppy pervert
  06/19/18
I will have 2 in diapers :(. Tried to potty train a littl...
Rambunctious Stock Car
  06/19/18
We tried again and potty trained our 2.75 year old when wife...
Brilliant Queen Of The Night
  08/04/18
Congrats !
Sepia station
  06/19/18
next friday at 7:30 AM is the scheduled c-section. FML.
Maniacal talented school cafeteria
  06/19/18
congrats. you prob think oh shit another baby means twice t...
ocher codepig
  06/19/18
Toxic
Contagious beta set
  06/19/18
:(
Maniacal talented school cafeteria
  06/19/18
Depends on the specific kids and their personalities. Sound...
Brilliant Queen Of The Night
  06/19/18
Wait, why does it need to be c-section? That's pretty hard.
Supple site
  06/19/18
first was a c section. i think they heavily recommend just d...
Maniacal talented school cafeteria
  06/19/18
oh okay. that's pretty hard on your wife. thoughts and pray...
Supple site
  06/19/18
Congrats on the sex
Cracking business firm
  06/19/18
, i lisped to the bull
Maniacal talented school cafeteria
  06/19/18
congrats to the father
Fragrant native new version
  06/19/18
First on the way in mid-August. The more I read and talk to ...
Contagious beta set
  06/19/18
Quit complaining about awesome kids
Orchid toilet seat
  06/19/18
the first 3 or so months is total hell. i seriously consider...
Maniacal talented school cafeteria
  06/19/18
Goddamn. We have MiL coming to stay with us until we get ...
Contagious beta set
  06/19/18
that will be good. any help is good. we have no family livin...
Maniacal talented school cafeteria
  06/19/18
That's a good thing as long as she actually likes babies and...
Brilliant Queen Of The Night
  06/19/18
Thoughts and prayers. Same here but in sept. My son is a h...
Rambunctious Stock Car
  06/19/18
yea our 3.5 year old is in a daycare that is $1500/mo (down ...
Maniacal talented school cafeteria
  06/19/18
It's because he is insecurely bonded with you because he see...
Brilliant Queen Of The Night
  06/19/18
Yeah I love my Tiguan and BR wardrobe more than life itself
Rambunctious Stock Car
  06/19/18
You still banging escorts?
cerebral ebony knife doctorate
  06/19/18
...
Heady parlour striped hyena
  06/19/18
Took a break
Maniacal talented school cafeteria
  06/19/18
...
Maniacal talented school cafeteria
  08/03/18
...
geriatric stirring regret place of business
  08/04/18
Whos the father?
Fiercely-loyal erotic organic girlfriend fanboi
  08/03/18
Our neighbor. He’s a Trumpmo
Maniacal talented school cafeteria
  08/04/18
better keep abusing cocaine lol
Fragrant native new version
  08/03/18
I have been but pretty infrequently. The day we got home...
Maniacal talented school cafeteria
  08/04/18
Fucking 180.
aquamarine disturbing reading party institution
  08/04/18
...
Clear learning disabled wrinkle
  08/04/18
180
geriatric stirring regret place of business
  08/04/18
Also had an all nighter with the client in MA, which I poast...
Maniacal talented school cafeteria
  08/04/18
One baby is basically a vacation compared to two but congrat...
ocher codepig
  08/03/18
Mfcr
Lavender french chef
  08/04/18
So far it isn’t bad apart from the baby not sleeping theoug...
Maniacal talented school cafeteria
  08/04/18


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Date: January 16th, 2018 2:39 PM
Author: Maniacal talented school cafeteria

our kid will be 3 1/2 when the new dude comes. two boys.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#35169253)



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Date: January 16th, 2018 3:03 PM
Author: Mauve Stag Film Deer Antler

Dude you’ve already had one so you know what to expect. As your dealing with your newborn, you’ll probably have less patience for your toddler’s tantrums and other bad behavior, but you’ll have to deal with it.

Kids are great, so you’re not fucked. But it’s going to be even more work and less free time. Buck up and congratulations.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#35169437)



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Date: January 16th, 2018 3:20 PM
Author: Maniacal talented school cafeteria

yea i can't imagine the tantrums going forward. my only hope is that they slow the fuck down as he approaches age 4 but that probably won't happen.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#35169582)



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Date: January 16th, 2018 3:03 PM
Author: nubile slate lettuce

kiss your free time goodbye

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#35169441)



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Date: June 16th, 2018 3:13 PM
Author: Maniacal talented school cafeteria

already did that 3.5 years ago BROTHER

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36256684)



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Date: June 16th, 2018 3:49 PM
Author: Supple site

Depends, are you the father?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36256841)



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Date: June 16th, 2018 3:51 PM
Author: Maniacal talented school cafeteria

allegedly but i do not know for sure

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36256848)



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Date: June 16th, 2018 4:02 PM
Author: pearl market messiness



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36256904)



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Date: June 16th, 2018 4:08 PM
Author: Maniacal talented school cafeteria

i was kidding brother. but who ever REALLY knows.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36256927)



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Date: June 16th, 2018 4:15 PM
Author: pearl market messiness



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36256944)



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Date: June 16th, 2018 3:59 PM
Author: Vivacious step-uncle's house travel guidebook

whats you're wife like right now as a pregnant mom?

one positive after my wife shat out kid #3 a couple months back was that she actually had more energy as a sleep deprived mom of a newborn than she did 7+ months pregnant. its not all bad brother

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36256886)



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Date: June 16th, 2018 4:01 PM
Author: Maniacal talented school cafeteria

she has no energy, in pain all the time.

i have two briefs due that i'm trying to get done before the 29th (which is when the c section is scheduled) and i'm worried she;s gonna go into labor early.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36256899)



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Date: June 16th, 2018 4:09 PM
Author: ultramarine razzle stead

those two are going to fight all the time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36256929)



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Date: June 16th, 2018 4:41 PM
Author: Bat Shit Crazy Point People Who Are Hurt

cr to have #1 out of diapers before #2 pops

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36257047)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 3:19 PM
Author: Maniacal talented school cafeteria

yeah having two in diapers would be TTT. #1 is hyperactive and throws tantrums tho, not looking forward to that shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36272977)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 5:24 PM
Author: poppy pervert

On the other hand, #1 still in diapers means you don't have to drop everything (including putting #2 somewhere screaming) to run him to the bathroom, deal w accidents, etc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273717)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 5:45 PM
Author: Rambunctious Stock Car

I will have 2 in diapers :(.

Tried to potty train a little after he turned 2 and it just ended up being a lot of tears and him holding it in. Will try again after new baby is here since no point in doing so 3 months before new one and he’ll just regress.

He already wants to be a baby and started crawling around the house making goo goo gah gah noises and wanting to use the baby bottles I took out. Also the other night he said to me “hold me like a baby mommy.” I rocked him for a long time and then cried like a baby myself afterwards. I feel kinda sad that we won’t have all that one on one time anymore.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273820)



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Date: August 4th, 2018 8:33 AM
Author: Brilliant Queen Of The Night

We tried again and potty trained our 2.75 year old when wife was 4-5 months pregnant with #2 and it was soooooooooo cr bc #2 was colicky and screamed for five hours every evening/night. If I had been also changing the manshit diapers of a 3.5 year old while the colic was going on I would've just walked out to my car and driven away at some point.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36551571)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 3:22 PM
Author: Sepia station

Congrats !

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36272994)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 3:28 PM
Author: Maniacal talented school cafeteria

next friday at 7:30 AM is the scheduled c-section. FML.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273017)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 3:35 PM
Author: ocher codepig

congrats. you prob think oh shit another baby means twice the work. really it's like 3x-4x the work. onebaby is basically a vacation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273054)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 4:29 PM
Author: Contagious beta set

Toxic

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273428)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 4:33 PM
Author: Maniacal talented school cafeteria

:(

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273450)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 5:10 PM
Author: Brilliant Queen Of The Night

Depends on the specific kids and their personalities. Sounds like his first is a pain in the ass, but could be normal toddler behavior of toddler who spends all his time with nannies/preschool and gets only small 1-2 hour pockets of attention from parents.

Our first was really easy and so #2 felt like 3x-4x the work if not more. We also have two boys and almost the exact same age gap. Overall I'm more thankful that my oldest is so chill and positive, since he's a good influence on the younger one. We have close family that have it the other way around and it drives them crazy to see their younger, nicer kid being turned into a shit because they idolize their asshole older sibling.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273659)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 4:27 PM
Author: Supple site

Wait, why does it need to be c-section? That's pretty hard.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273418)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 4:28 PM
Author: Maniacal talented school cafeteria

first was a c section. i think they heavily recommend just doing future babbies by c section if that's the case.

first time around sucked. she was in labor for like 15 hours and then they gave up trying to pull him out and just cut.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273422)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 4:33 PM
Author: Supple site

oh okay. that's pretty hard on your wife. thoughts and prayers

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273452)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 3:31 PM
Author: Cracking business firm

Congrats on the sex

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273032)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 3:31 PM
Author: Maniacal talented school cafeteria

, i lisped to the bull

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273037)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 3:41 PM
Author: Fragrant native new version

congrats to the father

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273104)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 4:29 PM
Author: Contagious beta set

First on the way in mid-August. The more I read and talk to people, the less excited I become.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273434)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 4:33 PM
Author: Orchid toilet seat

Quit complaining about awesome kids

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273454)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 4:35 PM
Author: Maniacal talented school cafeteria

the first 3 or so months is total hell. i seriously considered suicide or just changing my identity and abandoning the family.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273473)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 5:04 PM
Author: Contagious beta set

Goddamn.

We have MiL coming to stay with us until we get into daycare. Not sure if that will make things better or worse.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273640)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 5:11 PM
Author: Maniacal talented school cafeteria

that will be good. any help is good. we have no family living in the area (i'm from DC but everyone moved away/died), and that was utter hell.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273664)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 5:11 PM
Author: Brilliant Queen Of The Night

That's a good thing as long as she actually likes babies and can take over and give you both a break for a while. Kid will always love her. But if she shows up just to gab with your wife and is just another mouth to feed, then you need to find a way to get her out faster. Flag this with wife now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273665)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 5:03 PM
Author: Rambunctious Stock Car

Thoughts and prayers. Same here but in sept. My son is a handful at 2.5 and demands all the attention.

We just hired a nanny for the infant to help my aging mother for $50k/year once I go back to work. Son goes to $20k daycare/preschool. A lot of money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273631)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 5:12 PM
Author: Maniacal talented school cafeteria

yea our 3.5 year old is in a daycare that is $1500/mo (down from $1900/mo for infants). new one is going to break me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273668)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 5:12 PM
Author: Brilliant Queen Of The Night

It's because he is insecurely bonded with you because he sees that you love your car and clothes more than him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273669)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 5:18 PM
Author: Rambunctious Stock Car

Yeah I love my Tiguan and BR wardrobe more than life itself

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273688)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 5:27 PM
Author: cerebral ebony knife doctorate

You still banging escorts?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273731)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 5:49 PM
Author: Heady parlour striped hyena



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273851)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 7:07 PM
Author: Maniacal talented school cafeteria

Took a break

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36274195)



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Date: August 3rd, 2018 10:26 PM
Author: Maniacal talented school cafeteria



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36550177)



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Date: August 4th, 2018 9:11 AM
Author: geriatric stirring regret place of business



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36551641)



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Date: August 3rd, 2018 10:29 PM
Author: Fiercely-loyal erotic organic girlfriend fanboi

Whos the father?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36550184)



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Date: August 4th, 2018 8:19 AM
Author: Maniacal talented school cafeteria

Our neighbor. He’s a Trumpmo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36551544)



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Date: August 3rd, 2018 10:30 PM
Author: Fragrant native new version

better keep abusing cocaine lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36550187)



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Date: August 4th, 2018 8:06 AM
Author: Maniacal talented school cafeteria

I have been but pretty infrequently.

The day we got home from the hospital my friend had to stop by to drop something off. I jokingly texted him “bring cocaine.” This guy doesn’t really do cocaine and never buys it. Lo and behold, he shows up with an eightball. I did a few bumps in my bathroom.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36551527)



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Date: August 4th, 2018 8:09 AM
Author: aquamarine disturbing reading party institution

Fucking 180.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36551530)



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Date: August 4th, 2018 8:30 AM
Author: Clear learning disabled wrinkle



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Date: August 4th, 2018 9:12 AM
Author: geriatric stirring regret place of business

180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36551644)



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Date: August 4th, 2018 9:18 AM
Author: Maniacal talented school cafeteria

Also had an all nighter with the client in MA, which I poasted about the other day

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36551657)



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Date: August 3rd, 2018 10:31 PM
Author: ocher codepig

One baby is basically a vacation compared to two but congrats

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36550192)



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Date: August 4th, 2018 8:47 AM
Author: Lavender french chef

Mfcr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36551587)



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Date: August 4th, 2018 9:02 AM
Author: Maniacal talented school cafeteria

So far it isn’t bad apart from the baby not sleeping theough the night, but I’m sure it’ll get bad. Our 3 year old isn’t as difficult as I expected.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36551604)