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Told wife i would pay to replace the floor in one room of house.
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Date: January 18th, 2018 9:06 AM Author: spectacular lilac library candlestick maker Told her to do the project. This was one month ago. I asked her project status this morning and she said she's still looking for the right material. I told her to cut the shit, it's not the Sistine chapel. |
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Date: January 18th, 2018 9:41 AM Author: stimulating yapping principal's office famous landscape painting Who the fuck believes the floor of the Sistene Chapel is some great metaphor for art? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35182179) |
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Date: January 18th, 2018 9:42 AM Author: spectacular lilac library candlestick maker Yeah. I said "Sistine Chapel" because I took her there once. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35182184) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 11:37 AM Author: orchid parlour the floor of the sistine chapel is really nice bro (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35451960) |
Date: January 18th, 2018 9:07 AM Author: spectacular lilac library candlestick maker Women get lazier and lazier as they get older. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35182025) |
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Date: January 18th, 2018 9:09 AM Author: spectacular lilac library candlestick maker I told her I'm not the fucking pope and she'd better get while the getting's good. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35182032) |
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Date: January 18th, 2018 9:10 AM Author: spectacular lilac library candlestick maker She seemed to get mad. Anyone want a useless wife? |
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Date: January 18th, 2018 10:13 AM Author: Aqua hell I'll show her a good time (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35182333) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 9:02 AM Author: Claret soul-stirring address immigrant my wife is the opposite. she will casually mention an idea for some home improvement project then a week later a contractor will be at the house doing some expensive shit. and she'll be like "we talked about this remember? you never listen to me!" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35451161) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 11:35 AM Author: spectacular lilac library candlestick maker at least she's got some go-to-it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35451945) |
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Date: January 18th, 2018 9:27 AM Author: arousing fiercely-loyal filthpig den Is she actually gonna lay the floor herself or just call someone? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35182111) |
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Date: January 18th, 2018 9:33 AM Author: spectacular lilac library candlestick maker She thinks she's going to do it herself and "save money" but she's been saying this for two years now. She's gotten into this paralysis mode on everything nowadays, which, coupled with some shitty ADHD symptoms, really makes my life hard. |
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Date: January 18th, 2018 9:54 AM Author: arousing fiercely-loyal filthpig den Ahah just hire someone and call her out on it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35182252) |
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Date: January 18th, 2018 9:58 AM Author: spectacular lilac library candlestick maker Oh its in the works, brother. She'll dick around for another week occasionally googling different kinds of flooring and then I'll say fuck it and just do it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35182265) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 8:52 AM Author: spectacular lilac library candlestick maker Welp. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35451130) |
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Date: January 18th, 2018 9:29 AM Author: beady-eyed fishy place of business double fault This type of shit is the no. 1 reason that my stay at home gf will not become my stay at home wife. Complete laziness. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35182123) |
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Date: January 18th, 2018 9:32 AM Author: spectacular lilac library candlestick maker Cr. Now I've got to be her fucking daddy, giving her checklists and shit. "Aw cute, its a vid of her and the kid playing in the snow. Now do some fucking work around the house for fuck sake. Hang up those pictures piled in corners around the house. Make the place that much nicer to live in. Sick of this shit." |
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Date: January 18th, 2018 9:44 AM Author: beady-eyed fishy place of business double fault Dude I am like a fucking maid in my own house. I get home from work and there are piles of shit in various corners reflecting unfinished "projects". The house should be spotless with as much free time as she has. All she has to do in the morning is get the little dude off to school and then she has like 7 hours to do whatever she wants. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35182197) |
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Date: January 18th, 2018 9:45 AM Author: spectacular lilac library candlestick maker Don't marry her. At least until she shows some pride and isn't passive aggressively saying fuck you with the piles of shit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35182210) |
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Date: January 18th, 2018 9:50 AM Author: beady-eyed fishy place of business double fault I won't. I don't see it ever getting better - at least not permanently. 2 plus years of not having to work has devolved into complete uselessness. The ADHD / inability to make any decisions ever has turned into a shit show. I can't depend on here to get anything done - not the simplest household task. It's a shame. She's a great girl otherwise. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35182233) |
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Date: January 18th, 2018 9:54 AM Author: spectacular lilac library candlestick maker Yeah, sounds similar to me. They get messy as shit and argumentative. Mine has devolved into watching native-language TV for hours during the day while the kid is at school when her English language skills have never been the best anyway. She told me about "baby dogs" on youtube yesterday and I said, "You mean 'Puppies'!?" like WTF, are you going to stop speaking English now too?
So, what, you had a kid with her but didn't marry? Are you a lawyer? I guess so from your moniker. Whats it like having a kid but not being married? How old is your kid? |
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Date: January 18th, 2018 10:41 AM Author: beady-eyed fishy place of business double fault We have been together since her kid was 3. He's almost 8 now. His father is nowhere around. Good guys but messed up his life. The kid is awesome. If she would be willing to leave and let me adopt the little dude and raise him myself I would be 100% cool with that.
We have never married. Mostly because she is much younger and wanted to finish college with all of the grants/financial aid she was getting. Stating my income on the FAFSA would have made that impossible.
I really shouldn't complain too much - the whole thing is 100% my fault. I let her quit working to focus on finishing school full time. Now she's used to not having any responsibility and has become incredibly lazy and useless. It sounds like you know this character arc very well.
I'm a lawyer but don't practice law any more and work as a business executive.
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Date: January 18th, 2018 11:51 AM Author: spectacular lilac library candlestick maker Gotcha. Can you feather some part time job in for her? Just to get her moving a little? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35183109) |
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Date: January 18th, 2018 11:58 AM Author: beady-eyed fishy place of business double fault Have been trying. She goes into cornered honey badger mode when I mention her lack of financial contribution. At the heart of it, she lives in a bit of a delusion and considers us as more or less equally capable (she would never actually say this out, but I know that she thinks it). She resents the fact that I am able to earn a solid living and that any job she would be qualified for would be low paying. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35183171) |
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Date: January 18th, 2018 7:14 PM Author: spectacular lilac library candlestick maker i understand. seems like yr a good dude. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35184934) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 12:04 PM Author: Vigorous khaki nowag theatre Jfc bro (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35452137) |
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Date: January 18th, 2018 9:35 AM Author: spectacular lilac library candlestick maker One time the tree guy came by last year and I just on the spot paid him $2K to do some shit that needed to be done. Wife had been telling me for three months that she knew a guy who would do the work for cheap, etc, but didn't do shit to make things happen. I got sick of her insane stuff and just fixed it. She was screaming at me from the porch the whole time I was negotiating with the tree guy but I had to ignore her because I know she's not dependable and she'd already had her chance. Then for three days she screamed at me about how I "wasted money." It's a REALLY annoying habit of hers. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35182150) |
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Date: January 18th, 2018 9:39 AM Author: spectacular lilac library candlestick maker The thing that makes me maddest of all is she has no signs of being house proud whatsoever. I fucking bought the house she wanted, and she wont do shit to make it better. She's all talk, and meanwhile I live with shit everywhere, calling the handyman myself when I just cant stand it any more. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35182175) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 12:01 PM Author: plum contagious lodge no respectable man should ever call a "handyman" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35452119) |
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Date: January 18th, 2018 9:42 AM Author: alcoholic space affirmative action Why would you let your wife hand relflooring your house bro. You are asking for a huge fight and shitty flooring. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35182185) |
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Date: January 18th, 2018 9:43 AM Author: effete razzmatazz shrine background story Men should do building stuff. He's just asking for her to leave him for an alpha. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35182191) |
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Date: January 18th, 2018 9:44 AM Author: spectacular lilac library candlestick maker I'm alpha but I don't do house repairs. If an Alpha with a job wants her, he can have her. It would make my life that much easier. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35182205) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 12:02 PM Author: plum contagious lodge you are not alpha (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35452122) |
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Date: January 18th, 2018 9:44 AM Author: spectacular lilac library candlestick maker She did a good job in the old house, back when our love was fresh. Also, I'm restricting her to One Room--see above. We'll see how the One Room goes and then I'll re-evaluate. I'm no dummy. |
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Date: January 18th, 2018 9:42 AM Author: effete razzmatazz shrine background story I woke my wife up at 11 p.m. last night because we ran out of floss a week ago and she hadn't stocked up on that shit yet. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35182187) |
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Date: January 18th, 2018 9:47 AM Author: spectacular lilac library candlestick maker Yeah, I do that too. With milk and basic staples. To myself I'm like, "Why the fuck do I give you money for groceries when you don't have milk for three days?" To her, I yell upstairs, "OY! Why no Milk!?" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35182219) |
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Date: January 18th, 2018 10:00 AM Author: federal excitant rehab I literally tell my wife about shit we're running out of and if I can just order it myself.
But she says no she doesn't trust that I would get the correct ones.
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Date: January 18th, 2018 10:01 AM Author: spectacular lilac library candlestick maker Yeah. Sometimes we wont have shit and I'll get disgusted and just buy the food myself and then she'll have the nerve to tell me it's the wrong kind. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35182282) |
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Date: January 18th, 2018 10:03 AM Author: Misanthropic sapphire mad cow disease Don't do just one room. Keep inns consistent as possible. Also why the fuck would you task a woman with this? They really want to be put in female roles and will (deservedly) lash out otherwise. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35182287) |
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Date: January 18th, 2018 10:11 AM Author: spectacular lilac library candlestick maker She says repeatedly she wants to do it. She would bring it up every week for a six month period of time. So I greenlit, or I thought I did. Also its a nightmare to arrange a contractor when she's looking over my shoulder the whole time, bitching about costs, telling me she can get it done for cheaper, etc.
As for consistency, that's just part of the cost of doing things piecemeal based on the constraints ive previously expressed. |
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Date: January 18th, 2018 10:12 AM Author: effete razzmatazz shrine background story "They really want to be put in female roles and will (deservedly) lash out otherwise."
This guy is thinking at a MACRO level, folks. |
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Date: January 18th, 2018 10:13 AM Author: spectacular lilac library candlestick maker credited (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35182332) |
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Date: January 18th, 2018 10:51 AM Author: beady-eyed fishy place of business double fault This is credited. Only mine lashes out either way. If you put her in female roles, she lashes out because you don't "respect" her and think she's only good for woman work. If you put her in male roles, she either never gets started (80% of the time) or throws up her hands and says "I can't" and gets mad at me for asking her to do it in the first place. Case in point - I asked her to take her car (the one that I bought for her) down the street to the auto shop to get an oil change and new wiper blades. It's so close that she can just walk back home in 10 minutes. After a week of not getting it done, she finally lashed out that she doesn't know anything about cars and that she's uncomfortable going to those places. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35182597) |
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Date: January 18th, 2018 11:50 AM Author: spectacular lilac library candlestick maker This is exactly my wife, to the T. She will get oil changes now because i drilled it in her head how to do it and where to go. But before that, yeah. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35183098) |
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Date: January 18th, 2018 12:01 PM Author: beady-eyed fishy place of business double fault It's even easier for her. There is a neighborhood auto shop down the street that I always take the cars to. They are bros and super honest. They would never try to upsell her anything and would always call me first. They have my credit card on file and just bill me for whatever. Her whole job was to drive down the street and walk in the front and hand them the keys. They know it's my car and they know to call me when it's ready. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35183192) |
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Date: January 18th, 2018 12:02 PM Author: Idiotic Office lol @ this fucking clown telling a woman to manage a home improvement project
i hope she fucks the flooring guy while you're at work |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 8:51 AM Author: spectacular lilac library candlestick maker She has done literally nothing on this since original post.
I work full time. I got.plumber, I booked international travel, I had 4 day jury trial since then. She has done NOTHING on this in the meantime.
Am I trapped for life, bros? |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 8:53 AM Author: spectacular lilac library candlestick maker I'm depressed about this and the next 20 years spans out miserably before me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35451132) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 8:57 AM Author: Sinister Turquoise Point Digit Ratio putting in new floors in only one room is a stupid idea anyways. just wait until you have enough money to do the entire level. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35451140) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 8:59 AM Author: spectacular lilac library candlestick maker I'm just gonna call a guy. I'm representing his wife on a dog bite case. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35451151) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 9:01 AM Author: arousing fiercely-loyal filthpig den Yes just call a guy and let do. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35451159) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 11:55 AM Author: Sinister Turquoise Point Digit Ratio skip and buy a new grill (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35452080) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 1:19 PM Author: spectacular lilac library candlestick maker ive got two mang. both charcoal--the way I like 'em. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35452753) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 9:06 AM Author: Diverse Amethyst Milk Has anyone in this thread ever put in a floor with their own hands? Jesus Christ, you waste money like water calling “handymen.” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35451170) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 9:08 AM Author: spectacular lilac library candlestick maker I'm going to buy a new kitchen tradhcan too. The one she bought I so narrow you cant fit a cereal box in it. Fucking brainless. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35451178) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 9:28 AM Author: Claret soul-stirring address immigrant have you considered hitting her when she makes these kinds of mistakes? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35451218) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 11:35 AM Author: spectacular lilac library candlestick maker I don't want to hit her, man.
But then it leaves me w shit like stacking up emty cereal boxes and milk jugs and macaroni boxes next to the trash on on top of it. But she doesn't seem to care! |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 11:40 AM Author: spectacular lilac library candlestick maker Rate this trashcan:
I'm just going to buy it. |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 11:54 AM Author: Twisted menage crotch get one that has a tight lid that actually closes and traps smells. something like this but less expensive: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0733Z42S2/ref=sspa_dk_detail_6?psc=1&pd_rd_i=B0733Z42S2&pd_rd_wg=c5Vxc&pd_rd_r=4426YG04H4R201WPY4GF&pd_rd_w=f5wZ7 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35452073) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 11:56 AM Author: Sinister Turquoise Point Digit Ratio this is an improvement over your current one? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35452084) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 12:00 PM Author: marvelous slap-happy idea he suggested This has to be flame. Looks like it belongs in the lobby of an office building. Enjoy smelling rotting food 100% if the time. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35452114) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 12:04 PM Author: Curious public bath (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35452140) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 12:07 PM Author: Claret soul-stirring address immigrant looks nice. my wife bought a $250 trash can that is split btw trash and recycling. the result is its small so the same issue you have and gets filled all the time.
Also bc it was so expensive my wife yells at me for throwing smelly things in there and accuses me of ruining her $250 trash can by throwing trash in it. |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 12:11 PM Author: Sinister Turquoise Point Digit Ratio do you idiots not have homegoods where you live? you can get a nice looking stainless can for like $50 or less. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35452199) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 12:45 PM Author: Claret soul-stirring address immigrant Do you think calling me an idiot makes me more or less inclined to tell you about the stores in my neighborhood? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35452467) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 1:26 PM Author: Sinister Turquoise Point Digit Ratio yes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35452803) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 12:14 PM Author: spectacular lilac library candlestick maker "accuses me of ruining her $250 trash can by throwing trash in it."
does your wife know my wife? |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 12:18 PM Author: Sooty station when a woman stops caring about things around the house, means she is desperately unhappy, have u tried talking to her? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35452239) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 1:18 PM Author: spectacular lilac library candlestick maker not sure how I would open such a discussion.
"Why the fuck is the house all messy as fuck all the time? You desperately unhappy or something? Knock that shit off. We've got work to do." |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 1:23 PM Author: Sooty station maybe, like, hey honey, why don't u laugh at my jokes anymore? can I make u smile tonight? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35452788) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 1:24 PM Author: spectacular lilac library candlestick maker Yeah. I think I blew that for tonight in light of my texts to her saying WTF is this shit! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3863543&forum_id=2#35452799) |