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This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
purple queen of the night orchestra pit
  01/21/18
Female law partner? LJL
lascivious shaky trailer park roast beef
  01/21/18
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heady violent church building mad-dog skullcap
  01/21/18
was she hot?
Concupiscible Erotic Principal's Office
  01/21/18
I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
purple queen of the night orchestra pit
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
Concupiscible Erotic Principal's Office
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
purple queen of the night orchestra pit
  01/21/18
of course.
Concupiscible Erotic Principal's Office
  01/21/18
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lascivious shaky trailer park roast beef
  01/21/18
...
Painfully honest judgmental garrison
  01/21/18
Lol
Fishy theater stage
  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
Swashbuckling institution incel
  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
purple queen of the night orchestra pit
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
Concupiscible Erotic Principal's Office
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
purple queen of the night orchestra pit
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
avocado theater
  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
purple queen of the night orchestra pit
  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
avocado theater
  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
purple queen of the night orchestra pit
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
avocado theater
  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
purple queen of the night orchestra pit
  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
avocado theater
  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
purple queen of the night orchestra pit
  01/21/18
CR
lascivious shaky trailer park roast beef
  01/21/18
lololol
charismatic obsidian locus
  01/21/18
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pontificating nowag
  01/21/18
your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
arousing onyx corner gaming laptop
  01/21/18
Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
purple queen of the night orchestra pit
  01/21/18
lol
Concupiscible Erotic Principal's Office
  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
arousing onyx corner gaming laptop
  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
Frum Salmon Philosopher-king
  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
purple queen of the night orchestra pit
  01/21/18
how did she die/
Concupiscible Erotic Principal's Office
  01/21/18
Something weird where an important function just stopped wor...
purple queen of the night orchestra pit
  01/21/18


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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: purple queen of the night orchestra pit

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: lascivious shaky trailer park roast beef

Female law partner? LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: heady violent church building mad-dog skullcap



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204585)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Concupiscible Erotic Principal's Office

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: purple queen of the night orchestra pit

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Concupiscible Erotic Principal's Office

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: purple queen of the night orchestra pit

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Concupiscible Erotic Principal's Office

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: lascivious shaky trailer park roast beef



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201037)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: Painfully honest judgmental garrison



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204404)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: Fishy theater stage

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204566)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Swashbuckling institution incel

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: purple queen of the night orchestra pit

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Concupiscible Erotic Principal's Office

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: purple queen of the night orchestra pit

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: avocado theater

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: purple queen of the night orchestra pit

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: avocado theater

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: purple queen of the night orchestra pit

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: avocado theater

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: purple queen of the night orchestra pit

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: avocado theater

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: purple queen of the night orchestra pit

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: lascivious shaky trailer park roast beef

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201042)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: charismatic obsidian locus

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: pontificating nowag



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204548)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: arousing onyx corner gaming laptop

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: purple queen of the night orchestra pit

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: Concupiscible Erotic Principal's Office

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: arousing onyx corner gaming laptop

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: Frum Salmon Philosopher-king

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: purple queen of the night orchestra pit

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: Concupiscible Erotic Principal's Office

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: purple queen of the night orchestra pit

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)