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This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
maize marketing idea school cafeteria
  01/21/18
Female law partner? LJL
Provocative home
  01/21/18
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Infuriating Odious Casino
  01/21/18
was she hot?
Olive Exhilarant Police Squad
  01/21/18
I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
maize marketing idea school cafeteria
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
Olive Exhilarant Police Squad
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
maize marketing idea school cafeteria
  01/21/18
of course.
Olive Exhilarant Police Squad
  01/21/18
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Provocative home
  01/21/18
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Rambunctious business firm preventive strike
  01/21/18
Lol
Appetizing really tough guy potus
  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
Opaque crawly space
  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
maize marketing idea school cafeteria
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
Olive Exhilarant Police Squad
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
maize marketing idea school cafeteria
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
Diverse pontificating nowag property
  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
maize marketing idea school cafeteria
  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
Diverse pontificating nowag property
  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
maize marketing idea school cafeteria
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
Diverse pontificating nowag property
  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
maize marketing idea school cafeteria
  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
Diverse pontificating nowag property
  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
maize marketing idea school cafeteria
  01/21/18
CR
Provocative home
  01/21/18
lololol
salmon school
  01/21/18
...
flushed temple legend
  01/21/18
your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
black fragrant range
  01/21/18
Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
maize marketing idea school cafeteria
  01/21/18
lol
Olive Exhilarant Police Squad
  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
black fragrant range
  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
Motley Ratface Feces
  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
maize marketing idea school cafeteria
  01/21/18
how did she die/
Olive Exhilarant Police Squad
  01/21/18
Something weird where an important function just stopped wor...
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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: maize marketing idea school cafeteria

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Provocative home

Female law partner? LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: Infuriating Odious Casino



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204585)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Olive Exhilarant Police Squad

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: maize marketing idea school cafeteria

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Olive Exhilarant Police Squad

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: maize marketing idea school cafeteria

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Olive Exhilarant Police Squad

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Provocative home



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201037)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: Rambunctious business firm preventive strike



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204404)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: Appetizing really tough guy potus

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204566)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Opaque crawly space

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: maize marketing idea school cafeteria

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Olive Exhilarant Police Squad

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: maize marketing idea school cafeteria

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Diverse pontificating nowag property

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: maize marketing idea school cafeteria

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: Diverse pontificating nowag property

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: maize marketing idea school cafeteria

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: Diverse pontificating nowag property

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: maize marketing idea school cafeteria

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: Diverse pontificating nowag property

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: maize marketing idea school cafeteria

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Provocative home

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201042)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: salmon school

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: flushed temple legend



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204548)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: black fragrant range

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: maize marketing idea school cafeteria

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: Olive Exhilarant Police Squad

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: black fragrant range

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: Motley Ratface Feces

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: maize marketing idea school cafeteria

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: Olive Exhilarant Police Squad

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: maize marketing idea school cafeteria

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)