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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM Author: deep onyx site This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860) |
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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM Author: Adventurous maniacal cruise ship Female law partner? LJL (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035) |
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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM Author: drab twisted theatre hominid (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204585) |
Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM Author: Puce vivacious location was she hot? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866) |
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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM Author: deep onyx site I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872) |
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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM Author: Puce vivacious location clearly the daughter. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874) |
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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM Author: deep onyx site haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879) |
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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM Author: Puce vivacious location of course. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881) |
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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM Author: Adventurous maniacal cruise ship (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201037) |
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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM Author: sickened flatulent stag film (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204404) |
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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM Author: Chestnut Really Tough Guy Market Lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204566) |
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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM Author: Cyan Theater Stage PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882) |
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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM Author: deep onyx site cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891) |
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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM Author: Puce vivacious location the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901) |
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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM Author: deep onyx site yes, yes, this is very helpful.. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910) |
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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM Author: Mildly Autistic Hot Lettuce Sound Barrier just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900) |
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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM Author: deep onyx site lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907) |
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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM Author: Mildly Autistic Hot Lettuce Sound Barrier can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961) |
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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM Author: deep onyx site she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.
I found her email address. Is that too impersonal? |
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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM Author: Mildly Autistic Hot Lettuce Sound Barrier lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994) |
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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM Author: deep onyx site a year & couple of months. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003) |
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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM Author: Mildly Autistic Hot Lettuce Sound Barrier i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019) |
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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM Author: deep onyx site Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040) |
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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM Author: Adventurous maniacal cruise ship CR (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201042) |
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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM Author: bat-shit-crazy concupiscible station lololol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239) |
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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM Author: odious field (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204548) |
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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM Author: dull church your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.
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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM Author: deep onyx site Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395) |
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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM Author: Puce vivacious location lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434) |
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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM Author: dull church i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner
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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM Author: Emerald marvelous karate brunch Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423) |
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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM Author: deep onyx site I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations.. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460) |
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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM Author: Puce vivacious location how did she die/ (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598) |
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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM Author: deep onyx site Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513) |