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This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
Useless sepia laser beams national
  01/21/18
Female law partner? LJL
infuriating field
  01/21/18
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Bronze orchestra pit filthpig
  01/21/18
was she hot?
cerebral french chef kitchen
  01/21/18
I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
Useless sepia laser beams national
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
cerebral french chef kitchen
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
Useless sepia laser beams national
  01/21/18
of course.
cerebral french chef kitchen
  01/21/18
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infuriating field
  01/21/18
...
pink supple affirmative action
  01/21/18
Lol
unholy theater stage
  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
Thriller Cuckold Volcanic Crater
  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
Useless sepia laser beams national
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
cerebral french chef kitchen
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
Useless sepia laser beams national
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
Carmine Church Building Incel
  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
Useless sepia laser beams national
  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
Carmine Church Building Incel
  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
Useless sepia laser beams national
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
Carmine Church Building Incel
  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
Useless sepia laser beams national
  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
Carmine Church Building Incel
  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
Useless sepia laser beams national
  01/21/18
CR
infuriating field
  01/21/18
lololol
Contagious Cruel-hearted Personal Credit Line
  01/21/18
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racy stage giraffe
  01/21/18
your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
Citrine slap-happy candlestick maker hunting ground
  01/21/18
Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
Useless sepia laser beams national
  01/21/18
lol
cerebral french chef kitchen
  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
Citrine slap-happy candlestick maker hunting ground
  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
doobsian nursing home
  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
Useless sepia laser beams national
  01/21/18
how did she die/
cerebral french chef kitchen
  01/21/18
Something weird where an important function just stopped wor...
Useless sepia laser beams national
  01/21/18


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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Useless sepia laser beams national

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: infuriating field

Female law partner? LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: Bronze orchestra pit filthpig



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: cerebral french chef kitchen

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Useless sepia laser beams national

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: cerebral french chef kitchen

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Useless sepia laser beams national

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: cerebral french chef kitchen

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: infuriating field



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201037)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: pink supple affirmative action



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204404)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: unholy theater stage

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204566)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Thriller Cuckold Volcanic Crater

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: Useless sepia laser beams national

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: cerebral french chef kitchen

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: Useless sepia laser beams national

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Carmine Church Building Incel

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: Useless sepia laser beams national

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: Carmine Church Building Incel

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: Useless sepia laser beams national

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: Carmine Church Building Incel

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: Useless sepia laser beams national

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: Carmine Church Building Incel

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Useless sepia laser beams national

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: infuriating field

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201042)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: Contagious Cruel-hearted Personal Credit Line

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: racy stage giraffe



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204548)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: Citrine slap-happy candlestick maker hunting ground

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: Useless sepia laser beams national

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: cerebral french chef kitchen

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: Citrine slap-happy candlestick maker hunting ground

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: doobsian nursing home

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: Useless sepia laser beams national

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: cerebral french chef kitchen

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: Useless sepia laser beams national

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)