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NY IBDmo. Single, 30yo. Thoughts on moving to SF?
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 7:30 PM Author: brindle site thoughts on sf vs nyc for someone in my age group? feel like i won’t miss nyc nightlife quite as much as i enter my mid 30s. just want to meet a hot girl, settle down, and maybe eventually return to the east coast in my late 30s/early 40s. hilariously cryptos started me down the path of becoming a tech banker
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 9:33 PM Author: Curious sandwich "just want to meet a hot girl"
then you don't want to move to SF |
Date: January 22nd, 2018 7:32 PM Author: Thriller School If you can't meet a girl in NYC, the most hot single shrew polluted city in the world, how are you going to fare in the sausage fest fat chick capital of the U.S. that is SF? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213042) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 7:34 PM Author: brindle site i’ve cross my heart hope to die had over 60 one night stands since i’ve lived here. ive literally been too busy or too immature to sustain a long term relationship. feel like i’ve squeezed every ounce out of nyc as a kid in my 20s. i actually wanna settle down now.
you say sf isn’t ideal in this regard? |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 7:41 PM Author: Olive public bath Actually, the chicks in SF aren't fat. Most are in pretty good shape. The issue is more that they are more masculine and shrewy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213132) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 7:41 PM Author: brindle site seriously? it’s a major city how bad can it be? especially when half the guys are fucking each other lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213137) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 7:32 PM Author: Burgundy Coiffed Meetinghouse Only hot girls in SF are in the Marina, so make sure to end up near there. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213044) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 7:33 PM Author: Domesticated Pit Newt If your motivation is finding a girl, don't move to SF. That city is terrible for straight men (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213058) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 7:35 PM Author: brindle site well my motivation is the job. but if SF sucks badly enough that’d give me pause (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213077) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 7:40 PM Author: Burgundy Coiffed Meetinghouse SF is awesome. Not amazing for women, but if you are good looking you'll be fine. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213130) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 7:42 PM Author: Domesticated Pit Newt Just out of curiosity, how many women do you imagine are in the tech banking and crypto scenes in SF? NYC is a magnet for women 22-26. Sure you can make the argument that NYC women aren't looking to settle down or are otherwise unsuitable--debatable--but if this is what you think then the play is are country, not SF. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213140) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 7:47 PM Author: brindle site you don’t need to educate me on 22-26 year old nyc girls living in the upper east side or murray hill. those girls are the easiest lays on planet earth.
i’m agnostic as to what women in sf do. i’d just like to know there’s a subset of attractive well educated women that somehow are still single and willing to let me inseminate them eventually |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 8:27 PM Author: Domesticated Pit Newt I think you underestimate how big a deal the ratio is (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213522) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 8:34 PM Author: gold big property (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213599) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 8:44 PM Author: passionate maize candlestick maker Cr. There are literally tens of thousands of single 30 yr old guys making $300K+ in SF all trying to bang the same 5s (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213686) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 9:32 PM Author: multi-colored impertinent private investor (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35214058) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 7:37 PM Author: gold big property The lack of sunshine is bad for your Inflammatory bowel disease. Try LA. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213100) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 7:40 PM Author: brindle site i hate LA although the girls are hot as fuck and it’s close to vegas. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213129) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 7:44 PM Author: Burgundy Coiffed Meetinghouse there are 250+ days of sunshine in SF. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213157) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 7:44 PM Author: gold big property (autist) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213160) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 7:46 PM Author: Aqua lodge SF may arguably be the worst place on earth (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213166) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 7:48 PM Author: Carmine chapel national security agency Seattle and Portland are worse (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213182) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 8:23 PM Author: Aqua lodge seattle is fine but does suck for single white males, portland can be cool near pearl district women there are HUGE fucking sluts and keep in shape (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213476) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 7:49 PM Author: brindle site god damn why? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213192) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 7:51 PM Author: gold big property Homeless capital of the country Cost of living capital of the country Car break-in capital of the country Autist capital of the country Shitlib capital of the country Reeks of urine capital of the country |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 7:52 PM Author: Burgundy Coiffed Meetinghouse just if you live in the shitty area of town (other than the cost of living, which is an issue everywhere). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213211) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 7:53 PM Author: gold big property FALSE (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213216) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 8:25 PM Author: passionate maize candlestick maker LJL!! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213492) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 7:55 PM Author: brindle site i can’t live in marina and avoid all that? thought all that shit was in oakland?
incidentally i enjoy watching the golden state warriors and having a semi legit reason to finally abandon the fucking knicks for them is a bigger factor than it should be lmao |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 8:04 PM Author: gold big property If you go for a morning run, you will still smell piss on 1/2 the corners and see a broke car windshield every 3rd block. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213324) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 8:05 PM Author: Burgundy Coiffed Meetinghouse you can. I live in the Marina...never see homeless people, piss or broken windows...people are liberal, but no more so than NY...and there are more than enough attractive women....go to Equinox in the Marina and you will see.
Go to the Mission and none of this is applicable.
Do you like outdoors shit? SF is the best for that by far of any major city. |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 8:07 PM Author: gold big property 100% confirmed as a liar, or possibly just oblivious. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213354) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 8:10 PM Author: Burgundy Coiffed Meetinghouse Nope.
BTW, I do sometimes see this stuff in the Marina....but certainly no more frequently than your average block in NYC. |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 8:22 PM Author: gold big property You are living in a delusion. You don't want to admit how shitty it is since you pay so much.
Open your mind, and you will start seeing homelessness and criminality all around you. |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 8:25 PM Author: Burgundy Coiffed Meetinghouse Do you live in the Marina/Cow Hollow area? It is really f'ing nice. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213500) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 8:26 PM Author: gold big property STFU DOOBS (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213506) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 7:48 PM Author: Fiercely-loyal bright lay Why not Chicago or LA? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213179) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 7:49 PM Author: brindle site i mean a job in sf made itself available to me. i didn’t conduct a nationwide search or anything. though honestly sf would be my next choice after nyc probably just bc of tech (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213188) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 7:57 PM Author: Carmine chapel national security agency are you in tech banking? chicago is 18000000000000. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213257) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 7:58 PM Author: brindle site nah i’m a generalist now but i would be in tech at a BB
i think industrials when i think chitown. not trying to do that stuff. i like chicago though |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 8:04 PM Author: Fiercely-loyal bright lay Take the opp if you get it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213319) |
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Date: February 4th, 2018 9:09 PM Author: boyish offensive bawdyhouse skinny woman Brother. If ur goal is to find a hot chick and settle down, chicago is one of the best. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35323835) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 8:07 PM Author: Mind-boggling hell coldplay fan I would strongly discourage any single man from moving to San Francisco. There are women there, but it will take you at least two years to adjust to how much lower your standards need to be. If you are used to NYC women and your success rate you will be very disappointed and you will run back to the east coast kicking and screaming.
I don't say this to troll you. If you have a gf/wife, SF is a great place to live before having kids. |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 8:20 PM Author: brindle site Can you say more on this? Just that the women in sf are just uglier across the board? No doubt they’re less easy since nyc’s nightlife lends itsef to more drinking and casual sex. But is that especially the case? What’s the guy:girl ratio like? For some reason I figured every other sf dude is gay so every single reasonably good looking dude has great prospects (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213455) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 8:24 PM Author: hairraiser station If you like mediocre asian girls it will be paradise for you
It is called the city of 49ers for a reason. It is full of 4s who think they are 9s
They also put in zero effort because they can get away with it
If you're in banking you are incredibly low on the totem pole of male professions in SF |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 8:26 PM Author: brindle site Fuck this makes intuitive sense. Fuck. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213513) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 8:34 PM Author: Carmine chapel national security agency Banking in general has lost its luster, but in SF it's downright frowned upon. Even my buddy at fucking Hellman&Friedman (super elite PE firm) gets less respect than tech bros at google/facebook/dropbox. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213601) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 8:35 PM Author: brindle site I’m the straightest nigga on planet earth and I’d probably do some gay shit for a job at H&F. Wow (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213610) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 8:13 PM Author: buck-toothed love of her life Oh, yeah, lots of shrews with IBD in SF. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213394) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 8:18 PM Author: Smoky twisted stage dont move to SF. move to LA. SF is shit pure shit. LA is the best choice for u based on what you say. lots of cgwbts and chill hot latinas who can be nurturing and family oriented. why the hell would you want a granola shitlib woman from SF who wants to squeeze your balls 24/7 and rants about SJW shit?
not to mention that weather in SF, homeless problem, tech fags all suck |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 8:21 PM Author: brindle site Dude I don’t have my pick of any city. Right now it’s either sf or stay in my current gig. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213461) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 8:26 PM Author: Smoky twisted stage stay in NYC unless
1) you want to escape harsh winters and snow 2) you want to move into VC/tech 3) you want a completely different kind of lifestyle that is oriented towards nature - hiking, surfing, wine country etc 4) have immediate family that you want to hangout with more
ideally you should meet 2/4 to move. 1/4 is kind of a stretch but still OK especially if its (4) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 8:33 PM Author: brindle site Mostly 1 and 2. My entire family is on the east coast and they’d be pretty unhappy if I left. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213598) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 8:41 PM Author: passionate maize candlestick maker Ljl SF weather is worse than DC (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213652) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 8:19 PM Author: hairraiser station Hahahahahahahahahaha
Wow holy shit |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 8:24 PM Author: brindle site So you’re saying.....take the gig so I can be smoking Cali bud and slaying Bay Area box alongside 19 year old start up tech billionaires??? And be on a first name basis with mark zuckerberg and shit?? Thanks brother! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213482) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 8:25 PM Author: drab startling institution Sup Brady (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213497) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 8:29 PM Author: confused stubborn parlour incel (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213549) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 8:31 PM Author: brindle site I dunno who that is but ask me stuff about finance or nyc if you think I’m frauding or something (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213573) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 8:33 PM Author: drab startling institution Are you not familiar with jjc aka WSO poster Brady4MVP? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213592) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 8:34 PM Author: brindle site Lmao no but I have a wso account would it be lolzy to see his posts? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213605) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 8:31 PM Author: brindle site Thanks all this thread was a shockingly helpful exercise. Will visit and look at stuff through the lens of what people are saying here (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213566) |
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 8:38 PM Author: passionate maize candlestick maker SF only makes sense if
-you grew up there, -you can’t get a job elsewhere, or -you like sex with men
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Date: January 22nd, 2018 8:47 PM Author: passionate maize candlestick maker http://whytherearenogirls.blogspot.com/?m=1 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35213717) |
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Date: February 4th, 2018 8:49 PM Author: brindle site about to sign the offer letter. sf has its charms and i’ve convinced myself i only need a handful of girls to sleep with. looking forward to living on the left coast for a while tho.
with any luck i’ll be back in nyc before too long. wish me luck |
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Date: February 4th, 2018 8:55 PM Author: Brilliant Step-uncle's House I think the posters in this thread somewhat overstate the impact of the male/female ratio in SF and the lack of girls. Girls in SF are not as good looking as in NYC, but I’ve run into a lot of chicks in SF who claim tech bros are only into Asian chicks, or are too nerdy, or some other BS, and say that they appreciate new men coming into the city. Now these chicks aren’t hot or anything, they are just your standard urban white shrews, which we all have to kind of accept nowadays (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35323658) |
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Date: February 4th, 2018 9:08 PM Author: brindle site Lmao this isn’t terribly encouraging. And perusing tinder in sf hasn’t painted a great picture either.
So I won’t see any smoke shows at the union street equinox doing morning yoga (that’s aren’t ruined by arm tats or gross septum rings or similarly weird shit).
At least fucking Vegas is just an hour away |
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Date: February 4th, 2018 9:02 PM Author: Soul-stirring Blathering Boistinker post MBA? planning to stay in banking? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35323711) |
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Date: February 4th, 2018 9:07 PM Author: brindle site no mba but yeah post grad. I’m resigned to being a lifelong banker but could absolutely see myself doing VC or business development at a fintech company later on (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3867801&forum_id=2#35323803) |