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Should I feel bad about taking my full 3-month paternity leave?

company has a 3-month policy that matches maternity and pate...
aquamarine cumskin dog poop
  02/20/18
fuck yeah
Metal cobalt roast beef market
  02/20/18
fuck yeah i should feel bad?
aquamarine cumskin dog poop
  02/20/18
no fuck yeah you should take the full amount
Metal cobalt roast beef market
  02/20/18
...
aquamarine cumskin dog poop
  02/20/18
do u actually have a kid?
Pearly Sanctuary
  02/20/18
lol yeah
aquamarine cumskin dog poop
  02/20/18
doesn't have to actually be his
talented abnormal regret
  02/20/18
how long before shrews demand "peternity" leave
spruce state
  02/20/18
Moar like “eternity leave”
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  02/20/18
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Big crusty cuckold menage
  02/21/18
do you have to be married or can you match some other chick'...
Salmon Pozpig International Law Enforcement Agency
  02/20/18
i'm not sure tbh.
aquamarine cumskin dog poop
  02/20/18
firm-wide email.
Salmon Pozpig International Law Enforcement Agency
  02/20/18
you should only feel bad if you fail to take advantage of th...
Mind-boggling chrome azn
  02/20/18
ty bro. i just get anxious about being fired.
aquamarine cumskin dog poop
  02/20/18
i'm not sure i can help with that, just with whatever moral ...
Mind-boggling chrome azn
  02/20/18
You mean you get anxious about the future FMLA lawsuit payda...
talking goal in life
  02/20/18
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out-of-control internet-worthy boltzmann station
  02/20/18
what's the grace period after i come back
aquamarine cumskin dog poop
  02/20/18
However long you can credibly claim they retaliated against ...
talking goal in life
  02/21/18
good to know friend, ty
aquamarine cumskin dog poop
  02/21/18
Fuck. This has happened to me twice now. I would pay to see ...
Free-loading fishy site cuckoldry
  02/21/18
Relevant to my interests.
Free-loading fishy site cuckoldry
  02/20/18
State your IQ if you have to ask this question?
Supple garnet cuck
  02/20/18
prob 110-120 tbh, not that high.
aquamarine cumskin dog poop
  02/20/18
of course not. America 2018 is a complete $mash&grab
Beady-eyed green center
  02/20/18
cr. use this time off to find an even better job for more...
gold base coffee pot
  02/20/18
spin, ratfucks
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  02/20/18
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  02/20/18
You’re fucking insane if u don’t do this. Holy shit.
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  02/20/18
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aquamarine cumskin dog poop
  02/20/18
I took two months and got immediately fucked when I got back
Free-loading fishy site cuckoldry
  02/20/18
fucked how?
aquamarine cumskin dog poop
  02/20/18
Director decided I was under utilized. My boss is retiring a...
Free-loading fishy site cuckoldry
  02/20/18
What kind of shit job do you have where you get "writt...
blue jet-lagged weed whacker theatre
  02/20/18
Standard govt. That's not the terminology they use but same ...
Free-loading fishy site cuckoldry
  02/20/18
honestly if you don't think you'll be there much longer, you...
kink-friendly dingle berry
  02/20/18
hehe
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  02/20/18
lol @ this good little goy wagecuck feeling guilty he's taki...
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  02/20/18
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  02/20/18
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  02/22/18
UPDATE: got a job offer today, pay is $7k higher than curren...
aquamarine cumskin dog poop
  02/21/18
I wouldn’t. Sounds objectively worse. The 7k sounds ins...
Aromatic aggressive stead kitty cat
  02/21/18
current base is 110, this is 117. assume 15% bonus for both....
aquamarine cumskin dog poop
  02/21/18
I would gladly give up 7k for an additional 2 weeks vacation...
Aromatic aggressive stead kitty cat
  02/21/18
Toss up on vacation. Direct reports for sure are not worth 7...
Free-loading fishy site cuckoldry
  02/21/18
Yes
Free-loading fishy site cuckoldry
  02/21/18
expound pls
aquamarine cumskin dog poop
  02/21/18
Better setup. Direct reports opens entirely new field of po...
Free-loading fishy site cuckoldry
  02/21/18
we will have 1-3 more kids. i've had direct reports in the p...
aquamarine cumskin dog poop
  02/21/18
no, that sounds worse in all respects. can you negotiate wo...
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  02/21/18
absolutely not. but i've reached the end of the rope at curr...
aquamarine cumskin dog poop
  02/21/18
need more opinions please.
aquamarine cumskin dog poop
  02/21/18
20 minutes one way? Take it, but don't give your boss 2 w...
gold base coffee pot
  02/21/18
terrible idea.
aquamarine cumskin dog poop
  02/21/18
?
gold base coffee pot
  02/22/18
they are insistent on the start date? that's lame. id try to...
glittery tank
  02/22/18
starting a new job when u have a 2 month old at home isn't i...
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  02/22/18
hell no you shouldn't feel bad. i'm taking like 2, maybe 3 w...
Bat-shit-crazy motley hospital nowag
  02/21/18
You owe a corporation nothing. HTH!
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  02/21/18
...
gold base coffee pot
  02/21/18
What would GC do?
appetizing purple senate
  02/22/18
It will definitely be held against you. If you plan on leav...
glittery tank
  02/22/18
do you feel bad about cashing your full paycheck?
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  02/22/18
cr analogy
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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:52 PM
Author: aquamarine cumskin dog poop

company has a 3-month policy that matches maternity and paternity. i took 6 weeks to start. i'm 4.5 weeks in, but chatting with my boss tomorrow. thinking about taking the full time.

i don't see much of a future at this job, should i just yolo?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447233)



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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:52 PM
Author: Metal cobalt roast beef market

fuck yeah

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447235)



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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: aquamarine cumskin dog poop

fuck yeah i should feel bad?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447242)



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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:56 PM
Author: Metal cobalt roast beef market

no fuck yeah you should take the full amount

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447264)



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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:56 PM
Author: aquamarine cumskin dog poop



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447266)



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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: Pearly Sanctuary

do u actually have a kid?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447238)



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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: aquamarine cumskin dog poop

lol yeah

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447239)



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Date: February 20th, 2018 6:08 PM
Author: talented abnormal regret

doesn't have to actually be his

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447360)



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Date: February 20th, 2018 6:12 PM
Author: spruce state

how long before shrews demand "peternity" leave

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447390)



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Date: February 20th, 2018 7:03 PM
Author: Aromatic aggressive stead kitty cat

Moar like “eternity leave”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447724)



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Date: February 21st, 2018 6:17 PM
Author: unhinged iridescent gas station



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35455357)



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Date: February 21st, 2018 7:38 PM
Author: Big crusty cuckold menage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35455850)



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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:54 PM
Author: Salmon Pozpig International Law Enforcement Agency

do you have to be married or can you match some other chick's maternity if you make a "good faith argument why you feel that you're the father."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447245)



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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:54 PM
Author: aquamarine cumskin dog poop

i'm not sure tbh.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447246)



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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: Salmon Pozpig International Law Enforcement Agency

firm-wide email.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447255)



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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:54 PM
Author: Mind-boggling chrome azn

you should only feel bad if you fail to take advantage of the full 3 months plus whatever other extra time you can convince your employer is necessary

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447248)



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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: aquamarine cumskin dog poop

ty bro. i just get anxious about being fired.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447257)



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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: Mind-boggling chrome azn

i'm not sure i can help with that, just with whatever moral qualms you might have about lying to your employer even knowing your employer will gladly fuck you over for profit with no qualms

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447278)



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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: talking goal in life

You mean you get anxious about the future FMLA lawsuit payday you might get?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447281)



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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:59 PM
Author: out-of-control internet-worthy boltzmann station



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447293)



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Date: February 20th, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: aquamarine cumskin dog poop

what's the grace period after i come back

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447303)



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Date: February 21st, 2018 5:01 PM
Author: talking goal in life

However long you can credibly claim they retaliated against you for taking your leave. Obviously settlement value goes down with each passing day and there is probably a point at which it is just too attenuated, especially if you fuck up post-leave. But LJL at them if they think your shitlawyer isn't going to get all your bosses and coworkers emails about you and comb through all of them for evidence that people were upset about your leave.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35454770)



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Date: February 21st, 2018 5:02 PM
Author: aquamarine cumskin dog poop

good to know friend, ty

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35454776)



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Date: February 21st, 2018 5:06 PM
Author: Free-loading fishy site cuckoldry

Fuck. This has happened to me twice now. I would pay to see the emails my worthless shrew boss has sent. HR guy randomly told me L&I claims have a 3 year window.

That said, seems bitchmade.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35454805)



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Date: February 20th, 2018 6:09 PM
Author: Free-loading fishy site cuckoldry

Relevant to my interests.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447365)



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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: Supple garnet cuck

State your IQ if you have to ask this question?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447251)



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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:56 PM
Author: aquamarine cumskin dog poop

prob 110-120 tbh, not that high.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447259)



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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:58 PM
Author: Beady-eyed green center

of course not. America 2018 is a complete $mash&grab

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447282)



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Date: February 20th, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: gold base coffee pot

cr.

use this time off to find an even better job for more money and fuck your boss and coworkers in the ass

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447307)



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Date: February 20th, 2018 6:04 PM
Author: saffron patrolman therapy

spin, ratfucks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447339)



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Date: February 20th, 2018 7:03 PM
Author: passionate pale degenerate tanning salon



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447729)



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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:59 PM
Author: Opaque Famous Landscape Painting Abode

You’re fucking insane if u don’t do this. Holy shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447290)



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Date: February 20th, 2018 6:03 PM
Author: aquamarine cumskin dog poop



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447326)



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Date: February 20th, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: Free-loading fishy site cuckoldry

I took two months and got immediately fucked when I got back

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447296)



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Date: February 20th, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: aquamarine cumskin dog poop

fucked how?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447301)



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Date: February 20th, 2018 6:04 PM
Author: Free-loading fishy site cuckoldry

Director decided I was under utilized. My boss is retiring and they gave me all of his job responsibilities (no raise or anything). Announced this to me the week I returned.

Not flame I filed a complaint. They pulled similar shit last time, writing me up my 4th day back. I work with all shrews.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447342)



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Date: February 20th, 2018 6:10 PM
Author: blue jet-lagged weed whacker theatre

What kind of shit job do you have where you get "written up"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447372)



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Date: February 20th, 2018 6:11 PM
Author: Free-loading fishy site cuckoldry

Standard govt. That's not the terminology they use but same dif.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447381)



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Date: February 20th, 2018 6:45 PM
Author: kink-friendly dingle berry

honestly if you don't think you'll be there much longer, you should take the full amount, and also use all of your benefit time every year including sick time. this might affect your chances for promotion, but a big company like this isn't going to fire you for using all of your 'benefit time.'

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447609)



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Date: February 20th, 2018 6:45 PM
Author: french dashing water buffalo incel

hehe

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447612)



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Date: February 20th, 2018 7:05 PM
Author: Vibrant fuchsia hall partner

lol @ this good little goy wagecuck feeling guilty he's taking the full amount of what he was offered by his (((GC))) (((masters))) who would can his ass at a moment's notice if it suited them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447738)



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Date: February 20th, 2018 7:49 PM
Author: gold base coffee pot



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35448021)



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Date: February 22nd, 2018 1:26 AM
Author: Vigorous massive cruise ship



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35458681)



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Date: February 21st, 2018 4:53 PM
Author: aquamarine cumskin dog poop

UPDATE: got a job offer today, pay is $7k higher than current job, benefits are worse (2 week vacation instead of 4, no match for 1 year instead of 4% at current), but position has better exit options, commute is shorter by about 20 minutes, and unlike current (no direct reports), i will have two. however, if i accept, i need to cut short my paternity at 6 weeks, give my two week notice, and start. take it?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35454689)



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Date: February 21st, 2018 4:55 PM
Author: Aromatic aggressive stead kitty cat

I wouldn’t. Sounds objectively worse.

The 7k sounds insignificant, unless you make like 50k

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35454712)



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Date: February 21st, 2018 4:58 PM
Author: aquamarine cumskin dog poop

current base is 110, this is 117. assume 15% bonus for both.

yeah it's very hard to give a shit about new job great first impressions, i will have to likely work my ass off for the next 3-6 months and all i'll have to show for it is a couple hundred dollars per paycheck (if that?), worse benefits, less vacation, etc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35454743)



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Date: February 21st, 2018 5:02 PM
Author: Aromatic aggressive stead kitty cat

I would gladly give up 7k for an additional 2 weeks vacation and no directs. Would weigh on the exit options.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35454782)



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Date: February 21st, 2018 5:08 PM
Author: Free-loading fishy site cuckoldry

Toss up on vacation. Direct reports for sure are not worth 7k but it's a great resume item. I'd give up a couple weeks to save 20 mins a day though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35454823)



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Date: February 21st, 2018 4:55 PM
Author: Free-loading fishy site cuckoldry

Yes

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35454717)



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Date: February 21st, 2018 5:00 PM
Author: aquamarine cumskin dog poop

expound pls

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35454766)



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Date: February 21st, 2018 5:04 PM
Author: Free-loading fishy site cuckoldry

Better setup. Direct reports opens entirely new field of positions. 20 Mins per day easily makes up for a couple weeks vacation. More money.

Transitions suck. Having direct reports will suck. What's the new environment? That's probably the biggest factor.

Don't even consider the paternity leave (unless you plan on having lots more kids)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35454792)



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Date: February 21st, 2018 5:17 PM
Author: aquamarine cumskin dog poop

we will have 1-3 more kids. i've had direct reports in the past. doesn't that dilute the value this time?

the environment is more stuffy and corporate (but overall collegial) i'd say. current company is 3-6 years old but relatively prestigious.

the commute admittedly is a big draw especially because wife's job is 10 minutes away from this new company and we might consider moving to that area.

however, lately, we've been thinking about risking it all and moving abroad, which makes me question whether i need to rock the boat at all right now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35454901)



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Date: February 21st, 2018 4:58 PM
Author: Up-to-no-good bat shit crazy black woman address

no, that sounds worse in all respects. can you negotiate work from home?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35454738)



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Date: February 21st, 2018 5:00 PM
Author: aquamarine cumskin dog poop

absolutely not. but i've reached the end of the rope at current job, with no hopes for promotion. would you say it's better to ride out my paternity and leave a few months later? job searching is scary, i suck at getting interviews but i'm at A++++ interview once they meet me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35454763)



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Date: February 21st, 2018 5:30 PM
Author: aquamarine cumskin dog poop

need more opinions please.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35455016)



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Date: February 21st, 2018 7:35 PM
Author: gold base coffee pot

20 minutes one way?

Take it, but don't give your boss 2 weeks notice, just continue vacationing then leave.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35455809)



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Date: February 21st, 2018 9:55 PM
Author: aquamarine cumskin dog poop

terrible idea.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35457086)



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Date: February 22nd, 2018 1:42 AM
Author: gold base coffee pot

?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35458756)



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Date: February 22nd, 2018 1:48 AM
Author: glittery tank

they are insistent on the start date? that's lame. id try to push back on that a little.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35458779)



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Date: February 22nd, 2018 3:33 PM
Author: insane lake mexican sex offender

starting a new job when u have a 2 month old at home isn't ideal. better to coast on ur reputation at current job for another 6-12 months then find a new role.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35462500)



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Date: February 21st, 2018 4:56 PM
Author: Bat-shit-crazy motley hospital nowag

hell no you shouldn't feel bad. i'm taking like 2, maybe 3 weeks from biglaw for babby 2 this summer. and my wife is having a c section.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35454727)



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Date: February 21st, 2018 4:59 PM
Author: Misanthropic filthy pisswyrm meetinghouse

You owe a corporation nothing. HTH!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35454746)



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Date: February 21st, 2018 7:35 PM
Author: gold base coffee pot



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35455812)



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Date: February 22nd, 2018 1:24 AM
Author: appetizing purple senate

What would GC do?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35458670)



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Date: February 22nd, 2018 1:45 AM
Author: glittery tank

It will definitely be held against you. If you plan on leaving soon yes absolutely take it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35458768)



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Date: February 22nd, 2018 3:06 PM
Author: bronze bateful locale mediation

do you feel bad about cashing your full paycheck?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35462298)



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Date: February 22nd, 2018 3:13 PM
Author: low-t tantric temple new version

cr analogy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35462355)



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Date: February 22nd, 2018 3:10 PM
Author: Geriatric newt foreskin

I just saw what guys ahead of me were doing and followed suit, which was 1-2 weeks per pregnancy. What is actually customary at your job?

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