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Should I feel bad about taking my full 3-month paternity leave?
| Adventurous Embarrassed To The Bone Hissy Fit | 02/20/18 |
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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:52 PM Author: Adventurous Embarrassed To The Bone Hissy Fit company has a 3-month policy that matches maternity and paternity. i took 6 weeks to start. i'm 4.5 weeks in, but chatting with my boss tomorrow. thinking about taking the full time.
i don't see much of a future at this job, should i just yolo? |
Date: February 20th, 2018 5:52 PM Author: bespoke rigor fuck yeah (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447235) |
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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:53 PM Author: Adventurous Embarrassed To The Bone Hissy Fit fuck yeah i should feel bad? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447242) |
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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:56 PM Author: bespoke rigor no fuck yeah you should take the full amount (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447264) |
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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:56 PM Author: Adventurous Embarrassed To The Bone Hissy Fit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447266) |
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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:53 PM Author: Translucent aphrodisiac principal's office do u actually have a kid? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447238) |
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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:53 PM Author: Adventurous Embarrassed To The Bone Hissy Fit lol yeah (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447239) |
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Date: February 20th, 2018 6:08 PM Author: cerebral theater doesn't have to actually be his (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447360) |
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Date: February 20th, 2018 6:12 PM Author: At-the-ready Irate Deer Antler Parlour how long before shrews demand "peternity" leave (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447390) |
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Date: February 20th, 2018 7:03 PM Author: aqua library Moar like “eternity leave” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447724) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 6:17 PM Author: cordovan apoplectic heaven (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35455357) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 7:38 PM Author: fishy cheese-eating goal in life (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35455850) |
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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:54 PM Author: deranged chapel do you have to be married or can you match some other chick's maternity if you make a "good faith argument why you feel that you're the father." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447245) |
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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:54 PM Author: Adventurous Embarrassed To The Bone Hissy Fit i'm not sure tbh. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447246) |
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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:55 PM Author: deranged chapel firm-wide email. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447255) |
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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:54 PM Author: Odious Mahogany Striped Hyena Temple you should only feel bad if you fail to take advantage of the full 3 months plus whatever other extra time you can convince your employer is necessary (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447248) |
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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:55 PM Author: Adventurous Embarrassed To The Bone Hissy Fit ty bro. i just get anxious about being fired. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447257) |
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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:57 PM Author: Odious Mahogany Striped Hyena Temple i'm not sure i can help with that, just with whatever moral qualms you might have about lying to your employer even knowing your employer will gladly fuck you over for profit with no qualms (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447278) |
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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:57 PM Author: Curious Wrinkle You mean you get anxious about the future FMLA lawsuit payday you might get? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447281) |
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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:59 PM Author: aromatic house (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447293) |
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Date: February 20th, 2018 6:00 PM Author: Adventurous Embarrassed To The Bone Hissy Fit what's the grace period after i come back (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447303) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 5:01 PM Author: Curious Wrinkle However long you can credibly claim they retaliated against you for taking your leave. Obviously settlement value goes down with each passing day and there is probably a point at which it is just too attenuated, especially if you fuck up post-leave. But LJL at them if they think your shitlawyer isn't going to get all your bosses and coworkers emails about you and comb through all of them for evidence that people were upset about your leave. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35454770) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 5:02 PM Author: Adventurous Embarrassed To The Bone Hissy Fit good to know friend, ty (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35454776) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 5:06 PM Author: obsidian multi-colored set psychic Fuck. This has happened to me twice now. I would pay to see the emails my worthless shrew boss has sent. HR guy randomly told me L&I claims have a 3 year window.
That said, seems bitchmade. |
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Date: February 20th, 2018 6:09 PM Author: obsidian multi-colored set psychic Relevant to my interests. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447365) |
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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:55 PM Author: autistic crotch State your IQ if you have to ask this question? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447251) |
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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:56 PM Author: Adventurous Embarrassed To The Bone Hissy Fit prob 110-120 tbh, not that high. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447259) |
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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:58 PM Author: Turquoise frozen meetinghouse ape of course not. America 2018 is a complete $mash&grab (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447282) |
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Date: February 20th, 2018 6:01 PM Author: Maize stage selfie cr.
use this time off to find an even better job for more money and fuck your boss and coworkers in the ass |
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Date: February 20th, 2018 6:04 PM Author: cruel-hearted cracking point famous landscape painting spin, ratfucks (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447339) |
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Date: February 20th, 2018 7:03 PM Author: Vigorous jet mood regret (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447729) |
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Date: February 20th, 2018 5:59 PM Author: Bright razzle-dazzle stag film fat ankles You’re fucking insane if u don’t do this. Holy shit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447290) |
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Date: February 20th, 2018 6:03 PM Author: Adventurous Embarrassed To The Bone Hissy Fit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447326) |
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Date: February 20th, 2018 6:00 PM Author: obsidian multi-colored set psychic I took two months and got immediately fucked when I got back (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447296) |
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Date: February 20th, 2018 6:00 PM Author: Adventurous Embarrassed To The Bone Hissy Fit fucked how? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447301) |
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Date: February 20th, 2018 6:04 PM Author: obsidian multi-colored set psychic Director decided I was under utilized. My boss is retiring and they gave me all of his job responsibilities (no raise or anything). Announced this to me the week I returned.
Not flame I filed a complaint. They pulled similar shit last time, writing me up my 4th day back. I work with all shrews. |
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Date: February 20th, 2018 6:10 PM Author: White 180 public bath gaming laptop What kind of shit job do you have where you get "written up" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447372) |
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Date: February 20th, 2018 6:11 PM Author: obsidian multi-colored set psychic Standard govt. That's not the terminology they use but same dif. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447381) |
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Date: February 20th, 2018 6:45 PM Author: Diverse rusted kitty cat honestly if you don't think you'll be there much longer, you should take the full amount, and also use all of your benefit time every year including sick time. this might affect your chances for promotion, but a big company like this isn't going to fire you for using all of your 'benefit time.' (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447609) |
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Date: February 20th, 2018 6:45 PM Author: stirring reading party shrine hehe (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447612) |
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Date: February 20th, 2018 7:05 PM Author: aquamarine useless brakes lol @ this good little goy wagecuck feeling guilty he's taking the full amount of what he was offered by his (((GC))) (((masters))) who would can his ass at a moment's notice if it suited them (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35447738) |
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Date: February 20th, 2018 7:49 PM Author: Maize stage selfie (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35448021) |
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Date: February 22nd, 2018 1:26 AM Author: Nighttime cuckoldry school (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35458681) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 4:53 PM Author: Adventurous Embarrassed To The Bone Hissy Fit UPDATE: got a job offer today, pay is $7k higher than current job, benefits are worse (2 week vacation instead of 4, no match for 1 year instead of 4% at current), but position has better exit options, commute is shorter by about 20 minutes, and unlike current (no direct reports), i will have two. however, if i accept, i need to cut short my paternity at 6 weeks, give my two week notice, and start. take it? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35454689) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 4:55 PM Author: aqua library I wouldn’t. Sounds objectively worse.
The 7k sounds insignificant, unless you make like 50k |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 4:58 PM Author: Adventurous Embarrassed To The Bone Hissy Fit current base is 110, this is 117. assume 15% bonus for both.
yeah it's very hard to give a shit about new job great first impressions, i will have to likely work my ass off for the next 3-6 months and all i'll have to show for it is a couple hundred dollars per paycheck (if that?), worse benefits, less vacation, etc. |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 5:02 PM Author: aqua library I would gladly give up 7k for an additional 2 weeks vacation and no directs. Would weigh on the exit options. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35454782) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 5:08 PM Author: obsidian multi-colored set psychic Toss up on vacation. Direct reports for sure are not worth 7k but it's a great resume item. I'd give up a couple weeks to save 20 mins a day though. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35454823) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 4:55 PM Author: obsidian multi-colored set psychic Yes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35454717) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 5:00 PM Author: Adventurous Embarrassed To The Bone Hissy Fit expound pls (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35454766) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 5:04 PM Author: obsidian multi-colored set psychic Better setup. Direct reports opens entirely new field of positions. 20 Mins per day easily makes up for a couple weeks vacation. More money.
Transitions suck. Having direct reports will suck. What's the new environment? That's probably the biggest factor.
Don't even consider the paternity leave (unless you plan on having lots more kids) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 5:17 PM Author: Adventurous Embarrassed To The Bone Hissy Fit we will have 1-3 more kids. i've had direct reports in the past. doesn't that dilute the value this time?
the environment is more stuffy and corporate (but overall collegial) i'd say. current company is 3-6 years old but relatively prestigious.
the commute admittedly is a big draw especially because wife's job is 10 minutes away from this new company and we might consider moving to that area.
however, lately, we've been thinking about risking it all and moving abroad, which makes me question whether i need to rock the boat at all right now. |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 4:58 PM Author: smoky charismatic brethren parlor no, that sounds worse in all respects. can you negotiate work from home? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35454738) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 5:00 PM Author: Adventurous Embarrassed To The Bone Hissy Fit absolutely not. but i've reached the end of the rope at current job, with no hopes for promotion. would you say it's better to ride out my paternity and leave a few months later? job searching is scary, i suck at getting interviews but i'm at A++++ interview once they meet me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35454763) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 5:30 PM Author: Adventurous Embarrassed To The Bone Hissy Fit need more opinions please. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35455016) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 7:35 PM Author: Maize stage selfie 20 minutes one way?
Take it, but don't give your boss 2 weeks notice, just continue vacationing then leave. |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 9:55 PM Author: Adventurous Embarrassed To The Bone Hissy Fit terrible idea. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35457086) |
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Date: February 22nd, 2018 1:42 AM Author: Maize stage selfie ? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35458756) |
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Date: February 22nd, 2018 1:48 AM Author: Free-loading rehab they are insistent on the start date? that's lame. id try to push back on that a little. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35458779) |
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Date: February 22nd, 2018 3:33 PM Author: hairless sanctuary starting a new job when u have a 2 month old at home isn't ideal. better to coast on ur reputation at current job for another 6-12 months then find a new role. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35462500) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 4:56 PM Author: laughsome ultramarine milk hell no you shouldn't feel bad. i'm taking like 2, maybe 3 weeks from biglaw for babby 2 this summer. and my wife is having a c section. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35454727) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 4:59 PM Author: pearly therapy immigrant You owe a corporation nothing. HTH! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35454746) |
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Date: February 21st, 2018 7:35 PM Author: Maize stage selfie (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35455812) |
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Date: February 22nd, 2018 1:24 AM Author: chest-beating crackhouse genital piercing What would GC do? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35458670) |
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Date: February 22nd, 2018 1:45 AM Author: Free-loading rehab It will definitely be held against you. If you plan on leaving soon yes absolutely take it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35458768) |
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Date: February 22nd, 2018 3:06 PM Author: Talented marketing idea do you feel bad about cashing your full paycheck? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35462298) |
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Date: February 22nd, 2018 3:13 PM Author: Appetizing ungodly clown cr analogy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35462355) |
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Date: February 22nd, 2018 3:10 PM Author: House-broken swashbuckling boistinker I just saw what guys ahead of me were doing and followed suit, which was 1-2 weeks per pregnancy. What is actually customary at your job? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3898742&forum_id=2#35462325) |