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Date: March 4th, 2018 9:32 PM Author: Snowy contagious coffee pot Have 2 month old child. Constant fights, everyday. Lots of hurtful things said by both sides. Don’t think it’s salvageable. One of the first things I’ve done in this room is download a dating app. Sad, scared, excited — all accurate emotions right now. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535240) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 11:39 PM Author: irate arrogant theater lmfao that first year all couples fight like there's no tomorrow you're sleep deprived, super stressed, both having to give up a lot of the shit that kept you happy before babby bc now no time, she's megahormonal, and the baby cries so loud that you have to yell just to be heard (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35536080) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 11:41 PM Author: Snowy contagious coffee pot Is it really that common? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35536101) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 11:54 PM Author: Mahogany milk foreskin I've heard it is almost universal. Sleep deprivation + hormones + financial strain + new person in your family + no (or little) sex = fights (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35536185) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 11:54 PM Author: fragrant disturbing spot pistol spin, ratfucks (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35536191) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 12:21 PM Author: Hairraiser garrison tank is there no time for sex? what's the issue? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35538749) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 5:29 PM Author: Mahogany milk foreskin - Immediately after birth you're not supposed to have sex for a while. Her body is generally fucked up.
- Newborns wake up every few hours crying, so sleep deprivation is a given. You're probably still working. So your schedule is sleep --> work --> home --> kid (she is exhausted and needs a break at this point) --> sleep.
- Often there are other family members showing up which adds to stress (though, they sometimes help too) and also adds to the fact that there's little alone time.
- Financial strain = stress.
The combination of all of that means that sex basically disappears for a long time.
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Date: March 5th, 2018 5:41 PM Author: Snowy contagious coffee pot You forgot the biggest one: pregnancy weight-gain is real. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35541209) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 5:55 PM Author: Mahogany milk foreskin I put this under "Her body is generally fucked up." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35541267) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 10:36 AM Author: sepia sanctuary telephone Yes brother. Your child needs you to suck it up and get through this. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35538088) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 12:18 PM Author: Diverse Copper Striped Hyena Piazza (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35538729) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 12:19 PM Author: aromatic khaki university halford this is not my experience (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35538735) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 12:24 PM Author: Mahogany milk foreskin What is your experience? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35538767) |
Date: March 4th, 2018 9:34 PM Author: Cracking Tantric School Wagecucks lmao, first thing you do is download an app? problem is you, brah (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535251) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 9:35 PM Author: Snowy contagious coffee pot Probably, or some combination of both of us. Not attracted to her anymore. Feeling is probably mutual. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535265) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 10:21 AM Author: Massive Ruddy Codepig (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35538014) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 9:35 PM Author: Mahogany milk foreskin Bro, you have a two-month-old kid. That is always shit and stressful on any relationship. Don't blow up your marriage because of this.
If you just aren't getting laid and just need some strange then fuck some escort, never tell your wife, go home to your family and keep trying to salvage it. If your kid is 3 and everything still sucks ass then sure, you can move on then. But 2 months isn't a place where it is reasonable to bail. |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 9:35 PM Author: avocado house-broken place of business house (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535263) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 9:40 PM Author: Snowy contagious coffee pot It’s a lot more than not getting laid. I frankly don’t care too much about that.
I worry about the child, a lot. But deep down inside I think we both know we’re only together anymore because of my daughter. And she doesn’t deserve this, just like we don’t deserve to live with someone that doesn’t make us happy.
Things aren’t just tough now, they’ve been so for several months.
But today was the first real big step. So I’m sure we’ll keep trying. |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 9:44 PM Author: Clear black woman potus Do something major that you can 100% control to change your life for the better.
This will have a ripple effect on your marriage and other aspects of your life. |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 9:44 PM Author: Mahogany milk foreskin Several months? So in other words, while your wife was moody and pregnant and post-partum? Don't be a POS and commit yourself to trying to make this work. And stop thinking in Eat, Pray, Love "I DESERVE" and "SHE DESERVES" concepts. You just had a kid and life was inevitably going to turn to shit for a while.
If you need to move into separate rooms so each can take turns sleeping and taking care of the kid then fine.
If you need to do whatever to blow off steam, fine.
But then come home and try to be a decent person to your wife and your kid. Yeah, it is hard sometimes and occasionally you'll fail, but at least you won't be the complete asshole that abandoned your wife and newborn as soon as the going got a bit tough. |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 9:48 PM Author: concupiscible learning disabled home travel guidebook cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535357) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 9:53 PM Author: Snowy contagious coffee pot That’s essentially where I’m at. No plans of abandoning kid, with or without her. Will fight to stay together and be decent to her. Fight ended about 2 hours ago so I’m in the blowing off steam phase.
Thanks fish. |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 10:02 PM Author: Mahogany milk foreskin Yw. Just try and keep things in perspective. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535467) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 10:30 PM Author: Exciting hell preventive strike this^this you had a child. re-evaluate in 5 years. I know it sucks because, I and half the other brehs here, have been there before. don't "Eat Pray Love" your way out. tough it out and be a man. Trust me, you'll be happier for it. |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 10:32 PM Author: slap-happy translucent sex offender (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535674) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 10:00 AM Author: Poppy incel 100% cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35537879) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 10:01 AM Author: Diverse Copper Striped Hyena Piazza CR. And don't listen to your parents if they are fucking boomer idiots on the topic. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35537886) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:13 AM Author: underhanded knife school cafeteria (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35538315) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 9:44 PM Author: demanding grizzly ratface So you're saying things have been tough during the latter stage of pregnancy and the first two months of having a kid? You don't say! You won't know if this is forever until things shake out (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535331) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 10:17 AM Author: ungodly metal famous landscape painting hospital actually, you baby boomer horseshitting fuckwit, what your baby doesnt deserve is to not have a family because her parents wanted to eat, pray, love AFTER bringing a child into the world.
the evidence is UNEQUIVOCAL that divorce is a disaster for children. full stop. there is no such thing as "it would be better for the kids than the parents having a less than perfect marriage." nope. it's literally the opposite of that you dumb fuck, as is perfectly clear to anyone who isn't batshit insane and has been proved by every single study.
Let me be perfectly clear: YOU ARE NOT ALLOWED to argue your selfish choice is in the best interests of your child, you sick fuck. At long last, have you no decency?
You are not owed a perfect married life, faggot. That was your responsibility to lock down before you reproduced. your children are owed a home and family with their married parents.
ISHTH you disgusting cumchugging septic queer masquerading as a "man" and "father." |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 10:29 AM Author: mischievous pearly gaming laptop double fault GOD WILLS IT! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35538052) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 10:48 AM Author: tan supple stage Now that’s a screed (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35538175) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:31 AM Author: Mahogany milk foreskin (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35538426) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:32 AM Author: Kink-friendly violent fanboi This post was written to be spoken out loud like this: https://youtu.be/zH_ZryBfCtU?t=43 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35538430) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 12:14 PM Author: Internet-worthy idea he suggested dingle berry Completely unhinged. And Completely accurate. GOTT MIT UNS! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35538716) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 3:41 PM Author: Snowy contagious coffee pot sorry your parents divorced, bro
but that's not the reason you're broken |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 4:54 PM Author: buff national mood oh snap that man has a family! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35540859) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 6:41 PM Author: french trip boistinker (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35541522) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:18 AM Author: onyx people who are hurt locus your spouse is not supposed to be the person who makes you happy. the abandonment of arranged marriages has been a disaster for the white race. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35538336) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:32 AM Author: Mahogany milk foreskin I disagree with this EXCEPT when it comes to newborn babies. Nothing will make you happy at that time. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35538429) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:12 AM Author: underhanded knife school cafeteria (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35538300) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 9:35 PM Author: Arousing henna base toilet seat Sleeping apart was what people did for generations before modern sitcom tv taught couples to sleep in same beds (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535262) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 9:41 PM Author: fragrant disturbing spot pistol spin, ratfucks (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535302) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 9:44 PM Author: Arousing henna base toilet seat No. Look at old black and white movies (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535321) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 9:47 PM Author: fragrant disturbing spot pistol spin, ratfucks (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535343) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 9:51 PM Author: french trip boistinker That's probably not representative. Peasants throughout history slept in tiny shacks, lol at them having two beds (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535383) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 10:34 PM Author: Exhilarant Locale A double bed And a stalwart lover for sure These are the riches of the poor |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 11:27 PM Author: Opaque vengeful orchestra pit that was just to refra8n from suggesting sex on tv. in reality everyone shared beds. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535999) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 12:07 AM Author: Mahogany milk foreskin (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35536255) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 12:21 PM Author: Blue cerebral principal's office That was because of conservative cultural mores. LOL @ you thinking that was real. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35538751) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 9:36 PM Author: elite macaca Give it time. Not a marriagemo or kidmo, but everything I've seen tells me that things can be really haywire the first few months after childbirth. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535271) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 9:41 PM Author: Snowy contagious coffee pot Thanks. I hope you’re right. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535301) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 9:42 PM Author: Flushed Swashbuckling Kitty cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535313) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 9:37 PM Author: Erotic cruise ship community account who's the guy who just had a kid? Dr. Thunder? Is this yoU?
in any case OP you sound totally pathetic. Saying hurtful things and becoming unattractive are not things a man should do |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 9:40 PM Author: spruce wonderful ticket booth Dr. Thunder and Muscadine Wine and both in the same boat with this dood. Could be something about xo poasters (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535295) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 9:40 PM Author: elite macaca We weren't meant to breed. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535299) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 9:50 PM Author: Mahogany milk foreskin (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535377) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 5:20 PM Author: seedy party of the first part crackhouse Yeah, we are married to awful women (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35541072) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:16 AM Author: passionate lodge oh jesus christ no.
not sure whom your're mixing me up with, but it's nice to know I'm categorized among the fungible in your "totally pathetic" box. |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 7:21 PM Author: seedy party of the first part crackhouse Pretty sure this is a Thunder Collins/Dr. Thunder mix up and I am in the totally pathetic box (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35541756) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 9:41 PM Author: Know-it-all mental disorder church Selfish (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535304) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 9:42 PM Author: curious gas station wrinkle These are very un-Soviet problems. I suggest hitting your wife. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535314) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 9:45 PM Author: concupiscible learning disabled home travel guidebook how long have you been together?
how long have you been fighting? |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 9:50 PM Author: Snowy contagious coffee pot Together almost 2 years. She checked the right boxes and made my family happy, just as I’m sure I did for her. Knew in the back of my mind that we weren’t compatible in several ways (intellectually, different senses of humor, I’ve dated more attractive women, etc) but married her anyway. Kid was an accident very early on in our marriage. Didnt consider aborting as we loved each other then, so soon into the marriage.
Several big fights for the last 6-8 months. |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 9:54 PM Author: fragrant disturbing spot pistol spin, ratfucks (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535407) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 10:03 PM Author: domesticated sapphire mediation den why did you settle (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535471) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 12:21 PM Author: Mahogany milk foreskin I'm guessing "it was time to get married and she checked the boxes." Which is a horrible way to get married. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35538750) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 10:06 PM Author: concupiscible learning disabled home travel guidebook you realize that humans are genetically programmed to fall in love for 2 years then the excitement is basically over, right? it's literally a 2 year time period give or take a few months. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535481) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 10:09 PM Author: fragrant disturbing spot pistol spin, ratfucks (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535510) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 10:19 PM Author: Mahogany milk foreskin I mean, that is when the "new relationship" feeling wears off, but if you actually value each other that gets replaced by a more sustainable kind of love anyway. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535587) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 11:33 PM Author: honey-headed razzmatazz range I can feel myself going down this exact same road.
We tick each other's boxes, find each other reasonably attractive, both make good money, etc, but aren't super compatible personality-wise.
I assumed having a kid eventually would bring us closer but this thread is making me second-guess that idea... |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 10:37 AM Author: mischievous pearly gaming laptop double fault Just give yourself a chance to love her man. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35538095) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 12:13 PM Author: honey-headed razzmatazz range (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35538707) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 12:22 PM Author: Mahogany milk foreskin "but aren't super compatible personality-wise."
This is awful since this is one of the most important things. |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 11:40 PM Author: Rusted cumskin 2 years? So you barely know each other... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35536086) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 9:48 PM Author: Lascivious Plum Hall whats the source of conflict? dont tell me you guys dont "love" each other any more. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535352) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 9:48 PM Author: Flushed Swashbuckling Kitty You have a newborn baby. that seems lie a unique situation where you are both under a lot of pressure. I wouldn't make any irreversible decisions until things quiet down a bit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535354) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 9:54 PM Author: Stirring dun weed whacker you come across like a narcissistic, 30 year old shrew who didn't get the right order at brunch. You brought a kid into the world; it didn't just happen on its own.
Guess what? When you have kids, your needs don't come first anymore. Sorry you're not getting enough attention or sex or your wife said something "hurtful." It's time to start being an adult, not some guy who flees to Tinder after a few rough months. The whole "it hasn't been working for a while" sounds like an excuse for you to throw in the towel and be self-indulgent.
Take a big deep breathe and pull it together and realize it's no longer about you. |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 10:04 PM Author: fragrant disturbing spot pistol spin, ratfucks (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535475) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 10:17 PM Author: Snowy contagious coffee pot you're 100% right. i'd only quibble on one note: we're both narcissistic shrews tbh. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535577) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 10:31 PM Author: Exciting hell preventive strike couldn't have said it better myself. A friend gave me a similar talk after I contemplated divorce after 2nd kid. Made me grow a pair and see where I really was in the world. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535669) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 11:41 PM Author: Maniacal brunch Cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35536097) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 12:04 AM Author: Swollen Bistre Forum Police Squad (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35536243) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 10:07 AM Author: comical lay this is GC flame. it should be more about him or he’s gonna drop dead or have serious health issues by his 50s. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35537915) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:10 AM Author: Stirring dun weed whacker LOL. What kind of "man" has serious health issues because his wife says something "hurtful"? I literally LOLed at this. Go hit the gym rather than cowering in your 2nd bedroom. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35538290) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 10:04 PM Author: bearded new version separate bedrooms are 180 man. let the emotions cool down and enjoy your superior new living arrangement! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535472) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 10:07 PM Author: concupiscible learning disabled home travel guidebook agreed. all marriages should allow for this. you can set up a man room where you can watch sports late at night, but the tv on full blast, eat in bed, fart whenever you want.
I don't see what the problem is here? |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 10:16 PM Author: Mahogany milk foreskin We have a rule on no sleeping separately even if we had a big fight over something. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535571) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 10:30 PM Author: garnet whorehouse therapy what about if you're sick? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535660) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 11:43 PM Author: Mahogany milk foreskin Still no. I've offered before and she still said no. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35536121) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 11:55 PM Author: fragrant disturbing spot pistol spin, ratfucks (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35536196) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 11:57 PM Author: Mahogany milk foreskin Yep, I always opt for sex too. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35536205) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 11:43 PM Author: Rusted cumskin Lmao we have been together like 10 yrs, happily married and sleep separately every night bc we cant get a full nights rest otherwise
Getting good sleep is most important |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 11:45 PM Author: Mahogany milk foreskin We have trouble sleeping without each other. Yeah, we're co-dependent. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35536132) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 11:49 PM Author: Razzle-dazzle fuchsia rehab chad get a bigger bed (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35536162) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 11:50 PM Author: Mahogany milk foreskin tcr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35536170) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 11:51 PM Author: bearded new version there's no bed big enough to deal with my snoring and insomnia, and her flailing and need to have every fucking blanket on the bed (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35536176) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 11:54 PM Author: Mahogany milk foreskin Melatonin (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35536190) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 12:06 AM Author: Rusted cumskin Cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35536249) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 12:07 AM Author: Rusted cumskin Our apt isnt big enough for a king sized bed.
When we get a larger house we will both have separate caves to do stuff in. A man cave and woman cave. |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 12:08 AM Author: Mahogany milk foreskin jfc (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35536257) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 10:14 PM Author: Snowy contagious coffee pot Update: She made me dinner and brought it to my room. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535550) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 10:16 PM Author: Snowy contagious coffee pot I'm craving donuts, might buy her one. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535568) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 10:20 PM Author: Mahogany milk foreskin That's an olive branch, bro. Make one in turn. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535590) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 10:21 PM Author: Snowy contagious coffee pot See above. Girl loves donuts. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535600) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:18 AM Author: underhanded knife school cafeteria Girls cant get fat on flowers (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35538338) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 11:20 PM Author: Laughsome lemon quadroon (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535970) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 10:21 PM Author: slimy bateful native OK OP, i empathize with you. i have a 1-2 yr old and the first 6 months were extremely hard on my relationship with wife. her personality did a major transplant, she became nagging and bitching and we ate through a shitload of good will with each other. it will get better when the baby is older, wife's personality will revert SOMEWHAT but never totally, but try to get family help. you have a kid now and the kid's needs come first. you are both really stressed out now too. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535606) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 10:24 PM Author: Snowy contagious coffee pot Appreciate it. Thanks for the perspective. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35535629) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 11:13 PM Author: Vigorous Wine Point Round Eye Good advice ITT. I’ll offer some new mom perspective.
She’s been through a lot. Seems obvious but it’s important to keep in mind. Her body has been through a physical and emotional ringer. Her hormones are all over the place. Her work and social life just came to a screeching halt. She’s in charge of keeping this very fragile thing alive every day and it is really scary to be learning how to do everything when that is at stake. She wants/needs help but also feels like if she can’t do or figure it out on her own then she’s a bad mom. And on top of all that, she is absolutely exhausted.
Be patient. Ask what you can do to help. Take the baby for a walk or a drive so she can have some quiet time, but also keep in mind that being away from the baby might make her anxious. It’s as frustrating for her as it is for you. Watch for signs of post-partum depression.
Be there for her, and remember that she won’t always be rational about things. She’s under immense stress and pressure all with roller coaster hormones making it worse. Be the rock you’re supposed to be. |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 11:35 PM Author: Snowy contagious coffee pot thank you. i need to be a better husband. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35536045) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 11:37 PM Author: well-lubricated dilemma ITT: the stuff of sheer terror and the base (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35536062) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 11:38 PM Author: irate arrogant theater i've heard sleeping in separate rooms is 180 for couples and thta it improves thay marriage bc no snoring, no shifting the bed, no fighting over covers, no different sleep schedules (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35536068) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 11:45 PM Author: Rusted cumskin See above. Together 10 yrs, sleep separately every night. This is my best relationship so far. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35536127) |
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Date: March 4th, 2018 11:49 PM Author: Mahogany milk foreskin - get your own covers;
- different sleep schedules sucks, but otherwise you're apart all night so still a net positive;
- shifting in bed = get a better bed |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 10:15 AM Author: Lake Prole Market god, sleeping apart is so 180.
we've got a 3 y/o and have to admit to not experiencing the kinds of arguments and tension other poasters have described. but i certainly wouldn't make any decisions during the first two months of having a kid around---things really do settle down a bit and might improve and you'll be better placed to make a decision when you're not sleep-deprived and overwhelmed by figuring out how to deal with the babby. |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 4:29 PM Author: passionate lodge an ex-gf and i discussed this. we both were completely on board with separate beds if we moved in together. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35540593) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 5:17 PM Author: Red Zombie-like Theater Stage Just do smoke weed. Weed cures everything. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35541052) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 5:26 PM Author: motley stock car useless brakes Our 2nd was tough on us. Forget exactly when or what led up to it but I told her at one point I was falling out of love with her. Happily married 4 years later, though she still reminds me I said that every once and awhile. We're not a perfect couple, but the point is it's a shitty time on most marriages and you shouldn't do something you'll both regret. Time and trust will heal it. Besides, you bring a life into this world, you fucking owe them a good start. Man up. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35541111) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 5:31 PM Author: mustard soul-stirring alpha just LOL at marriagecucks (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35541145) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 5:35 PM Author: Confused Nibblets Some good faith advice itt, surprising. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35541177) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 5:53 PM Author: Sick selfie Do you have a colicky baby? That stuff will traumatize you for life. Having children has real potential to break even strong marriages but gotta give it 4-5 years at the very least to see how things shake out. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35541262) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 7:24 PM Author: underhanded knife school cafeteria nice use of 'shake out' here (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35541775) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 7:25 PM Author: Snowy contagious coffee pot no. she burps quickly, doesn't cry too much. we're lucky. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35541782) |
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Date: March 5th, 2018 5:55 PM Author: Yapping flesh state Stay together for the sake of the kid. At least try longer. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3909965&forum_id=2#35541268) |