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Got fired, life falling apart

I was let go from my job and was given time to find a job in...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/05/18
HEHE UR FUCKED
insecure azn toaster
  03/06/18
...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/06/18
strong post-moniker synergy
Dashing cheese-eating lay son of senegal
  03/06/18
...
crawly big point
  03/06/18
This is all your fault for marrying her
tripping lime stag film ape
  03/06/18
your wife sounds insufferable
Garnet lascivious theatre
  03/05/18
...
drab cuck
  03/05/18
She is likely bipolar and when she is in a good mood she is ...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/05/18
My ex wife was like this. It fucked with me hardcore cuz jus...
sable university dragon
  03/05/18
Yeah, she will hit me and scream at me and then a few hours ...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/05/18
spin, ratfucks
Charismatic zippy boistinker
  03/05/18
Yeah film the blowjob part
Spectacular carmine sanctuary
  03/06/18
lol. you know how many guys get hit and screamed at without ...
aggressive police squad locus
  03/05/18
spin, ratfucks
Charismatic zippy boistinker
  03/05/18
Tell her flat out that the next time she hits you, you're ca...
Walnut area
  03/05/18
Kinda disagree here. THat shit just gets nasty and leads to ...
sable university dragon
  03/05/18
he'll make money in the divorce .
Walnut area
  03/05/18
(definitely NOT legal advice)
scarlet location rigpig
  03/06/18
spin, ratfucks
Charismatic zippy boistinker
  03/06/18
spin, ratfucks
Charismatic zippy boistinker
  03/05/18
Terrible advice. Greater than not chance she lies and says s...
Onyx house regret
  03/06/18
ur wife sounds alpha as fuck. she just does whatever she wan...
very tactful bateful space
  03/06/18
Think it could be BPD?
heady indigo hospital nowag
  03/05/18
Mine was BPD. Like walking on eggshells. Never knew when she...
sable university dragon
  03/05/18
That's terrifying. Did you bring it up to her? Did she know ...
heady indigo hospital nowag
  03/05/18
spin, ratfucks
Charismatic zippy boistinker
  03/05/18
Cr. BPD is supposedly not curable, unlike depression or othe...
sable university dragon
  03/05/18
I told her that my therapist thought she was BPD and that di...
sable university dragon
  03/05/18
jfc
Dashing cheese-eating lay son of senegal
  03/06/18
Yes, she is either Bipolar or borderline. Fuck, she may be b...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/05/18
spin, ratfucks
Charismatic zippy boistinker
  03/05/18
doubt it. all women are like this when their man is unemploy...
ivory casino party of the first part
  03/05/18
dont we know brother
vivacious fighting masturbator
  03/05/18
spin, ratfucks
Charismatic zippy boistinker
  03/05/18
180
appetizing ceo office
  03/05/18
Imagine he had taken a week or two to play video games befor...
Puce prole parlour
  03/05/18
Someone bump that video game thread he started where she wen...
appetizing ceo office
  03/06/18
Holy shit I forgot about that. Imagine he goes and buys t...
Puce prole parlour
  03/06/18
cr, i'll contribute too
appetizing ceo office
  03/06/18
Yeah this would be 180. Every single wife ever would lose t...
cordovan rehab
  03/06/18
lol
Dashing cheese-eating lay son of senegal
  03/06/18
LMAO she would have become unhinged
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/06/18
How do black women do it?
cordovan rehab
  03/06/18
...
tripping lime stag film ape
  03/06/18
...
Dashing cheese-eating lay son of senegal
  03/06/18
all wives are like this. can do a complete flip over the mos...
Insane olive toilet seat main people
  03/06/18
...
avocado sound barrier
  03/05/18
Yeah wtf she ought to support yr ass
cordovan rehab
  03/06/18
Sorry dude. Since you're in SOCAL, why don't you accidentall...
marvelous territorial headpube
  03/05/18
holy fuck
Splenetic people who are hurt
  03/05/18
TiITCRHF
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/05/18
i cannot fucking imagine a 3.5 hr commute
Splenetic people who are hurt
  03/05/18
I used to do this exact same commute. It sucks balls!
sable university dragon
  03/05/18
on the bright side i guess every commute looks ea$y after yo...
Splenetic people who are hurt
  03/05/18
Been knocking out a lot of long podcasts and day dreaming
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/05/18
how long until you move?
Splenetic people who are hurt
  03/05/18
July 1st
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/05/18
you guys mean 3.5hrs round-trip right? that's horrible thoug...
Provocative piazza idea he suggested
  03/06/18
Correct. It is 1-1.5 hours each way. I am working 7:30 to 4:...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/06/18
eh, that's standard in LA
Charcoal home
  03/06/18
YeH I would knock out like 100 audiobooks
cordovan rehab
  03/06/18
I used to be an expert on every sport trivia from all the AM...
sable university dragon
  03/05/18
It is a goddamn nightmare. I have to get up at 5:30 in the m...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/05/18
A 3.5 hour commute is NOT SUSTAINABLE. You will move or kill...
Bossy theater
  03/05/18
He should rent a room and move this weekend. Seriously.
avocado sound barrier
  03/05/18
I just saw above this is round trip time. That's not that ba...
Bossy theater
  03/06/18
Uh, almost 2 hours one way? Yes it is. I used to do about ...
avocado sound barrier
  03/06/18
Isn’t the alternative spending more time with your insane wi...
Sick Tanning Salon
  03/06/18
What would happen if you just told her how it was going to b...
drab cuck
  03/05/18
First off, your wife sounds like a cunt. Second, do u earn a...
Know-it-all friendly grandma lodge
  03/05/18
Nope. But she has a job where she works remotely and can liv...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/05/18
spin, ratfucks
Charismatic zippy boistinker
  03/05/18
She's some sort of doctor.
Walnut area
  03/05/18
LMFAO this is the loser cuck who moved cross country for her...
Lavender pocket flask
  03/05/18
She quit after four weeks actually
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/05/18
jfc
avocado sound barrier
  03/05/18
JFC how small is your dick that you would let some bitch cuc...
Lavender pocket flask
  03/05/18
Mistakes were made brother. It was a really high paying job ...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/05/18
how about try not being a fucking cuck and tell her if she d...
Lavender pocket flask
  03/05/18
She is working and making a goddamn fortune. She was only ou...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/05/18
JFC your wife works from home and outearns you significantly...
Lavender pocket flask
  03/05/18
i think he makes like 100K and maybe she makes 200-300K? not...
appetizing ceo office
  03/05/18
LMAO at an adult 'male' scrapping to make $100k, getting dad...
Lavender pocket flask
  03/05/18
We both make more than that.
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/05/18
not everyone gets a trust fund. this is totally uncalled for...
hairraiser national
  03/06/18
...
avocado sound barrier
  03/06/18
...
metal hell
  03/06/18
spin, ratfucks
Charismatic zippy boistinker
  03/05/18
120
Lavender pocket flask
  03/05/18
spin, ratfucks
Charismatic zippy boistinker
  03/05/18
hes been poasting about her for months though. he sounds lik...
appetizing ceo office
  03/05/18
180
Lavender pocket flask
  03/05/18
spin, ratfucks
Charismatic zippy boistinker
  03/05/18
i dunno, he asks for advice constantly and whenever we offer...
appetizing ceo office
  03/05/18
CRRRRRR
Lavender pocket flask
  03/05/18
I was venting, not asking for advice. I know my situation su...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/06/18
That ship has sailed. She's already batshit crazy.
Walnut area
  03/06/18
...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/05/18
120
Lavender pocket flask
  03/05/18
Man you have your perfect chance to get out. Move down to OC...
sable university dragon
  03/05/18
spin, ratfucks
Charismatic zippy boistinker
  03/05/18
...
Dun field
  03/05/18
LMFAO what kind of sad shitjerb do you work?
Lavender pocket flask
  03/05/18
Wife is making an insane amount of money now. My job is fine...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/05/18
whatever it is, it's more respectable than living off parent...
hairraiser national
  03/06/18
Sorry friend. I think you know what needs to be done. Ri...
Walnut area
  03/05/18
Cr Colorado women are 180. Most are actually thin and all ar...
sable university dragon
  03/05/18
Probably all CR advice. I appreciate it.
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/05/18
you'll get in everywhere you apply
Unholy Claret Travel Guidebook Yarmulke
  03/05/18
you have a new kid right?
drab cuck
  03/05/18
7 month old. She wasn't anywhere near this bad until we had ...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/05/18
Why didn't YOU decide where to move?
Bossy theater
  03/05/18
sounds like a cuck
Lavender pocket flask
  03/05/18
She would say we are getting a divorce probably and then my ...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/05/18
At least you should rent a shithole apartment nearby where y...
drab cuck
  03/05/18
tcr
avocado sound barrier
  03/05/18
spin, ratfucks
Charismatic zippy boistinker
  03/05/18
Yup, and savor that freedom
Charcoal home
  03/05/18
You need to stop letting your wife make you miserable. If s...
avocado sound barrier
  03/05/18
he would like to raise his kid
hairraiser national
  03/06/18
She probably only asked if you could move to Denver because ...
disrespectful exhilarant heaven
  03/05/18
...
Dun field
  03/05/18
ftw
pearly lettuce business firm
  03/06/18
Can you split the difference and move closer to OC, like liv...
vermilion public bath
  03/05/18
Even long beach is like a 1+ hr commute in traffic man each ...
sable university dragon
  03/05/18
Not going to be a house husband to a woman who threatens div...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/05/18
spin, ratfucks
Charismatic zippy boistinker
  03/05/18
I am not going to get shit and we will split custody probabl...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/05/18
just let her have the baby and start fresh
appetizing ceo office
  03/05/18
spin, ratfucks
Charismatic zippy boistinker
  03/05/18
wouldn't you get alimony though? also you guys arent maki...
appetizing ceo office
  03/05/18
We are going to get a rental. We could potentially make $600...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/05/18
600K isn't that much in California If she can pay the bil...
appetizing ceo office
  03/05/18
(Xo poaster) $600K is a lot of money anywhere... She will...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/06/18
...
avocado sound barrier
  03/06/18
CR, why not just quit to become a house husband?
appetizing ceo office
  03/05/18
I am not going to leave myself that vulnerable to her and I ...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/05/18
Your current line of work doesn't warrant shifting your live...
black thriller shrine voyeur
  03/05/18
I can see what he means though -she prohibited him from ever...
appetizing ceo office
  03/05/18
Yea it's very tricky. You know some men need a very submi...
black thriller shrine voyeur
  03/06/18
spin, ratfucks
Charismatic zippy boistinker
  03/06/18
She actually proposed that I start a business and we move to...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/06/18
you're afraid she'll go back on offer and go batshit if you ...
black thriller shrine voyeur
  03/06/18
Which of her personalities proposed this? I bet if you do...
appetizing ceo office
  03/06/18
Yeah, that was my thought. High risk she decides it was a ba...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/06/18
your marriage sounds really fucked.
black thriller shrine voyeur
  03/06/18
...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/06/18
or a rich relative dies and gives you some $$$$ to even thin...
black thriller shrine voyeur
  03/06/18
I wouldn't trust her on this shit.
Charcoal home
  03/06/18
(Guy who gets it)
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/06/18
...
avocado sound barrier
  03/06/18
poast pics of your wife for us and we'll recommend whether i...
Charcoal home
  03/05/18
he said she ain't hot anymore :(
appetizing ceo office
  03/05/18
Did this before and consensus was she was hot. She is easily...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/05/18
poast again for 5 min? i live in LA/OC... can give you legit...
Charcoal home
  03/05/18
spin, ratfucks
Charismatic zippy boistinker
  03/05/18
I took a newly created position that ended up being a mistak...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/05/18
can you post a pic of your wife please we need context
drab cuck
  03/05/18
so you were fired and then given an offer to join a differen...
Galvanic community account meetinghouse
  03/05/18
im also curious about this and don't get it how much do y...
vivacious fighting masturbator
  03/05/18
plz respond
vivacious fighting masturbator
  03/05/18
Depends on bonuses, but low to mid $100's
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/06/18
1. r u a lawyer? 2. how r u only making mid-100s? 3. s...
vivacious fighting masturbator
  03/06/18
crq
Snowy coldplay fan rigor
  03/06/18
No Poor career planning and bad breaks. I have been livin...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/06/18
Ty
vivacious fighting masturbator
  03/06/18
"XO is delusional about salaries." I agree with...
avocado sound barrier
  03/06/18
But Julia said people at megacorps in their late 20s are mak...
Honey-headed state incel
  03/06/18
Someone literally posted a segment where despite pretending ...
avocado sound barrier
  03/06/18
I have good relationships with some senior executives that I...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/05/18
hate to be harsh here but you squandered a good opportunity ...
Galvanic community account meetinghouse
  03/06/18
Also abandon my daughter tho
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/06/18
50/50 she has her mother's personality defect and that's an ...
Sienna nibblets cuckoldry
  03/06/18
spin, ratfucks
Charismatic zippy boistinker
  03/06/18
...
Alcoholic Crusty Knife Goal In Life
  03/06/18
Divorce wife?
Dark Bisexual Spot
  03/06/18
sounds like you wasted the obvious opportunity to fix your l...
Alcoholic Crusty Knife Goal In Life
  03/06/18
There were posters offering legitimate legal advice, and now...
Sienna nibblets cuckoldry
  03/06/18
yea in fairness to him, before he married his wife he ask...
Alcoholic Crusty Knife Goal In Life
  03/06/18
I have a baby and that complicates things. It is easy to say...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/06/18
But, seriously, what the fuck is wrong with you?
Emerald Glittery Indian Lodge Halford
  03/06/18
The level of drama is good this season but the writers reall...
Swashbuckling Magenta Property
  03/06/18
...
Emerald Glittery Indian Lodge Halford
  03/06/18
...
Alcoholic Crusty Knife Goal In Life
  03/06/18
I would never lie to my XO brethren...my situation is not f...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/06/18
1. Provoke your wife to hit you and get some of it on your c...
Mahogany Becky Weed Whacker
  03/06/18
spin, ratfucks
Charismatic zippy boistinker
  03/06/18
i.e. - the OP is the woman in this relationship and should b...
chest-beating stead
  03/06/18
If he wasn't such a cuck he would do this. Sounds like no pr...
outnumbered embarrassed to the bone fanboi idiot
  03/06/18
...
Dun field
  03/06/18
move to Orange County if you think you're going to stay long...
chest-beating stead
  03/06/18
Once had a hellish commute. Why not hit the gym until rush h...
razzle seedy stage
  03/06/18
I am leaving at 4:30 now and get home at 6:00. I take the to...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/06/18
...
White frum church partner
  03/06/18
Lol brother oh man. The saga continues.
Bipolar bearded station
  03/06/18
...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/06/18
It sounds like your wife may be suffering from post-partum d...
disgusting scourge upon the earth
  03/06/18
I reached out to people and could get a job with my old firm...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/06/18
1. provoke your wife into stabbing you to death
harsh disturbing foreskin
  03/06/18
Remember when California was the land of opportunity and dre...
self-centered sepia cruise ship macaca
  03/06/18
It is a ruined paradise. Sad.
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/06/18
OP's life isn't that bad.
topaz startled trailer park electric furnace
  03/06/18
It could be worse, honestly. It is just one goddamn bad thin...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/06/18
On a supposed law forum, can’t believe nobody had mentioned ...
Smoky Temple
  03/06/18
jfc at thinking that landlord-tenant laws are the relevant i...
self-centered sepia cruise ship macaca
  03/06/18
It does not solve his bigger problem with his wife but does ...
Smoky Temple
  03/06/18
I find the advice to be highly credited. There is no point i...
indecent crystalline dilemma
  03/06/18
They are most likely common law married under Texas law. ...
stubborn roommate
  03/06/18
Yes, we are common law married in Texas
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/06/18
he doesn't want a divorce just yet. bad for baby + household...
black thriller shrine voyeur
  03/06/18
(Guy who gets it)
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/06/18
idk what you should do with your wife but a lower COL locati...
black thriller shrine voyeur
  03/06/18
You are right. I would feel way better in Denver where I hav...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/06/18
We are renting a townhouse from some Chinese guy that is lit...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/06/18
Are you a lawyer? This is in California? Nutella is right, l...
Bossy theater
  03/06/18
Not a lawyer
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/06/18
You aren’t common law married in CA. I don’t know what stat...
Smoky Temple
  03/06/18
alternatively, he could take the non-jew/chink approach and ...
chest-beating stead
  03/06/18
OP, Scott Frost will deliver us from evil and return our bel...
Slate Coffee Pot
  03/06/18
TY Brother. GBR.
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/06/18
I can't tell if op is a genuinely good dood who is toughing ...
Orchid sex offender useless brakes
  03/06/18
i thought his full-time job was creating content for xo?
insanely creepy wonderful library water buffalo
  03/06/18
Honestly, I think it is both.
avocado sound barrier
  03/06/18
...
appetizing ceo office
  03/06/18
If I didn't have a daughter, I would not be in this relation...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/06/18
And no doubt you explained this all to your wife. Which mean...
Wine Offensive Boiling Water Abode
  03/06/18
I already took her to Denver for a long weekend when I had t...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/06/18
What attraction does she have to Cali?
Wine Offensive Boiling Water Abode
  03/06/18
so apply to jobs in Denver and don't turn down offers again ...
chest-beating stead
  03/06/18
Cr advice. I told her I am taking the next job in Denver no ...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/06/18
Dude, Denver sucks ass. Why are you so intent on moving the...
avocado sound barrier
  03/06/18
Because he's a rootless bugman
Maroon Plaza
  03/06/18
why are you constantly wrong?
Slate Coffee Pot
  03/06/18
I'm not and fuck Denver (except for flying in to ski occasio...
avocado sound barrier
  03/06/18
of course you are. it's obviously better for him to live in ...
chest-beating stead
  03/06/18
but his wife is his friend!
appetizing ceo office
  03/06/18
lol he's only umc because of his wife.
black thriller shrine voyeur
  03/06/18
Yeah, a $120k HHI (and paying child support) in CO vs. $500k...
avocado sound barrier
  03/06/18
(reading comp masterman)
appetizing ceo office
  03/06/18
he's said multiple times itt that his wife works remotely an...
chest-beating stead
  03/06/18
He has also said that while she waffles, in the past she has...
avocado sound barrier
  03/06/18
so this means she's going to quit her job is she moves to de...
chest-beating stead
  03/06/18
This means if he moves to Denver he is moving there alone wh...
avocado sound barrier
  03/06/18
ok. that is not the actual situation.
chest-beating stead
  03/06/18
That is my take of it. OP can confirm or deny.
avocado sound barrier
  03/06/18
Making like $120k in Denver (which is what he would make) is...
avocado sound barrier
  03/06/18
that's like the most expensive neighborhood in Denver The...
Slate Coffee Pot
  03/06/18
The guy above said this: "it's obviously better for him...
avocado sound barrier
  03/06/18
Why don't you link what $2mm in CA buys you?
Slate Coffee Pot
  03/06/18
Challenge accepted. https://www.zillow.com/homedetails/27...
avocado sound barrier
  03/06/18
that guy prolly forgot thundercollins has a kid to pay for, ...
black thriller shrine voyeur
  03/06/18
It still wouldn't be "legit rich." It would be fi...
avocado sound barrier
  03/06/18
jfc fish no one is legit rich w/o at least 10M who gives a s...
black thriller shrine voyeur
  03/06/18
I agree. But there's a world of difference between like $50...
avocado sound barrier
  03/06/18
good thing that's not the actual situation we're talking abo...
chest-beating stead
  03/06/18
Link?
avocado sound barrier
  03/06/18
I'm not linking to poasts in this thread asshat. he's said ...
chest-beating stead
  03/06/18
We know perfectly well they have a shitty marriage. They al...
avocado sound barrier
  03/06/18
that's not the point. the point is he can't comfortably supp...
black thriller shrine voyeur
  03/06/18
CR
appetizing ceo office
  03/06/18
The point is that he has two bad choices: 1. Stay in LA a...
avocado sound barrier
  03/06/18
how are you this illiterate? her income isn't going to zero...
chest-beating stead
  03/06/18
No shit. He also said she shot down moving to Denver the la...
avocado sound barrier
  03/06/18
yea, she's fucking batshit nuts. that has fuck all to do wi...
chest-beating stead
  03/06/18
But then he is trying to find females in Denver which sounds...
avocado sound barrier
  03/06/18
Denver females are preferable to 95% of females in the rest ...
Walnut area
  03/07/18
Wtf are you talking about. His wife works remotely and can ...
Smoky Temple
  03/06/18
You're assuming that in either case he leaves the wife. I s...
avocado sound barrier
  03/06/18
I love Denver and I'm originally from CA and most of my fami...
appetizing ceo office
  03/06/18
See Thunder Collins? Denver is already infested with rootles...
Maroon Plaza
  03/06/18
To be fair, his only real solution is divorcing her, but he ...
appetizing ceo office
  03/06/18
1) Move to Denver then find a job 2) Find a job in LA. ...
ocher rebellious ladyboy whorehouse
  03/06/18
(guy who missed the point of this entire thread) His wife...
appetizing ceo office
  03/06/18
this should be something they discuss together.
ocher rebellious ladyboy whorehouse
  03/06/18
his wife has serious, diagnosed mental illnesses. it is impo...
appetizing ceo office
  03/06/18
fuck your wife (read with double entendre)
talented internal respiration nursing home
  03/06/18
I notice you have not confirmed yet whether you have been ta...
Godawful Death Wish
  03/06/18
lol @ the advice itt Thunder Collins becomes a rootlessness...
Maroon Plaza
  03/06/18
...
Beady-eyed sweet tailpipe round eye
  03/06/18
1. This makes me feel so much better about my organic gf. S...
sadistic psychic
  03/06/18
he said it wasn't traditional downsizing. rather, his job wa...
hairraiser national
  03/06/18
Question #1 TC has never asked himself and as such will neve...
Maroon Plaza
  03/06/18
...
Beady-eyed sweet tailpipe round eye
  03/06/18
TC should threaten to divorce the wife if she doesn't get on...
Duck-like blathering corner antidepressant drug
  03/06/18
Story of my firing. This really should be another post. I...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/06/18
Bro, whenever you take a position in-house that has a limite...
avocado sound barrier
  03/06/18
It obviously wasn’t presented as such. But yeah, lessons lea...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/06/18
It never is. They need people to walk into these jobs and i...
avocado sound barrier
  03/06/18
Yes, point taken. This was a mistake that won’t be repeated.
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/06/18
No worries. I've gotten pwn3d too over wrong moves too. Hi...
avocado sound barrier
  03/06/18
Fun fact: While sad and horrible, this isn't the worst thing...
Sienna nibblets cuckoldry
  03/06/18
Welcome to the NEW ite, where apparently getting fired actua...
Soul-stirring Brunch
  03/06/18
180
Dun field
  03/07/18
No, I was actually fired and was given a separation notifica...
chestnut bespoke pit
  03/07/18


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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:13 PM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

I was let go from my job and was given time to find a job internally. My wife was initially supportive, but became incredibly bitchy after a few days and started talking about divorce. I ended up getting a couple offers internally. With the first one I could work at my current office until my lease is up and then move to Denver. The second offer was in Orange County - a brutal 3-3.5 hour daily commute. I ended up taking the second offer because my wife refused to move to Denver. After I take the OC job, she decides that Denver would actually be better and asks if I can take that job. Which I obviously can't. Now I am enduring a hellish commute three-four days a week until our lease is up and we move. My wife wants to get an expensive rental near the beach, which I am not thrilled about. Goddamn when is my luck going to change? This shit is unbearable.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543440)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 5:27 AM
Author: insecure azn toaster

HEHE UR FUCKED

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35544751)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 11:02 AM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545737)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:56 PM
Author: Dashing cheese-eating lay son of senegal

strong post-moniker synergy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546607)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:29 PM
Author: crawly big point



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546928)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 11:19 AM
Author: tripping lime stag film ape

This is all your fault for marrying her

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545860)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:14 PM
Author: Garnet lascivious theatre

your wife sounds insufferable

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543447)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:15 PM
Author: drab cuck



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543456)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:17 PM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

She is likely bipolar and when she is in a good mood she is great to be around. But she is highly emotional and reactive and will explode in anger over trivial shit. My life is truly depressing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543477)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:24 PM
Author: sable university dragon

My ex wife was like this. It fucked with me hardcore cuz just about when I was at my wit's end she'd change her tune and be nice for a minute. It's not a normal way to live man. You can't go on like that forever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543526)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:27 PM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

Yeah, she will hit me and scream at me and then a few hours later give me a blowjob, say she loves me and want to cuddle. She is legit unstable.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543558)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:28 PM
Author: Charismatic zippy boistinker

spin, ratfucks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543570)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:35 PM
Author: Spectacular carmine sanctuary

Yeah film the blowjob part

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546972)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:33 PM
Author: aggressive police squad locus

lol. you know how many guys get hit and screamed at without the blowjobs? enjoy the commute, bitch

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543600)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:35 PM
Author: Charismatic zippy boistinker

spin, ratfucks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543611)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:33 PM
Author: Walnut area

Tell her flat out that the next time she hits you, you're calling the police and then actually do it. Need to get it on record.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543602)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:35 PM
Author: sable university dragon

Kinda disagree here. THat shit just gets nasty and leads to nothing. Just give her 80% like I did and get out. It was worth every penny. If you litigate it you will end up with that much anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543613)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:44 PM
Author: Walnut area

he'll make money in the divorce .

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543664)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:02 AM
Author: scarlet location rigpig

(definitely NOT legal advice)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543803)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:02 AM
Author: Charismatic zippy boistinker

spin, ratfucks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543809)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:35 PM
Author: Charismatic zippy boistinker

spin, ratfucks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543618)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 2:05 PM
Author: Onyx house regret

Terrible advice. Greater than not chance she lies and says she was hit and pushed as well. Playing with fire by bringing the police into the situation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35547187)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 2:03 AM
Author: very tactful bateful space

ur wife sounds alpha as fuck. she just does whatever she wants to you whenever she wants. and you've been a beta for so long that you either have to go along with it or divorce.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35544419)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:25 PM
Author: heady indigo hospital nowag

Think it could be BPD?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543536)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:27 PM
Author: sable university dragon

Mine was BPD. Like walking on eggshells. Never knew when she'd go insane about some trivial shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543552)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:28 PM
Author: heady indigo hospital nowag

That's terrifying. Did you bring it up to her? Did she know she had it?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543565)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:31 PM
Author: Charismatic zippy boistinker

spin, ratfucks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543592)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:33 PM
Author: sable university dragon

Cr. BPD is supposedly not curable, unlike depression or other mental problems. Once I realized she would never change it did make it a little easier.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543601)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:32 PM
Author: sable university dragon

I told her that my therapist thought she was BPD and that did not go over well. She threatened to report him to the board or some shit because it's not ethical to diagnose someone he hasn't seen. Lmao.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543595)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:00 PM
Author: Dashing cheese-eating lay son of senegal

jfc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546642)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:28 PM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

Yes, she is either Bipolar or borderline. Fuck, she may be both.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543566)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:29 PM
Author: Charismatic zippy boistinker

spin, ratfucks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543579)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:54 PM
Author: ivory casino party of the first part

doubt it. all women are like this when their man is unemployed. women can't stand the site of an idle man

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543735)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:56 PM
Author: vivacious fighting masturbator

dont we know brother

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543749)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:56 PM
Author: Charismatic zippy boistinker

spin, ratfucks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543750)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:58 PM
Author: appetizing ceo office

180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543759)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:58 PM
Author: Puce prole parlour

Imagine he had taken a week or two to play video games before starting the jerb hunt

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543764)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:02 AM
Author: appetizing ceo office

Someone bump that video game thread he started where she went batshit crazy prohibiting him from ever playing it "because he's married and a father"

LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543808)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Puce prole parlour

Holy shit I forgot about that.

Imagine he goes and buys the latest Call of Duty and a voice headset and sits on the couch talking shit to 12 y/o's for a week while he lets her take care of the kid. I would pay for the game and headset if he promised to record the reaction.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543862)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:20 AM
Author: appetizing ceo office

cr, i'll contribute too

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543932)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 9:09 AM
Author: cordovan rehab

Yeah this would be 180. Every single wife ever would lose their shit over this. I'm talking knife wielding crazy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545125)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:01 PM
Author: Dashing cheese-eating lay son of senegal

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546651)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:18 AM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

LMAO she would have become unhinged

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543921)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 9:05 AM
Author: cordovan rehab

How do black women do it?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545109)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 11:20 AM
Author: tripping lime stag film ape



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545870)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:01 PM
Author: Dashing cheese-eating lay son of senegal



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546646)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 9:08 AM
Author: Insane olive toilet seat main people

all wives are like this. can do a complete flip over the most-inconsequential shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545120)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:22 PM
Author: avocado sound barrier



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543511)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 9:03 AM
Author: cordovan rehab

Yeah wtf she ought to support yr ass

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545105)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:15 PM
Author: marvelous territorial headpube

Sorry dude. Since you're in SOCAL, why don't you accidentally drop your wife off outside Joshua Tree and drive away?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543455)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:15 PM
Author: Splenetic people who are hurt

holy fuck

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543460)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:19 PM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

TiITCRHF

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543485)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:19 PM
Author: Splenetic people who are hurt

i cannot fucking imagine a 3.5 hr commute

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543487)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:20 PM
Author: sable university dragon

I used to do this exact same commute. It sucks balls!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543494)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:21 PM
Author: Splenetic people who are hurt

on the bright side i guess every commute looks ea$y after you go through that hell. that's a lot of time you'll never get back though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543507)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:23 PM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

Been knocking out a lot of long podcasts and day dreaming

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543517)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:25 PM
Author: Splenetic people who are hurt

how long until you move?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543535)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:29 PM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

July 1st

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543574)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Provocative piazza idea he suggested

you guys mean 3.5hrs round-trip right? that's horrible though not impossible if you work a predictable 9-5 schedule. if you mean 3.5 each way or are a lawyer, that's insane and wouldn't put up with it for a month.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543893)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

Correct. It is 1-1.5 hours each way. I am working 7:30 to 4:30 basically and get home at 6 usually. It could be worse.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543944)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:27 AM
Author: Charcoal home

eh, that's standard in LA

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543962)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 9:08 AM
Author: cordovan rehab

YeH I would knock out like 100 audiobooks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545119)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:25 PM
Author: sable university dragon

I used to be an expert on every sport trivia from all the AM sports radio ljl

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543532)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:22 PM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

It is a goddamn nightmare. I have to get up at 5:30 in the morning and am constantly exhausted. I can WFH a couple days a week which helps.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543509)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:23 PM
Author: Bossy theater

A 3.5 hour commute is NOT SUSTAINABLE. You will move or kill yourself

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543518)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:31 PM
Author: avocado sound barrier

He should rent a room and move this weekend. Seriously.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543589)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:00 PM
Author: Bossy theater

I just saw above this is round trip time. That's not that bad, wtf

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546179)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 2:25 PM
Author: avocado sound barrier

Uh, almost 2 hours one way? Yes it is. I used to do about 1 hour each way. It was miserable.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35547342)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:14 AM
Author: Sick Tanning Salon

Isn’t the alternative spending more time with your insane wife?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35544179)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:16 PM
Author: drab cuck

What would happen if you just told her how it was going to be and started planning a move to denver

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543462)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:16 PM
Author: Know-it-all friendly grandma lodge

First off, your wife sounds like a cunt. Second, do u earn a lot more than her

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543466)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:20 PM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

Nope. But she has a job where she works remotely and can live anywhere she wants.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543497)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:23 PM
Author: Charismatic zippy boistinker

spin, ratfucks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543513)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:24 PM
Author: Walnut area

She's some sort of doctor.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543522)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:26 PM
Author: Lavender pocket flask

LMFAO this is the loser cuck who moved cross country for her $500k jerb in SD which she promptly quit 6 mos after making him move??

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543545)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:29 PM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

She quit after four weeks actually

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543580)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:31 PM
Author: avocado sound barrier

jfc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543588)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:31 PM
Author: Lavender pocket flask

JFC how small is your dick that you would let some bitch cuck you that hard?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543590)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:34 PM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

Mistakes were made brother. It was a really high paying job that paid for our relocation and gave her a $75k signing bonus. My job was flexible and it seemed like a good idea to move.

We just had a baby, what was I supposed to do when she quit? Kick her out along with my daughter?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543609)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:37 PM
Author: Lavender pocket flask

how about try not being a fucking cuck and tell her if she demands you move across the country for HER fucking job then she needs to get her ass to work

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543626)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:39 PM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

She is working and making a goddamn fortune. She was only out of work for two months and taking care of our baby the whole time while lining up another job. She makes far more at her new job while working from home. It ended up being the smart thing to do actually.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543641)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:42 PM
Author: Lavender pocket flask

JFC your wife works from home and outearns you significantly while you can't even hold a job?

you should chop your dick off and stop calling yourself a 'man'

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543657)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:48 PM
Author: appetizing ceo office

i think he makes like 100K and maybe she makes 200-300K? not sure. she ain't a banker.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543695)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:50 PM
Author: Lavender pocket flask

LMAO at an adult 'male' scrapping to make $100k, getting dadded around changing jobs for his bitchy wife like a cuck

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543714)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:52 PM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

We both make more than that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543724)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:05 PM
Author: hairraiser national

not everyone gets a trust fund. this is totally uncalled for.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546688)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 10:55 PM
Author: avocado sound barrier



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35550741)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 3:48 AM
Author: metal hell



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35544693)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:37 PM
Author: Charismatic zippy boistinker

spin, ratfucks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543631)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:38 PM
Author: Lavender pocket flask

120

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543635)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:39 PM
Author: Charismatic zippy boistinker

spin, ratfucks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543642)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:48 PM
Author: appetizing ceo office

hes been poasting about her for months though. he sounds like a goddamn cuck

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543701)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:49 PM
Author: Lavender pocket flask

180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543707)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:50 PM
Author: Charismatic zippy boistinker

spin, ratfucks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543713)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:54 PM
Author: appetizing ceo office

i dunno, he asks for advice constantly and whenever we offer any he makes up some excuse to ignore it or reject it: "oh she was just bipolar and abusive that day" "she only threatened to call the police when she was having a mental breakdown a few times"

It's kind of annoying, honestly. Either he wants to make a change or not - don't ask us to give advice and then make up excuses. He also seems really indecisive, which is a really annoying trait in a man.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543739)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:56 PM
Author: Lavender pocket flask

CRRRRRR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543746)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:08 AM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

I was venting, not asking for advice. I know my situation sucks and what my options are. I have a kid and am not going to divorce my wife right now unless she legit goes insane.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543846)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:42 AM
Author: Walnut area

That ship has sailed. She's already batshit crazy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35544023)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:40 PM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543644)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:45 PM
Author: Lavender pocket flask

120

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543668)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:16 PM
Author: sable university dragon

Man you have your perfect chance to get out. Move down to OC to be closer to your job. Then file for divorce.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543467)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:16 PM
Author: Charismatic zippy boistinker

spin, ratfucks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543470)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:20 PM
Author: Dun field



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543496)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:16 PM
Author: Lavender pocket flask

LMFAO what kind of sad shitjerb do you work?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543468)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:35 PM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

Wife is making an insane amount of money now. My job is fine.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543617)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:07 PM
Author: hairraiser national

whatever it is, it's more respectable than living off parents' money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546701)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:17 PM
Author: Walnut area

Sorry friend.

I think you know what needs to be done. Rip the band-aid off and start fresh. As a single guy making 100K+ in Denver, you'd be happier than you've ever been. It's a short flight to Omaha, or wherever you guys are from. Try applying to more Denver companies.

I went to college there and would move back in a heart beat, if not for my kids.

The women there are great too... outdoorsy, fit, and fun.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543472)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:18 PM
Author: sable university dragon

Cr Colorado women are 180. Most are actually thin and all are down with weed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543484)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:30 PM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

Probably all CR advice. I appreciate it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543584)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:18 PM
Author: Unholy Claret Travel Guidebook Yarmulke

you'll get in everywhere you apply

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543478)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:19 PM
Author: drab cuck

you have a new kid right?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543489)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:32 PM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

7 month old. She wasn't anywhere near this bad until we had a baby.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543594)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:22 PM
Author: Bossy theater

Why didn't YOU decide where to move?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543508)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:27 PM
Author: Lavender pocket flask

sounds like a cuck

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543555)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:37 PM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

She would say we are getting a divorce probably and then my choices would be move to Denver and leave my daughter or stay in SoCal. If we didn't have a kid, I would have said we are moving or divorcing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543630)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:25 PM
Author: drab cuck

At least you should rent a shithole apartment nearby where you work and stay there M-F

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543531)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:25 PM
Author: avocado sound barrier

tcr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543539)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:27 PM
Author: Charismatic zippy boistinker

spin, ratfucks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543553)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:46 PM
Author: Charcoal home

Yup, and savor that freedom

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543683)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:25 PM
Author: avocado sound barrier

You need to stop letting your wife make you miserable. If she demands to do that then you know what you have to do. Frankly, if she was talking about divorce while you were losing your job, you should have let it go and then dealt with the divorce, then gotten a new job (preferably halfway around the world).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543533)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:09 PM
Author: hairraiser national

he would like to raise his kid

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546718)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:35 PM
Author: disrespectful exhilarant heaven

She probably only asked if you could move to Denver because she knew you had passed on that job.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543610)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:39 PM
Author: Dun field



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543637)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:55 PM
Author: pearly lettuce business firm

ftw

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35547132)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:36 PM
Author: vermilion public bath

Can you split the difference and move closer to OC, like live in Long Beach or something?

Or just quit and be a house-husband.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543625)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:41 PM
Author: sable university dragon

Even long beach is like a 1+ hr commute in traffic man each way. That shit is miserable

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543649)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:41 PM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

Not going to be a house husband to a woman who threatens divorce. We will move to Laguna Beach or San Clemente in July probably.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543650)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:44 PM
Author: Charismatic zippy boistinker

spin, ratfucks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543663)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:46 PM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

I am not going to get shit and we will split custody probably

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543678)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:47 PM
Author: appetizing ceo office

just let her have the baby and start fresh

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543689)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:47 PM
Author: Charismatic zippy boistinker

spin, ratfucks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543691)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:46 PM
Author: appetizing ceo office

wouldn't you get alimony though?

also you guys arent making that much money to justify living in Laguna Beach...just ljl

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543675)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:48 PM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

We are going to get a rental. We could potentially make $600k plus this year combined.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543697)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:49 PM
Author: appetizing ceo office

600K isn't that much in California

If she can pay the bills on her own, just quit your jerb. Fuck it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543703)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 10:58 AM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

(Xo poaster) $600K is a lot of money anywhere...

She will clearly resent me and be a nightmare to deal with if I quit my job.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545706)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:49 PM
Author: avocado sound barrier



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35547076)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:45 PM
Author: appetizing ceo office

CR, why not just quit to become a house husband?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543672)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:47 PM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

I am not going to leave myself that vulnerable to her and I want to make money

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543686)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:50 PM
Author: black thriller shrine voyeur

Your current line of work doesn't warrant shifting your lives around that much since your wife makes ~3x your income. Your current employer sounds pretty TTT.

If you had a functional relationship, she works and gives you more career flexibility. Then you can start a business but give her more location flexibility.

But you don't have a functional relationship. :((((

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543711)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:59 PM
Author: appetizing ceo office

I can see what he means though -she prohibited him from ever playing some video game he purchased and she sounds controlling AF.

If she were the only one working, she would completely own him (even more) and tell him what to do 100% of the time.

He is completely screwed unless he gets a divorce or she gets a lobotomy.

He is just in denial about this marriage working out, and I find it annoying that he is constantly making up excuses for it. She isn't going to improve with time - she's just going to get worse, just LJL.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543771)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:02 AM
Author: black thriller shrine voyeur

Yea it's very tricky.

You know some men need a very submissive do what is told wife. Maybe that's his wife.

He just had a child. This is very tricky.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543804)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:05 AM
Author: Charismatic zippy boistinker

spin, ratfucks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543827)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:03 AM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

She actually proposed that I start a business and we move to some low COL area like Colorado Springs where one of my good friends lives.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543817)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:04 AM
Author: black thriller shrine voyeur

you're afraid she'll go back on offer and go batshit if you do though probably?

you guys are so...not rooted anywhere? seems like all the moves are a dart game.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543819)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:04 AM
Author: appetizing ceo office

Which of her personalities proposed this?

I bet if you don't start making $$, she'll go batshit on you. LJL.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543822)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

Yeah, that was my thought. High risk she decides it was a bad idea if it is not an instant money maker

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543840)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: black thriller shrine voyeur

your marriage sounds really fucked.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543910)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:19 AM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543925)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:21 AM
Author: black thriller shrine voyeur

or a rich relative dies and gives you some $$$$ to even things out a bit.

she needs to be ok with being breadwinner or let you act as breadwinner (even if not really).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543934)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Charcoal home

I wouldn't trust her on this shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543838)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

(Guy who gets it)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543855)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:40 AM
Author: avocado sound barrier



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35544014)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:50 PM
Author: Charcoal home

poast pics of your wife for us and we'll recommend whether it's worth working things out. btw, how the fuck do you get fired? don't you have to really fuck up for that to happen?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543710)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:50 PM
Author: appetizing ceo office

he said she ain't hot anymore :(

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543716)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:51 PM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

Did this before and consensus was she was hot. She is easily an 8. Hot and crazy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543719)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:52 PM
Author: Charcoal home

poast again for 5 min? i live in LA/OC... can give you legit advice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543728)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:53 PM
Author: Charismatic zippy boistinker

spin, ratfucks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543731)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:55 PM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

I took a newly created position that ended up being a mistake. No performance issues or major fuck ups. They eliminated my position to pay for other shit basically. I work for a really poorly run company and they do shit like this all the time apparently,

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543742)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:56 PM
Author: drab cuck

can you post a pic of your wife please we need context

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543748)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:52 PM
Author: Galvanic community account meetinghouse

so you were fired and then given an offer to join a different office by the same company that fired you? huh

in any event, i'd have gone to denver and left your crazy wife.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543726)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:52 PM
Author: vivacious fighting masturbator

im also curious about this and don't get it

how much do you make TC?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543730)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:55 PM
Author: vivacious fighting masturbator

plz respond

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543744)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:00 AM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

Depends on bonuses, but low to mid $100's

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543780)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:06 AM
Author: vivacious fighting masturbator

1. r u a lawyer?

2. how r u only making mid-100s?

3. seriously no doobs but I am interested in the in-house bros here: what kind of company? this almost sounds like a national non-profit at that salary level

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543833)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Snowy coldplay fan rigor

crq

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543894)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:18 AM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

No

Poor career planning and bad breaks. I have been living in a low COL area most of my life as well and my salary reflected that.

It is for a multi-billion dollar global company. XO is delusional about salaries.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543915)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:27 AM
Author: vivacious fighting masturbator

Ty

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543964)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 10:23 AM
Author: avocado sound barrier

"XO is delusional about salaries."

I agree with this, btw. The whole "if you're a lawyer and you're not making $300k+ then you must have fucked up!" is nonsense.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545451)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 10:38 AM
Author: Honey-headed state incel

But Julia said people at megacorps in their late 20s are making $300k!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545571)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 10:59 AM
Author: avocado sound barrier

Someone literally posted a segment where despite pretending to be rich on here for years, she talked about how do deal with massive student loans while being broke.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545707)



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Date: March 5th, 2018 11:59 PM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

I have good relationships with some senior executives that I worked with a lot. The Denver job was created for me specifically and the OC job happened to come open at the same time. A senior VP called the hiring manager and said that TC would be a good hire basically.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543767)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:08 AM
Author: Galvanic community account meetinghouse

hate to be harsh here but you squandered a good opportunity to escape CA and a doomed marriage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543848)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:13 AM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

Also abandon my daughter tho

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543891)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: Sienna nibblets cuckoldry

50/50 she has her mother's personality defect and that's an abyss, too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543942)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:25 AM
Author: Charismatic zippy boistinker

spin, ratfucks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35543956)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:41 AM
Author: Alcoholic Crusty Knife Goal In Life



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35544019)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Dark Bisexual Spot

Divorce wife?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35544006)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:42 AM
Author: Alcoholic Crusty Knife Goal In Life

sounds like you wasted the obvious opportunity to fix your life

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35544024)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:15 AM
Author: Sienna nibblets cuckoldry

There were posters offering legitimate legal advice, and now he's commuting 3.5 hours a day in addition to being married to a borderline.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35544189)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:41 AM
Author: Alcoholic Crusty Knife Goal In Life

yea

in fairness to him, before he married his wife he asked the board's advice and fempoas told him to overlook her obvious DING qualities

he seems like a piece of shit ignoring good advice tho

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35544291)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:49 AM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

I have a baby and that complicates things. It is easy to say hit the reset button when you are poasting on XO and not dealing with your real life child.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35544342)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:06 AM
Author: Emerald Glittery Indian Lodge Halford

But, seriously, what the fuck is wrong with you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35544143)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:37 AM
Author: Swashbuckling Magenta Property

The level of drama is good this season but the writers really need to make up more believable storylines

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35544276)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:40 AM
Author: Emerald Glittery Indian Lodge Halford



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35544288)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:42 AM
Author: Alcoholic Crusty Knife Goal In Life



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35544292)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:53 AM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

I would never lie to my XO brethren...my situation is not flame. What isn't believable about my story? I got let go, but was given a month to find something internally or externally. Big companies do stuff like this all the time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35544378)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:56 AM
Author: Mahogany Becky Weed Whacker

1. Provoke your wife to hit you and get some of it on your camera.

2. File a domestic violence restraining order against her (some of the shitawyers on here can advise you)

3. File for divorce. Seek full custody, and alimony. Use wife’s physical abuse against her to win.

4 profit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35544389)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 2:01 AM
Author: Charismatic zippy boistinker

spin, ratfucks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35544403)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 9:02 AM
Author: chest-beating stead

i.e. - the OP is the woman in this relationship and should behave accordingly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545104)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 9:07 AM
Author: outnumbered embarrassed to the bone fanboi idiot

If he wasn't such a cuck he would do this. Sounds like no provocation is even necessary.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545115)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 9:40 AM
Author: Dun field



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545209)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 8:55 AM
Author: chest-beating stead

move to Orange County if you think you're going to stay long term in your current jerb or start applying to others if you don't.

lol at you whining like a bitch at this non-issue

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545078)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 9:06 AM
Author: razzle seedy stage

Once had a hellish commute. Why not hit the gym until rush hour is over. Gyms tend to be packed at that time too, but I'd rather wait for a power rack to open up than drive in stop and go traffic.

Edit: Also you're wife kinda sucks man. How long hav eyou been married?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545112)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 11:16 AM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

I am leaving at 4:30 now and get home at 6:00. I take the toll roads, so there is really only stop and go traffic for a short period of time. If I went to the gym and left at 5:30 or 6:00 it really wouldn't make a difference and could actually be worse. Plus my wife would nut out about taking care of the baby for 6 hours by herself (she is usually off work by 2) and my kid would be asleep by the time I get home.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545849)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 9:09 AM
Author: White frum church partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545126)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 9:11 AM
Author: Bipolar bearded station

Lol brother oh man. The saga continues.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545128)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 10:50 AM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545654)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 9:35 AM
Author: disgusting scourge upon the earth

It sounds like your wife may be suffering from post-partum depression to be that crazy mainly after your kid was born. (not medical advice).

The market is pretty good. I'd look for jobs at other companies. Be open about getting laid off and tell them you see this as a great opportunity to do something new. Reach out to contacts in your field.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545192)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 11:02 AM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

I reached out to people and could get a job with my old firm living virtually anywhere I want. BUT...I would have to travel up to 60% of the time and probably take a pay cut. Also had a firm in Atlanta (where my wife's brothers live) that was interested. I really want to move to Denver and could get something there fairly easily.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545735)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 9:42 AM
Author: harsh disturbing foreskin

1. provoke your wife into stabbing you to death

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545215)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 9:48 AM
Author: self-centered sepia cruise ship macaca

Remember when California was the land of opportunity and dreams

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545234)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 10:59 AM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

It is a ruined paradise. Sad.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545708)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 9:48 AM
Author: topaz startled trailer park electric furnace

OP's life isn't that bad.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545236)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 10:57 AM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

It could be worse, honestly. It is just one goddamn bad thing after another tho...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545695)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 10:04 AM
Author: Smoky Temple

On a supposed law forum, can’t believe nobody had mentioned breaking your lease and moving now. CA is extremely tenant friendly and you can break leases with no penalty because landlords have a duty to mitigate damages. There are no apartments in the LA area that sit vacant for months. What you do is give notice to leave as of April 30 which is almost 2 months notice. Say you’re using your last lonth’s rent for April rent. If you’ve rented through a property manager that is professional, they will already know the drill and start process of reletting. If they don’t do anything, during that time, post an ad on Craigslist for the current rent amount and forward all prospective applicants to your landlord. Document everything. If your landlord is shady, they will say they don’t want to rent to a new person who may have worse credit history or whatever, but they have the duty to mitigate. Landlord will find a tenant easily for the same or likely higher rent because it’s almost a year later. All that’s at stake is your security deposit and sue them in small claims if landlord tries to withhold it. I broke my lease and did exactly this and won easily.

As for your wife, you’ve mentioned before you’re not even legally married because you never mailed in the signed marriage license. So I don’t know why you’re so against so called “divorce.” You’re the father of the child and will have rights. You should talk to the divorce lawyer again.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545353)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 10:25 AM
Author: self-centered sepia cruise ship macaca

jfc at thinking that landlord-tenant laws are the relevant issue here

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545460)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 10:30 AM
Author: Smoky Temple

It does not solve his bigger problem with his wife but does cut down his commute significantly. 3-3.5 of wasted time commuting is a huge burden and is also time away from his daughter which matters. Just trying to make his life slightly easier since his bigger problem is much harder to solve.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545517)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 10:47 AM
Author: indecent crystalline dilemma

I find the advice to be highly credited. There is no point in putting yourself through literal hell over a couple months rent. People often make (or importantly don't make) life decisions on the basis of a lease. Nutella is right that in a desirable area the apartment is never going to sit vacate for very long.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545629)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 10:40 AM
Author: stubborn roommate

They are most likely common law married under Texas law.

You have "agreed to be married."

You have "lived together in this state as husband and wife."

You have "represented to others" that you are married.

http://guides.sll.texas.gov/common-law-marriage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545580)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 10:51 AM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

Yes, we are common law married in Texas

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545662)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 10:50 AM
Author: black thriller shrine voyeur

he doesn't want a divorce just yet. bad for baby + household income would drop from 500K-600K to 120K in CA. and he has no career/job stability. if he moves that 120K in CA to a low col area but wife doesn't, baby would only have 1 present parent.

there's a chance she's this awful because she knows she can get away with it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545655)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 10:51 AM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

(Guy who gets it)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545665)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 11:03 AM
Author: black thriller shrine voyeur

idk what you should do with your wife but a lower COL location (ideally near YOUR family/friends) would be better for your power dynamics. so you won't care about her extra income as much. that'll give her less power. right now your lifestyle in CA likely needs her income.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545746)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 11:20 AM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

You are right. I would feel way better in Denver where I have friends and am in driving distance of my family. Really need to make that happen in the next couple years.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545874)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 10:56 AM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

We are renting a townhouse from some Chinese guy that is literally named Mao and our rental agreement does not allow for us to break our lease. The place we are leasing sat empty for months because he had absurd requirements and wanted to leave the place partially furnished. He is not going to cut us a break and he won't find another renter. He will also likely try to keep our deposit. I guess it is worth exploring our options.

Common law married in Texas.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545687)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:03 PM
Author: Bossy theater

Are you a lawyer? This is in California? Nutella is right, lol at being afraid of your landlord in California

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546213)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:20 PM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

Not a lawyer

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546333)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:29 PM
Author: Smoky Temple

You aren’t common law married in CA. I don’t know what state law controls, CA or TX so talk to the lawyer. Either way, lawyer can help you with a game plan on documenting her mental illness.

As for lease, worst case you lose security deposit if you’re too lazy to go to small claims to get it back. And you’d easily win in small claims. Worth it to shorten commute significantly for a bunch of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546407)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:41 PM
Author: chest-beating stead

alternatively, he could take the non-jew/chink approach and just ask the landlord nicely if they will list the apartment and end your lease early when they find someone. if the guy isn't a total piece of shit then they should go along with it.

edit: saw above how your landlord is some gook. yea, you're going to have to take that fucker to court.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546464)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 10:25 AM
Author: Slate Coffee Pot

OP, Scott Frost will deliver us from evil and return our beloved program to where it belongs. Then nothing else will matter. Just hang tight until then.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545462)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 10:51 AM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

TY Brother. GBR.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35545658)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 11:47 AM
Author: Orchid sex offender useless brakes

I can't tell if op is a genuinely good dood who is toughing it out for his daughter, or if he's just bitchmade and scared of leaving his wife's nest to rely on his shitlaw income and failing to prosper on his own. I'm leaning towards the former, but if it's the latter he needs to STFU and take his abuse like a good little house pet. because that's his full-time job now. the in-house garbage with the 4-hour commute is just a hobby.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546080)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 11:49 AM
Author: insanely creepy wonderful library water buffalo

i thought his full-time job was creating content for xo?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546092)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 11:51 AM
Author: avocado sound barrier

Honestly, I think it is both.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546110)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:19 PM
Author: appetizing ceo office



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546320)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:18 PM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

If I didn't have a daughter, I would not be in this relationship and I would be living in Denver. I have turned down two jobs in Denver now, where I want to live, because of this relationship. I would be making the same salary I am in SoCal, but in a much lower COL area and near family/friends.

I am not a shit lawyer and have no ties to California at all.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546314)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:41 PM
Author: Wine Offensive Boiling Water Abode

And no doubt you explained this all to your wife. Which means she is irrational. I mean the OP presents a clear, good choice for you and your family. Keep current job but move to Denver. From what I can tell, she is some sort of doctor who has no ties to California. So she could find a job in Denver pretty easily.

If you calmly explained all this -- including offering to take a long weekend in Denver to see if she liked it -- and she still refused to consider it, than you are never going to be happy in this marriage. She doesn't care about you, she only cares about herself, and she is not rational.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546469)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:46 PM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

I already took her to Denver for a long weekend when I had the opportunity to move there last time. She likes it there and ended up coming around to wanting to move there - after I had turned down the job. She was literally threatening divorce if I took it until all of a sudden she changed her mind. She could keep her job now and work anywhere, literally anywhere in the country. Moving to Denver is like getting a 30-40% raise immediately. This was a no brainer. She says she is supportive of moving to Denver now, but is constantly changing her mind so who knows what she will think when/if another opportunity arises.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546506)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:49 PM
Author: Wine Offensive Boiling Water Abode

What attraction does she have to Cali?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546552)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:46 PM
Author: chest-beating stead

so apply to jobs in Denver and don't turn down offers again just because your wife flips out for a few minutes. she isn't going to divorce you over that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546509)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:48 PM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

Cr advice. I told her I am taking the next job in Denver no matter what and am staying in touch with the guy who offered me the job there. Something will come open eventually.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546540)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 12:56 PM
Author: avocado sound barrier

Dude, Denver sucks ass. Why are you so intent on moving there?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546605)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:04 PM
Author: Maroon Plaza

Because he's a rootless bugman

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546672)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:04 PM
Author: Slate Coffee Pot

why are you constantly wrong?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546673)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:07 PM
Author: avocado sound barrier

I'm not and fuck Denver (except for flying in to ski occasionally).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546697)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:14 PM
Author: chest-beating stead

of course you are. it's obviously better for him to live in denver where he would have friends and family and would be legit rich vs. being another UMC faggot in hellhole california and having no friends besides the shrew moms/faggot husbands his wife will eventually force him to hang out with.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546769)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:15 PM
Author: appetizing ceo office

but his wife is his friend!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546788)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:18 PM
Author: black thriller shrine voyeur

lol he's only umc because of his wife.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546817)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:20 PM
Author: avocado sound barrier

Yeah, a $120k HHI (and paying child support) in CO vs. $500k-$600k in SoCal is a no-brainer.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546842)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:23 PM
Author: appetizing ceo office

(reading comp masterman)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546872)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:26 PM
Author: chest-beating stead

he's said multiple times itt that his wife works remotely and can do it anywhere you dumb asshole.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546910)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:43 PM
Author: avocado sound barrier

He has also said that while she waffles, in the past she has indicated that she doesn't really want to move to Denver.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35547031)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:44 PM
Author: chest-beating stead

so this means she's going to quit her job is she moves to denver and that is the reasoning behind your declaration that it's "$120K vs. $500K HHI"?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35547045)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 2:01 PM
Author: avocado sound barrier

This means if he moves to Denver he is moving there alone while otherwise he can stay dual income in CA.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35547166)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 2:06 PM
Author: chest-beating stead

ok. that is not the actual situation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35547193)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 2:17 PM
Author: avocado sound barrier

That is my take of it. OP can confirm or deny.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35547270)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:19 PM
Author: avocado sound barrier

Making like $120k in Denver (which is what he would make) is not being rich. It isn't that fucking cheap.

Here's what $2 million gets you in Denver: https://www.zillow.com/homedetails/1136-S-Gilpin-St-Denver-CO-80210/13370240_zpid/?fullpage=true

Nope, I lied, it is way more than $2 million...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546830)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:21 PM
Author: Slate Coffee Pot

that's like the most expensive neighborhood in Denver

There are plenty of other places to live in Denver that are affordable

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546847)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:26 PM
Author: avocado sound barrier

The guy above said this: "it's obviously better for him to live in denver where he would have friends and family and would be legit rich"

I was pointing out what "legit rich" actually looks like in Denver. It wouldn't be him.

Here's a cheaper home: https://www.zillow.com/homedetails/2818-Hazel-Ct-Denver-CO-80211/13311408_zpid/?fullpage=true

Still expensive.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546909)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:28 PM
Author: Slate Coffee Pot

Why don't you link what $2mm in CA buys you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546921)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:36 PM
Author: avocado sound barrier

Challenge accepted.

https://www.zillow.com/homedetails/2752-Hollyridge-Dr-Los-Angeles-CA-90068/20806003_zpid/?fullpage=true

https://www.zillow.com/homedetails/504-Pacific-Ave-Venice-CA-90291/2090817413_zpid/?fullpage=true

https://www.zillow.com/homedetails/11445-Waterford-St-Los-Angeles-CA-90049/20527298_zpid/?fullpage=true

https://www.zillow.com/homedetails/444-S-California-St-Burbank-CA-91505/20066802_zpid/?fullpage=true

This is LA, not SV.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546981)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:29 PM
Author: black thriller shrine voyeur

that guy prolly forgot thundercollins has a kid to pay for, unless he's ok with abandoning kid. 120K as a single guy is probably very comfortable in denver.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546934)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:37 PM
Author: avocado sound barrier

It still wouldn't be "legit rich." It would be fine. Hell, $120k as a single guy is comfortable in LA.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546988)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:38 PM
Author: black thriller shrine voyeur

jfc fish no one is legit rich w/o at least 10M who gives a shit. they're not legit rich in any situation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546992)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:43 PM
Author: avocado sound barrier

I agree. But there's a world of difference between like $500-600k/year and $120k/year and the difference in COL doesn't come close to making it up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35547038)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:46 PM
Author: chest-beating stead

good thing that's not the actual situation we're talking about here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35547055)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:48 PM
Author: avocado sound barrier

Link?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35547069)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:55 PM
Author: chest-beating stead

I'm not linking to poasts in this thread asshat. he's said multiple times she can keep her job, so it isn't a $120K vs. $500K decision. you just said that because you didn't read the thread and are now pretending it's because you assume he's getting divorced if he moves. as a married guy you should know that people don't just get divorced because they have to move to another city unless they have a shitty marriage and are going to anyways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35547128)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:57 PM
Author: avocado sound barrier

We know perfectly well they have a shitty marriage. They also have a young child. You should also know that people can't unilaterally decide to change cities either. His wife is against moving to Denver. If my wife decided to move to Denver I'd say no too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35547144)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:21 PM
Author: black thriller shrine voyeur

that's not the point. the point is he can't comfortably support himself and a baby in LA so he is dependent on his wife. he could comfortably support himself and a baby in Denver. he needs to get rid of this dependency to have a healthy relationship, unless his wife becomes really down and at peace with being breadwinner (but then he also has to be become really down and at peace with not being breadwinner).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546848)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:22 PM
Author: appetizing ceo office

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546861)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:28 PM
Author: avocado sound barrier

The point is that he has two bad choices:

1. Stay in LA and make that work. If he does this he lives in a two income family that makes a ton of cash.

2. Move to Denver which will cause his wife to bitch about being poor and blaming all the ensuing problems on him. When he gets a divorced, he will get financially raped because her income will go to 0.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546924)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:32 PM
Author: chest-beating stead

how are you this illiterate? her income isn't going to zero. he's said several times she can do her current job anywhere.

read the fucking thread or at least skim it for the main points before taking some retarded position and defending it to the death.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546954)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:44 PM
Author: avocado sound barrier

No shit. He also said she shot down moving to Denver the last time he got an actual offer and made it clear that she would rather divorce him than move to Denver, which is how they got to where they are anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35547044)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:45 PM
Author: chest-beating stead

yea, she's fucking batshit nuts. that has fuck all to do with the economics of the decision, other than Denver being better if she actually does leave him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35547051)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:48 PM
Author: avocado sound barrier

But then he is trying to find females in Denver which sounds terrible.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35547066)



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Date: March 7th, 2018 3:33 AM
Author: Walnut area

Denver females are preferable to 95% of females in the rest of the country, TBH.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35551812)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:36 PM
Author: Smoky Temple

Wtf are you talking about. His wife works remotely and can move anywhere and doesn’t need to live in SoCal. Her income is the same in SoCal or Denver.

You’re also missing the big piece about his being closer to family and friends. He needs a support network for childcare and leaving his wife.

Not everything is just about money or COL.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546978)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:42 PM
Author: avocado sound barrier

You're assuming that in either case he leaves the wife. I see it as an option between staying with wife in LA or leaving wife and moving to Denver.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35547025)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:16 PM
Author: appetizing ceo office

I love Denver and I'm originally from CA and most of my family are out there. CA is unliveable now, esp. for people who don't inherit real estate.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546801)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:20 PM
Author: Maroon Plaza

See Thunder Collins? Denver is already infested with rootless bugmen. Moving to another bughive of a city will not solve your problems.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546838)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:21 PM
Author: appetizing ceo office

To be fair, his only real solution is divorcing her, but he is obviously too much of a cuck to do so.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546859)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:00 PM
Author: ocher rebellious ladyboy whorehouse

1) Move to Denver then find a job

2) Find a job in LA.

Your wife makes so much it's not a big deal if you are unemployed for a few months. By necessity you have the beta career and need to be more flexible than you otherwise would - but at least you have the luxury to pick and choose.

Don't let your need for fulfillment or self actualization get in the way of what's best for your family like a shrew!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546638)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:01 PM
Author: appetizing ceo office

(guy who missed the point of this entire thread)

His wife will prob go batshit on him if he did this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546649)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:18 PM
Author: ocher rebellious ladyboy whorehouse

this should be something they discuss together.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546811)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:21 PM
Author: appetizing ceo office

his wife has serious, diagnosed mental illnesses. it is impossible to discuss with someone who is legit insane.

he should be siphoning money into a secret bank account to escape from her one day

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546845)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:01 PM
Author: talented internal respiration nursing home

fuck your wife (read with double entendre)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546652)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:07 PM
Author: Godawful Death Wish

I notice you have not confirmed yet whether you have been taking video all these months. That was the one piece of advice everyone was in agreement on and it and I think even you said you would do it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546703)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:16 PM
Author: Maroon Plaza

lol @ the advice itt

Thunder Collins becomes a rootlessness bugmam with a study cunt wife. xo 2018's advice? Just go do rootless bugman lifestyle in a different city. Just do abandon your family in whatever state you're from and live the bugman lifestyle! Just think of all the hot yoga studious and Ethiopian sushi places available on your 3.5 hour commute!!!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546795)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 10:54 PM
Author: Beady-eyed sweet tailpipe round eye



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35550724)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:28 PM
Author: sadistic psychic

1. This makes me feel so much better about my organic gf. She isn’t perfect but DAMN she largely agrees and looks to me to lead on things

2. Was your job to represent the Chinese steel industry? What kind of firms are downsizing right now?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35546926)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:45 PM
Author: hairraiser national

he said it wasn't traditional downsizing. rather, his job was a newly created position within the company that didn't work out.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35547046)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:39 PM
Author: Maroon Plaza

Question #1 TC has never asked himself and as such will never improve:

"What does it say about me, as a man, that I attract women as awful as this?"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35547001)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 10:51 PM
Author: Beady-eyed sweet tailpipe round eye



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35550697)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:57 PM
Author: Duck-like blathering corner antidepressant drug

TC should threaten to divorce the wife if she doesn't get on meds. Threaten to have her undergo a psychiatric evaluation for custody rights.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35547141)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 1:58 PM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

Story of my firing. This really should be another post.

I worked in a newly created position to help develop and roll-out the company’s 2018-2020 strategy. We launched the strategy in late January. I guess I probably should have asked in the interview what happens after the strategy has been launched. They said they didn’t have enough “strategy” work to justify a full time position now and wanted to pay for a bunch of stuff related to the strategy that wasn’t in the budget. So basically I helped develop the strategy and then they fire me to pay for some of the ideas I developed.

They have cut overhead to the bone, so they do shit like this all the time to free up cash in the corporate functional groups (FP&A, HR, IT etc.) and make their profit/revenue targets. Late last year they laid people off and cut all kinds of expenses so the company could meet their numbers and the executive team could get their bonuses. A good friend of mine at work showed me my boss’s bonus – well over $1 million. But because they made all these deep cuts they don’t have money available to pay for any new initiatives that come up the following year. They are scrambling for relatively small amounts of money in the functional groups all the time. Just a disgusting way to run a company. Really makes me hate GC.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35547147)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 2:04 PM
Author: avocado sound barrier

Bro, whenever you take a position in-house that has a limited timeframe objective, you always view it as temporary. If I took a job that was "product counsel for new product/service XYZ launch" and work was going to plummet after it goes live, I would realize that I'd have a good chance of getting let go after it launched. But yeah, you live and you learn.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35547183)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 2:14 PM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

It obviously wasn’t presented as such. But yeah, lessons learned.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35547255)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 2:17 PM
Author: avocado sound barrier

It never is. They need people to walk into these jobs and if they presented it the way it is they wouldn't.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35547277)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 2:19 PM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

Yes, point taken. This was a mistake that won’t be repeated.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35547287)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 2:26 PM
Author: avocado sound barrier

No worries. I've gotten pwn3d too over wrong moves too. Hindsight is always 20/20.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35547355)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 5:30 PM
Author: Sienna nibblets cuckoldry

Fun fact: While sad and horrible, this isn't the worst thing going on in your life right now, by A LOT.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35548715)



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Date: March 6th, 2018 10:54 PM
Author: Soul-stirring Brunch

Welcome to the NEW ite, where apparently getting fired actually means getting transferred. Any other fuckers want to complain about Trump?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35550727)



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Date: March 7th, 2018 2:22 AM
Author: Dun field

180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35551766)



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Date: March 7th, 2018 1:58 PM
Author: chestnut bespoke pit

No, I was actually fired and was given a separation notification to sign. I just happened to land a couple job offers quickly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3910965&forum_id=2#35554299)