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Midlaw partner making ~500k/yr. what do with life? litigation is fucking awful

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Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy
  03/18/18
months of the year away from family.
Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy
  03/18/18
solo
Learning Disabled Rambunctious Menage Blood Rage
  03/18/18
retire early
Outnumbered judgmental senate
  03/18/18
my wife is legit happy that i am "partner" at an &...
Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy
  03/18/18
500k a year is amazing money man you cant and shouldnt leave
Umber big nibblets police squad
  03/18/18
LOL, you realize you have one life, and you're going to spen...
brass motley therapy quadroon
  03/18/18
also just made partner last year.
Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy
  03/18/18
I know a guy who squirreled away ca$h for 4 years as a bigla...
Titillating bipolar coffee pot
  03/18/18
180 for that bro.
indecent depressive deer antler
  03/18/18
I think his wife has a Nutella-esque job though
Titillating bipolar coffee pot
  03/18/18
i have dat lure of senior partner telling me i will inherit ...
Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy
  03/18/18
If big money isn't making you happy now what makes you think...
indecent depressive deer antler
  03/18/18
500k isnt big money. i live in a modest house in a high COL...
Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy
  03/18/18
No one to blame but yourself faggot. A partner who doesn ta...
Hyperactive stirring puppy
  03/18/18
work is delegated as much as possible. every associate in g...
Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy
  03/18/18
Dumb flame. Groups don’t get that busy in “midlaw,” and no...
Hyperactive stirring puppy
  03/18/18
ok technically we are "biglaw" but my firm is not ...
Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy
  03/18/18
More dumb flame. No junior partner moves with ten attorneys...
Hyperactive stirring puppy
  03/18/18
i am an exception to the rule. my last firm went out of b...
Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy
  03/18/18
It literally makes no sense to “recruit” a non rainmaker par...
Hyperactive stirring puppy
  03/18/18
three years ago i was recruited as an associate in a group w...
Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy
  03/18/18
This story sounds like utter and complete flame
cyan beta pocket flask temple
  03/18/18
not sure how i can prove it to you without completely outing...
Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy
  03/18/18
can i cop a jerb then?
cyan beta pocket flask temple
  03/18/18
are you in NYC? what undergrad degree do you have? what ye...
Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy
  03/18/18
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Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy
  03/18/18
not in NYC, practice at lit boutique in another jurisdiction...
cyan beta pocket flask temple
  03/18/18
How's troutman sanders like?
cyan beta pocket flask temple
  03/18/18
ok lets just say that for now. that works as a substitute.
Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy
  03/18/18
The fact that it isn't common for biglaw partners to stash a...
sapphire boistinker
  03/18/18
this was my first year. i stashed ~150k.
Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy
  03/18/18
I think that's pretty respectable given your take home. If ...
sapphire boistinker
  03/18/18
they only pick people who they know are obsessed with hordin...
Carnelian theatre pozpig
  03/18/18
I think it's a sunk cost thing. you've given up everything ...
Titillating bipolar coffee pot
  03/18/18
Doubt I'll ever know personally, I don't think I'm a parters...
sapphire boistinker
  03/18/18
before i had the "goal" of making partner in front...
Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy
  03/18/18
yeah that's our life until we die. :)))
Titillating bipolar coffee pot
  03/18/18
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Exciting aqua weed whacker tattoo
  03/18/18
save as much as possible and plow it into index equity funds...
odious nighttime wagecucks
  03/18/18
Woah
exhilarant ticket booth corn cake
  03/18/18
wife is also a lawyer and would not be fooled.
Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy
  03/18/18
Then she probably recognizes that LAW = SHIT, right? Would s...
Learning Disabled Rambunctious Menage Blood Rage
  03/18/18
GET BACK IN
sapphire boistinker
  03/18/18
*tamps pipe* ahhh, now we come to zee root your problems
Titillating bipolar coffee pot
  03/18/18
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Learning Disabled Rambunctious Menage Blood Rage
  03/18/18
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Alcoholic hell
  03/18/18
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Carnelian theatre pozpig
  03/18/18
Your wife is a lawyer and would be disappointed for you to l...
Hideous Garrison Yarmulke
  03/18/18
Doggie Suicide absolutely destroyed OP
cyan beta pocket flask temple
  03/18/18
all he did was call me flame. thats not "destroyed&quo...
Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy
  03/18/18
He proved you were flame and don’t even know enough about la...
cyan beta pocket flask temple
  03/18/18
brother i really wish it were flame. my biglaw story sounds...
Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy
  03/18/18
Have you tried moar litigation?
Vivacious whorehouse
  03/18/18
Write a rhyme and ride a bike and try to live carefree. Hop...
Lime Orchestra Pit Pisswyrm
  03/18/18
Fellow law partner here. Why not just travel 75% of the year...
Frozen Vigorous Stead Digit Ratio
  03/18/18
dude, RSF, cmon. (1) I'm married with kids and very happy w...
Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy
  03/18/18
why not 9-5 500k in house?
Honey-headed coiffed corner trump supporter
  03/18/18
thats what id like to know.
Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy
  03/18/18


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Date: March 18th, 2018 12:06 PM
Author: Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631052)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 12:08 PM
Author: Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy

months of the year away from family.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631061)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 12:11 PM
Author: Learning Disabled Rambunctious Menage Blood Rage

solo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631075)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 12:12 PM
Author: Outnumbered judgmental senate

retire early

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631081)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 12:13 PM
Author: Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy

my wife is legit happy that i am "partner" at an "international" law firm.

i would lose social status in her eyes by going solo. also i don't think i could do the same large-company country-wide lawsuits as a solo.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631087)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 12:14 PM
Author: Umber big nibblets police squad

500k a year is amazing money man you cant and shouldnt leave

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631091)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 2:14 PM
Author: brass motley therapy quadroon

LOL, you realize you have one life, and you're going to spend it worrying about what your wife thinks of your social status?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631619)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 12:13 PM
Author: Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy

also just made partner last year.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631089)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 12:17 PM
Author: Titillating bipolar coffee pot

I know a guy who squirreled away ca$h for 4 years as a biglaw partner then quit suddenly. I think he technically has a PLLC with his name on it to keep up appearances, but he doesn't actually work. Everybody was stunned, but I'm surprised it doesn't happen more often.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631108)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 12:18 PM
Author: indecent depressive deer antler

180 for that bro.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631109)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 12:20 PM
Author: Titillating bipolar coffee pot

I think his wife has a Nutella-esque job though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631118)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 12:22 PM
Author: Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy

i have dat lure of senior partner telling me i will inherit the business one day and be making 3M/yr. about 10 years away from that. every day is agony like 10,000 needles being pushed into my eyes and balls.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631123)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 12:23 PM
Author: indecent depressive deer antler

If big money isn't making you happy now what makes you think bigger money in 10 years will?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631128)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 12:24 PM
Author: Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy

500k isnt big money. i live in a modest house in a high COL area, never see my kids, don't take vacations, my wife also still works, i pay a nanny+school+daycare 100k/yr

watching as my kid autistically flaps arms as we speak while my wife is at work on a sunday.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631131)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 12:28 PM
Author: Hyperactive stirring puppy

No one to blame but yourself faggot. A partner who doesn take vacations and can’t figure out how to delegate work so his life isn’t miserable is dumb as fuck.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631144)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 12:30 PM
Author: Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy

work is delegated as much as possible. every associate in group is billing 2400-2800 hours. All are basically on suidice watch but are still "in the game" because they saw me make it. group is obscenely successful but very lean. >1.5M revenue per lawyer.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631151)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 12:35 PM
Author: Hyperactive stirring puppy

Dumb flame. Groups don’t get that busy in “midlaw,” and no associate is inspired by your dumb ass pretend making partner.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631167)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 12:37 PM
Author: Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy

ok technically we are "biglaw" but my firm is not vault rated. the firm thinks its biglaw and follows the biglaw associate comp scale. my office in NYC.

the group followed me from another firm and i personally recruited all 10 of them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631174)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 12:39 PM
Author: Hyperactive stirring puppy

More dumb flame. No junior partner moves with ten attorneys.. no senior partner does for that matter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631181)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 12:41 PM
Author: Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy

i am an exception to the rule.

my last firm went out of business. i got the associates over here one by one over 18 months. 10 was an exaggeration - the real number is 6.

i promise you this is not flame.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631190)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 12:43 PM
Author: Hyperactive stirring puppy

It literally makes no sense to “recruit” a non rainmaker partner with a bunch of associates he can’t keep busy. And ten is a beyond ridiculous number for even th biggest rainmaker.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631199)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 12:45 PM
Author: Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy

three years ago i was recruited as an associate in a group with 2 partners, no associates, and some work. i used connections that i had accumulated over my career to help grow the practice from a ~5M/yr practice to a nearly 20M/yr practice. This would not have been possible if i had not recruited my friends from old failing firm.

They made me partner and just told me my compass 500k all in this year.

The work i have is not extremely portable. very large conflict footprint, not marketable to bigger firms. also need to have a "large firm" so that clients are comfortable given the large geographic footprint of cases.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631205)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 2:04 PM
Author: cyan beta pocket flask temple

This story sounds like utter and complete flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631571)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 3:24 PM
Author: Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy

not sure how i can prove it to you without completely outing myself. if i told you the practice area it would probably out me as we are the only firm in the city where this practice area is currently growing and we have been blasting recruiters.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35632051)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 3:33 PM
Author: cyan beta pocket flask temple

can i cop a jerb then?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35632121)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 5:04 PM
Author: Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy

are you in NYC?

what undergrad degree do you have?

what year did you graduate law school? (we are specifically looking for some juniors)

autism level on scale of 1-10 (higher the better).

if you answer these properly, then sure.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35632655)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 9:34 PM
Author: Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35634386)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 10:22 PM
Author: cyan beta pocket flask temple

not in NYC, practice at lit boutique in another jurisdiction currently, but passed NY bar last july.

undergrad was double major in something along the lines of economics + philosophy, or accounting + poly sci, or finance + classics, you get the idea.

CLS/NYU JD

not a junior, but fewer than 10 years out of law school.

fairly aspie, but i'm tall and decent looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35634736)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 1:07 PM
Author: cyan beta pocket flask temple

How's troutman sanders like?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631289)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 1:27 PM
Author: Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy

ok lets just say that for now. that works as a substitute.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631414)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 12:31 PM
Author: sapphire boistinker

The fact that it isn't common for biglaw partners to stash a few million as fast as they can then bail for low CoL area is really indicative of what a mentally ill population it is.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631155)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 12:32 PM
Author: Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy

this was my first year. i stashed ~150k.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631160)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 12:33 PM
Author: sapphire boistinker

I think that's pretty respectable given your take home. If the market does well you could pull the ripcord in 5-10 years and be good, right?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631163)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 12:34 PM
Author: Carnelian theatre pozpig

they only pick people who they know are obsessed with hording as much money as possible

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631165)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 12:52 PM
Author: Titillating bipolar coffee pot

I think it's a sunk cost thing. you've given up everything to be in that spot. Once you make it, you're just going to walk away ?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631235)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 1:02 PM
Author: sapphire boistinker

Doubt I'll ever know personally, I don't think I'm a partershipmo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631273)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 1:03 PM
Author: Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy

before i had the "goal" of making partner in front of me. now i just get physically ill thinking that i have to do 3 trials a year and business development... forever.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631277)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 1:04 PM
Author: Titillating bipolar coffee pot

yeah that's our life until we die. :)))

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631282)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 1:09 PM
Author: Exciting aqua weed whacker tattoo



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631305)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 12:41 PM
Author: odious nighttime wagecucks

save as much as possible and plow it into index equity funds

after you accumulate a few mil, incorporate a solo firm that has a very similar name to your present firm

use the dividends from your investments to create the illusion to ur wife that ur business is operating

do something completely different that makes u happy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631191)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 12:42 PM
Author: exhilarant ticket booth corn cake

Woah

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631194)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 12:47 PM
Author: Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy

wife is also a lawyer and would not be fooled.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631214)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 12:55 PM
Author: Learning Disabled Rambunctious Menage Blood Rage

Then she probably recognizes that LAW = SHIT, right? Would she support your decision to GTFO of law?

If you make $500k and your wife presumably makes six figures, why not invest in another business/rental properties/something else and do that instead?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631245)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 1:03 PM
Author: sapphire boistinker

GET BACK IN

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631278)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 1:03 PM
Author: Titillating bipolar coffee pot

*tamps pipe*

ahhh, now we come to zee root your problems



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631279)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 1:04 PM
Author: Learning Disabled Rambunctious Menage Blood Rage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631281)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 2:26 PM
Author: Alcoholic hell



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631688)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 3:37 PM
Author: Carnelian theatre pozpig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35632143)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 2:23 PM
Author: Hideous Garrison Yarmulke

Your wife is a lawyer and would be disappointed for you to lose the "prestige" of working for an international law firm? Then tell her get a fucking job there. LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631672)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 1:10 PM
Author: cyan beta pocket flask temple

Doggie Suicide absolutely destroyed OP

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631311)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 1:22 PM
Author: Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy

all he did was call me flame. thats not "destroyed"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631381)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 1:26 PM
Author: cyan beta pocket flask temple

He proved you were flame and don’t even know enough about law firms to keep your flame together

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631409)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 1:27 PM
Author: Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy

brother i really wish it were flame. my biglaw story sounds like flame even to those who know me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631417)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 1:57 PM
Author: Vivacious whorehouse

Have you tried moar litigation?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631539)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 1:59 PM
Author: Lime Orchestra Pit Pisswyrm

Write a rhyme and ride a bike and try to live carefree.

Hope my message reaches you before you're seventy-three.

My old man, when people ask you what you did with your life.

You'll say "I hated LL ... and I carried a big knife!"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631547)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 2:25 PM
Author: Frozen Vigorous Stead Digit Ratio

Fellow law partner here. Why not just travel 75% of the year? See lots of interesting of places. Chill with your brej in every US city. Smash tinder chicks with dat lick msg and rile up NOWAGs on xo? It’s pretty cr brej.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35631683)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 3:27 PM
Author: Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy

dude, RSF, cmon. (1) I'm married with kids and very happy with all of that including wife. (2) i have to travel for deps/trials and it sucks to be away from them so much of the year. i need to ship out for a pretrial tomorrow and won't be home for 3 weeks. later this year i will need to do 2 weeks of deps in Hong Kong, 2 weeks of deps in Japan, maybe deps in Germany, then travel for more hearings for a few more weeks. then we have 3 more sets of trials at year end all over country.

so yeah ill be doing lots of this traveling, but i would rather be with wife and kids. i don't consider that to be vacationing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35632079)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 3:27 PM
Author: Honey-headed coiffed corner trump supporter

why not 9-5 500k in house?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35632080)



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Date: March 18th, 2018 3:28 PM
Author: Gaped Maniacal Space Really Tough Guy

thats what id like to know.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922015&forum_id=2#35632084)