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If you're having two kids is boy/boy or boy/girl more CR?
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Date: March 19th, 2018 3:45 PM Author: Sable national Already have one boy, finding out tonight if second is boy or girl (or zhe).
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Date: March 19th, 2018 3:47 PM Author: Curious volcanic crater how bout you pull for a healthy child and mother (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35638988) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 3:48 PM Author: Dark judgmental site (103 iq scholar getting 27 likes on facebook
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Date: March 19th, 2018 3:50 PM Author: insanely creepy stubborn property (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639023) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 3:56 PM Author: Sable national fair point, Wilbur. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639075) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:49 PM Author: flesh free-loading macaca (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639560) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 3:50 PM Author: Irate Reading Party Hall All boys is always tcr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639020) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 3:59 PM Author: pink charismatic genital piercing space (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639102) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 3:54 PM Author: Aphrodisiac iridescent lodge friendly grandma girsl are mor elikely to take care of you in old age and keep family together (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639060) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 3:55 PM Author: Sable national that's the appeal of a girl, tbh. that, and it seems like they might be a little less crazy in the toddler years. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639066) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 3:57 PM Author: Aphrodisiac iridescent lodge friendly grandma I can confirm re crazy toddler. But they say high school girls are 120. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639085) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 3:59 PM Author: Sable national that's what I've heard to. With boys you're front-loading the hassle but the high school years are blessedly free of drama. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639106) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 3:54 PM Author: soul-stirring slap-happy whorehouse Girl then boy is ideal
It’s too late for you haha sorry about that |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 3:57 PM Author: Sable national I don't agree with that at all----if I'd had a girl first I'd have been really hoping for a boy this time around. As it is I'm pretty indifferent as to which it is.
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:11 PM Author: soul-stirring slap-happy whorehouse Look, I’d love to throw a ball with my little boy too. But girls are a calming presence in the early years while the boy would otherwise cause ruckus, and in turn he will look out and protect her once she’s high school age to minimize your headache. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639218) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:23 PM Author: Aphrodisiac iridescent lodge friendly grandma There are actually some studies on this. Boys with an older sister have better life outcomes and are generally more socialized. We had only boys growing up and I never understood any girl shit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639327) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:25 PM Author: soul-stirring slap-happy whorehouse Same, no sisters. Had to learn a lot of shit on my own.
Link to these studies? |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 5:02 PM Author: Aphrodisiac iridescent lodge friendly grandma Exactly. Shrink I know passed on the info on studies. I googled it and got back porn links and stopped. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639644) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 5:08 PM Author: Sable national Which raises the question, why the hell is incest considered so hot these days? I really don't get it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639689) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 5:10 PM Author: Aphrodisiac iridescent lodge friendly grandma (((producers))) are running out of ways to undermine society (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639714) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:16 PM Author: blue stirring mexican dingle berry I wanted 2 boys because i think same sex have higher chance of being close, but 2nd is a girl. Also the mother has more responsibility when puberty hits and self esteem issues come up. I don’t really want to deal with that. I was actually a bit disappointed but got over it in like a day. I’m hoping for a sweeter, less demonic toddler.
I bought my son Daniel tiger’s baby sister stuffed animal and said “this is your baby sister, please take care of her.” He slammed her against the wall and then ran all his toy trucks over her. When I asked him why he did that, he said “she’s crying.” Auspicious start.
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:19 PM Author: Fighting Hilarious Laser Beams lmao at baby nutelliot rodger's early warning signs (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639300) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:19 PM Author: soul-stirring slap-happy whorehouse (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639302) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:46 PM Author: Ruby Aggressive People Who Are Hurt Alpha (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639537) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 6:49 PM Author: black resort partner (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35640318) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 7:34 PM Author: flesh free-loading macaca (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35640631) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:32 PM Author: Sable national Our son really wants a sister for some reason, so it looks like he might be disappointed.
Really, I think you're getting the better deal. I think it would be fun to get a chance to raise one of each. |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:39 PM Author: blue stirring mexican dingle berry Lol, yeah, my son always said sister when I asked him what he wanted before we found out. I think they view it as less competition. He’s in for a shock regardless since he’s used to getting all the attention. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639461) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:42 PM Author: Sable national I do wonder about the experience of having a sibling suddenly show up. I was an only child so I don't really have any experience with this sort of this, but I can't imagine it's pleasant to have someone show up and take up a healthy chunk of your parents' time and attention.
Should be interesting to see how it plays out. |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:47 PM Author: blue stirring mexican dingle berry I am an only child too so I have no experience either. My husband is 1 of 3 and said that he’s now realized that every kid after the first basically is an afterthought and gets screwed attention wise. The first at least had a period where they were the only and parents were super attentive due to caring too much. I’m much more worried about how my sons going to adjust than caring for the lump of a newborn that I can just stuff in the rock n play. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639546) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:51 PM Author: Sable national Your husband has a point---I remember with our first I paid a lot of attention during the ultrasounds and was charting crown-rump length measurements and things like that.
This time around I'm much less into the details of the process. I imagine that'll carry over once he's born. |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 5:06 PM Author: ultramarine party of the first part (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639665) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:17 PM Author: twinkling house tank boys. always boys. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639289) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:21 PM Author: arousing psychic business firm I'd rather have two of the same. seems like less work and more likely they'd be close. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639316) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:22 PM Author: swashbuckling garrison mental disorder Doesn't really matter. People's biological sex at birth has little to do with their ultimate gender identity. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639325) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:33 PM Author: Sable national sadly true these days, lol! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639408) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:30 PM Author: infuriating titillating state Same siblings close together can become competitive. You have an older brother no matter what which his great. A girl means he can hit on her friends when they're older lol. Also less pressure for a third if you're hoping to stop at 2. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639382) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:35 PM Author: Sable national It's going to be close to a 4 year age gap by the time the new one's here. I'm not sure what that means in terms of getting along, competition, things like that.
You're right, though---hitting on a little sister's friends is 180. |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:30 PM Author: Sable national UPDATE: It's a boy! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639385) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:31 PM Author: arousing psychic business firm 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639388) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:32 PM Author: infuriating titillating state Congrats! Wifey will likely push for a 3rd so be ready! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639398) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:32 PM Author: purple travel guidebook shrine (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639403) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:32 PM Author: purple travel guidebook shrine i would never push for a 3rd (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639404) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:34 PM Author: Sable national Thanks! Unfortunately I we'll be a little too old to go for a third. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639416) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:34 PM Author: purple travel guidebook shrine how old is too old to go for a kid? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639419) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:37 PM Author: Sable national Well, probably biologically it would be possible but she'd be pushing late 30's by the time it came time to do anything about it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639439) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:38 PM Author: purple travel guidebook shrine congratulations btw! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639450) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:39 PM Author: Sable national thanks! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639464) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:44 PM Author: infuriating titillating state It's going to be really tough for her to give up on the idea of a girl once she's packing the last of the baby stuff away. The pressure will be strong. But enjoy #2! It is 180^180 watching the sibling interactions. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639530) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:48 PM Author: Sable national You might very well be right---she does seem to get weirdly emotional when she packs away his clothes when he outgrows them, so I could see that happening.
How much extra work is it when you another one to the mix? |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:50 PM Author: infuriating titillating state In the beginning it's "haha wow holy shit" but it honestly depends a lot on what kind of baby he is and how big an age difference. [redacted] First few months will suck no matter what and then around 12 weeks it gets 180 again. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639572) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:51 PM Author: Sable national Interesting. Ty. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639579) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 5:04 PM Author: Aphrodisiac iridescent lodge friendly grandma the more you have of one sex the more likley it is you'll have another
https://www.freep.com/story/news/local/michigan/2018/02/05/schwandt-familly-boys-sons/308138002/ |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:33 PM Author: marvelous stead Congrats (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639409) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:37 PM Author: Sable national Thank you:) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639444) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:40 PM Author: blue stirring mexican dingle berry Yay!!! No need to buy new clothes and they can fight and be close too. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639470) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:44 PM Author: Sable national I'm relieved about not having to buy new toys---we have friends who have daughters and I just don't "get" the toys they play with. Whereas most everything my son plays with seems like fun and I can relate to.
Edit: Now I just have to hope he doesn't inherit his mom's 5'1 height.
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Date: March 19th, 2018 5:01 PM Author: blue stirring mexican dingle berry Well we are not getting any girl toys or dollhouse things so she will have to make due with the construction vehicles we have.
It’s funny that you talk about “getting” the toys because I find it incredibly boring to build duplo and lining up trains and crashing cars and my husband really enjoys it. I mean I enjoy playing with my son, but I don’t enjoy the toys themselves the way my husband does. There’s this tonka garbage truck in particular that my husband said “wow he’s so lucky he has this toy, I would’ve gone nuts over this as a kid” and I’m thinking “really? It’s a stupid garbage truck.” |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 5:07 PM Author: Sable national I could never tell how much of the "girl toy" thing is parents picking the stuff out and sending the kid on a certain path and how much is baked in the cake.
We know one couple that is very insistent on making their daughter play with gender-neutral or boy toys and whenever I see her with other kids she's losing her shit over shopkins or some princess outfit.
I really just feel like I'm biding my time until I can play sports with my son. That's what I'm really looking forward to. But until then it is pretty fun to play with marble runs and build train tracks. Stuff my wife enjoys, but I suspect not as much as my son and I do.
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Date: March 19th, 2018 5:17 PM Author: blue stirring mexican dingle berry Yeah I’m not against gender specific toys, I just don’t want to spend unnecessary money into getting a whole new set of toys since our house is already a disaster zone of bright plastic. We didn’t push anything on our son and he just naturally gravitated toward all the stereotypically boy stuff. If the girl goes nuts over the tea parties, I’ll have to accommodate but I’m really curious how much of it is nurture v nature. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639757) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 5:03 PM Author: Aphrodisiac iridescent lodge friendly grandma congrats (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639646) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 5:09 PM Author: Sable national thanks very much! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639691) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 5:07 PM Author: galvanic parlour striped hyena congrats, brother! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639682) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 5:09 PM Author: Sable national Thank you! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639695) |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:35 PM Author: Buck-toothed factory reset button If you're only having two, I say boy/boy. Boys need a brother. I only have an older sister.
Girls I know with sisters only seem to bitch about them, even if they're "close"
EDIT: Just saw you're having a boy. Congrats, think that's the best outcome you could get |
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Date: March 19th, 2018 4:39 PM Author: Sable national thank you, brother. i'm pretty happy with the outcome. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3922995&forum_id=2#35639454) |