EXCERCISE ALONE WILL DO NOTHING.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35654985)

You’ve already poasted that you are trying to get her pregnant. This was 100% her doing, because she sees you as a lottery ticket. Just as your ex wife who only married you for a green card did.

If you make a comment like in the OP, she will seize on it and feign upsetness. Not because she’s actually upset, but because she knows you’ll immediately cave, and she will get even more power over you.

How do you not see that women basically treat you like a doormat? I don’t get it. And I have news for you...what exactly do you think will happen to her weight if you actually do get her pregnant?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35655043)

if i were you, id take this approach: "babe, if youre going to get pregnant w my babby, you need to stop eating junk NOW and lose a few lbs first. eating processed food while pregnant is bad for babby and getting preggers at your weight may lead to gestational diabetes"

it may not work, but telling her to eat less so youll find her more attractive definitely isnt going to work either. she may be more willing to improve her diet for babby

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35656611)

also, if he is high value to her the attractiveness thing should work

he has to address the dynamics at play or he will be DONE HERE

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35656790)

I agree the dynamics might be a little off, but unfortunately a lot of women dont see weight gain as disrespectful to their SO. One of the shit aspects of the body positivity movement is that it leads a lot of people to think its ok to be any weight and that criticizing peoples weight is hurtful etc. I think long term ragnus needs to decide if hes ok w having a long term partner that struggles w food issues. But if hes going to form babby w her, he can try to approach it from this angle

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35661761)

From what hes said about her, its the only thing that has a chance of working imo. This is not to say that it WILL work, just that its probably the best strategy

She isnt going to get skinny just to get skinny. Thats NOT going to happen w a chick that eats whole bags of chips at once. And Ragnus needs to approach this problem by thinking like a woman. What will she value more than food? Locking him down/forming babby. If he makes it very clear to her that a healthy pregnancy and body is a requirement of his in order to impregnate her, she may be willing to change her habits somewhat. Women will often do things for their children that they wont necessarily do for themselves. Putting it in those terms also makes it less looks-focused/'superficial' on his part.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35661555)

3 out of her 5 tinder pictures were her smiling at a pile of food

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35664825)