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"you are perfect size right now, i'm just worried about you getting fatter."

is this an acceptable line to convince my gf to go to gym?
Silver doobsian lodge mother
  03/21/18
*any fatter
Fishy Toaster Locale
  03/21/18
...
fighting hell
  03/21/18
*fat
Frisky Sapphire Space Roommate
  03/21/18
...
floppy effete ticket booth partner
  03/21/18
why not just call her a fat bitch and that she needs to stop...
Insanely creepy unholy dingle berry new version
  03/21/18
cr
Fishy Toaster Locale
  03/21/18
i would do that but i don't want to hurt her feelings.
Silver doobsian lodge mother
  03/21/18
ITS DIET!!!! EXCERCISE ALONE WILL DO NOTHING.
beady-eyed ceo piazza
  03/21/18
Lol at you. Sometimes, I really wonder if you’re serious. ...
magenta round eye
  03/21/18
...
beady-eyed ceo piazza
  03/21/18
spin, ratfucks
Painfully honest provocative national
  03/21/18
brutal
Indigo center telephone
  03/22/18
You are fucked. Period.
supple plum incel internal respiration
  03/21/18
...
Arousing ungodly state
  03/21/18
imo, the only way to get a fat chick to want to stop eating ...
mustard adventurous lettuce
  03/21/18
she's not currently pregnant so the processed food thing doe...
fighting hell
  03/21/18
(which he already is)
fighting hell
  03/21/18
Cr, see my poast. He must send out BETA signals and that's ...
magenta round eye
  03/21/18
...
Rebellious Sweet Tailpipe
  03/21/18
The food thing definitely does make sense. Realistically it ...
mustard adventurous lettuce
  03/22/18
...
Silver doobsian lodge mother
  03/22/18
sad, lol
fighting hell
  03/22/18
This is a good strategy. There is a growing body of research...
Drab dashing filthpig pistol
  03/22/18
Yep. Fat mom is bad for baby. From what hes said about he...
mustard adventurous lettuce
  03/22/18
...
slippery puce abode
  03/21/18
All you need to do is sit her down and, in a mature and dipl...
dark voyeur
  03/22/18
This is also good
mustard adventurous lettuce
  03/22/18
...
Silver doobsian lodge mother
  03/22/18
I did this for over two years and it ultimately just lead to...
azure frum den electric furnace
  03/22/18
If she's getting fat she doesn't respect you; sorry brother ...
pearl point boltzmann
  03/22/18
no she was fat before i met her too. 3 out of her 5 tinde...
Silver doobsian lodge mother
  03/22/18


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Date: March 21st, 2018 5:20 PM
Author: Silver doobsian lodge mother

is this an acceptable line to convince my gf to go to gym?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35654948)



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Date: March 21st, 2018 5:20 PM
Author: Fishy Toaster Locale

*any fatter

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35654953)



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Date: March 21st, 2018 5:29 PM
Author: fighting hell



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35655060)



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Date: March 21st, 2018 5:20 PM
Author: Frisky Sapphire Space Roommate

*fat

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35654961)



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Date: March 21st, 2018 5:21 PM
Author: floppy effete ticket booth partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35654971)



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Date: March 21st, 2018 5:22 PM
Author: Insanely creepy unholy dingle berry new version

why not just call her a fat bitch and that she needs to stop eating

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35654979)



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Date: March 21st, 2018 5:22 PM
Author: Fishy Toaster Locale

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35654981)



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Date: March 21st, 2018 5:22 PM
Author: Silver doobsian lodge mother

i would do that but i don't want to hurt her feelings.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35654982)



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Date: March 21st, 2018 5:22 PM
Author: beady-eyed ceo piazza

ITS DIET!!!!

EXCERCISE ALONE WILL DO NOTHING.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35654985)



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Date: March 21st, 2018 5:27 PM
Author: magenta round eye

Lol at you. Sometimes, I really wonder if you’re serious.

You’ve already poasted that you are trying to get her pregnant. This was 100% her doing, because she sees you as a lottery ticket. Just as your ex wife who only married you for a green card did.

If you make a comment like in the OP, she will seize on it and feign upsetness. Not because she’s actually upset, but because she knows you’ll immediately cave, and she will get even more power over you.

How do you not see that women basically treat you like a doormat? I don’t get it. And I have news for you...what exactly do you think will happen to her weight if you actually do get her pregnant?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35655043)



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Date: March 21st, 2018 5:29 PM
Author: beady-eyed ceo piazza



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35655067)



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Date: March 21st, 2018 8:13 PM
Author: Painfully honest provocative national

spin, ratfucks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35656626)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 1:15 PM
Author: Indigo center telephone

brutal

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35661517)



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Date: March 21st, 2018 5:28 PM
Author: supple plum incel internal respiration

You are fucked. Period.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35655056)



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Date: March 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: Arousing ungodly state



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35655087)



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Date: March 21st, 2018 8:12 PM
Author: mustard adventurous lettuce

imo, the only way to get a fat chick to want to stop eating is to present her with something that will make her happier than food and make her believe that she has to choose between the two

if i were you, id take this approach: "babe, if youre going to get pregnant w my babby, you need to stop eating junk NOW and lose a few lbs first. eating processed food while pregnant is bad for babby and getting preggers at your weight may lead to gestational diabetes"

it may not work, but telling her to eat less so youll find her more attractive definitely isnt going to work either. she may be more willing to improve her diet for babby

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35656611)



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Date: March 21st, 2018 8:29 PM
Author: fighting hell

she's not currently pregnant so the processed food thing doesnt make sense

also, if he is high value to her the attractiveness thing should work

he has to address the dynamics at play or he will be DONE HERE

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35656790)



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Date: March 21st, 2018 8:34 PM
Author: fighting hell

(which he already is)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35656854)



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Date: March 21st, 2018 10:07 PM
Author: magenta round eye

Cr, see my poast. He must send out BETA signals and that's how he attracts these women. Can't be a coincidence.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35657631)



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Date: March 21st, 2018 10:06 PM
Author: Rebellious Sweet Tailpipe



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35657626)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 1:45 PM
Author: mustard adventurous lettuce

The food thing definitely does make sense. Realistically it would be good for her to lose a few lbs before getting pregnant. Of course she will gain them back during pregnancy but the closer she is to her proper weight when she conceives, the better

I agree the dynamics might be a little off, but unfortunately a lot of women dont see weight gain as disrespectful to their SO. One of the shit aspects of the body positivity movement is that it leads a lot of people to think its ok to be any weight and that criticizing peoples weight is hurtful etc. I think long term ragnus needs to decide if hes ok w having a long term partner that struggles w food issues. But if hes going to form babby w her, he can try to approach it from this angle

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35661761)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:16 PM
Author: Silver doobsian lodge mother



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35661127)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:18 PM
Author: fighting hell

sad, lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35661141)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 1:05 PM
Author: Drab dashing filthpig pistol

This is a good strategy. There is a growing body of research that fat parents, through gene expression, produce fucked up offspring.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35661467)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 1:22 PM
Author: mustard adventurous lettuce

Yep. Fat mom is bad for baby.

From what hes said about her, its the only thing that has a chance of working imo. This is not to say that it WILL work, just that its probably the best strategy

She isnt going to get skinny just to get skinny. Thats NOT going to happen w a chick that eats whole bags of chips at once. And Ragnus needs to approach this problem by thinking like a woman. What will she value more than food? Locking him down/forming babby. If he makes it very clear to her that a healthy pregnancy and body is a requirement of his in order to impregnate her, she may be willing to change her habits somewhat. Women will often do things for their children that they wont necessarily do for themselves. Putting it in those terms also makes it less looks-focused/'superficial' on his part.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35661555)



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Date: March 21st, 2018 8:21 PM
Author: slippery puce abode



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35656707)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 1:09 PM
Author: dark voyeur

All you need to do is sit her down and, in a mature and diplomatic way, explain that your fitness is important to you and you need a partner who takes it just as seriously. You guys have good sexual chemistry and her preserving her body is not only the better choice for her health but also for the sustainability of your relationship. Be polite but firm, indicating that this is basically non-negotiable and you want her to prioritize her physique because you love it so much and want to keep it that way. If you're really feeling adventurous, you add a few words about communication - how important it is and how you really appreciate the opportunity for be candid with her, how much you guys are "not like those other couples" who swallow their feelings and endlessly brood for years, embrace passive-aggressiveness. No - you guys are different and this is going to work. Just put a positive spin on it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35661489)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 1:46 PM
Author: mustard adventurous lettuce

This is also good

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35661770)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 7:48 PM
Author: Silver doobsian lodge mother



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35664752)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 7:58 PM
Author: azure frum den electric furnace

I did this for over two years and it ultimately just lead to me becoming a bigger and bigger dick about it and a very sad ending with a chick I deeply loved. Don't stick with an overweight chick unless she is already very motivated and losing rapidly even without your prodding.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35664817)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 1:15 PM
Author: pearl point boltzmann

If she's getting fat she doesn't respect you; sorry brother but you're done here

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35661515)



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Date: March 22nd, 2018 7:58 PM
Author: Silver doobsian lodge mother

no she was fat before i met her too.

3 out of her 5 tinder pictures were her smiling at a pile of food

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3924895&forum_id=2#35664825)