Charles is clearly gay but repressing it due to religion
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 2:59 PM Author: fragrant hell
Biblical proscription of premarital sex isn't that clear. It doesn't violate 10 commandments and is not a deadly sin (assuming you're not driven by lust). Scholarship on premarital sex focuses on scripture describing the benefits of pure marriage and the blessing (and commandment) of procreation. Scripture proscribes sexual deviance, but this isn't well defined, and generally means sex that harms or isn't conducive to marriage and procreation. In modern society, premarital sex is your best bet to achieve marriage and procreation, and thus, cannot be deviant if your goals are virtuous. You may say we cannot interpret scripture through culture relevance, but this is exactly what scholars have done, for example, in explaining why Isaac and Rebecca's union wasn't deviant for lack of a wedding/consecration because such ceremonies weren't the norm then. Well the norm now is that sex preceeds marriage for anyone older than 19, and refraining at age 30 is handicapping your fulfillment of God's commandment to multiply and be fruitful, which end is the motivation behind sexual deviance proscription in the first place. Even if premarital sex is a bit of a sin, the bigger sin is your vane refusal to do as commanded because "ew fats."
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Date: March 21st, 2018 11:44 PM Author: jet juggernaut parlor
charles, it's not really my place to advise you but the one thing I really think you should do girl-wise is get over your revulsion at "whores". I respect how you feel about casual sex in regard to your own conduct, but a woman doesn't need to be your lifelong equal in virtue to be eligible. loosen your standards re women's sexual histories just a tiny bit so that the 0.01% of comprehensively well-matched women out there can at least be 0.1%.
I've seen you post divorce stats to back yourself up on this, but those stats are driven by proles. they're not that relevant to you and the multitude of OTHER factors that drive divorce will easily compensate with the right person. focus on other stuff. it isn't world-ending if your future wife had sex with chad.
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:03 AM Author: rusted field
I've never said (at least, not recently) that prior sex partners are a dealbreaker. I just consider it a significant negative to be seriously evaluated, and factors like divorce stats bear that out. I'm a factor here as well; the simple truth is that it would bother me.
But XO generally over-focuses on my preference there and not on all the other factors I've mentioned that keep me single, like that I generally just find most women pretty unappealing.
I've mentioned around the bort that I want to read 100 books this year. I've felt a mild spark of interest in two women this year and in both cases it was because they were actually interested in that goal and seriously asked for book recommendations. It's not an attitude I run into much and when I find it it's deeply appealing.
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 12:09 AM Author: jet juggernaut parlor
"I'm a factor here as well; the simple truth is that it would bother me."
I understand that, but that might be a temporary condition as personal reactions often are, and maybe you should let yourself sit with that a little more and see how you really feel. there may be both good and bad reasons to feel this way and you can expose and vaporize the bad ones and assimilate the good ones.
it isn't necessarily easy to change these types of attitudes, which might have multiple sources, but you might as well notice opportunities to try feeling different about it from how you usually feel, just to see how it changes your perspective. you might connect with women more and feel more attraction to them. just my two cents.
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 9:43 AM Author: Fuchsia bipolar church
yes and I believe he won some sort of award as a result.
Actually one of my friends went on a date with a girl last year. Or he believed it was a date. They went to brunch, not flame, and she showed up on the day of the date with two friends. He paid for all four of them, and later she made it clear to him she wasn't interested. One of the most painful stories I've ever heard in my life.
She was a single mom btw.
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