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married bros, how much tolerance do you have for getting screamed at by wife?
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:05 PM Author: irradiated sneaky criminal my tolerance is close to 0 and i shut down and dont talk to wife for days when it happens (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35874733) |
Date: April 19th, 2018 1:07 PM Author: Lilac kitty spot someone physically inferior to you who screams at you is dealt with most appropriately with a quick beatdown, measured to cause the least pain but hard enough to communicate the message.
Society understood this for all time and in all cultures until the west, post 1970. |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:08 PM Author: ebony alcoholic point french chef Once rule of law has been fully exploited we'll return to might is right. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35874760) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:07 PM Author: Saffron rambunctious dilemma Sober: about 5 minutes before I get animal-style angry.
2-3 beers: about 20 minutes and I'm laughing the whole time, after 20 minutes I'm just walking away.
3+ beers: basically infinity. It doesn't bother me at all, I could go to sleep listening to it. |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:08 PM Author: Ruby associate address why not just always do 3+ beers (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35874765) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:14 PM Author: Saffron rambunctious dilemma lol what do you think I do (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35874834) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:20 PM Author: irradiated sneaky criminal ive been drinking more too lately lol @ me (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35874903) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:21 PM Author: Saffron rambunctious dilemma I do not understand how you could be married to a modern woman and not regularly consume alcohol. I don't understand how you could keep your sanity. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35874917) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:28 PM Author: lemon national security agency pit i told my wife i would stop drinking at home while she was pregnant out of solidarity. that lasted about two weeks (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35875000) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:10 PM Author: jet appetizing temple selfie (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35874792) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:07 PM Author: hot legend hell this happens when you spend too much time at home. u need to get out. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35874758) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:09 PM Author: irradiated sneaky criminal maybe (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35874776) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:08 PM Author: Drunken field people who are hurt She never screams at me, she cooks and cleans, pretty 180 actually (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35874761) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:25 PM Author: confused step-uncle's house prole wife swap? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35874958) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 2:29 PM Author: Cracking Twisted Whorehouse sup me (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35875591) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:08 PM Author: clear sex offender public bath (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35874762) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:09 PM Author: irradiated sneaky criminal this isnt a common thing but it happens pretty regularly once every couple months. its weird. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35874780) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:10 PM Author: clear sex offender public bath (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35874787) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:30 PM Author: vermilion mediation range the cheating or the screaming? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35875027) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:45 PM Author: irradiated sneaky criminal screaming im not like idris elba lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35875216) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:10 PM Author: hot legend hell (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35874786) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:08 PM Author: Mahogany stead it's basically white noise (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35874770) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:10 PM Author: jet appetizing temple selfie (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35874794) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:09 PM Author: Sienna site Unlimited so far (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35874773) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:10 PM Author: Floppy blue location I don't believe I've ever been screamed at by my wife in our 13 years together. My wife is either very emotionally stable or I am very obedient. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35874791) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:21 PM Author: Drunken field people who are hurt Explain how broken you have to be to let a woman scream at you on a regular basis (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35874912) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:22 PM Author: irradiated sneaky criminal its only once every two months or so but its out of the blue and really aggrivating (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35874923) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:25 PM Author: Saffron rambunctious dilemma You married? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35874965) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:40 PM Author: pearl concupiscible lay Obviously not (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35875149) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:39 PM Author: Saffron rambunctious dilemma Short engagement means you missed the signs of strong emotional instability, two kids later, your options disappear. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35875126) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 3:25 PM Author: splenetic impertinent church You had ALL the signs let's get real (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35875960) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 3:51 PM Author: Saffron rambunctious dilemma the truth hurts (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35876108) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:22 PM Author: pearl concupiscible lay Depends on if she's on the rag (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35874920) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:22 PM Author: black curious generalized bond None anymore. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35874922) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:24 PM Author: irradiated sneaky criminal anymore? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35874955) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 2:36 PM Author: black curious generalized bond yeah i used to let it go a little bit but realized the shit my wife nags me about is unreasonable so i just tell her to pound sand most of the time now. I just kind of realized you can't let people disrespect you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35875643) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:24 PM Author: lemon national security agency pit if she's right: i'll at least hear her out
if she's wrong: about 4 words |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:25 PM Author: Tripping abode none (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35874957) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:27 PM Author: confused step-uncle's house prole Close to zero. My wife gets super hormonal so I installed a PMS tracker on my iPhone and it is great. I just treat her like she’s a dangerous psychotic for one week a month. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35874977) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:27 PM Author: irradiated sneaky criminal 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35874989) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:46 PM Author: talented slippery office (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35875227) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:27 PM Author: Mustard Station Absolutely zero. None whatsoever. But LOL at shutting down and not talking to your wife for days. This behavior is just the opposite side of the same coin.
The fundamental issue underlying these types of toxic interactions is one spouse intentionally behaving in a way to hurt the other spouse. All such behavior must be identified and excised from the relationship immediately. This includes yelling, the silent treatment, causing jealousy, etc.
Sure there are times when you are so upset or flustered that you simply cannot bring yourself to communicate with your wife in a rational manner, but those moments are relatively rare and fleeting. The second you regain your composure, reengage communicating with your wife, identify what went wrong in the conversation, and commit to fixing it.
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:31 PM Author: vermilion mediation range ti,oc,tcr. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35875038) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:48 PM Author: Sexy Bawdyhouse You must be lost
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Date: April 19th, 2018 2:56 PM Author: Mustard Station ? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35875774) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 7:44 PM Author: Razzle-dazzle area knife there's nothing lol about shutting down
it's basically an emergency eject button for intense pain or fear |
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Date: April 20th, 2018 11:16 AM Author: Mustard Station "Sure there are times when you are so upset or flustered that you simply cannot bring yourself to communicate with your wife in a rational manner, but those moments are relatively rare and fleeting. The second you regain your composure, reengage communicating with your wife, identify what went wrong in the conversation, and commit to fixing it." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35881290) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:31 PM Author: Insanely creepy parlor cuck my wife never screams at me (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35875043) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:32 PM Author: Vivacious sooty shrine turdskin Zero tolerance, but she does it anyway. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35875055) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:45 PM Author: irradiated sneaky criminal jfc describe (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35875211) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:49 PM Author: Vivacious sooty shrine turdskin Shes addicted to oxy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35875255) |
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Date: April 20th, 2018 11:19 AM Author: 180 Athletic Conference (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35881311) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:39 PM Author: Ultramarine nighttime depressive national Zero. I work a stressful job with long hours that I dislike for her and the kid; she's a SAHM and I don't track her spending too closely; we have a housekeeper, 2 day/week preschool, and a landscaper; I let her sleep in every Sat and Sun and help with the kid and housework when I can, have almost no time to myself, and never cheat. Any lip is simply unacceptable -- there is 0 reason for her to complain about any part of her life.
It used to happen more regularly when we were going through a period of job/life stress and deep unhappiness with life -- maybe every 1-2 months there would be something and she would be screaming at me about who knows what. I don't recall it happening since we've had our kid (so at least 3-4 years), we moved into an actual house, and my career stabilized a bit. |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:46 PM Author: Mustard Station That is a SPS framing of your relationship. All of that about how hard you work, etc., etc. is secondary to what I am guessing is the real reason your wife treats you with respect: you treat her with respect and have made your expectations clearly known to her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35875222) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:51 PM Author: Ultramarine nighttime depressive national That's very true, too. I'm appreciative of her work and it's a bargain that we've fallen into -- just not one that I would have predicted 5 years ago (I would have thought we'd both be working and having kid raised by strangers, but she's settled in to SAHM role pretty well).
I'm lucky to be married to someone who's pretty level-headed. Lots of guys provide, are stand-up men, good fathers, etc. and still get screamed at. |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 3:01 PM Author: Mustard Station "Lots of guys provide, are stand-up men, good fathers, etc. and still get screamed at."
I'm all for ragging on entitled cunts as much as the next poster, but let's not overstate our argument. A strong majority of SPS home situations involving a man that is a good provider is a product, at least in part, of men who otherwise engage in shitty behavior or don't take responsibility for attempting to correct the situation in an effective, good faith manner. Most adults, like hogs, prefer to wallow in their own shit. |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:51 PM Author: hot legend hell why do you have a housekeeper if she's SAHM LOL (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35875284) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:54 PM Author: Ultramarine nighttime depressive national The house wasn't getting clean and it was becoming a source of relationship stress. $200 every other week took care of it. It's money well spent. If we had a 1br apartment that took 20 mins to clean it would be different. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35875311) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:58 PM Author: hot legend hell WTF does she do if she only has to watch kids 3/week and doesn't need to clean. LMAO dude. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35875354) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 2:05 PM Author: Ultramarine nighttime depressive national She goes grocery / household stuff shopping. Allergy shots. Returns online purchases. Occasionally meets up with a friend for lunch. Laundry. Checks-in on her parents' house when they're not here (i.e. half the time). Cooks a day or two's worth of meals. It all takes time, dude. It's also 9-4 or so -- it's not like it's 16 hours x2 of free time. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35875439) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 2:21 PM Author: arousing know-it-all idiot Preschool is usually half a day. He said 2 days per week. That is probably when she runs errands (goes grocery shopping, etc). Until the kids are in school full-time, it is just constant cleaning up of all the same stuff the kids make a mess of on top of the usual laundry, cooking, etc. It's not as easy to keep up w as it sounds. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35875551) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 3:05 PM Author: Mustard Station There is that, but also the issue of most women, and men, lack the ability to systematically execute a series of tasks necessary to complete a multi-hour project that must be performed repeatedly on a regular basis, which is precisely what cleaning the house entails. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35875829) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 3:38 PM Author: histrionic school Wasn’t wife a big Lawyer? Does she ever get bored (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35876054) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:48 PM Author: umber maniacal bbw native Unless there's some sexual angle to it, I don't see why any man would tolerate it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35875248) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:49 PM Author: arousing know-it-all idiot What does she scream at you about? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35875260) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 1:59 PM Author: Sexy Bawdyhouse Lol consuela (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35875367) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 2:06 PM Author: startled exhilarant ticket booth private investor I do all the screaming in the relationship (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35875446) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 2:07 PM Author: Flickering theater Lol I’ve never screamed at my husband or any person as an adult. Been upset, angry, raised my voice, sure. But screaming? That’s is some weird anger management issue if you scream at anybody as an adult. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35875455) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 2:15 PM Author: Gaped translucent menage It used to happen all the time. I'd nod, smile, and go fuck some strange to let off steam. Turns out, screaming at your spouse isn't a healthy part of a relationship and should never happen.
Post-divorce, it never happens. It's toxic and not consistent with a relationship worth staying in. |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 2:24 PM Author: irradiated sneaky criminal (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35875565) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 2:28 PM Author: crusty factory reset button Yes to fucking strange
Literally nothing better for a relationship |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 2:35 PM Author: Gaped translucent menage Exactly. It's really tough to get pissed off about being yelled at when you're going to be balls deep in an 18yo the next day. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35875631) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 2:36 PM Author: crusty factory reset button What’s ur preferred cheatmo play, escorts, tinder or just meet organically irl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35875636) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 3:00 PM Author: Gaped translucent menage I'm with an objective 9 much younger than I who cooks, cleans, and is amazing in bed, so no more cheating for me.
But prior to that--craiglist casual encounters was a gold mine for me. So was meeting women irl (work, business trips, etc) and running with it. I'm an in-house Chad, though, so my approach may not work for everyone. |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 3:04 PM Author: Yellow exciting gaming laptop indian lodge Haha nice fleshlight (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35875823) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 3:05 PM Author: Gaped translucent menage She prefers to be introduced as my slam piece. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35875830) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 2:27 PM Author: glassy rehab twinkling uncleanness can't even imagine it happening (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35875578) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 3:35 PM Author: zombie-like school cafeteria Late 30s bro here. Never had a relationship with a girl who would scream at me. Women are emotional, & I’ve obviously had arguments, but a woman berating me as a regular occurrence? Wouldn’t happen. If it began, relationship over. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35876028) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 3:45 PM Author: Ruby associate address interesting split between poasters for which this is a regular occurrence in relationships and poasters it's never once happened to in their lives. i suggest everyone go back and append their HEIGHT and COCK SIZE to their poasts, as well as RACIAL BREAKDOWN of previous GFs, so we can start getting to the bottom of this in a scholarly way (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35876081) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 4:13 PM Author: Glittery Cocky Ape State it's pretty much what you would expect - guys are either pushovers or they aren't. i can't even conceive of some woman screaming at me, it just seems absurd. like how does any guy let that happen? hahhaha. just totally ridiculous, wtf
i guess all the internet red pill stuff about "frame control" isn't flame |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 6:34 PM Author: Gaped translucent menage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35877080) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 3:48 PM Author: slimy bright regret den if she's screaming from a place of childish distress, i don't care. i would never tolerate any form of hectoring though. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35876098) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 3:55 PM Author: dun kitchen never yelled at my wife. never been yelled at by my wife. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35876123) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 4:10 PM Author: dead theater stage High? indefinitely. It's all just squeaky blah blah blah (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35876215) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 4:12 PM Author: Thirsty arrogant cuckoldry weed whacker Im a Jew. She can say and do whatever she wants and I take it like a good cuck so long as shes a good mother and lets me fuck her. My tolerance for BS is vast. Its why we are 180 husbands. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35876227) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 4:21 PM Author: Deep vibrant locale females are insane...and stupid, too (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35876296) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 4:52 PM Author: jet-lagged toilet seat My wife has never screamed at me and I am far from the perfect husband. I would never tolerate it. I wouldn't scream back I'd just leave the house for hours (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35876457) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 6:51 PM Author: zombie-like school cafeteria Some sage advice provided by my father:
Women are children. One bad thing leads to two. I’m dad, I know. TRUMPDOGs are scribes.
I think that’s it. |
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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:58 AM Author: Learning disabled juggernaut lodge lol, into your cups a bit early last night weren't you? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35881147) |
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Date: April 19th, 2018 7:40 PM Author: Adventurous hairless messiness police squad I used to put up with this shit when I was married. Nothing is worse. It's 180 being with a GF who never gets angry or raises her voice. Not all women are like that (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3953893&forum_id=2#35877352) |