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have any of your major life assumptions been seriously wrong?

like you always assumed you wouldn't have kids but then you ...
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  04/19/18
every one of my life assumptions has been wrong
slate abusive personal credit line
  04/19/18
name one
Fragrant pale water buffalo piazza
  04/19/18
i assumed i would eventually find someone i truly loved
slate abusive personal credit line
  04/19/18
well you still have time so you don't know this is wrong
Fragrant pale water buffalo piazza
  04/19/18
seems unlikely at this point
slate abusive personal credit line
  04/19/18
Spend more time on xo
sickened stage
  04/19/18
(hehe)
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  04/20/18
...
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  04/20/18
i assumed that a lot of people in my lifer weren't psychotic...
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  04/19/18
who's psychotic
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  04/19/18
...
chest-beating passionate legal warrant
  04/20/18
lmao where to even start
stimulating university internal respiration
  04/19/18
where were you most wrong
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  04/19/18
my assumption that success is a function of education
stimulating university internal respiration
  04/19/18
that seems like a prole or boomer assumption. were you prole...
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  04/19/18
immigrant parents who told me all I needed to do in life was...
stimulating university internal respiration
  04/19/18
Boomers.
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  04/19/18
(every xo poaster)
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started out being with the first person I ever kissed. Were...
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have you ever had a phase where you were like OK, I'm going ...
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  04/19/18
I did for a while, sure. Then just started doing all the th...
olive kitchen
  04/19/18
Do you regret leaving your partner of 10 years?
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no
olive kitchen
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Damn didn't realize we had similar histories. My first one l...
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"I'll enjoy being a corporate lawyer"
Judgmental Macaca
  04/19/18
are you still a corporate lawyer?
Fragrant pale water buffalo piazza
  04/19/18
yes
Judgmental Macaca
  04/19/18
maybe you'll hate similarly paying jobs just as much, then y...
Fragrant pale water buffalo piazza
  04/19/18
hot take!
Judgmental Macaca
  04/19/18
I had shit values for most of my life and nearly destroyed i...
exhilarant philosopher-king
  04/19/18
Doesn't sound so bad.
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...
exhilarant philosopher-king
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on the plus side, here's an assumption I'm glad was wrong: I...
stimulating university internal respiration
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xo not a lot of money so <300k, or actual not a lot of mo...
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XO not a lot of money I make like $125k/yr and am very ha...
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...
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only 3x the median income!
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i assume my mother will live to 90+ (cause family history of...
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my mom got cancer at 51 with a 50/50 prognosis. really came ...
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fuck man. gl to u and your mom.
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What do you think
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...
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I incorrectly assumed that I would have a reasonably normal ...
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but u have kitty doods
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Mine just kinda wanders around. I think he likes it but I wo...
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I'm down 30% since February.
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Short list: 1. i am exceptional 2. my uniqueness means...
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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:04 PM
Author: Fragrant pale water buffalo piazza

like you always assumed you wouldn't have kids but then you did have kids?

or you always assumed you'd be a wagecuck but then you because crypto god?

i'm talking really big stuff.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878531)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:05 PM
Author: slate abusive personal credit line

every one of my life assumptions has been wrong

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878536)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:05 PM
Author: Fragrant pale water buffalo piazza

name one

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878540)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:06 PM
Author: slate abusive personal credit line

i assumed i would eventually find someone i truly loved

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878554)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:08 PM
Author: Fragrant pale water buffalo piazza

well you still have time so you don't know this is wrong

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878558)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:08 PM
Author: slate abusive personal credit line

seems unlikely at this point

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878562)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:46 PM
Author: sickened stage

Spend more time on xo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878801)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:14 AM
Author: curious fiercely-loyal roommate den

(hehe)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35880859)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 8:31 PM
Author: azure resort dragon



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35885238)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:05 PM
Author: aquamarine mind-boggling clown famous landscape painting

i assumed that a lot of people in my lifer weren't psychotic, and i was wrong.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878541)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:05 PM
Author: Fragrant pale water buffalo piazza

who's psychotic

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878545)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 2:53 PM
Author: chest-beating passionate legal warrant



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35882751)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:06 PM
Author: stimulating university internal respiration

lmao where to even start

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878550)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:08 PM
Author: Fragrant pale water buffalo piazza

where were you most wrong

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878561)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:08 PM
Author: stimulating university internal respiration

my assumption that success is a function of education

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878567)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:09 PM
Author: Fragrant pale water buffalo piazza

that seems like a prole or boomer assumption. were you prole?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878574)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:09 PM
Author: stimulating university internal respiration

immigrant parents who told me all I needed to do in life was go to the best schools and get good grades

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878577)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:44 PM
Author: Embarrassed to the bone vigorous liquid oxygen theater stage

Boomers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878788)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:19 AM
Author: contagious associate casino

(every xo poaster)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35880875)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:08 PM
Author: olive kitchen

started out being with the first person I ever kissed. Were together for 10 years.

Struck it out on my own.

short term relationship after short term relationship...have now realized that I'm better just being single and okay with it.

Never thought that would be the case.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878559)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:10 PM
Author: Fragrant pale water buffalo piazza

have you ever had a phase where you were like OK, I'm going to go, find a BF, then make him my husband!?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878581)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:13 PM
Author: olive kitchen

I did for a while, sure. Then just started doing all the things I thought I needed in a partner to be stable.

Ended up doing it on my own. Now, I don't see the plus side of "needing" someone.

Obviously, it would have been easier having someone along for the ride. Now I've done it and the "coupling" aspect has since passed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878596)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:44 PM
Author: 180 tanning salon

Do you regret leaving your partner of 10 years?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878792)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 12:56 AM
Author: olive kitchen

no

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879190)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 8:24 PM
Author: Gaped Dog Poop

Damn didn't realize we had similar histories. My first one lasted even longer. I'm not giving up though. I basically accomplished and acquired a bunch of stuff and now my life is perfectly set up to just slot someone young, attractive, and a bit aimless into it. Like I'd literally just have to consolidate half of a closet. The few times I've been on dates with actual adults it's like "whoah, this would be a huge pain in the ass."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35885192)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:09 PM
Author: Judgmental Macaca

"I'll enjoy being a corporate lawyer"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878576)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:10 PM
Author: Fragrant pale water buffalo piazza

are you still a corporate lawyer?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878584)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:11 PM
Author: Judgmental Macaca

yes

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878586)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:12 PM
Author: Fragrant pale water buffalo piazza

maybe you'll hate similarly paying jobs just as much, then you weren't really wrong?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878590)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:12 PM
Author: Judgmental Macaca

hot take!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878592)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:12 PM
Author: exhilarant philosopher-king

I had shit values for most of my life and nearly destroyed it on numerous occasions through destructive self-obsession and hedonism

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878593)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:42 PM
Author: Embarrassed to the bone vigorous liquid oxygen theater stage

Doesn't sound so bad.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878766)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 12:51 AM
Author: exhilarant philosopher-king



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879150)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:12 PM
Author: stimulating university internal respiration

on the plus side, here's an assumption I'm glad was wrong: I didn't think I could be happy if I wasn't making a lot of money. this turned out to be very wrong.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878594)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:13 PM
Author: slate abusive personal credit line

xo not a lot of money so <300k, or actual not a lot of money

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878602)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:14 PM
Author: stimulating university internal respiration

XO not a lot of money

I make like $125k/yr and am very happy. Lots of XO poasters make moar than me and seem miserable.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878607)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:16 PM
Author: slate abusive personal credit line



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878620)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:20 AM
Author: contagious associate casino

only 3x the median income!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35880883)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 11:50 AM
Author: Hairraiser jew



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:13 PM
Author: Fragrant pale water buffalo piazza

i assume my mother will live to 90+ (cause family history of doing so and she's skinny azn female). i'd be so fucking devastated if she got some aggressive cancer diagnosis at 55. i assume we'll have tons of time together later so it's fine right now that I do not see her often.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878599)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:16 PM
Author: slate abusive personal credit line

my mom got cancer at 51 with a 50/50 prognosis. really came out of nowhere. i felt like things would go on forever, then one month she had a sore throat that wouldn't go away -- and it was cancer. she did end up living, but i will be honest with you, i have never recovered from this. things have seemed a little unreal since then. i wonder if i will ever go back to feeling normal.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878618)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:17 PM
Author: Fragrant pale water buffalo piazza

fuck man. gl to u and your mom.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878623)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:22 PM
Author: slate abusive personal credit line



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:17 PM
Author: Fuchsia Effete Police Squad Mexican

my mother in law died of cancer in her early 60s and spent her last year with us shuttling to dozens of doctors and chemo appointments, living in pain, and petrified of dying.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878622)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:17 PM
Author: slate abusive personal credit line



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878625)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:20 PM
Author: olive kitchen

I almost quit a job because my sis in law had brain cancer and I wanted to take a few weeks off to help out.

They live far away from me. My VP was all no about it. I did it anyway and still work here.

You have to live in the present and be there when you can. Fuck jobs and money when you have someone important to you going through it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878640)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:26 AM
Author: charismatic gay point



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Date: April 20th, 2018 11:50 AM
Author: Hairraiser jew



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:18 PM
Author: fishy public bath cuckold

if you told me 20 years ago that i would literally being creampieing norwegian girls in oslo ida said youre crazy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878627)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:19 PM
Author: Fragrant pale water buffalo piazza

would 18 year old nyuug be surprised at your currently living in korea and planning to do so for the long term (i assume?)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878631)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:43 PM
Author: fishy public bath cuckold

no even at 18 i knew i wanted to live in the fatherland

but i certainly did not expect to become korean chingis

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878777)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:19 PM
Author: Swashbuckling school cafeteria black woman

When I was younger I assumed that adults had some secret knowledge and there was a mysterious meaning behind life and human behavior. Then I became an adult myself...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878634)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:19 PM
Author: slate abusive personal credit line

and what did you learn

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878638)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:20 PM
Author: Swashbuckling school cafeteria black woman

What do you think

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878641)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:22 PM
Author: slate abusive personal credit line



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878654)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:23 PM
Author: Haunting autistic chad theatre

well u grew up to be a catty bitch, so there, u made it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878658)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:05 AM
Author: Aphrodisiac ocher candlestick maker jap



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35880806)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:37 PM
Author: Floppy bipolar dingle berry

I was the opposite of hedonistic in my teens and early 20s.

I was under the impression that finding *true love* would be some kind of transcendent experience. I thought that if you took hot teenage sex and multiplied it by the kind of mutual caring and adoration that comes with a long term relationship... that was what healthy adult relationships were like.

I have yet to experience anything even close to what I thought "love" would be like. Furthermore, my attraction to teens hasn't waned whatsoever. My attraction to peers is... adequate?

I hold out hope that I will eventually find a certain degree of happiness in a relationship, but it isn't going to be anything like I envisioned and I'm mad at my younger self for having too long of a focus

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878733)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 12:00 AM
Author: slate abusive personal credit line

a lot of good replies in this thread, yours and others

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878870)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:39 PM
Author: Embarrassed to the bone vigorous liquid oxygen theater stage

I incorrectly assumed that I would have a reasonably normal future: house, partner, a future worth that wasn't a black pit of nothing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878748)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:55 PM
Author: slate abusive personal credit line

but u have kitty doods

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878842)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 3:13 PM
Author: Embarrassed to the bone vigorous liquid oxygen theater stage

Took one for a walk just last night.

http://i.xomf.com/czwhy.jpg

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35882953)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 3:42 PM
Author: Glassy racy business firm

This is precious

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35883155)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 3:53 PM
Author: Embarrassed to the bone vigorous liquid oxygen theater stage

He loves walks, but he doesn't like other people very much, so we go at night.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35883248)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 4:03 PM
Author: Glassy racy business firm

Mine just kinda wanders around. I think he likes it but I worry I’m just taunting him with false freedom.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35883321)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 4:13 PM
Author: Embarrassed to the bone vigorous liquid oxygen theater stage

We have a system. Sidewalks are like highways. They're for high speed cruising, where he walks/trots ahead nearly as fast as I can walk. Grass, rocks, and other landscaping are for chilling out and exploring. It works most of the time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35883388)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:46 PM
Author: Filthy Old Irish Cottage

used to think abortion was wrong. now i realize it's vital to keeping nigger population in check

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878796)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:49 PM
Author: chestnut sanctuary puppy

Until about 21 I was a big Christmo and even when I stopped that it took a few years to become normal wrt women etc. Made my HS and college years way less fun than they should've been. I'm aspie btw

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878814)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:59 PM
Author: Arousing Free-loading Home Fat Ankles

Women. I'm like that one guy who trusted bears, went out to live with bears, and survived for years until one day all of his preconceived notions about the world were crushed upon a grizzly eating him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878862)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 12:21 AM
Author: Floppy bipolar dingle berry



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878970)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:25 AM
Author: Brilliant regret stead



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35880908)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 12:25 AM
Author: Beta Marketing Idea

Yes, I've made as much money in crypto as I thought I'd see when I was like 45, and now I have zero motivation in grad school and wonder about getting out of wagecucking altogether by either trading for the rest of my days or getting in the startup game

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878998)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: Arousing Free-loading Home Fat Ankles

I'm down 30% since February.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879021)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 12:31 AM
Author: Beta Marketing Idea

Yeah I'm still down from there too but still have LIFE CHANGING money

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879024)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 12:44 AM
Author: Arousing Free-loading Home Fat Ankles

I got in late. Like, I bought in February. I'm having fun with all the trading though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879111)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:24 AM
Author: laughsome infuriating turdskin quadroon

What is "life changing" money

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35880904)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 2:48 PM
Author: Beta Marketing Idea

you tell me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35882707)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 12:33 AM
Author: Splenetic Overrated Partner

I believed, fervently, that if I worked hard in school and at work and treated everyone with respect I would soon become wealthy and respected myself

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879030)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 12:55 AM
Author: Saffron High-end Striped Hyena Messiness

Yeah I assumed picking a job to make a good amount of money was a smart decision.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879184)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 12:59 AM
Author: Frozen hunting ground mood

Ooof

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879218)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 12:57 AM
Author: Plum orchestra pit private investor

thought people were running shtick but turns out they really were just that much dumber than i

this whole time

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879194)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 1:07 AM
Author: Khaki abode travel guidebook

So far, no assumptions I've held past 15 or so.

If I actually end up in an LTR I guess that would qualify.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879294)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 1:50 AM
Author: Plum orchestra pit private investor

the Chad virgin volcel Charles vs the Virgin post-virginity datecucking Charles

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879535)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 2:33 AM
Author: Khaki abode travel guidebook



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879771)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 2:40 AM
Author: Floppy bipolar dingle berry



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879795)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:11 AM
Author: exhilarant philosopher-king



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35880840)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 1:22 AM
Author: Cerebral gas station

lmao. many

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879373)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:23 AM
Author: nubile faggotry organic girlfriend



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35880893)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:24 AM
Author: laughsome infuriating turdskin quadroon

That school matters to your success in life--> LOL NO

That I want to be a financially independent, career woman --> LOL NO. I want to be a mooch and have money without being forced to work.

I never really thought or cared about money before working. Then I worked and realize I hate working high paying jobs, so now I just want free money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35880900)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:33 PM
Author: Embarrassed to the bone vigorous liquid oxygen theater stage

"I want to be a mooch and have money without being forced to work."

Where's RSF?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884448)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:26 AM
Author: laughsome infuriating turdskin quadroon

I didn't realize how many NPDs are around - esp in aging white women. I didn't realize just how much mental illness exists in the world.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35880920)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:31 AM
Author: Pink self-absorbed lay

Short list:

1. i am exceptional

2. my uniqueness means probabilities do not apply. So what if fewer than one-hundredth of one percent of people can maek it as a novelist or artist of some type. That does not apply to me

3. Meaningful, well-paid careers are not something you need to begin planning for and pursuing as a teenager. I can drink and fuck around through my 20s and figure something out later

4. There will always be a pool of marriage-able women, no rush

5. women, at heart, are reasonable like men

6. there comes a time when you "figure shit out" and then just maintain, rather than constantly finding yourself on an incline, confused

But most importantly, like I wrote in number 1... i was sure THE ODDS DONT APPLY TO ME

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35880949)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 11:58 AM
Author: Brilliant regret stead

number 4 is important and neglected by are culture

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35881570)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 2:02 PM
Author: Ruby Glittery Preventive Strike

I used to assume that any negative interaction I had with anyone was due to MY shortcoming. Did not occur to me until mid twenties that some negative interactions were THEIR fault, and THEY are the ones with shitty personalities.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35882299)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 2:12 PM
Author: bateful flushed corn cake dysfunction

I assumed the wealthy kids I went to an elite boarding school with would all grow up to be successful masters of the universe. In reality, most of them are trust fund babies with dumb jobs ranging from wannabe author to wanna be yogi to wannabe start up founder. Only about 5% of the class has managed to make anything of themselves by 35.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35882376)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 2:15 PM
Author: big umber field

Lots of things about parents. Your parents want the best for you. Your parents know what they’re doing. Your parents love you.

Working hard means you will succeed.

Being smart means you will succeed.

You can make a lot of mistakes when you’re under 30 without consequences.

Liking your spouse and children is always easy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35882403)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 4:06 PM
Author: Jet-lagged Razzle-dazzle Rigor

explain the hard work line, it seems for you it has consistently paid off

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35883338)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:26 PM
Author: Useless double fault

she's seen plenty of hardworking people dashed against the rocks while her own success is larger than her work ethic

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884386)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:28 PM
Author: Plum orchestra pit private investor

...also she's a self-hating asian who is bizarrely attempting to suddenly run "chill" shtick since she married "handsome" (a bald cable repairman).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884408)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 4:49 PM
Author: Jet-lagged Razzle-dazzle Rigor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35883722)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 3:01 PM
Author: wine sinister really tough guy

If I just try hard and use my god-given smarts, I will MAEK it!

LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35882823)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 3:15 PM
Author: Embarrassed to the bone vigorous liquid oxygen theater stage

Whoops.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35882981)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 3:54 PM
Author: Jet-lagged Razzle-dazzle Rigor

That people aren't gossiping and talking about you (they are)

That women are reasonable like men (they're not)

Penis size is flame (it's not)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35883255)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 4:51 PM
Author: Insanely creepy adventurous doctorate degenerate

name brand school would get me "in"

it has improved my career definitely but had nowhere near the impact i thought it would

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35883732)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 8:01 PM
Author: Primrose people who are hurt rehab

(UNC Wilmington grad)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35885084)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 8:29 PM
Author: Insanely creepy adventurous doctorate degenerate

mods

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35885222)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 4:52 PM
Author: odious hell

I thought senior level leaders at big companies were alll highly competent and intelligent people

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35883736)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:56 PM
Author: Mentally impaired new version gunner

lol this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884583)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 7:17 PM
Author: 180 tanning salon



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884747)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 8:47 PM
Author: Insanely creepy adventurous doctorate degenerate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35885367)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:21 PM
Author: Useless double fault

thought i was smart when i was young. i am not.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884357)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:24 PM
Author: Plum orchestra pit private investor

it's like they always say: there's nothing wrong with being 6'1--its a damn fine height

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884371)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:35 PM
Author: low-t locus

I wanted to be a teacher and married at age 22 with kids.

holy crap I could not have missed that further. Pretty much fucked myself for life because I took the lower Ivy over the State School.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884458)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:42 PM
Author: Fuchsia Effete Police Squad Mexican

how was school choice so destructive in your life?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884492)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:45 PM
Author: low-t locus

going to an "elite" striver school pretty much means you will interact exclusively with mentally ill strivers. all horrible creatures.

After you graduate, you will be dumped in a GC major metro with absolutely no social network and regularly dream of total chaos communism as you count off the days until your fortuitous death

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884511)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:48 PM
Author: Fuchsia Effete Police Squad Mexican

this hasn't been my experience. did you not make friends in college?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884530)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:49 PM
Author: low-t locus

yes. dozens. They are all nihilistic single bros living in other major metro areas doing the same thing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884537)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:53 PM
Author: Fuchsia Effete Police Squad Mexican

i don't understand the absence of a network of alums in a major metro area. were you the only person among your friends to end up there? even if that's the case, surely it's not an endemic condition for ivy grads.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884559)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:54 PM
Author: low-t locus

I'm not in NYC or DC and that's where 90% of people I know went.

Almost certainly "alums" in my metro area, but it's not like we'd be friends. No one I know, at the very least. Alumni network = weird striver flame (an inherent problem of going to a striver school)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884569)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:59 PM
Author: Fuchsia Effete Police Squad Mexican

if you made dozens of friends in college, i guess i don't quite understand why you seem to be struggling to meet people afterwards.

also, it doesn't make sense to attend an ivy if your plan is to teach hs.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884605)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 7:00 PM
Author: low-t locus

well, it's both age and a new zeitgeist. You can't organically meet people anymore. In college, you could just go into a basement, get drunk, and chill with total strangers.

In modern 2018 America for an OLDMO, that's called rape.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884618)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 7:06 PM
Author: Fuchsia Effete Police Squad Mexican

you can still maek it friend

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884655)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 7:06 PM
Author: low-t locus

no, I cannot. it's all ogre. surrender to the darkness.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884658)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:56 PM
Author: Comical disturbing incel

All of them.

I cannot make a good decision to save my life.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884578)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 8:47 PM
Author: Gaped Dog Poop

Or a good post

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35885365)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 8:48 PM
Author: Insanely creepy adventurous doctorate degenerate

i want to take you out for drinks sometime

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35885373)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:31 PM
Author: Bespoke church

somewhat ironic that you earn money by posturing as a person worth taking advice from

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35885957)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 7:23 PM
Author: 180 tanning salon

I have a follow up question for those who responded itt: If you do have children either now ir later down the road (big if, considering the increasing amount of <><><>foreveralone<><><> both on xo and society in general) - how do you plan on teaching them some of the darker truths of this world when they're older? Or do you plan on letting them figure it out on their own?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884805)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 8:49 PM
Author: dashing psychic

you can't teach anyone these things. they can only be learned.

it's why human experience and wisdom is the same story repeated by individuals across history. every epiphany you have was had by someone just like you 3,000 years ago. someone else will be having the same one long after you're dead.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35885381)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 8:54 PM
Author: Gaped Dog Poop

I had a very long relationship with my first girlfriend/wife and always operated under the assumption that it was unbreakable, regardless of what happened. Even when it wasn't going well, the idea of divorce wasn't within my spectrum of possibilities until it actually happened.

Later, I tended to assume my numerous failed internet dates were almost entirely my fault without adequate consideration of the fact that many of the chicks were lame.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35885409)



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Date: April 21st, 2018 10:50 AM
Author: Chocolate Startling Wrinkle

MGTOW

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35887816)