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Theory: attachment disorders warp the dating market

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Scarlet church building
  04/21/18
MODS!!!
motley amber volcanic crater
  04/21/18
Yeah pretty much. This is why I'm fucked.
brass pit
  04/21/18
I'm pretty sure I'm avoidant and want to fix this. One of t...
Scarlet church building
  04/21/18
scholarship
soul-stirring flatulent hall
  04/21/18
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multi-colored cheese-eating selfie
  04/21/18
MGTOW
appetizing mentally impaired mad cow disease
  04/21/18
hahahahaha holy shit
Flickering Masturbator
  04/21/18
the dating market creates attachment disorders
jet-lagged out-of-control factory reset button lodge
  04/21/18
Chicken and the egg
Scarlet church building
  04/21/18
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glittery massive old irish cottage personal credit line
  04/22/18
What is an “attachment disorder”?
Marvelous Mad-dog Skullcap
  04/21/18
anything other than MGTOW
Well-lubricated Tan Office
  04/21/18
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Scarlet church building
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Painfully honest property hunting ground
  04/21/18
I would be surprised if your figure for proportion of people...
Fluffy rose pervert resort
  04/21/18
can you elaborate on attachment styles? i think i am also...
Honey-headed State
  04/21/18
There's a million resources on attachment styles in relation...
Scarlet church building
  04/21/18
Behold!
Floppy Tattoo
  04/21/18
garbage dating market and other forces operate on your 2/3r...
Ivory kitty
  04/21/18
Not bad other than your statistics are retarded and make no ...
buff galvanic theatre mood
  04/22/18
cr only makes sense insofar as women getting passed around ...
Ivory kitty
  04/22/18
credited, but a little extreme w/ the last two sentences. al...
big bearded hospital
  04/22/18
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nubile topaz ticket booth
  04/22/18


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Date: April 21st, 2018 2:37 AM
Author: Scarlet church building



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Date: April 21st, 2018 2:45 AM
Author: motley amber volcanic crater

MODS!!!

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Date: April 21st, 2018 9:25 AM
Author: brass pit

Yeah pretty much. This is why I'm fucked.

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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:13 PM
Author: Scarlet church building

I'm pretty sure I'm avoidant and want to fix this. One of the best ways to do so is to find someone who can securely attached, but they're becoming more rare as I get older

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Date: April 21st, 2018 2:42 AM
Author: soul-stirring flatulent hall

scholarship

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Date: April 21st, 2018 8:54 AM
Author: multi-colored cheese-eating selfie



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Date: April 21st, 2018 5:03 AM
Author: appetizing mentally impaired mad cow disease

MGTOW

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Date: April 21st, 2018 8:28 AM
Author: Flickering Masturbator

hahahahaha holy shit

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Date: April 21st, 2018 8:32 AM
Author: jet-lagged out-of-control factory reset button lodge

the dating market creates attachment disorders

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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:13 PM
Author: Scarlet church building

Chicken and the egg

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Date: April 22nd, 2018 10:37 AM
Author: glittery massive old irish cottage personal credit line



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Date: April 21st, 2018 8:58 AM
Author: Marvelous Mad-dog Skullcap

What is an “attachment disorder”?

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Date: April 21st, 2018 9:00 AM
Author: Well-lubricated Tan Office

anything other than MGTOW

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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:14 AM
Author: Scarlet church building



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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:16 AM
Author: Painfully honest property hunting ground



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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:23 AM
Author: Fluffy rose pervert resort

I would be surprised if your figure for proportion of people with secure attachment styles was right. It's also a staggeringly vauge concept, to the point were even those to whom the binary distinction applies are still going to have relationship ending psychological tendencies

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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:21 PM
Author: Honey-headed State

can you elaborate on attachment styles?

i think i am also avoidant, i tend to reach for flaws in a person (or even in myself) as a reason to reject them. i push them away to see whether they come back, and i do this repeatedly until they don't come back, and then i feel sad about it.

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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:33 PM
Author: Scarlet church building

There's a million resources on attachment styles in relationships. I would google it and read the clinical/psychological articles rather than any shitty buzzfeed links

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attachment_theory

https://www.atlantacenterforcoupletherapy.com/relationships-the-avoidant-style/

https://blogs.psychcentral.com/imperfect/2017/03/avoidant-attachment-style-change/

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-mysteries-love/201503/how-change-your-attachment-style%3famp



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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:23 PM
Author: Floppy Tattoo

Behold!

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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:35 PM
Author: Ivory kitty

garbage

dating market and other forces operate on your 2/3rds

LJL

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Date: April 22nd, 2018 1:38 AM
Author: buff galvanic theatre mood

Not bad other than your statistics are retarded and make no sense

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Date: April 22nd, 2018 2:02 AM
Author: Ivory kitty

cr

only makes sense insofar as women getting passed around on tinder get real fucked up

otherwise, worthless poast

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Date: April 22nd, 2018 2:06 AM
Author: big bearded hospital

credited, but a little extreme w/ the last two sentences. also, a lot of people who were nerds or without social skills in high school/college "reliving" their youth and having lots of random hookups, chasing validation in their 20's on hookup apps

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Date: April 22nd, 2018 10:29 AM
Author: nubile topaz ticket booth



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