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Theory: attachment disorders warp the dating market

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Passionate Splenetic Locale
  04/21/18
MODS!!!
Amber diverse locus telephone
  04/21/18
Yeah pretty much. This is why I'm fucked.
concupiscible native
  04/21/18
I'm pretty sure I'm avoidant and want to fix this. One of t...
Passionate Splenetic Locale
  04/21/18
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excitant sanctuary
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MGTOW
Tantric Station
  04/21/18
hahahahaha holy shit
Vivacious hominid
  04/21/18
the dating market creates attachment disorders
carnelian disrespectful becky
  04/21/18
Chicken and the egg
Passionate Splenetic Locale
  04/21/18
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Gaped very tactful hairy legs karate
  04/22/18
What is an “attachment disorder”?
chest-beating stage cumskin
  04/21/18
anything other than MGTOW
bateful cruise ship halford
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Brass idiot
  04/21/18
I would be surprised if your figure for proportion of people...
chartreuse comical corner ape
  04/21/18
can you elaborate on attachment styles? i think i am also...
Irradiated pit goal in life
  04/21/18
There's a million resources on attachment styles in relation...
Passionate Splenetic Locale
  04/21/18
Behold!
Hot Contagious Lodge Queen Of The Night
  04/21/18
garbage dating market and other forces operate on your 2/3r...
Awkward box office ceo
  04/21/18
Not bad other than your statistics are retarded and make no ...
Burgundy Striped Hyena Elastic Band
  04/22/18
cr only makes sense insofar as women getting passed around ...
Awkward box office ceo
  04/22/18
credited, but a little extreme w/ the last two sentences. al...
racy stubborn meetinghouse scourge upon the earth
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navy dysfunction
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Date: April 21st, 2018 2:37 AM
Author: Passionate Splenetic Locale



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Date: April 21st, 2018 2:45 AM
Author: Amber diverse locus telephone

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Date: April 21st, 2018 9:25 AM
Author: concupiscible native

Yeah pretty much. This is why I'm fucked.

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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:13 PM
Author: Passionate Splenetic Locale

I'm pretty sure I'm avoidant and want to fix this. One of the best ways to do so is to find someone who can securely attached, but they're becoming more rare as I get older

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Date: April 21st, 2018 2:42 AM
Author: Spruce Casino Dog Poop

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Date: April 21st, 2018 8:54 AM
Author: excitant sanctuary



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Date: April 21st, 2018 5:03 AM
Author: Tantric Station

MGTOW

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Date: April 21st, 2018 8:28 AM
Author: Vivacious hominid

hahahahaha holy shit

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Date: April 21st, 2018 8:32 AM
Author: carnelian disrespectful becky

the dating market creates attachment disorders

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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:13 PM
Author: Passionate Splenetic Locale

Chicken and the egg

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Date: April 22nd, 2018 10:37 AM
Author: Gaped very tactful hairy legs karate



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Date: April 21st, 2018 8:58 AM
Author: chest-beating stage cumskin

What is an “attachment disorder”?

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Date: April 21st, 2018 9:00 AM
Author: bateful cruise ship halford

anything other than MGTOW

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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:14 AM
Author: Passionate Splenetic Locale



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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:16 AM
Author: Brass idiot



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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:23 AM
Author: chartreuse comical corner ape

I would be surprised if your figure for proportion of people with secure attachment styles was right. It's also a staggeringly vauge concept, to the point were even those to whom the binary distinction applies are still going to have relationship ending psychological tendencies

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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:21 PM
Author: Irradiated pit goal in life

can you elaborate on attachment styles?

i think i am also avoidant, i tend to reach for flaws in a person (or even in myself) as a reason to reject them. i push them away to see whether they come back, and i do this repeatedly until they don't come back, and then i feel sad about it.

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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:33 PM
Author: Passionate Splenetic Locale

There's a million resources on attachment styles in relationships. I would google it and read the clinical/psychological articles rather than any shitty buzzfeed links

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attachment_theory

https://www.atlantacenterforcoupletherapy.com/relationships-the-avoidant-style/

https://blogs.psychcentral.com/imperfect/2017/03/avoidant-attachment-style-change/

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-mysteries-love/201503/how-change-your-attachment-style%3famp



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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:23 PM
Author: Hot Contagious Lodge Queen Of The Night

Behold!

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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:35 PM
Author: Awkward box office ceo

garbage

dating market and other forces operate on your 2/3rds

LJL

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Date: April 22nd, 2018 1:38 AM
Author: Burgundy Striped Hyena Elastic Band

Not bad other than your statistics are retarded and make no sense

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Date: April 22nd, 2018 2:02 AM
Author: Awkward box office ceo

cr

only makes sense insofar as women getting passed around on tinder get real fucked up

otherwise, worthless poast

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Date: April 22nd, 2018 2:06 AM
Author: racy stubborn meetinghouse scourge upon the earth

credited, but a little extreme w/ the last two sentences. also, a lot of people who were nerds or without social skills in high school/college "reliving" their youth and having lots of random hookups, chasing validation in their 20's on hookup apps

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3955566&forum_id=2#35892458)



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Date: April 22nd, 2018 10:29 AM
Author: navy dysfunction



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