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Theory: attachment disorders warp the dating market

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Carnelian Frozen Institution
  04/21/18
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Razzle-dazzle Messiness House
  04/21/18
Yeah pretty much. This is why I'm fucked.
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I'm pretty sure I'm avoidant and want to fix this. One of t...
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Pearl shitlib
  04/21/18
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  04/21/18
the dating market creates attachment disorders
avocado base nowag
  04/21/18
Chicken and the egg
Carnelian Frozen Institution
  04/21/18
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cruel-hearted feces
  04/22/18
What is an “attachment disorder”?
Ungodly hall
  04/21/18
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Claret ape
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I would be surprised if your figure for proportion of people...
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can you elaborate on attachment styles? i think i am also...
Stirring fuchsia theater stage
  04/21/18
There's a million resources on attachment styles in relation...
Carnelian Frozen Institution
  04/21/18
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Snowy Main People Hunting Ground
  04/21/18
garbage dating market and other forces operate on your 2/3r...
scarlet school
  04/21/18
Not bad other than your statistics are retarded and make no ...
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cr only makes sense insofar as women getting passed around ...
scarlet school
  04/22/18
credited, but a little extreme w/ the last two sentences. al...
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Date: April 21st, 2018 2:37 AM
Author: Carnelian Frozen Institution



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Date: April 21st, 2018 2:45 AM
Author: Razzle-dazzle Messiness House

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Date: April 21st, 2018 9:25 AM
Author: Adulterous Gay Casino

Yeah pretty much. This is why I'm fucked.

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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:13 PM
Author: Carnelian Frozen Institution

I'm pretty sure I'm avoidant and want to fix this. One of the best ways to do so is to find someone who can securely attached, but they're becoming more rare as I get older

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Date: April 21st, 2018 2:42 AM
Author: carmine public bath

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Date: April 21st, 2018 8:54 AM
Author: mind-boggling flushed office lettuce



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Date: April 21st, 2018 5:03 AM
Author: Pearl shitlib

MGTOW

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Date: April 21st, 2018 8:28 AM
Author: sexy coffee pot lodge

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Date: April 21st, 2018 8:32 AM
Author: avocado base nowag

the dating market creates attachment disorders

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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:13 PM
Author: Carnelian Frozen Institution

Chicken and the egg

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Date: April 22nd, 2018 10:37 AM
Author: cruel-hearted feces



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Date: April 21st, 2018 8:58 AM
Author: Ungodly hall

What is an “attachment disorder”?

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Date: April 21st, 2018 9:00 AM
Author: Claret ape

anything other than MGTOW

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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:14 AM
Author: Carnelian Frozen Institution



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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:16 AM
Author: brindle parlour



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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:23 AM
Author: Offensive nofapping orchestra pit famous landscape painting

I would be surprised if your figure for proportion of people with secure attachment styles was right. It's also a staggeringly vauge concept, to the point were even those to whom the binary distinction applies are still going to have relationship ending psychological tendencies

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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:21 PM
Author: Stirring fuchsia theater stage

can you elaborate on attachment styles?

i think i am also avoidant, i tend to reach for flaws in a person (or even in myself) as a reason to reject them. i push them away to see whether they come back, and i do this repeatedly until they don't come back, and then i feel sad about it.

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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:33 PM
Author: Carnelian Frozen Institution

There's a million resources on attachment styles in relationships. I would google it and read the clinical/psychological articles rather than any shitty buzzfeed links

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attachment_theory

https://www.atlantacenterforcoupletherapy.com/relationships-the-avoidant-style/

https://blogs.psychcentral.com/imperfect/2017/03/avoidant-attachment-style-change/

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-mysteries-love/201503/how-change-your-attachment-style%3famp



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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:23 PM
Author: Snowy Main People Hunting Ground

Behold!

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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:35 PM
Author: scarlet school

garbage

dating market and other forces operate on your 2/3rds

LJL

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Date: April 22nd, 2018 1:38 AM
Author: tripping lime principal's office

Not bad other than your statistics are retarded and make no sense

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Date: April 22nd, 2018 2:02 AM
Author: scarlet school

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only makes sense insofar as women getting passed around on tinder get real fucked up

otherwise, worthless poast

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Date: April 22nd, 2018 2:06 AM
Author: Useless Rigor Meetinghouse

credited, but a little extreme w/ the last two sentences. also, a lot of people who were nerds or without social skills in high school/college "reliving" their youth and having lots of random hookups, chasing validation in their 20's on hookup apps

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Date: April 22nd, 2018 10:29 AM
Author: glittery greedy step-uncle's house



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