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People with NPD really do need to be killed

Went to a festival with MIL. MIL met a bunch of British guys...
Crystalline Clown Love Of Her Life
  04/24/18
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Dark Soul-stirring Station
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hateful organic girlfriend
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Crystalline Clown Love Of Her Life
  04/24/18
Sure but only if people who make threads like this go back t...
Puce fear-inspiring office
  04/24/18
sounds like a fair trade
Crystalline Clown Love Of Her Life
  04/24/18
everybody does this, it's just that some people try to disgu...
Odious Kitty Cat Gay Wizard
  04/24/18
everyone does it to some limited degree, but not to the exte...
Crystalline Clown Love Of Her Life
  04/24/18
In that situation, keep encouraging her. Everyone else will ...
Vivacious twinkling travel guidebook public bath
  04/24/18
"even someone with NPD will feel shame" they la...
Crystalline Clown Love Of Her Life
  04/24/18
They don't feel guilt. They do feel shame.
Vivacious twinkling travel guidebook public bath
  04/24/18
Well then, I'll whip out the sarcasm at our next hangout the...
Crystalline Clown Love Of Her Life
  04/24/18
Just be prepared for the consequences. We don't deal well wi...
Vivacious twinkling travel guidebook public bath
  04/24/18
what are the consequences exactly - a snarky comment? OH nOE...
Crystalline Clown Love Of Her Life
  04/24/18
Normal, healthy people retaliate proportionately to slights....
Vivacious twinkling travel guidebook public bath
  04/24/18
But then I would never know how PDDJ's story ends. At this ...
bossy heady patrolman coldplay fan
  04/24/18
I can already see it; either murder suicide or divorce (and ...
Crystalline Clown Love Of Her Life
  04/24/18
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Know-it-all volcanic crater abode
  04/24/18
this doesn't sound like NPD, just regular normie social post...
Mind-boggling National New Version
  04/24/18
(guy who hasn't read my other threads) most people know w...
Crystalline Clown Love Of Her Life
  04/24/18
i don't track pumos, sorry. why don't you just make a real m...
Mind-boggling National New Version
  04/24/18
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Dark Soul-stirring Station
  04/24/18
A pumo believing that their threading is readily identifiabl...
fuchsia histrionic faggot firefighter
  04/24/18
Fucking CR. "I already made a thread with backstory&...
bossy heady patrolman coldplay fan
  04/24/18
Clinical narcissists aren't always particularly vain. It's c...
Vivacious twinkling travel guidebook public bath
  04/24/18
the various "living with narcissists" subreddits a...
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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:28 AM
Author: Crystalline Clown Love Of Her Life

Went to a festival with MIL. MIL met a bunch of British guys who were staying at a Motel 6 for the festival. She said "oh I am staying at the Four Seasons - it's costing us 10K". One of the guys mentions that he works on Game of Thrones. "OH well, my friend's daughter works in Hollywood and on movie sets. She works with lots of famous celebrities." It was like she was trying to one up every single thing these guys were saying - a constant struggle to prove how superior she is to them. At a certain point all of them just stopped talking and let her talk about herself and people she knows nonstop.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35907827)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:57 AM
Author: Dark Soul-stirring Station



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35908041)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 4:23 PM
Author: hateful organic girlfriend



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35910820)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:31 AM
Author: Crystalline Clown Love Of Her Life



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35907836)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:33 AM
Author: Puce fear-inspiring office

Sure but only if people who make threads like this go back to China.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35907849)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:33 AM
Author: Crystalline Clown Love Of Her Life

sounds like a fair trade

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35907851)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:34 AM
Author: Odious Kitty Cat Gay Wizard

everybody does this, it's just that some people try to disguise it ("I went to a school in Boston") which is actually MORE obnoxious.

everyone is an egoist.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35907859)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:35 AM
Author: Crystalline Clown Love Of Her Life

everyone does it to some limited degree, but not to the extent of what hotels they are staying at and bragging about their distant friends' daughters jobs. also the older you get, the more you realize that life is flame and none of this matters. at her age, she should not care at all.

it got to the point where literally everyone else stopped talking and she was the only one talking b/c she'd shut down everyone around her

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35907868)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:41 AM
Author: Vivacious twinkling travel guidebook public bath

In that situation, keep encouraging her. Everyone else will get in on the joke. At some point she'll realize how ridiculous she sounds, and even someone with NPD will feel shame.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35907915)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:43 AM
Author: Crystalline Clown Love Of Her Life

"even someone with NPD will feel shame"

they lack all self awareness though to feel shame, but yeah being sarcastic and "encouraging" might be entertaining

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35907929)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:49 AM
Author: Vivacious twinkling travel guidebook public bath

They don't feel guilt. They do feel shame.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35907970)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:54 AM
Author: Crystalline Clown Love Of Her Life

Well then, I'll whip out the sarcasm at our next hangout then

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35908011)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 11:39 AM
Author: Vivacious twinkling travel guidebook public bath

Just be prepared for the consequences. We don't deal well with being shown up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35908376)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 11:50 AM
Author: Crystalline Clown Love Of Her Life

what are the consequences exactly - a snarky comment? OH nOES

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35908467)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 4:20 PM
Author: Vivacious twinkling travel guidebook public bath

Normal, healthy people retaliate proportionately to slights. But you're hitting at the core of the narcissist's psyche, and she'll escalate irrationally. That's why your best bet with actual narcissists is to life cut, not get drawn into endless conflict.

I don't want to out myself here, but it isn't unusual for a true NPD person to accuse you of rape, or call 911 on you, or allege to family and friends that you're abusive. It's a massively disproportionate response to every day conflict.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35910799)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:35 AM
Author: bossy heady patrolman coldplay fan

But then I would never know how PDDJ's story ends. At this point I'm too invested in the character arc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35907862)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:38 AM
Author: Crystalline Clown Love Of Her Life

I can already see it; either murder suicide or divorce (and maybe both)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35907889)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 12:34 PM
Author: Know-it-all volcanic crater abode



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35908786)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:46 AM
Author: Mind-boggling National New Version

this doesn't sound like NPD, just regular normie social posturing. all normies do this stuff. when you get to the smarter/more sophisticated end of the Normie Distribution Curve, people get better at their social posturing so it's not as heavy-handed and awkward

if somebody has NPD, you'll know. they are ridiculously obnoxious. just a 24/7 relentless barrage of soul-sucking narcissism



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35907942)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:52 AM
Author: Crystalline Clown Love Of Her Life

(guy who hasn't read my other threads)

most people know who I am talking about and agree she and her daughter have NPD (e.g., "I have more degrees than everyone else at this dinner table." "I am much better than my husband" Random breakdown crying for attention.)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35907996)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:57 AM
Author: Mind-boggling National New Version

i don't track pumos, sorry. why don't you just make a real moniker so ppl know who you are

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35908040)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:58 AM
Author: Dark Soul-stirring Station



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35908047)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 12:22 PM
Author: fuchsia histrionic faggot firefighter

A pumo believing that their threading is readily identifiable is more NPD than any of the behavior mentioned so far ITT

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35908697)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 12:33 PM
Author: bossy heady patrolman coldplay fan

Fucking CR.

"I already made a thread with backstory" is a shit move even by sudos, particular now that we have "by you." If there's background material, fucking link it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35908785)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 4:25 PM
Author: Vivacious twinkling travel guidebook public bath

Clinical narcissists aren't always particularly vain. It's complicated and goes beyond just poor social skills. Is she breaking laws and ending up in jail? Sleeping with hundreds of people? Etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35910835)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 12:13 PM
Author: smoky exhilarant church building gunner

the various "living with narcissists" subreddits are good to hate-read

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35908625)