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People with NPD really do need to be killed

Went to a festival with MIL. MIL met a bunch of British guys...
Purple motley black woman
  04/24/18
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violent curious psychic sanctuary
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Rough-skinned clear international law enforcement agency house
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Purple motley black woman
  04/24/18
Sure but only if people who make threads like this go back t...
Very Tactful Nursing Home
  04/24/18
sounds like a fair trade
Purple motley black woman
  04/24/18
everybody does this, it's just that some people try to disgu...
laughsome light dysfunction trust fund
  04/24/18
everyone does it to some limited degree, but not to the exte...
Purple motley black woman
  04/24/18
In that situation, keep encouraging her. Everyone else will ...
painfully honest patrolman
  04/24/18
"even someone with NPD will feel shame" they la...
Purple motley black woman
  04/24/18
They don't feel guilt. They do feel shame.
painfully honest patrolman
  04/24/18
Well then, I'll whip out the sarcasm at our next hangout the...
Purple motley black woman
  04/24/18
Just be prepared for the consequences. We don't deal well wi...
painfully honest patrolman
  04/24/18
what are the consequences exactly - a snarky comment? OH nOE...
Purple motley black woman
  04/24/18
Normal, healthy people retaliate proportionately to slights....
painfully honest patrolman
  04/24/18
But then I would never know how PDDJ's story ends. At this ...
Bat-shit-crazy bossy immigrant
  04/24/18
I can already see it; either murder suicide or divorce (and ...
Purple motley black woman
  04/24/18
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Crimson mother
  04/24/18
this doesn't sound like NPD, just regular normie social post...
Naked theater stage
  04/24/18
(guy who hasn't read my other threads) most people know w...
Purple motley black woman
  04/24/18
i don't track pumos, sorry. why don't you just make a real m...
Naked theater stage
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violent curious psychic sanctuary
  04/24/18
A pumo believing that their threading is readily identifiabl...
Multi-colored ebony love of her life school
  04/24/18
Fucking CR. "I already made a thread with backstory&...
Bat-shit-crazy bossy immigrant
  04/24/18
Clinical narcissists aren't always particularly vain. It's c...
painfully honest patrolman
  04/24/18
the various "living with narcissists" subreddits a...
overrated mood field
  04/24/18


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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:28 AM
Author: Purple motley black woman

Went to a festival with MIL. MIL met a bunch of British guys who were staying at a Motel 6 for the festival. She said "oh I am staying at the Four Seasons - it's costing us 10K". One of the guys mentions that he works on Game of Thrones. "OH well, my friend's daughter works in Hollywood and on movie sets. She works with lots of famous celebrities." It was like she was trying to one up every single thing these guys were saying - a constant struggle to prove how superior she is to them. At a certain point all of them just stopped talking and let her talk about herself and people she knows nonstop.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35907827)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:57 AM
Author: violent curious psychic sanctuary



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35908041)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 4:23 PM
Author: Rough-skinned clear international law enforcement agency house



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35910820)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:31 AM
Author: Purple motley black woman



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35907836)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:33 AM
Author: Very Tactful Nursing Home

Sure but only if people who make threads like this go back to China.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35907849)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:33 AM
Author: Purple motley black woman

sounds like a fair trade

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35907851)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:34 AM
Author: laughsome light dysfunction trust fund

everybody does this, it's just that some people try to disguise it ("I went to a school in Boston") which is actually MORE obnoxious.

everyone is an egoist.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35907859)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:35 AM
Author: Purple motley black woman

everyone does it to some limited degree, but not to the extent of what hotels they are staying at and bragging about their distant friends' daughters jobs. also the older you get, the more you realize that life is flame and none of this matters. at her age, she should not care at all.

it got to the point where literally everyone else stopped talking and she was the only one talking b/c she'd shut down everyone around her

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35907868)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:41 AM
Author: painfully honest patrolman

In that situation, keep encouraging her. Everyone else will get in on the joke. At some point she'll realize how ridiculous she sounds, and even someone with NPD will feel shame.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35907915)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:43 AM
Author: Purple motley black woman

"even someone with NPD will feel shame"

they lack all self awareness though to feel shame, but yeah being sarcastic and "encouraging" might be entertaining

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35907929)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:49 AM
Author: painfully honest patrolman

They don't feel guilt. They do feel shame.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35907970)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:54 AM
Author: Purple motley black woman

Well then, I'll whip out the sarcasm at our next hangout then

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35908011)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 11:39 AM
Author: painfully honest patrolman

Just be prepared for the consequences. We don't deal well with being shown up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35908376)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 11:50 AM
Author: Purple motley black woman

what are the consequences exactly - a snarky comment? OH nOES

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35908467)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 4:20 PM
Author: painfully honest patrolman

Normal, healthy people retaliate proportionately to slights. But you're hitting at the core of the narcissist's psyche, and she'll escalate irrationally. That's why your best bet with actual narcissists is to life cut, not get drawn into endless conflict.

I don't want to out myself here, but it isn't unusual for a true NPD person to accuse you of rape, or call 911 on you, or allege to family and friends that you're abusive. It's a massively disproportionate response to every day conflict.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35910799)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:35 AM
Author: Bat-shit-crazy bossy immigrant

But then I would never know how PDDJ's story ends. At this point I'm too invested in the character arc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35907862)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:38 AM
Author: Purple motley black woman

I can already see it; either murder suicide or divorce (and maybe both)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35907889)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 12:34 PM
Author: Crimson mother



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35908786)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:46 AM
Author: Naked theater stage

this doesn't sound like NPD, just regular normie social posturing. all normies do this stuff. when you get to the smarter/more sophisticated end of the Normie Distribution Curve, people get better at their social posturing so it's not as heavy-handed and awkward

if somebody has NPD, you'll know. they are ridiculously obnoxious. just a 24/7 relentless barrage of soul-sucking narcissism



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35907942)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:52 AM
Author: Purple motley black woman

(guy who hasn't read my other threads)

most people know who I am talking about and agree she and her daughter have NPD (e.g., "I have more degrees than everyone else at this dinner table." "I am much better than my husband" Random breakdown crying for attention.)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35907996)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:57 AM
Author: Naked theater stage

i don't track pumos, sorry. why don't you just make a real moniker so ppl know who you are

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35908040)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:58 AM
Author: violent curious psychic sanctuary



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35908047)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 12:22 PM
Author: Multi-colored ebony love of her life school

A pumo believing that their threading is readily identifiable is more NPD than any of the behavior mentioned so far ITT

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35908697)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 12:33 PM
Author: Bat-shit-crazy bossy immigrant

Fucking CR.

"I already made a thread with backstory" is a shit move even by sudos, particular now that we have "by you." If there's background material, fucking link it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35908785)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 4:25 PM
Author: painfully honest patrolman

Clinical narcissists aren't always particularly vain. It's complicated and goes beyond just poor social skills. Is she breaking laws and ending up in jail? Sleeping with hundreds of people? Etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35910835)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 12:13 PM
Author: overrated mood field

the various "living with narcissists" subreddits are good to hate-read

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958332&forum_id=2#35908625)