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How far ahead are kids with 180 rich parents?
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:05 PM Author: magical free-loading cuckoldry office Just how far ahead are those kids? Say the kid's IQ is 90 and he's kinda lazy, but tries.
How far ahead is he from an Asian with a 150 IQ and lousy, poor as fuck parents? |
Date: April 28th, 2018 5:06 PM Author: saffron bearded sweet tailpipe community account already at the finish line (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939373) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:08 PM Author: magical free-loading cuckoldry office So you're saying your parents are 80% of your success? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939384) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:08 PM Author: saffron bearded sweet tailpipe community account in my case it's 80% of my failure but yeah (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939388) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:09 PM Author: magical free-loading cuckoldry office How shitty were your parents? Do you still talk to them? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939394) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:11 PM Author: Irradiated Painfully Honest Tattoo Lodge (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939410) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:09 PM Author: Shimmering mentally impaired international law enforcement agency There's lot of kids like this who completely flop in life. Some of them even poast here. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939392) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:11 PM Author: magical free-loading cuckoldry office Examples of said poasters? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939407) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:15 PM Author: Insane Dashing Dysfunction me (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939435) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:58 PM Author: razzmatazz puce piazza me as well (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35940185) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:24 PM Author: stubborn primrose locus son of senegal cr as to both.
i would say it's mostly because IF you have rich parents they have more resources available to insulate the kid from adversity that would make them resilient to the vagaries of existence. it's more a possibility than a general rule, but if it's as OP has it. that kid could have a tough road to hoe no matter the resources available to them. |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:09 PM Author: Canary nowag 90 IQ is pretty extreme, as is 150 IQ. The real question is how much a 110-130 IQ person ends up ahead of comparable peeps from crappy families. That's where there's probably the most bang for your buck from coming from a rich family. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939393) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:10 PM Author: Vermilion Very Tactful Fat Ankles (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939399) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:12 PM Author: Irradiated Painfully Honest Tattoo Lodge If the whole point of working is to make money, and you spend most of your waking hours working to get that money, then that kid with more money despite not working is already at the finish line and odds are you'll never get there. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939417) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:12 PM Author: Hideous Rigpig Having grown up with parents with some money I can tell you beyond a shadow of a doubt, money is everything. It’s access, comfort and control. The difference in lifestyle between the haves and have nots is far more pronounced than I think most people even realize. I had a tremendous, tremendous advantage conferred upon me simply because of a genetic whim. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939423) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:13 PM Author: Irradiated Painfully Honest Tattoo Lodge (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939426) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:13 PM Author: Irradiated Painfully Honest Tattoo Lodge translation: nobody should have kids except for top 0.01% (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939428) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:00 PM Author: talented mediation theatre (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939795) |
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Date: April 29th, 2018 3:31 AM Author: soul-stirring hateful stead shitlib Top 1% is ok. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35942764) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:15 PM Author: magical free-loading cuckoldry office How do you know this so well? Did you interact a lot with poors while growing up? You seem to know a lot about poors' lifestyles compared to the wealthy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939446) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:18 PM Author: Hideous Rigpig I interacted with all types of people of course but it’s a realization I came to as I came of age. Where you start in life I would say is actually the primary factor in where you will end up. For those who start with next to nothing and get to UMC or higher, they always have very unusual talent or intelligence. But parental/family wealth confers so many immediate advantages right from the beginning of life its importance can’t be overstated. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939472) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:19 PM Author: Irradiated Painfully Honest Tattoo Lodge Yes, like providing venture capital to help your kid "start a business" or provide them access to some nichey high prestige, but low money job (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939480) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:21 PM Author: Hideous Rigpig Prestige tell is managing your family’s charitable foundation. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939496) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:23 PM Author: Irradiated Painfully Honest Tattoo Lodge i dont have relatives like that, but i do have ones that have reached high status in the arts (like won an obscure oscar or grammy) that they could not do without being funded by their parents b/c their career has low pay and unsteady work. without parental help, they'd still be wagecucking somewhere for a salary like an average joe. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939511) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:24 PM Author: Hideous Rigpig (Outted as Anne Hathaway’s cousin) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939527) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:25 PM Author: Irradiated Painfully Honest Tattoo Lodge lmao, i think she makes bank
think more like the guys who work in costume design or whatever for movies or set design work for hollywood, etc. Work is very unsteady |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:53 PM Author: Histrionic Autistic Telephone My folks really stretched to send me to really good K-12 and then I went to a T25 UG that was still cheap (cheaper than my Prep HS) and its true.
I never got any VC to build a business or whatever and was sort of left on my own to learn how to earn a living but the advantages were huge. I got the opportunity to take a breather and actually figure out how to make money on my own in a good way. |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:22 PM Author: Bistre Property Post of the decade not flame (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939956) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:26 PM Author: stubborn primrose locus son of senegal but you were likely in a position to maximize that benefit as compared to the rich dullard. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939991) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:36 PM Author: infuriating masturbator (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35940054) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:14 PM Author: Insane Dashing Dysfunction not very. I was born into a fairly rich extended family and my life has many things guaranteed it in (rent, food, etc.). But ultimately what determines your life success and satisfaction is biological determinism - whether you are born with the right genes to excel in a variety of areas, have the right physical traits (height is the most prominent, but many others relevant), and land high on the dominance hierarchy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939431) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:15 PM Author: Irradiated Painfully Honest Tattoo Lodge "fairly rich extended family"?
My entire extended family is like 50MM+ but I don't get money from them. Your extended family gives you money? JFC |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:19 PM Author: Razzle Dilemma Cumskin Xo is trash (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939477) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:27 PM Author: Insane Dashing Dysfunction naw and they're poorer. probably 15mm all together. but I do have a trust of some sorts that I COULD draw from (but I don't because of adverse tax consequences).
as someone said, family wealth just gives you economic security. It is very comforting to know that if shit hits the fan and I'm unemployed for 20 years, I won't starve to death. but it can't bring happiness, because you're either born a chad or you're born as a gay and autistic XO poa. |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:30 PM Author: Irradiated Painfully Honest Tattoo Lodge how much is the trust? because unless you have access to millions now, it's like you don't have money at all
it has to be life changing money - like you can drop your shitty job and pursue something else now |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:36 PM Author: Insane Dashing Dysfunction i mean, it's like 1m. if you don't spend like a retard, that would last u 20 years. people retire on that kind of money (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939608) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:16 PM Author: Hideous Rigpig Lol, this is so NOT true. I know haggard, mongoloid type Neanderthal looking people who have unearned lavish lifestyles simply Bc of wealthy parents. Where you begin is 90 percent of where you will end up, simple. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939449) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:16 PM Author: Irradiated Painfully Honest Tattoo Lodge (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939452) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:17 PM Author: Deep Indian Lodge lol at "lavish lifestyle" goy trinkets (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939461) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:21 PM Author: Irradiated Painfully Honest Tattoo Lodge or just freedom to do what you want, whenever you want, without worrying about it or being subject to a boomer's whim (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939498) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:17 PM Author: Irradiated Painfully Honest Tattoo Lodge seriously - my trust fund cousins (who don't work or work an "art" job) have more (health, cash, property) in their 20s than biglaw partners do in their 70s
there's no competition
we should just killself |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:24 PM Author: Insane Dashing Dysfunction who the fuck cares about wealth/property or "lavish" lifestyles. if you're not in poverty, which almost no one in XO sans Benzo is in, what makes people happy is meaningful connections, community, affection from other humans, purpose in life.
Those are things that ONLY chads and otherwise biologically "elect" individuals get to enjoy. FACT. no matter how much money you acquire, whether through inheritance or hard work, you will never be HAPPY |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:28 PM Author: Irradiated Painfully Honest Tattoo Lodge aside from property, etc. money gives you the ability to pursue work you really want to do, which in many cases is low paying music/art, etc.
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:30 PM Author: Insane Dashing Dysfunction you don't need to be balls-rich to do low-paying music/art work as long as you don't demand stupid UMC trinkets (living in hipstertown USA, saving up for useless private prep academies, etc. etc.)
and a lot of finances are very easy if you have two incomes, evne if they're both low-income. two artists making $30k a year can live comfortably in most of America. however, it's that only CHADS and other biologically electmos can find quality people to combine incomes with |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:31 PM Author: Irradiated Painfully Honest Tattoo Lodge a lot of these art jobs are only in places like LA/NYC, which is hard to do on a 30k/yr job
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:33 PM Author: Bonkers Senate even Midfuck, USA has a museum that needs a curator (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939586) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:34 PM Author: Irradiated Painfully Honest Tattoo Lodge i'm thinking more along the lines of hollywood, music industry, MET, etc.
curator is an even nichier jobs than most of those |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:37 PM Author: Bonkers Senate "i'm thinking more along the lines of hollywood, music industry, MET, etc."
isn't the discussion about 30K/yr jobs not unicorn jobs?
also i know flyover people who copped DEM ESPN/Universal/etc. jerbs after college, got one bro whos been nominated for an oscar and one who has won an emmy, and one who has been a major role on multiple high profile TV shows
this is all coming from BIGSTATEU |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:39 PM Author: Irradiated Painfully Honest Tattoo Lodge working on set/costume design, etc. is not AS unicorn as being a museum curator, i believe. we're also not talking about being an actor.
one of my close relatives is an oscar winner for something like that, he went from a wagecuck in a hard STEM field to the entertainment industry. his dad funds his lifestyle because his work is very unsteady. |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:34 PM Author: Insane Dashing Dysfunction i live in a major city with that COL and spend less than that in a year (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939592) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:32 PM Author: Hideous Rigpig Yeah I guess but if you parents can easily buy you an Audi, buy you a home, help with your bills, pay for your whole education should you choose to pursue one and hook you up with a cushy job where you can then save all your money it sort of sets you up for easy stress free living don’t you think? I know plenty of guys who look like Danny devitos/not Chads enjoying these things and they seem happy. It’s not the key to happiness certainly, but it helps. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939576) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:35 PM Author: Insane Dashing Dysfunction yes, money can dull the pain and suffering of financial stress. not saying its irrelevant. but it can't bring you happiness. it can only dull the pain. happiness is only for those who are born destined to be happy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939602) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:36 PM Author: Irradiated Painfully Honest Tattoo Lodge stress and working a job i dont want to work makes me unhappy. lots of money would let me avoid both of those. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939609) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:57 PM Author: Insane Dashing Dysfunction yes, but avoiding those would not make you happy. it would just make you less unhappy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939763) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:33 PM Author: rebellious sexy coldplay fan (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939589) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:25 PM Author: aromatic henna heaven >we should just kill them
FTFY |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:26 PM Author: Bistre Property (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939992) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:19 PM Author: magical free-loading cuckoldry office I had a classmate with poor as fuck parents but who managed to go to my high school (private.) He was straight-A and always involved in stuff outside of school. He turned out to be a poor. Chose to go to expensive college and couldn't make ends meet. Has a shitty job these days and makes an average salary. I suppose if he'd been from a rich family, he could have used his intelligence and other talents to get rich and successful. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939478) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:21 PM Author: Irradiated Painfully Honest Tattoo Lodge lol @ poors thinking going to college is how to maek it in life (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939491) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:23 PM Author: Hideous Rigpig This was true prior to maybe 1975 or so. They had a much more realistic guarantee of improving their state from poor to at least solidly middle class. Nowadays, forget it. College is a terrible idea. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939515) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:32 PM Author: Irradiated Painfully Honest Tattoo Lodge cr, agreed
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:25 PM Author: ruby trust fund pocket flask They might as well be living in a different dimension, their lives are exponentially better (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939529) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:26 PM Author: Irradiated Painfully Honest Tattoo Lodge (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939541) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:36 PM Author: aromatic henna heaven (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939606) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:01 PM Author: talented mediation theatre (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939797) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:32 PM Author: Bonkers Senate High schooler with rich parents: parents are friends with professors, find summer "research opportunity" for the kid, science fair and college apps come around, tenured prof writes rec letter, kid has "worked on curing cancer" or "protein folding simulations" or whatever, autoadmit and comes into college knowing what they want to do in life and guns hard for that real research, PhD, etc.
High schooler with non-rich parents: jacks off all summer, goes to college, thinks his good grades will get him a good job, pwned by FOREVER*ITE, no PhD programs want him, becomes an accountant AT BEST
i had a friend come into BIGSTATEU from rich parents, literally already published in a legit journal as a high schooler, did work in his field all UG, got PhD from the #1 place in the country for his field, became lecturer @ HYPSM, just copped dat TENURETRACKBRUNCH at a top uni in his field |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:06 PM Author: cruel-hearted offensive national toilet seat Your anecdote aside 90% of the time accountant >>>>>>>>> PhD (including STEM PhD). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939840) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:33 PM Author: Vermilion Very Tactful Fat Ankles the two biggest advantages you can have growing up are having rich parents and being good looking. anybody who claims otherwise are deluding themselves. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939585) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:34 PM Author: Irradiated Painfully Honest Tattoo Lodge (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939595) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:36 PM Author: Insane Dashing Dysfunction yes, but in reverse-order. being good-looking is much more important (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939612) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:38 PM Author: Hideous Rigpig Being in the top 1% of physical attractiveness would be the only thing powerful enough to equal parental wealth/status in life outcome. For either one, the red carpet rolls out for you in a comparable way. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939628) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:40 PM Author: Vermilion Very Tactful Fat Ankles correct (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939654) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:40 PM Author: Irradiated Painfully Honest Tattoo Lodge or the red carpet in a very literal way, ljl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939655) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:42 PM Author: Hideous Rigpig (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939665) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:55 PM Author: Insane Dashing Dysfunction lmfao, false. top 1% in parental wealth = your parents both make $200k. that is hardly comparable to being even top 10% in physical attractiveness (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939751) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:59 PM Author: Hideous Rigpig Well you know what I mean. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939785) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:02 PM Author: Insane Dashing Dysfunction okay, maybe being top .01% in wealth is comparable to being top 10% in attractiveness. the point is that attractiveness is still much better than wealth in almost any comparable level.
all we've concluded is that being a Trump kid is better than being above-average in looks, and that doesn't prove shit |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:06 PM Author: magical free-loading cuckoldry office Chick in my high school was top 1% physical attractiveness. You're right that she got to marry a rich as fuck dude. However, the rich as fuck dude is an asshole and there's rumors that she ends at the hospital all bruised every now and then. So much for the good looks. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939838) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:08 PM Author: Hideous Rigpig She can always divorce and get half or at least a nice pay day, assuming no pre nup. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939851) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 7:48 PM Author: Irradiated Painfully Honest Tattoo Lodge Sounds like a good trade to me (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35940453) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:37 PM Author: Hideous Rigpig Cr, and you had neither. Jesus. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939618) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:40 PM Author: Vermilion Very Tactful Fat Ankles ?
LOTS (in fact, MOST) people have neither |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:42 PM Author: Canary nowag Duh (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939667) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:42 PM Author: Vermilion Very Tactful Fat Ankles sometimes you gotta state the obvious (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939671) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:56 PM Author: Canary nowag I will note that you really should add intelligence to that. There are plenty of stupid as fuck rich and good looking kids that fuck up their lives despite all of their advantages. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939762) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:46 PM Author: Vermilion Very Tactful Fat Ankles i would say that intelligence is #3 but it is a DISTANT #3
unless youre legit 150+ IQ, its far better to be attractive and wealthy than it is to be smart. If anything, being in the 130 IQ range could be a detriment if youre ugly and poor. at that point youre smart enough to realize how fucked you are and it lends itself to negative, disordered thinking
want an example of this? check out xoxohth.com |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 7:49 PM Author: Irradiated Painfully Honest Tattoo Lodge (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35940458) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 8:04 PM Author: Aquamarine frisky pit The 150s often don't get on well with authority and turn into Pensives.
If you're tracked for a subordinate role and have a non-subordinate role, you're in for a tough life. |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 8:17 PM Author: Vermilion Very Tactful Fat Ankles this may be true, but my point still stands
unless your IQ is high enough so that you are truly exceptional, youre better off being rich/attractive than you are being smart |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:37 PM Author: balding tank It used to be that wealthy families would fall into disrepair with the tides of change but now it’s all funny money with no real backing and can be consolidated and “invested” into whatever nonsense is profitable. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939619) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:38 PM Author: Bonkers Senate yeah the change was professional money managers rather than earl of downton doing whatever ponzi told him (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939625) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:37 PM Author: flickering sound barrier plaza It's monumentally easier in every field.
Doctor? How much easier is it to slave away without real income for 15 years when daddy is subsidizing your life?
Arts? That unpaid internship still requires you to pay rent, have a reliable car, health insurance, etc.
Law? Life is much easier when you don't have $3,000 every month taken out of your pocket for law school.
Business? "Hey Bill, why don't you hire my boy here as an analyst? He just graduated from George Washington with a degree in business administration. I think he'd be a fine addition to your team!"
Entrepreneurship? Think how many years you'd have to work at a normal job to save up $50,000, and then how much guts it would take to spend it on fucking permitting, insurance and leasing to start a business. Now think of doing it with your Dad's "loan." |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:38 PM Author: aromatic henna heaven (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939626) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:40 PM Author: Irradiated Painfully Honest Tattoo Lodge (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939650) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:40 PM Author: Canary nowag And it starts even well before all that. You went to great schools and learned to work hard academically earlier, instead of learning to flip burgers. You had good goals set and learned to interact with UMC and wealthy people since being a child. These are intangible benefits that provide an immeasurable advantage. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939653) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:42 PM Author: Irradiated Painfully Honest Tattoo Lodge (boomer)
school is flame bro - all about your parents' connections and working connections at the Flying J |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:42 PM Author: Passionate internal respiration (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939669) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:44 PM Author: Hideous Rigpig Cr, there are sets of behaviors, though it’s not as rigid as it used to be, that work like an unspoken language in this group. You learn that fluency early on. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939678) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:52 PM Author: Canary nowag I remember I was at one of those pre-OCI law firm mixers and there was this other student that grew up in MFH and went to some elite private school and found all the associates and partners that also went there or had kids there and was laughing about all the inside stories the entire time. I was watching and thinking "holy shit, this guy is basically at the finish line entirely because of how he grew up." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939728) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:53 PM Author: Irradiated Painfully Honest Tattoo Lodge Sad that he ended up in biglaw as a middle class wagecuck despite his advantages, what a loser! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939738) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:54 PM Author: Canary nowag It is a stepping stone to other things. Ultimately, it is where you end up afterward that is more important than anything else. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939745) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:54 PM Author: Irradiated Painfully Honest Tattoo Lodge Like a 120K in house wagecuck job, OMG HE MAED IT. Wow, that private school education costing 1MM sure paid off. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939748) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:55 PM Author: Canary nowag See my edit. If he ended up at a 120k in-house job after all that then that would be pretty sad. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939752) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:56 PM Author: Irradiated Painfully Honest Tattoo Lodge The average biglawyer probably quits law within 10 years and restarts another career after burnout or works a 120K in house job - WOW AMAZING. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939759) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:57 PM Author: Canary nowag Yeah, $120k/year in-house isn't usually where people with decent biglaw firms end up. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939769) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:59 PM Author: Insane Dashing Dysfunction you seem to know nothing about biglaw. that's a top-tier outcome for your average biglaw associate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939783) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:00 PM Author: Canary nowag Maybe, I've been in-house for a long time but even during a terrible economy I started out well above that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939796) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:03 PM Author: Insane Dashing Dysfunction most biglaw types can't get in-house (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939815) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:03 PM Author: Canary nowag You must be a litmo. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939819) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:16 PM Author: Irradiated Painfully Honest Tattoo Lodge no, it's just there's a billion qualified biglawyers for every in house job
you could probably get an Amazon in house job, but at that point, why not just continue to work biglaw |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:20 PM Author: Canary nowag There are, and that first leap to in-house is the biggest one because in-house strongly prefers in-house experience to biglaw. So the reason you take a less than ideal first in-house job is so you can transition that to a better one later.
FYI - I'm interviewing people for an in-house position now and we're basically not even considering straight from biglaw people. That said, I did hire one such person a while back. Mind you, the guy had a STEM degree with latin honors which is what we really wanted.
Long story short, I guess I see the poster's point that you might take a $120k shit in-house job or an Amazon.com biglaw style job, but even if you do you'll trade that for something better pretty quickly if you don't suck. |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:57 PM Author: Insane Dashing Dysfunction correct (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939771) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:45 PM Author: aromatic henna heaven (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939688) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:41 PM Author: Vermilion Very Tactful Fat Ankles (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939658) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:49 PM Author: high-end travel guidebook meetinghouse probably impossible to draw any meaningful conclusions from everyone’s random anecdotes itt. question is also crazy broad - “iq” or what people perceive as innate ability is actually partly a function of your environment and resources growing up.
and anyway income isn’t the sole factor to consider in terms of a kids advantages growing up - the son of a couple university of chicago economists or whatever is probably 10000x better off than a richer kid raised by a family of retarded house flippers in florida.
i’d guess that having a wealthy background maybe gives you certain advantages growing up and limits your worst possible outcome. but the highest paying professions are still meritocracies and, in my experience, the BIGGEST winners of the game (e.g., megafund portfolio managers) tend to be the smartest/most effective rather than the richest. this is obviously a hard conclusion to accept for less wealthy people that haven’t been that successful.
the benefits of family wealth probably diminish rapidly (maybe become counterproductive) in terms of helping you really, really win the game. but it’s obviously helpful if you want to be a retarded artist in williamsburg and not starve |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:51 PM Author: Irradiated Painfully Honest Tattoo Lodge and anyway income isn’t the sole factor to consider in terms of a kids advantages growing up - the son of a couple university of chicago economists or whatever is probably 10000x better off than a richer kid raised by a family of retarded house flippers in florida.
I'd much rather be the kid of "retarded house flippers". Probably learn real life skills and business acumen. |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:55 PM Author: high-end travel guidebook meetinghouse your mom would have fake tits, leathery skin and weird botox. your dad would be a lunatic guido and you would have an aggressive drug habit. but otherwise fair enough lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939755) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:57 PM Author: Hideous Rigpig You’d basically be the family from that documentary “Queen of Versailles” and that’s srill not terrible. You’d be white trash building the biggest home in America because your dad was a timeshare slumlord. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939767) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:02 PM Author: Irradiated Painfully Honest Tattoo Lodge lol, that family is so white trash but also kind of awesome (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939813) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:04 PM Author: Insane Dashing Dysfunction lol I watched that film because the family is terrifyingly similar to mine. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939823) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:06 PM Author: Hideous Rigpig It’s funny because all the money in the world could not class those people up. They sort of remind me of Hulk Hogan’s family just white trash who somehow became insanely wealthy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939841) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:14 PM Author: Insane Dashing Dysfunction my extended family has primarily made money via 3 things
1) house-flipping section 8 housing 2) grey-export cars ---> West Africa 3) EB-5 investment visas |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:16 PM Author: Hideous Rigpig 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939907) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:07 PM Author: magical free-loading cuckoldry office You mean you know what the family was like before watching the film? LJL. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939850) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 7:00 PM Author: exciting halford parlour Ty for this poast. Had this same thought but wasn't gonna post it because I thought that would be too autistic. Glad you did what was RIGHT, and not what was EASY. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35940202) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:59 PM Author: magical free-loading cuckoldry office You're not making a lot of sense here, broseph.
How is it that the kid of the Chicago economists is 10000x better off than the kid of house flippers in Florida... but you want to be that kid who is 10000x worse off? |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:18 PM Author: high-end travel guidebook meetinghouse different person lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939922) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:31 PM Author: magical free-loading cuckoldry office I did not respond to you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35940024) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:56 PM Author: Hideous Rigpig I think the question is even if you’re great on every metric of intelligence, work ethic, etc it will be harder to go from poor to umc/rich than to backslide from umc/rich to poor. If your parents are rich you’re almosr guaranteed to be rich. It’s a question of social mobility and how advantageous it is to be born on third base. You can basically be a total fuck up and still you’ll remain wealthy. A fuck up who’s also poor has zero chance and a smart kid who’s poor, assuming everything else goes right, has somewhat better of a chance but it’s not guaranteed, and they may still not even do as “well” as rich fuck up. Of course the best of the best as you say blend all the characteristics of good upbringing/background + hardworking and gifted. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939757) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:21 PM Author: high-end travel guidebook meetinghouse and what i’m saying is if the goal is to hit a walk off grand slam, money only matters until you have every basic necessity (and in fact having total financial security might be a net detriment).
and generally i’d say a bunch of factors beyond family wealth play into social mobility. but if you’re just saying “it’s easier for a rich kid to stay rich than a poor kid to become rich” that obviously goes without saying lol |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:56 PM Author: rebellious sexy coldplay fan (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939760) |
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Date: April 29th, 2018 2:04 AM Author: Ruddy Wonderful Area Volcanic Crater tcr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35942577) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 5:58 PM Author: talented mediation theatre Born on 3rd base with no outs at the start of the lineup (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939779) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:01 PM Author: magical free-loading cuckoldry office What did you do with your life? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939798) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:18 PM Author: talented mediation theatre Went from nothing and student loan debt to a decent networth. I’m not done yet tho. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939927) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:24 PM Author: copper brunch you still thinking of getting a PHD in machine learning?
think i'm gonna do a data science bootcamp |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 8:15 PM Author: talented mediation theatre Thinking I may just drop out of workforce altogether. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35940603) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:39 PM Author: magical free-loading cuckoldry office How did you do this? Just working real hard or did someone help you along the way? Got lucky? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35940073) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:56 PM Author: talented mediation theatre Mostly luck and timing. Wish I could attribute to hard work and intelligence , but no. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35940170) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 7:49 PM Author: Irradiated Painfully Honest Tattoo Lodge (cryptopig) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35940462) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:03 PM Author: magical free-loading cuckoldry office I don't get parents who are already poor and they decide to have 5 kids. Do they think they will collect money from the trees? I know a few of these idiots in my extended family. They had tons of kids and then they couldn't figure out how to support them financially. JFC at stupid people obsessed with having a family and babby to get some semblance of normalcy and 'status'. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939816) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:18 PM Author: balding tank "JFC at stupid people obsessed with having a family and babby to get some semblance of normalcy and 'status'."
the xo story |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 7:20 PM Author: mind-boggling gay fortuitous meteor clown (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35940304) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:22 PM Author: boyish locale Why ask q's you already know the answer to.
Those who are born rich have everything. |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:24 PM Author: magical free-loading cuckoldry office Why not? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35939979) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:26 PM Author: boyish locale Because it's boring and no one learns anything.
Why not debate something like money vs. looks. Or if it's better to have dead parents+grandparents+trust or live and thriving family with no savings. |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:32 PM Author: magical free-loading cuckoldry office There's some pretty good insights ITT. You probably didn't read it, but I did and it made for a good convo. 133 posts in 1.5hrs, not bad. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35940029) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:32 PM Author: Indecent circlehead hall Your fate is sealed on day 1 of kindergarten. The biggest advantage they give is a healthy and nurturing environment with lots of words spoken to the baby. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35940028) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:34 PM Author: rebellious sexy coldplay fan (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35940043) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:38 PM Author: magical free-loading cuckoldry office This is false, mang. Your personality is genetic as fuck. I have a brother who is just 1 year younger. We had the exact same upbringing and we're completely different. I cannot say who is better off, but we don't have the same issues at all. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35940067) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:33 PM Author: opaque theater stage useless brakes Xo poasters are such pathetic whiny libs when it comes to family wealth (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35940037) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:34 PM Author: Bistre Property My parents were fundamentalist religious zealot proles so the only connections they had were to other religtards with LMC to Poormo mindset
Religious also to the point where they made it phobic to be around money or those that made it because of evil/demonic influence
I think this unspoken constituency is doubly fucked on many levels and i bet if you did multivariable analysis you would see this religious kind exponentially showcased in Uber fucked and exponentially nonexistent in the winners
I’m a legit fucking miracle |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:36 PM Author: magical free-loading cuckoldry office Explain what makes you a miracle. Are you rich as fuck or something?
My dad came from literal shit (a dead parent and the other left, they were raised by granny). Not sure how, but 4 out of 5 siblings are pretty well-off these days, some are actually rich. I think it's basically good-looks. They're all Aryan, tall and in the top 10% of looks. |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:45 PM Author: Bistre Property ... If I followed even 5% of their advice I would be completely destroyed in every aspect of my life |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:55 PM Author: high-end travel guidebook meetinghouse describe your relationship with your parents. assuming it’s shitty, does this make you sad? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35940168) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:59 PM Author: Bistre Property Pretty nonexistent as far as parent child closeness or what I see others have
We converse and text but there feels like a massive brick wall of understanding and reality between us
I’ve done a lot of therapy and drugs about this particular topic and pretty much all the poison is out but it’s easily the thing that’s brought me the most pain in my life
Things are what they are and I can only do what’s best for me since no one else will for now so it’s all good, I’m mentally/spiritually the toughest and most resilient person I know |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 7:05 PM Author: high-end travel guidebook meetinghouse shit man well glad you’re happy now at least (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35940230) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:56 PM Author: hairraiser temple gay wizard Know so many rich kids in prestigious positions now because they were set up from day 1. Media is the worst, actually. Everyone outside of tech at the NYTimes under 40 is a rich kid. 100%
I work at a place with a lot of 'starter' internships. All of them are connected. Own brownstones in fort greene, coops on the UWS. Kills me. Not worth competing. |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 6:58 PM Author: hairraiser temple gay wizard they tell you life in America is a meritocracy.
Then you go to a decent private college and see 60% are from elite private schools. What a scam! |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 10:52 PM Author: aromatic henna heaven (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35941586) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 7:03 PM Author: flickering sound barrier plaza Look at newspapers. You'd have to be an idiot to become a journalist now from a financial standpoint. So its all just trust fund kids. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35940220) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 7:50 PM Author: Irradiated Painfully Honest Tattoo Lodge same with fashion, art, nonprofit, etc. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35940464) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 10:53 PM Author: talented mediation theatre (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35941596) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 7:33 PM Author: lavender location sandwich Egregious flame is getting run itt:
-words parents speak to you mattering -alberich playing at being rich with 15mm family owning a chinese restaurant -not realizing the level of regression to the mean of wealthy children -comparing yourself to ultra rich hereditary wealth types, yeah you have less money -not realizing most of success is a combo of genes and pure luck, if a rich kid is dumb he will not be successful, not being born rich will not stop you from being a success -no mention of saving money for YOUR kids, just butthurt proles complaining no money from THEIR parents, you just don't get it, do you, your faggot kids will be poor just like you because everyone in your family going back a 1000 years was a selfish balding beady eyed live only for today type like yourself -gatormo, checkmate. |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 8:14 PM Author: talented mediation theatre (trust fund kid with mediocre outcome) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35940595) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 10:53 PM Author: aromatic henna heaven (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35941591) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 7:36 PM Author: galvanic mustard center background story it's 50/50. either they end up far ahead or they don't.
e.g., RSF and RSF's lil bro |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 7:37 PM Author: lavender location sandwich (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35940408) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 11:56 PM Author: Excitant nofapping elastic band (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35942043) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 8:39 PM Author: Translucent principal's office quadroon Define rich. $500k per year? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35940779) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 11:49 PM Author: Gaped Spot JFC, this thread, more than any other, proves that XO is full to the brim with trash and barely UMC strivers.
Most of you don't know shit about how to truly succeed and you sure as fuck don't know about true happiness. It's a shame, but it's not your fault. Growing up in SPS suburbia did this to most of you. It is sad as fuck the extent this country has succumbed to the cancer that is the suburbia mindset.
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Date: April 28th, 2018 11:54 PM Author: Irradiated Painfully Honest Tattoo Lodge (trust fund boi) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35942024) |
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Date: April 28th, 2018 11:56 PM Author: aromatic henna heaven (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3962682&forum_id=2#35942038) |