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Wife's personality underwent a major change post marriage & baby

She became much more demanding and assertive , and every two...
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How many kids? Is she sahm?
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Two young kids. She’s a part time orthodontist. Works 10 day...
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You maed it congrats
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You win at life, friend!
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u maed it, beyond most xo'ers
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what are some of the things "you did wrong?"
fragrant stead
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In terms of what I could have done to screen better? Or way...
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you said she flips and screams at you? over what exactly?
fragrant stead
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Today kid was screaming as wife made dinner. I took a walk ...
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dealing with this is one thing. but dealing with this and a ...
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Yelling at the friend seems extreme and is obviously inappro...
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Works full time still at her insistence, although I've asked...
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Have you tried to talk to her about it?
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Yes, we've talked about it a lot and seen a marriage counsel...
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Nothing came from therapy? You only went to two sessions? Is...
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The sessions would be more about an impartial third party he...
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Your wife needs medication
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yup, valium or something like that
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still likely better than most in your position
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Date: May 19th, 2018 10:20 PM
Author: Cerebral hell internal respiration

She became much more demanding and assertive , and every two weeks or so just randomly breaks down and screams at me

It's very unpleasant. We lived together before marriage and dated quite a few years, and her personality was stable during this time and we had almost no issues. Im generally a good judge of character and I was very careful looking out for red flags.

Bums me out but no one every told me women literally have a major personality transplant post marriage and kids

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087437)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 10:50 PM
Author: amber dashing chad deer antler

Hormones change a lot, plus massive shift in the amount of responsibility.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087623)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 10:29 PM
Author: exhilarant principal's office affirmative action

Power dynamics. You're stuck. You think you'd be the same after hitting the lotto?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087503)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 10:30 PM
Author: Irradiated den



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087509)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 10:30 PM
Author: Cerebral hell internal respiration

I guess it is power dynamics but I never took her for the calculating type. Still don't really. Guess it happens on an unconscious level.

I don't think I would have married her if these issues manifested pre marriage , but I'm very thankful for my kid and it's not so bad that I would want to fuck up my kid by leaving.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087512)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 10:05 AM
Author: Angry laughsome shrine antidepressant drug



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36089370)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 5:27 PM
Author: idiotic space psychic



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36091619)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 10:31 PM
Author: Underhanded Vigorous Prole Spot



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087515)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 10:32 PM
Author: Sexy area

My wife is basically the same as when we got married. We didn’t live together and only dated a few months before we got married. We were in our early 20s too. She’s a religious southern girl too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087522)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 10:34 PM
Author: Cerebral hell internal respiration

How many kids? Is she sahm?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087534)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 10:36 PM
Author: Sexy area

Two young kids. She’s a part time orthodontist. Works 10 days a month— three days one week; two days the next. Averages 250k per year.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087553)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 10:38 PM
Author: Cerebral hell internal respiration

You maed it congrats

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087563)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 10:54 PM
Author: Sexy area

Thanks. I look at xo married bros and guys I work with and thank my lucky stars I married her. She’s far more chill and less materialistic than I am.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087650)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 6:15 PM
Author: Wonderful Alpha Lodge

Is/was she hot?

Starting to think there might be some merit to the "marry an ugly girl" meme.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36091918)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 6:34 PM
Author: Sexy area

She’s no instagram model but she’s attractive. Was a college athlete and 5’10” 115 lbs when we met. She’s an age adjusted 6.5-7 now; I’m a no chad. Keeps in great shape. I’d love her even if she wasn’t given everything else she does for me and kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36092050)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 7:37 PM
Author: Wonderful Alpha Lodge

You win at life, friend!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36092385)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 10:37 PM
Author: apoplectic slippery dopamine preventive strike

u maed it, beyond most xo'ers

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087558)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 10:33 PM
Author: fragrant stead

what are some of the things "you did wrong?"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087532)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 10:34 PM
Author: Cerebral hell internal respiration

In terms of what I could have done to screen better? Or ways I'm not a perfect husband?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087540)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 10:37 PM
Author: fragrant stead

you said she flips and screams at you? over what exactly?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087559)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 10:41 PM
Author: Cerebral hell internal respiration

Today kid was screaming as wife made dinner. I took a walk with kid outside and came back and screaming continued in the den as I tried to stop the screaming (unsuccessfully). Friend came over to join for dinner. I was asked to prepare the hamburgers and started on it and wife nitpicked over the way I was doing it (which I've done many times before). Wife also found something in the den that she didn't like there that she blamed me for. Started screaming at me (kid was still being difficult). Friend asked if he could help and wife screamed at him too. Friend looked at me and said he should probably go and I agreed and he left. Wife meanwhile went in the bedroom and closed the door.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087586)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 10:43 PM
Author: fragrant stead

dealing with this is one thing. but dealing with this and a stressful job can destroy a man.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087594)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 10:44 PM
Author: Cerebral hell internal respiration



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087603)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 11:37 PM
Author: galvanic bronze resort

Yelling at the friend seems extreme and is obviously inappropriate. Could there be some underlying stressor? Is she SAHM and doesn't want to be or vice versa? How old is kid?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087883)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 11:39 PM
Author: Cerebral hell internal respiration

Works full time still at her insistence, although I've asked her to go part time. We have help during the week from a nanny and her parents.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087894)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 11:39 PM
Author: galvanic bronze resort

Have you tried to talk to her about it?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087898)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 11:42 PM
Author: Cerebral hell internal respiration

Yes, we've talked about it a lot and seen a marriage counselor twice about it (both times after she blew up and yelled at me over something). It seems like a stuck and reoccurring issue...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087918)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 11:43 PM
Author: galvanic bronze resort

Nothing came from therapy? You only went to two sessions? Isn't the point to keep going to work through it?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087924)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 11:49 PM
Author: Cerebral hell internal respiration

I didn't think the sessions were helpful, and I don't know what there is to work through. If she's stressed she needs to tell me how she feels and say how I can help, or extricate herself before it escalates. I'm not a mind reader. And she needs to not order me around like I'm a child. These are things that were never issues pre marriage...



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087966)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 11:51 PM
Author: galvanic bronze resort

The sessions would be more about an impartial third party helping her analyze and modify her behavior.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087989)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 3:30 AM
Author: ungodly fortuitous meteor

You sound stupid

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36088855)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 10:35 AM
Author: Fantasy-prone Lake Stage Marketing Idea

is your wife jewish

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36089457)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 11:40 PM
Author: Razzmatazz patrolman

I could see this culminating in a scene where you look on in horror as both your wife and kid scream at you in unison.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087901)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 8:23 AM
Author: Bearded filthpig headpube

Thought you were gunna say murder suicide

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36089166)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 6:17 PM
Author: Fear-inspiring Hairraiser State Athletic Conference



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36091932)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 10:41 AM
Author: out-of-control crotch selfie

Your wife needs medication

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36089475)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 12:58 PM
Author: floppy emerald point

yup, valium or something like that

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36090139)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 10:34 PM
Author: Violet bawdyhouse

compare and contrast frequency and quality of sex pre and post baby.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087537)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 10:35 PM
Author: Cerebral hell internal respiration

Pre marriage it was 3-4x a week, now it's 2x. Guess I'm not super high T.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087547)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 11:26 PM
Author: odious halford

still likely better than most in your position

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087835)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 10:26 AM
Author: Angry laughsome shrine antidepressant drug

Seems odd she is like this if she is getting dick twice a week. When you say 2x, is it with you or someone else?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36089426)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 1:32 PM
Author: copper chest-beating trust fund temple



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36090271)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 5:29 PM
Author: idiotic space psychic

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36091632)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 10:35 PM
Author: curious bull headed garrison

I don't understand the timeline here. Did you get married before or after kids?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087543)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 10:36 PM
Author: Cerebral hell internal respiration

Hi doobs

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087549)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 10:38 PM
Author: curious bull headed garrison

Haha wow holy shit. You had a bastard child, didn't you? Of course you have a cunt of a wife. Being a degenerate heathen isn't without consequences.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087572)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 11:07 PM
Author: flesh soul-stirring base

He's an insidious kike iirc. He doesn't subscribe to christian morality.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087727)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 11:39 PM
Author: Chestnut Motley Useless Brakes Azn



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087896)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 2:52 AM
Author: sable son of senegal forum

Op can’t bury the lead like this and expect good advice...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36088761)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 7:56 AM
Author: rusted supple brethren

I assumed this was common board knowledge

Consuela got a chick knocked up then married her. Around the same period he was also running a highly desperate and elaborate yet incompetent sock puppet scheme that still stands as one of the greatest markers of delusion and mental illness on xo.

So these marital issues really came out of left field is what I'm saying.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36089119)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 10:27 AM
Author: Angry laughsome shrine antidepressant drug



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36089429)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 1:23 PM
Author: mewling talented place of business incel



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36090235)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 5:30 PM
Author: idiotic space psychic

Haha wow holy shit, indeed

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36091635)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 11:09 PM
Author: histrionic bespoke senate

Mine too. Weight wise

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087739)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 11:14 PM
Author: Cerebral hell internal respiration

Why did she let herself go? How many children? How much does it bother you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087769)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 11:28 PM
Author: histrionic bespoke senate

1 child. 25 pound weight gain. It bothers me that she doesnt care about losing it. She gained due to stress at work more than the child

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087847)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 3:29 AM
Author: rambunctious mind-boggling toilet seat

ljl

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36088854)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 11:26 PM
Author: odious halford

in a good way or a bad way?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087836)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 11:17 PM
Author: adventurous kitchen goal in life

isnt xo constantly warning dudes abt this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087789)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 11:19 PM
Author: Cerebral hell internal respiration

Xo warns about gold diggers and shrews. It does not warn about major personality changes that occur post marriage / children in otherwise normal women.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087798)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 10:37 AM
Author: High-end Regret Gas Station

Searches "wife"

20,000 results

Yeah, it's there.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36089462)



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Date: May 19th, 2018 11:51 PM
Author: amber dashing chad deer antler

Almost every woman will "change" in this way. Because they have gone through a huge change. Just expect it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36087983)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 7:40 AM
Author: orange menage circlehead

True, but it sounds like he’s got something else going on. OP needs to communicate with the wife and find out what’s causing her to cut you down in front of others.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36089089)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 5:19 AM
Author: translucent startled double fault

*hands you my card*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36088972)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 6:24 PM
Author: Wonderful Alpha Lodge



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36091970)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 7:46 AM
Author: garnet windowlicker

(guy with a normal wife)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36089105)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 7:54 AM
Author: rusted supple brethren

That's just how women are after a certain period.

Also you guys may be unstable because of the genesis of your marriage (the kid). That changes the dynamic because it wasn't really a choice. One or both of you may feel trapped and resentful.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36089113)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 7:57 AM
Author: Up-to-no-good Free-loading Newt Parlor

Women get married and think that their husband will change.

Men get married and think that their wife will stay the same.

Both are usually disappointed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36089122)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 8:46 AM
Author: Cracking fiercely-loyal dragon whorehouse



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36089199)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 1:22 PM
Author: Vivacious mother public bath



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36090232)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 6:19 PM
Author: Fear-inspiring Hairraiser State Athletic Conference



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36091945)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 8:03 AM
Author: rusted supple brethren

Lol

http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3315535&forum_id=2#31135550

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36089139)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 10:40 AM
Author: High-end Regret Gas Station

What was blanked?

And LOL, I totally forgot he should report his wife to the FBI

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36089473)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 1:33 PM
Author: mewling talented place of business incel

Did he really report posters to the FBI? Op's wife's reaction seems like the natural consequence of living with this mental patient

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36090279)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 10:10 AM
Author: Jade autistic masturbator

With girls, Nature has had in view what is called in a dramatic sense a “striking effect,” for she endows them for a few years with a richness of beauty and a, fulness of charm at the expense of the rest of their lives; so that they may during these years ensnare the fantasy of a man to such a degree as to make him rush into taking the honourable care of them, in some kind of form, for a lifetime—a step which would not seem sufficiently justified if he only considered the matter. Accordingly, Nature has furnished woman, as she has the rest of her creatures, with the weapons and implements necessary for the protection of her existence and for just the length of time that they will be of service to her; so that Nature has proceeded here with her usual economy. Just as the female ant after coition loses her wings, which then become superfluous, nay, dangerous for breeding purposes, so for the most part does a woman lose her beauty after giving birth to one or two children; and probably for the same reasons.

Then again we find that young girls in their hearts regard their domestic or other affairs as secondary things, if not as a mere jest. Love, conquests, and all that these include, such as dressing, dancing, and so on, they give their serious attention.

Because women in truth exist entirely for the propagation of the race, and their destiny ends here, they live more for the species than for the individual, and in their hearts take the affairs of the species more seriously than those of the individual. This gives to their whole being and character a certain frivolousness, and altogether a certain tendency which is fundamentally different from that of man; and this it is which develops that discord in married life which is so prevalent and almost the normal state.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36089381)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 10:20 AM
Author: maniacal orchestra pit

once women have kids, most don't care about their husbands other than as a resource for them and their children. everything switches to raising their kids. men are just there for money, protection, and manual labor around the house.

it's sort of like the female spider eating the male after copulation. the male is now just an energy source for the female and her offspring.

now, of course, in modern society some of this has changed. you have your shrews who are less maternalistic, and don't know how, or want, to do domestic tasks. and you get some, like casey anthony, who still want to live the partying lifestyle, chase men, and resent their kids. so there are exceptions.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36089404)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 10:41 AM
Author: out-of-control crotch selfie



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36089479)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 1:34 PM
Author: buff excitant sanctuary sweet tailpipe

haha wow holy shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36090286)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 10:36 AM
Author: High-end Regret Gas Station

It'll get better in a year. Just tell her that she's a great mom at least once a week.

You're both under the most amount of stress you've ever experienced together.

Do the occasional nice splurge for her like a spa afternoon. Don't be afraid to do the same for yourself and leave for an afternoon to go see a movie or go to a driving range.

Practice self-care on yourself and each other. If she's open to therapy, pay for a few sessions. What you're describing is possibly post-partum and it often presents as a bitchy wife rather than a sad one.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36089459)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 10:41 AM
Author: Vermilion house factory reset button

This is good advice here, and if it doesn't work - maybe beat her ass?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36089477)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 1:24 PM
Author: grizzly spectacular sandwich

i'm rooting for you and like you, Consuela, but you gotta get a grip on your woman. jewish sharia now!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36090240)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 1:54 PM
Author: Amethyst coffee pot institution

Divorce her. The notion that it’s better for your child to grow up in a cold loveless home rather than with divorced parents who each could find someone possibly better for them is absurd.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36090378)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 4:58 PM
Author: copper chest-beating trust fund temple

Thunder Collins, did you give yourself a chance to love her?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36091447)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 5:01 PM
Author: Beady-eyed lemon home stock car

When Jaheira starting doing that to me, I stripped her naked and ran her into a throng of goblin archers. I then married Aerie, who is KAWAII, with them big blue beautiful eyes of hers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36091459)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 6:09 PM
Author: aromatic fat ankles puppy



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36091874)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 8:25 PM
Author: Stubborn stirring knife



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36092706)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 7:52 PM
Author: Up-to-no-good Free-loading Newt Parlor

Is this the real dungeonmasttter?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36092477)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 8:36 PM
Author: Beady-eyed lemon home stock car

Cast True Sight and find out, hero.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36092797)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 8:45 PM
Author: nighttime charismatic black woman stage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36092867)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 9:29 PM
Author: Up-to-no-good Free-loading Newt Parlor

*Attempts to cast spell*

*Spills Diet Coke on his character sheet*

Welcome back bro. You’ve been missed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36093250)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 5:01 PM
Author: Maroon Flirting Ticket Booth

There is a scientific reason for this: https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2014/10/141001090238.htm

chads tend to be angry and dominant, so not a surprise

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36091460)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 6:11 PM
Author: multi-colored low-t ape school

Jfc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36091891)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 6:15 PM
Author: rusted supple brethren

The researchers propose that the effect is due to molecules in the seminal fluid of the first mate being absorbed by the female's immature eggs and then influencing the growth of offspring of a subsequent mate

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36091915)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 6:15 PM
Author: rusted supple brethren

Chad semen in your wife's brain *and* your genetic offspring

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36091923)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 6:16 PM
Author: Scarlet Keepsake Machete

fuckinfuck

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36091928)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 6:44 PM
Author: Thriller Ruby Party Of The First Part

"your" wife

"your" offspring

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36092114)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 7:21 PM
Author: Scarlet Keepsake Machete

everyone cucking up like rabbits

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36092276)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 5:04 PM
Author: House-broken Ratface New Version

have you tried "talking" to her about it with a closed fist?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36091480)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 6:09 PM
Author: rusted supple brethren

Report her to the FBI

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36091879)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 6:33 PM
Author: citrine field half-breed

OP, my wife underwent a similar change when she became pregnant with our first more than ten years ago, and it hasn’t improved. Her behavior is generally of the kind you describe, but more severe. I’ve decided to stick it out another ten years for the sake of the kids but it’s a daily struggle. If the law would just allow a simple slap in the face now and then, I think she could be brought under control. Instead, she can abuse me with impunity.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36092043)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 6:35 PM
Author: Cerebral hell internal respiration

JFC, sorry to hear.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36092053)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 6:46 PM
Author: Fear-inspiring Hairraiser State Athletic Conference

How is it good for the kids to see their father being “abused” by their mother and doing nothing about it?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36092132)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 7:37 PM
Author: Wonderful Alpha Lodge



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36092383)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: citrine field half-breed

My oldest boy is just like me and he would take the brunt of her vitriol if I weren’t there. Also, I’m major market biglaw with a mortgage that can’t be maintained if we split up and I don’t want to uproot the kids from their friends and good schools. Finally, I don’t want to get screwed with child support based on a biglaw salary when we all know how tenuous this kind of employment arrangement can be. I think I’ll come out better paying more alimony later than alimony + child support now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36092433)



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Date: May 20th, 2018 8:32 PM
Author: swashbuckling theatre

reminder that pregnancy literally changes a woman's brain

https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/pregnancy-causes-lasting-changes-in-a-womans-brain/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981678&forum_id=2#36092756)