\
  The most prestigious law school admissions discussion board in the world.
BackRefresh Options Favorite

Learned to waltz at a church dance tonight (CharlesXII)

Today was supposed to be the date on the Mall, but I got sav...
Cerebral Theater
  05/20/18
1 billion
Translucent locale
  05/20/18
btw contra dancing was a major old school pr/xo meme
Translucent locale
  05/20/18
Cr
ruddy public bath
  05/20/18
...
Violent High-end Range Deer Antler
  05/20/18
What is contra dancing?
Violent High-end Range Deer Antler
  05/20/18
Apparently a key feature is that couples form lines: http...
Cerebral Theater
  05/20/18
Tbf the meme was 'what is contra dancing?' followed by a lon...
Violent High-end Range Deer Antler
  05/20/18
Shit
Cerebral Theater
  05/20/18
Cr
ruddy public bath
  05/20/18
Can anyone find one of those old threads? I made a medium-lo...
honey-headed crusty spot
  05/20/18
...
Shivering chrome gas station
  05/20/18
...
henna misunderstood property
  05/20/18
this has to be flame
cobalt french church building main people
  05/20/18
What seems flame about it? I admit running into the girl who...
Cerebral Theater
  05/20/18
sounds like a fun night. it's great that you're going out an...
learning disabled light love of her life community account
  05/20/18
Nice work bro. You're taking it in stride which is key. ...
tan histrionic crackhouse
  05/20/18
what is the male/female ratio at catholic young singles even...
Translucent locale
  05/20/18
This event was pretty even overall, based on the fact dancin...
Cerebral Theater
  05/20/18
describe age range and how many hot females there were
Translucent locale
  05/20/18
Age range seemed about 20-35 with 24-28 probably the most co...
Cerebral Theater
  05/20/18
Why is the cancellation girl such a bitch
mint dysfunction mood
  05/20/18
Hey now, be nice. I don't know why she canceled and I'm gues...
Cerebral Theater
  05/20/18
is she normally a bit socially awkward?
learning disabled light love of her life community account
  05/20/18
I've only interacted with her a couple times. I basically as...
Cerebral Theater
  05/20/18
that's plenty of time to gauge social skills
learning disabled light love of her life community account
  05/20/18
Also, 100-book quest continues to fascinate people who hear ...
Cerebral Theater
  05/20/18
...
Rusted turdskin
  05/20/18
The quail family is your destiny. Embrace it.
Lascivious whorehouse
  05/20/18
Regardless of whether anything happens they're a fascinating...
Cerebral Theater
  05/20/18
see if you can get them to poast!
Pungent Trip Hell Masturbator
  05/20/18
lol
honey-headed crusty spot
  05/20/18
...
Avocado Arrogant Tanning Salon
  05/20/18
...
Citrine queen of the night
  05/20/18
You already have a plus here that might make it all worthwhi...
Rusted turdskin
  05/20/18
wtf is a quail family
odious fantasy-prone chapel lettuce
  05/20/18
See OP here: http://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=39...
Cerebral Theater
  05/20/18
nice
odious fantasy-prone chapel lettuce
  05/20/18
I thought you misspelled Quayle
Cracking bull headed shitlib university
  05/20/18
...
Shivering chrome gas station
  05/21/18
They're like his version of the Schuyler Sisters.
Topaz Windowlicker
  05/22/18
"Luckily almost everybody else was new at it so I blend...
territorial rehab
  05/20/18
Compliment was from a dude, the other guy in a four pack. Co...
Cerebral Theater
  05/20/18
Describe the unstructured dancing experiences.
Lime razzle electric furnace orchestra pit
  05/20/18
just straight jamming out to a colonial fife and drum band
180 telephone cuckoldry
  05/20/18
177.6
honey-headed crusty spot
  05/20/18
...
180 telephone cuckoldry
  05/20/18
...
heady zippy internal respiration
  05/20/18
...
Citrine queen of the night
  05/20/18
...
Electric place of business principal's office
  05/20/18
...
impressive house newt
  05/20/18
I didn't get this the first time.
onyx multi-billionaire market
  05/20/18
You're a huge fucking dork
Appetizing Forum Degenerate
  05/20/18
don't even pretend like you haven't done line dancing with y...
Avocado Arrogant Tanning Salon
  05/20/18
...
Electric place of business principal's office
  05/20/18
...
mustard slippery headpube
  05/21/18
CharlesXII is a nigga that don't dance but he makes moves
impressive house newt
  05/21/18
180! Also, describe your thoughts on Midwest vs. East Coa...
Aphrodisiac iridescent bbw school
  05/20/18
That's one gap, but I mostly focused on how there's a more e...
Cerebral Theater
  05/20/18
Cr makes a lot of sense. The guitars/megachurch style stuff...
Aphrodisiac iridescent bbw school
  05/20/18
I suppose that's also just a byproduct of evangelicals exist...
Cerebral Theater
  05/20/18
Yucko to the guitars and mega church.
honey-headed crusty spot
  05/20/18
expect massive competition for you in the quail family. play...
out-of-control hyperventilating hall macaca
  05/20/18
the moment he picks one the other four are going to turn on ...
Citrine queen of the night
  05/20/18
...
180 telephone cuckoldry
  05/20/18
He should hook the other 4 up with DC poasters and they can ...
Sable field stock car
  05/20/18
lol 180 reverse big willie style pwnage on girl who ghosted...
disgusting indian lodge
  05/20/18
so just to be clear: over the last 2 weeks, you've gotten 2 ...
180 telephone cuckoldry
  05/20/18
In this one special case, I am maaaaybe ok with him seeing t...
honey-headed crusty spot
  05/20/18
This is a sitcom situation.
onyx multi-billionaire market
  05/20/18
...
Sepia police squad trust fund
  05/20/18
180
wild irate idea he suggested
  05/20/18
Holy shit. 180. You’re killing it. I like your growing confi...
Mildly autistic stag film juggernaut
  05/21/18
1. Don't know. She was talking to several different guys thr...
Cerebral Theater
  05/21/18
180. I would hit up app sluts all day long, but never roll s...
impressive house newt
  05/21/18
Proud of you, man. BTW, I bet part of the reason The Can...
Mildly autistic stag film juggernaut
  05/21/18
...
Shivering chrome gas station
  05/21/18
DAMN what a slut
Violent High-end Range Deer Antler
  05/21/18
...
Avocado Arrogant Tanning Salon
  05/21/18
surprising that quail hasn't become a MAJOR forcememe
Citrine queen of the night
  05/21/18
Uh oh: Girl I danced/talked with the most on Saturday is app...
Cerebral Theater
  05/21/18
no; yes any other qs?
Citrine queen of the night
  05/21/18
Well what is CR then?
Cerebral Theater
  05/21/18
you're going to have to figure out which one you like the mo...
Citrine queen of the night
  05/21/18
...
Shivering chrome gas station
  05/21/18
consider the fact that he might like all of the sisters equa...
impressive house newt
  05/21/18
I think we both know the tiebreaker here
Citrine queen of the night
  05/21/18
don't rush it unless you know for sure you like this one the...
vivacious locus
  05/21/18
What about all that stuff about getting friend zoned?
Cerebral Theater
  05/21/18
I think in this case its better to not rush and pick the wro...
Shivering chrome gas station
  05/21/18
Worst case scenario is dating one girl and later realizing h...
Citrine queen of the night
  05/21/18
That too
Shivering chrome gas station
  05/21/18
yes / yes
Snowy School Cafeteria
  05/21/18
The other thing to consider is that one of these sisters may...
impressive house newt
  05/21/18
...
Shivering chrome gas station
  05/21/18
TITMFCR You need to figure out which one, if any, likes y...
Mildly autistic stag film juggernaut
  05/21/18
pass them a note with "do u like me check y/n"
Citrine queen of the night
  05/21/18
I told him to approach their father and say 'im looking for ...
Shivering chrome gas station
  05/21/18
Nah you have to start negotiations from a position of streng...
Citrine queen of the night
  05/21/18
...
Shivering chrome gas station
  05/21/18
...
impressive house newt
  05/21/18
all this shit seems like some form of punishment, not entert...
Nubile halford
  05/21/18
Ah, but my hair already fell out. That's the difference.
Cerebral Theater
  05/21/18
...
Shivering chrome gas station
  05/21/18
...
impressive house newt
  05/21/18
...
Mildly autistic stag film juggernaut
  05/21/18
...
learning disabled light love of her life community account
  05/21/18
...
territorial rehab
  05/21/18
...
drunken glittery den toilet seat
  05/21/18
was her excuse for cancelling on you in conflict with her at...
drunken glittery den toilet seat
  05/21/18
No, our date was scheduled for a good 6 hours earlier in the...
Cerebral Theater
  05/21/18
that's tough to do, esp for girls. she sounds credited as fu...
learning disabled light love of her life community account
  05/21/18
...
Sinister copper double fault wrinkle
  05/21/18
Update: Asked out one of the sisters, got shot down. That si...
Cerebral Theater
  05/22/18
lol shit man, describe the act of asking her out and her res...
Splenetic theatre really tough guy
  05/22/18
I got her # during the dance, started chatting with her a go...
Cerebral Theater
  05/22/18
describe what's happening to your self-esteem and confidence...
Abnormal comical lodge national security agency
  05/22/18
I've certainly felt better but frankly my self-esteem and co...
Cerebral Theater
  05/22/18
i view this as a positive. you went for it. that illustrates...
Mildly autistic stag film juggernaut
  05/22/18
this isn't NEARLY as bad as the other chick she could very ...
Splenetic theatre really tough guy
  05/22/18
Yeah this could have been worse
Rusted turdskin
  05/22/18
That merely makes it unpleasant in a different, arguably wor...
Cerebral Theater
  05/22/18
you need to ask out the girl who is leaving on her state dep...
Floppy unholy idiot
  05/22/18
That was the girl who dinged me, and I approached her first ...
Cerebral Theater
  05/22/18
you should not be talking to girls irl then asking them out ...
Citrine queen of the night
  05/22/18
wow, nice people are just different than us
Topaz Windowlicker
  05/22/18
I think we need to work on your ability to discern whether g...
impressive house newt
  05/22/18
That would be nice I suppose.
Cerebral Theater
  05/22/18
I really can't stress what a bad idea what it was to do this...
Citrine queen of the night
  05/22/18
no sense in dwelling on it. Back to the dating apps...
impressive house newt
  05/22/18
About a minute. We'd been going back and forth for about an ...
Cerebral Theater
  05/22/18
white people shit on arranged marriages, but they exist for ...
Snowy School Cafeteria
  05/22/18
completely agreed.
Citrine queen of the night
  05/22/18
...
Shivering chrome gas station
  05/22/18
he's breaking out of the dancing monkey frame, breh
Avocado Arrogant Tanning Salon
  05/22/18


Poast new message in this thread



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 2:20 AM
Author: Cerebral Theater

Today was supposed to be the date on the Mall, but I got savagely canceled on a few days ago as most of you know. I figured the CR was to soldier on and keep thing-doing, so tonight I went to a contra dancing event held at a Catholic school in Alexandria. I'd literally never intentionally gone dancing so it was a very new experience. Luckily almost everybody else was new at it so I blended in fine and one person even praised me as surprisingly good for a total beginner.

Amusingly and awkwardly, the girl who canceled on me was there and we briefly danced together during a big circle dance that involved constantly swapping partners. I said hello and she said nothing while avoiding eye contact and frankly dancing rather poorly. Yikes!

On the plus side, two members of the quail family were there, though not the oldest one I spoke the most two last week. This time I spent a lot of time talking to the middle member. We chatted about literature, education policy (she asked me about it, not flame), and the differences between Midwestern and East Coast Catholicism. She also taught me how to do a basic waltz after the organized dancing was over. A bunch of us went to Bob and Edith's on Columbia Pike afterward but I spent most of the time talking to the two quailers along with a tall Catholic Chad who was in the band at the dance. We discussed his interest in going to law school and I think I persuaded him not to go.

I got the # of the girl I talked to the most. She also offered to lend me a copy of Gogol's Dead Souls which I accepted as an easy excuse for future in-person interactions. She should also be singing at my church on Sunday morning.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36088696)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 2:25 AM
Author: Translucent locale

1 billion

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36088706)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 2:26 AM
Author: Translucent locale

btw contra dancing was a major old school pr/xo meme

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36088708)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 2:52 AM
Author: ruddy public bath

Cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36088764)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 3:18 AM
Author: Violent High-end Range Deer Antler



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36088811)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 3:18 AM
Author: Violent High-end Range Deer Antler

What is contra dancing?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36088813)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 3:20 AM
Author: Cerebral Theater

Apparently a key feature is that couples form lines:

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Contra_dance

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36088823)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 3:31 AM
Author: Violent High-end Range Deer Antler

Tbf the meme was 'what is contra dancing?' followed by a long explanation, but ty!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36088863)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 3:33 AM
Author: Cerebral Theater

Shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36088870)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 4:05 AM
Author: ruddy public bath

Cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36088934)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 8:23 AM
Author: honey-headed crusty spot

Can anyone find one of those old threads? I made a medium-low effort search but couldn’t.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36089167)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 11:23 PM
Author: Shivering chrome gas station



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36094114)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 2:21 AM
Author: henna misunderstood property



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36088697)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 2:27 AM
Author: cobalt french church building main people

this has to be flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36088711)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 2:28 AM
Author: Cerebral Theater

What seems flame about it? I admit running into the girl who canceled in me was funny but given I first met her at a different NoVa Catholic event it's not that weird.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36088714)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 2:30 AM
Author: learning disabled light love of her life community account

sounds like a fun night. it's great that you're going out and meeting people. if you continue to meet people and do things and enjoy yourself in the process, i have no doubt you'll meet the woman you marry.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36088718)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 2:31 AM
Author: tan histrionic crackhouse

Nice work bro.

You're taking it in stride which is key.

Who cancelled on you? I missed that story arc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36088721)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 2:31 AM
Author: Translucent locale

what is the male/female ratio at catholic young singles events

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36088723)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 2:35 AM
Author: Cerebral Theater

This event was pretty even overall, based on the fact dancing requires an opposite sex partner and almost nobody was sitting out each dance.

Not really sure what the average is as I haven't been deliberately hitting these events very long.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36088732)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 2:43 AM
Author: Translucent locale

describe age range and how many hot females there were

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36088749)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 2:54 AM
Author: Cerebral Theater

Age range seemed about 20-35 with 24-28 probably the most common group. Wide range of attractiveness but definitely some cute chicks.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36088766)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 2:32 AM
Author: mint dysfunction mood

Why is the cancellation girl such a bitch

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36088727)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 2:36 AM
Author: Cerebral Theater

Hey now, be nice. I don't know why she canceled and I'm guessing she just found it awkward (or maybe she thought my hello during the dance was passive aggressive/sinister, idk).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36088736)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 2:38 AM
Author: learning disabled light love of her life community account

is she normally a bit socially awkward?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36088742)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 2:40 AM
Author: Cerebral Theater

I've only interacted with her a couple times. I basically asked her out after talking to her at a dinner for like an hour.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36088745)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 2:43 AM
Author: learning disabled light love of her life community account

that's plenty of time to gauge social skills

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36088750)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 2:37 AM
Author: Cerebral Theater

Also, 100-book quest continues to fascinate people who hear about it so that's nice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36088740)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 3:21 AM
Author: Rusted turdskin



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36088825)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 2:55 AM
Author: Lascivious whorehouse

The quail family is your destiny. Embrace it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36088769)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 3:01 AM
Author: Cerebral Theater

Regardless of whether anything happens they're a fascinating family and I love talking to all of them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36088780)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 3:22 AM
Author: Pungent Trip Hell Masturbator

see if you can get them to poast!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36088828)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 9:12 AM
Author: honey-headed crusty spot

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36089242)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 11:37 AM
Author: Avocado Arrogant Tanning Salon



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36089708)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 11:41 AM
Author: Citrine queen of the night



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36089726)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 3:23 AM
Author: Rusted turdskin

You already have a plus here that might make it all worthwhile even if nothing else happens (and something else WILL happen in time).

180.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36088830)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 3:30 AM
Author: odious fantasy-prone chapel lettuce

wtf is a quail family

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36088856)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 3:32 AM
Author: Cerebral Theater

See OP here:

http://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3975337&mc=84&forum_id=2

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36088867)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 3:36 AM
Author: odious fantasy-prone chapel lettuce

nice

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36088878)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 7:03 AM
Author: Cracking bull headed shitlib university

I thought you misspelled Quayle

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36089030)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 8:31 AM
Author: Shivering chrome gas station



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36095168)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 22nd, 2018 6:56 AM
Author: Topaz Windowlicker

They're like his version of the Schuyler Sisters.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36102875)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 3:09 AM
Author: territorial rehab

"Luckily almost everybody else was new at it so I blended in fine and one person even praised me as surprisingly good for a total beginner."

One... person said that? Charles, was it a man or a woman? If a woman, was she alone and hence a potential date? Or was she NOT alone, paired off with someone, and therefore we can safely assume she's constantly getting questions from her friends like "I love that you have a guy who will go dancing, how do I get that?" Or was it just the sort of social lubrication used to keep newcomers in the game, the exact sort of low level praise you doubtless have given to board game players?

More broadly, that the OP didn't elaborate on these potential dynamics makes me worry that you might not be engaging with this problem to the best of your ability. For our extremely limited purposes here, there's no such thing as "a person"; there's men and women and each can be subdivided into "taken" or "single" and so on as needed. For a good bro like you, being the sort of single guy that a married friend knows and can at least sort of vouch for is incredibly helpful.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36088791)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 3:13 AM
Author: Cerebral Theater

Compliment was from a dude, the other guy in a four pack. Compliment came when girl (one of the quails) asked what other dancing I did and I admitted this was the first structured dancing I'd ever done.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36088801)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 3:57 AM
Author: Lime razzle electric furnace orchestra pit

Describe the unstructured dancing experiences.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36088918)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 6:48 AM
Author: 180 telephone cuckoldry

just straight jamming out to a colonial fife and drum band

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36089011)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 8:22 AM
Author: honey-headed crusty spot

177.6

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36089163)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 8:23 AM
Author: 180 telephone cuckoldry



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36089164)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 8:46 AM
Author: heady zippy internal respiration



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36089201)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 11:42 AM
Author: Citrine queen of the night



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36089733)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 3:21 PM
Author: Electric place of business principal's office



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36090853)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 3:28 PM
Author: impressive house newt



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36090890)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 11:20 PM
Author: onyx multi-billionaire market

I didn't get this the first time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36094097)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 8:23 AM
Author: Appetizing Forum Degenerate

You're a huge fucking dork

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36089165)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 11:38 AM
Author: Avocado Arrogant Tanning Salon

don't even pretend like you haven't done line dancing with your xo boyfriends

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36089713)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 3:21 PM
Author: Electric place of business principal's office



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36090847)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 9:50 AM
Author: mustard slippery headpube



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36095430)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 8:13 AM
Author: impressive house newt

CharlesXII is a nigga that don't dance but he makes moves

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36095135)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 8:29 AM
Author: Aphrodisiac iridescent bbw school

180!

Also, describe your thoughts on Midwest vs. East Coast Catholicism. I'm sure the former are more politically conservative than the latter, of course. As a Midwest Catholicmo, the biggest difference to me was whether people hold hands during the Lord's Prayer.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36089178)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 8:56 AM
Author: Cerebral Theater

That's one gap, but I mostly focused on how there's a more explicit "Trad/non-Trad" split in the East, with old-school Catholics attending Latin Mass, joining their own groups, etc. as a byproduct of so much Eastern Catholicism being politically and theologically liberal. In the Midwest there's a greater assumption of orthodoxy which ironically means the Mass itself is less traditional because people feel less need to push back against novus ordo stuff. So churches back in my hometown pretty much never hold Latin services and there's a lot of annoying services that have guitars and evangelical megachurch-style music.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36089216)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 9:00 AM
Author: Aphrodisiac iridescent bbw school

Cr makes a lot of sense. The guitars/megachurch style stuff aptly summarizes the church I attended growing up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36089222)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 9:02 AM
Author: Cerebral Theater

I suppose that's also just a byproduct of evangelicals existing as competition. Almost nobody in the urban Northeast is evangelical (besides some Hispanics, actually) but maybe 1/3 of Christians in the Midwest are these days.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36089228)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 9:01 AM
Author: honey-headed crusty spot

Yucko to the guitars and mega church.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36089226)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 11:34 AM
Author: out-of-control hyperventilating hall macaca

expect massive competition for you in the quail family. play the whole field to keep them all interested and jealous

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36089692)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 11:44 AM
Author: Citrine queen of the night

the moment he picks one the other four are going to turn on him and go 100% catty. he needs to bring along four other poasters so they each have a match

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36089744)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 3:22 PM
Author: 180 telephone cuckoldry



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36090854)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 3:25 PM
Author: Sable field stock car

He should hook the other 4 up with DC poasters and they can have a mass marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36090871)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 11:38 AM
Author: disgusting indian lodge

lol 180

reverse big willie style pwnage on girl who ghosted you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36089712)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 3:22 PM
Author: 180 telephone cuckoldry

so just to be clear: over the last 2 weeks, you've gotten 2 phone numbers from 2 of the 5 quail sisters, and you have not asked either of them out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36090857)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 3:45 PM
Author: honey-headed crusty spot

In this one special case, I am maaaaybe ok with him seeing the family a time or two more to determine which sister he prefers, since they all seem like objectively good matches and good odds, but it might be a difficult trick to pull off dating another one if he doesn’t hit it off with the first. It’s not impossible by any means but that’ll be delicate to pull off.

Although if one of them is obviously cuter/more interesting/whatever and he’s figured that out already, he should go for it soon.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36090993)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 11:20 PM
Author: onyx multi-billionaire market

This is a sitcom situation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36094102)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 3:24 PM
Author: Sepia police squad trust fund



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36090864)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2018 11:17 PM
Author: wild irate idea he suggested

180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36094080)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 8:40 AM
Author: Mildly autistic stag film juggernaut

Holy shit. 180. You’re killing it. I like your growing confidence in getting out there. Must really be getting in good shape. Goes hand-in-hand.

Two things missing:

1) With whom was “The Canceler” attending the dance?

2) Did you go solo or with someone?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36095188)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 9:40 AM
Author: Cerebral Theater

1. Don't know. She was talking to several different guys throughout the evening and didn't seem to favor any one in particular. She may have simply been there on her own or with a friend.

2. I rolled solo. Lots of people were there without an opposite-sex partner so it wasn't that weird.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36095375)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 9:46 AM
Author: impressive house newt

180. I would hit up app sluts all day long, but never roll solo to something like that. That's pretty awesome.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36095408)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 9:51 AM
Author: Mildly autistic stag film juggernaut

Proud of you, man.

BTW, I bet part of the reason The Canceler danced so poorly was because she was discombobulated by your presence.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36095442)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 9:55 AM
Author: Shivering chrome gas station



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36095457)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 9:51 AM
Author: Violent High-end Range Deer Antler

DAMN what a slut

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36095444)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 10:51 AM
Author: Avocado Arrogant Tanning Salon



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36095798)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 10:50 AM
Author: Citrine queen of the night

surprising that quail hasn't become a MAJOR forcememe

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36095787)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 10:59 AM
Author: Cerebral Theater

Uh oh: Girl I danced/talked with the most on Saturday is apparently leaving the country for two months in about two weeks (State Dept-funded study abroad). CR would be to quickly ask her out before she heads off, right?

Possible concern: I haven't decided which of the sisters I like best; would asking out one effectively "reject" the others?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36095859)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 11:01 AM
Author: Citrine queen of the night

no; yes

any other qs?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36095866)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 11:01 AM
Author: Cerebral Theater

Well what is CR then?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36095873)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 11:05 AM
Author: Citrine queen of the night

you're going to have to figure out which one you like the most first. it's a warning sign that this isn't immediately obvious to you, as that suggests you don't *really* like any of them that much (more generously, it might reflect ur natural conservatism & caution).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36095905)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 11:08 AM
Author: Shivering chrome gas station



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36095934)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 11:20 AM
Author: impressive house newt

consider the fact that he might like all of the sisters equally because they're likely similar in personality and temperament due to their upbringing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36096028)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 11:27 AM
Author: Citrine queen of the night

I think we both know the tiebreaker here

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36096103)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 11:08 AM
Author: vivacious locus

don't rush it unless you know for sure you like this one the best.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36095929)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 11:09 AM
Author: Cerebral Theater

What about all that stuff about getting friend zoned?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36095939)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 11:12 AM
Author: Shivering chrome gas station

I think in this case its better to not rush and pick the wrong sister. Harder to overcome 'you liked/ dated my sister' than it is to overcome the friendzone

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36095967)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 11:13 AM
Author: Citrine queen of the night

Worst case scenario is dating one girl and later realizing he liked a sister better. Or marrying one girl and spending the rest of your life fantasizing about porking another sister.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36095977)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 11:14 AM
Author: Shivering chrome gas station

That too

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36095982)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 11:10 AM
Author: Snowy School Cafeteria

yes / yes

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36095948)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 11:23 AM
Author: impressive house newt

The other thing to consider is that one of these sisters may like you more than the others. If you pick the wrong one, they may reject you because they know that one of the other sisters has stronger feelings for you.

Do you have any idea which one you think likes you best?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36096072)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 12:58 PM
Author: Shivering chrome gas station



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36096873)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 1:00 PM
Author: Mildly autistic stag film juggernaut

TITMFCR

You need to figure out which one, if any, likes you the best. There should be signals.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36096890)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 1:04 PM
Author: Citrine queen of the night

pass them a note with "do u like me check y/n"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36096917)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 1:07 PM
Author: Shivering chrome gas station

I told him to approach their father and say 'im looking for a wife. Which of your dotters will you give me?'

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36096936)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 1:10 PM
Author: Citrine queen of the night

Nah you have to start negotiations from a position of strength. Demand the two hottest daughters, plus a dozen quail as a dowry. Force him to make the counter-offer

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36096967)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 1:11 PM
Author: Shivering chrome gas station



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36096974)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 2:36 PM
Author: impressive house newt



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36097786)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 11:07 AM
Author: Nubile halford

all this shit seems like some form of punishment, not entertainment. i'd pull my fucking hair our being surrounded by so many squares

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36095918)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 11:08 AM
Author: Cerebral Theater

Ah, but my hair already fell out. That's the difference.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36095930)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 11:11 AM
Author: Shivering chrome gas station



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36095955)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 11:20 AM
Author: impressive house newt



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36096034)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 1:01 PM
Author: Mildly autistic stag film juggernaut



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36096892)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 1:05 PM
Author: learning disabled light love of her life community account



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36096921)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 2:36 PM
Author: territorial rehab



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36097782)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 11:20 AM
Author: drunken glittery den toilet seat



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36096031)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 11:22 AM
Author: drunken glittery den toilet seat

was her excuse for cancelling on you in conflict with her attendance at this event

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36096051)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 11:23 AM
Author: Cerebral Theater

No, our date was scheduled for a good 6 hours earlier in the day, and when she canceled she just bluntly said she wasn't interested anymore.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36096069)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 1:07 PM
Author: learning disabled light love of her life community account

that's tough to do, esp for girls. she sounds credited as fuck.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36096934)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2018 12:54 PM
Author: Sinister copper double fault wrinkle



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36096840)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 22nd, 2018 1:34 AM
Author: Cerebral Theater

Update: Asked out one of the sisters, got shot down. That simplifies the possibilities a bit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36102558)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 22nd, 2018 2:35 AM
Author: Splenetic theatre really tough guy

lol shit man, describe the act of asking her out and her response tyia

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36102662)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 22nd, 2018 2:42 AM
Author: Cerebral Theater

I got her # during the dance, started chatting with her a good bit tonight by following up on stuff we'd discussed that night. Went on for about an hour and I was getting a positive vibe (humor, quips that felt mildly flirty, etc) so I just asked if she was free to meet up in person in the next week or so. Got this in response:

"Thank you! You seem like a barrel of fun person, and I could probably arrange a group something, but I would want to make it clear that I'm not in the place to date at the moment. It wouldn't be very kind not to say so now, I think."

Quite definitive.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36102669)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 22nd, 2018 2:48 AM
Author: Abnormal comical lodge national security agency

describe what's happening to your self-esteem and confidence as you get rejected multiple times

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36102675)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 22nd, 2018 2:54 AM
Author: Cerebral Theater

I've certainly felt better but frankly my self-esteem and confidence have always been shit so they don't have far to fall. I'm recovering from each successive failure a little faster, at least.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36102680)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 22nd, 2018 7:43 AM
Author: Mildly autistic stag film juggernaut

i view this as a positive. you went for it. that illustrates the yuge strides you are making and it is absolutely essential to the process.

there are tons of people out there who never even make it to that step.

it's sort of like building an immunity -- gotta absorb multiple small doses of poison to strengthen the body's response.

keep doing everything you are doing and something will break positively.

i analogize it to how i learned to throw a knuckleball. all my childhood that's all i wanted to do. i practiced, and practiced, and recorded and watched slow mo film of tim wakefield, and kept trying over and over. and then, one day, the universe was like, "okay, you've put your work in. i will turn the key for you." and then, out of nowhere, there it was. no spin. the ball taking off in crazy directions. people being unable to catch it. one of the greatest thrills of my life.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36102983)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 22nd, 2018 3:09 AM
Author: Splenetic theatre really tough guy

this isn't NEARLY as bad as the other chick

she could very well be telling the truth, and it really doesn't have much to do with you specifically. even if it's you, at least she's being kind about it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36102689)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 22nd, 2018 3:12 AM
Author: Rusted turdskin

Yeah this could have been worse

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36102696)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 22nd, 2018 1:23 PM
Author: Cerebral Theater

That merely makes it unpleasant in a different, arguably worse way. With the first chick, it's more immediately unpleasant, but comes with the realization "oh, she may be kind of crappy, so it's fine it didn't work." In this case, the only new information is that I'm not appealing to her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36105128)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 22nd, 2018 1:26 PM
Author: Floppy unholy idiot

you need to ask out the girl who is leaving on her state dept trip. once she's gone, you're forgotten

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36105154)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 22nd, 2018 1:29 PM
Author: Cerebral Theater

That was the girl who dinged me, and I approached her first for that reason.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36105179)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 22nd, 2018 6:47 AM
Author: Citrine queen of the night

you should not be talking to girls irl then asking them out by text.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36102864)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 22nd, 2018 6:58 AM
Author: Topaz Windowlicker

wow, nice people are just different than us

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36102877)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 22nd, 2018 8:52 AM
Author: impressive house newt

I think we need to work on your ability to discern whether girls are actually interested in you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36103161)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 22nd, 2018 9:48 AM
Author: Cerebral Theater

That would be nice I suppose.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36103483)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 22nd, 2018 9:50 AM
Author: Citrine queen of the night

I really can't stress what a bad idea what it was to do this by text. how long did it take her to respond?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36103492)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 22nd, 2018 9:51 AM
Author: impressive house newt

no sense in dwelling on it.

Back to the dating apps...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36103498)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 22nd, 2018 9:54 AM
Author: Cerebral Theater

About a minute. We'd been going back and forth for about an hour at a pace where I was clearly holding her attention.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36103521)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 22nd, 2018 9:51 AM
Author: Snowy School Cafeteria

white people shit on arranged marriages, but they exist for people like charles. he's relegated to being some dancing monkey now, it's degrading

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36103503)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 22nd, 2018 9:53 AM
Author: Citrine queen of the night

completely agreed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36103519)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 22nd, 2018 1:31 PM
Author: Shivering chrome gas station



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36105222)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 22nd, 2018 1:32 PM
Author: Avocado Arrogant Tanning Salon

he's breaking out of the dancing monkey frame, breh

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3981843&forum_id=2#36105241)