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Parents helping with down payment on mortgage is standard middle class t/f?

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aphrodisiac bawdyhouse
  05/23/18
not true for boomers
Drunken People Who Are Hurt
  05/23/18
my folks didn't help me at all in school; full scholly to ug...
aphrodisiac bawdyhouse
  05/23/18
T.
Bearded Provocative Persian Legal Warrant
  05/23/18
What if they give me whole down payment? Is that UMC or stan...
lemon mexican point
  05/23/18
depends on location but likely umc
aphrodisiac bawdyhouse
  05/23/18
True
Fragrant stage liquid oxygen
  05/23/18
What’s your def of middle class income?
honey-headed disturbing rehab coldplay fan
  05/23/18
standard middle class = parents spend your inheritance on cr...
Jet swashbuckling dog poop
  05/23/18
F
Doobsian gay wizard
  05/23/18
False. Middle class is 50k a year combined household income....
Jade wonderful pistol
  05/23/18
My parents and in-laws surprised us with 20%. Theyre not MC...
Bearded Provocative Persian Legal Warrant
  05/23/18
Cr, baller weddings are for insecure women who have somethin...
Jade wonderful pistol
  05/23/18
nah that's upper-middle
Aggressive Library Son Of Senegal
  05/23/18
So at what level do you expect them (particularly brides par...
Bearded Provocative Persian Legal Warrant
  05/23/18
there's no 'level' it depends on whether the parents believe...
Aggressive Library Son Of Senegal
  05/23/18
The bride’s family typically pays for most of the wedding. G...
lemon mexican point
  05/23/18
false. my parents who are umc neither gave nor offered a...
dark exhilarant antidepressant drug hominid
  05/23/18
XO FIL
thriller mustard range
  05/23/18
he is a good dude. i wish he was my dad and that my wife was...
dark exhilarant antidepressant drug hominid
  05/23/18
false
Puce slippery trailer park
  05/23/18
https://amp.businessinsider.com/images/55242b9b6bb3f7b110fc8...
Zippy buff factory reset button sex offender
  05/23/18
My parents have millions and arent giving me a penny.
multi-colored brilliant becky
  05/23/18
(baby goldstein)
violent chapel keepsake machete
  05/23/18
Jews don’t give their kids money for down payments ? Flame
chartreuse place of business
  05/23/18
Jew here and they absolutely give down payments, but you sho...
lemon mexican point
  05/23/18
Completely and utterly false. You are UMC at a minimum if...
Chrome heady resort bbw
  05/23/18
I dunno man. A trucker, mail room clerk, court interpreter ...
Bearded Provocative Persian Legal Warrant
  05/23/18
i didn't get shit. does that make me lower class
violent chapel keepsake machete
  05/23/18
I guess it a class thing. Like they had prole values and no...
Bearded Provocative Persian Legal Warrant
  05/23/18
thinking about it a bit more, i can see a UMC parent thinkin...
Bearded Provocative Persian Legal Warrant
  05/23/18
Gift tax event when this happens?
effete domesticated set ape
  05/23/18
$28k or whatever it is now will be exempt for the year. ...
Cream filthpig fat ankles
  05/23/18
the lifetime exemption is something like 5 million dollars. ...
Bearded Provocative Persian Legal Warrant
  05/23/18
yup. So the answer is basically no gift tax. And that exem...
Cream filthpig fat ankles
  05/23/18
most millennials who buy houses in expensive areas are getti...
shivering office boiling water
  05/23/18
they would if they had the money (they don't)
Navy nowag theatre
  05/23/18
this is everyone in California currently in their 30's that ...
twinkling vengeful locale codepig
  05/24/18
lol fuck that.
idiotic maize therapy
  05/24/18


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Date: May 23rd, 2018 8:05 PM
Author: aphrodisiac bawdyhouse



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36114949)



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Date: May 23rd, 2018 8:06 PM
Author: Drunken People Who Are Hurt

not true for boomers

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36114951)



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Date: May 23rd, 2018 8:09 PM
Author: aphrodisiac bawdyhouse

my folks didn't help me at all in school; full scholly to ug; 1/2 scholly to LS + loans

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36114969)



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Date: May 23rd, 2018 8:09 PM
Author: Bearded Provocative Persian Legal Warrant

T.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36114971)



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Date: May 23rd, 2018 8:20 PM
Author: lemon mexican point

What if they give me whole down payment? Is that UMC or standard MC?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36115020)



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Date: May 23rd, 2018 8:29 PM
Author: aphrodisiac bawdyhouse

depends on location but likely umc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36115048)



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Date: May 23rd, 2018 8:37 PM
Author: Fragrant stage liquid oxygen

True

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36115090)



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Date: May 23rd, 2018 8:38 PM
Author: honey-headed disturbing rehab coldplay fan

What’s your def of middle class income?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36115096)



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Date: May 23rd, 2018 8:39 PM
Author: Jet swashbuckling dog poop

standard middle class = parents spend your inheritance on cruises and HSN gadgets and nigerian scams

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36115100)



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Date: May 23rd, 2018 8:48 PM
Author: Doobsian gay wizard

F

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36115146)



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Date: May 23rd, 2018 8:52 PM
Author: Jade wonderful pistol

False. Middle class is 50k a year combined household income. If upper middle class, THEN it’s true.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36115161)



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Date: May 23rd, 2018 9:10 PM
Author: Bearded Provocative Persian Legal Warrant

My parents and in-laws surprised us with 20%. Theyre not MC i would guess. I feel like you either get a baller wedding or down payment. We waited on down payment.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36115269)



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Date: May 23rd, 2018 9:27 PM
Author: Jade wonderful pistol

Cr, baller weddings are for insecure women who have something to prove to their “friends” (i.e. people they secretly look down on and don’t actually like that much)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36115353)



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Date: May 23rd, 2018 9:12 PM
Author: Aggressive Library Son Of Senegal

nah that's upper-middle

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36115281)



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Date: May 23rd, 2018 9:13 PM
Author: Bearded Provocative Persian Legal Warrant

So at what level do you expect them (particularly brides parents) to pay for the wedding? I always thought it was a 1 or the other kinda thing. Has that changed?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36115284)



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Date: May 23rd, 2018 10:03 PM
Author: Aggressive Library Son Of Senegal

there's no 'level' it depends on whether the parents believe in tradition

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36115574)



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Date: May 23rd, 2018 10:20 PM
Author: lemon mexican point

The bride’s family typically pays for most of the wedding. Groom’s family just lays for groom’s necessities and honeymoon. Extenuating circumstances notwithstanding.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36115667)



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Date: May 23rd, 2018 9:13 PM
Author: dark exhilarant antidepressant drug hominid

false.

my parents who are umc neither gave nor offered anything. my bus driver father in law who makes about $30k/year and barely speaks english loaned us $7k.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36115288)



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Date: May 23rd, 2018 10:12 PM
Author: thriller mustard range

XO FIL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36115635)



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Date: May 23rd, 2018 10:21 PM
Author: dark exhilarant antidepressant drug hominid

he is a good dude. i wish he was my dad and that my wife was my sister.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36115671)



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Date: May 23rd, 2018 9:14 PM
Author: Puce slippery trailer park

false

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36115289)



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Date: May 23rd, 2018 9:17 PM
Author: Zippy buff factory reset button sex offender

https://amp.businessinsider.com/images/55242b9b6bb3f7b110fc827d-750-847.jpg

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36115307)



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Date: May 23rd, 2018 9:19 PM
Author: multi-colored brilliant becky

My parents have millions and arent giving me a penny.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36115312)



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Date: May 23rd, 2018 9:54 PM
Author: violent chapel keepsake machete

(baby goldstein)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36115500)



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Date: May 23rd, 2018 9:55 PM
Author: chartreuse place of business

Jews don’t give their kids money for down payments ? Flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36115503)



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Date: May 23rd, 2018 10:21 PM
Author: lemon mexican point

Jew here and they absolutely give down payments, but you should do the right thing and pay them back.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36115678)



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Date: May 23rd, 2018 9:57 PM
Author: Chrome heady resort bbw

Completely and utterly false.

You are UMC at a minimum if your parents are "helping" you with a downpayment, aka giving you tons of free money. I certainly haven't gotten anything.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36115520)



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Date: May 23rd, 2018 10:03 PM
Author: Bearded Provocative Persian Legal Warrant

I dunno man. A trucker, mail room clerk, court interpreter and supermarket check out lady--all retired--cut us a 60k check for a down payment.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36115570)



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Date: May 23rd, 2018 10:04 PM
Author: violent chapel keepsake machete

i didn't get shit. does that make me lower class

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36115579)



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Date: May 23rd, 2018 10:11 PM
Author: Bearded Provocative Persian Legal Warrant

I guess it a class thing. Like they had prole values and not matter the money they saved...whereas umc people born that way and maintain it have certain values like a bootstrap mentality with kids. Which is fine generally but not really reflecting what boomers did to the landscape.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36115624)



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Date: May 23rd, 2018 10:31 PM
Author: Bearded Provocative Persian Legal Warrant

thinking about it a bit more, i can see a UMC parent thinking "i gave tim everything he needed to be successful, at least successful enough to save a down payment on a house" and them actually being 100% right and justified in feeling that way whereas a working class parent may think "eh, he didn't have it too easy growing up. now i have a little i can give it." i know that's how my dad viewed it and i'm sure my FIL thinks the same way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36115719)



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Date: May 23rd, 2018 10:09 PM
Author: effete domesticated set ape

Gift tax event when this happens?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36115612)



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Date: May 23rd, 2018 10:17 PM
Author: Cream filthpig fat ankles

$28k or whatever it is now will be exempt for the year.

The rest could go under lifetime exemption from gift/inheritance tax.

Also, gift tax is paid by the giver.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36115656)



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Date: May 23rd, 2018 10:28 PM
Author: Bearded Provocative Persian Legal Warrant

the lifetime exemption is something like 5 million dollars. most of the stingy bastards here will never have to worry about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36115712)



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Date: May 23rd, 2018 10:35 PM
Author: Cream filthpig fat ankles

yup. So the answer is basically no gift tax. And that exemption is per parent.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36115749)



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Date: May 23rd, 2018 10:14 PM
Author: shivering office boiling water

most millennials who buy houses in expensive areas are getting help from mom and dad. Most were renting with help from mom and dad too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36115638)



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Date: May 23rd, 2018 10:37 PM
Author: Navy nowag theatre

they would if they had the money (they don't)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36115765)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 1:10 AM
Author: twinkling vengeful locale codepig

this is everyone in California currently in their 30's that is a homeowner

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36116811)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 1:12 AM
Author: idiotic maize therapy

lol fuck that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3984912&forum_id=2#36116819)