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My lady thinks she is head of household becuz she does most of the admin stuff

Like paying bills and planning family outtings. I’ve read ab...
ivory sound barrier
  05/25/18
How the fuck does she think that paying the mortgage, car no...
ivory sound barrier
  05/25/18
"But I do all the EMOTIONAL LABOR!"
Cowardly Mint Immigrant Market
  05/25/18
I'm going to level with you fags, I made a few million throu...
Tantric honey-headed hell headpube
  05/25/18
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Mischievous excitant pervert
  05/25/18
Her family adores me and her colleagues respect me cause I’m...
ivory sound barrier
  05/25/18
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Mischievous excitant pervert
  05/25/18
She’ll lose that battle quickly. It’s not to say she couldn’...
ivory sound barrier
  05/25/18
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Mischievous excitant pervert
  05/25/18
My woman wants me to make a ton of money, do the morning rou...
insane curious persian
  05/25/18
I think I’m gonna leave for a week. This shit is a slippery ...
ivory sound barrier
  05/25/18
do you ever put her in her place?
insane curious persian
  05/25/18
I don’t put her in her place per se, but she knows I never r...
ivory sound barrier
  05/25/18
ugh my biggest fear is that if we got divorced i wouldn't fa...
insane curious persian
  05/25/18
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Mischievous excitant pervert
  05/25/18
Not schtick
ivory sound barrier
  05/25/18
Too much shit to do for dual income households with children...
Dashing space
  05/25/18
Maybe i just need to figure out a way to make way more money...
insane curious persian
  05/25/18
Staying at home sucks too. Everything sucks.
Dashing space
  05/25/18
i would love to stay home. especially if the kids still go t...
insane curious persian
  05/25/18
Only really rich wives stay home AND have nannies. I think i...
Dashing space
  05/25/18
soooo cr.
insane curious persian
  05/25/18
just do leave the community you were born into for economic ...
Rambunctious university crotch
  05/25/18
Boomers won't help you ime. Doesn't matter.
Dashing space
  05/25/18
fuck
Rambunctious university crotch
  05/25/18
Do you both work? If not she can do the laundry and cooking....
Cowardly Mint Immigrant Market
  05/25/18
TMF does the laundry, its pretty great. But he gets to pick...
ultramarine shrine
  05/25/18
Yes but she is a teacher with tenure. No stress and out of ...
insane curious persian
  05/25/18
People who do routine administrative tasks often end up wiel...
Marvelous menage
  05/25/18
Is alotting 45 minutes once a month to pay bills really that...
ivory sound barrier
  05/25/18
Just do auto debit
infuriating jet-lagged gaming laptop
  05/25/18
Cr what the fuck is op taking about, paying bills takes zero...
Beta Irradiated Casino
  05/25/18
Yeah well some people apparently believe in emotional labor
ivory sound barrier
  05/26/18


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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:12 AM
Author: ivory sound barrier

Like paying bills and planning family outtings. I’ve read about women complaining about this shit on reddit and urban baby before they started an affair. I tempted to leave her for a few days in retaliation. What do you bros think

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3986288&forum_id=2#36125507)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:26 AM
Author: ivory sound barrier

How the fuck does she think that paying the mortgage, car notes and cable equate to being the head of the household

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3986288&forum_id=2#36125619)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:27 AM
Author: Cowardly Mint Immigrant Market

"But I do all the EMOTIONAL LABOR!"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3986288&forum_id=2#36125624)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:40 AM
Author: Tantric honey-headed hell headpube

I'm going to level with you fags, I made a few million through mostly dumb luck and retired and am now a stay at home dad. My wife has her job because it's a 180 job that means we never dig into my money ever and she literally saves lives and she loves it with a passion.

So I am primary caregiver. The "emotional labor" thing is real. I didn't buy it until we had a kid and my role shifted from "rich fuck who does whatever" to "full time dad"

Life is 180 but you shitstains discount how exhausting this really is because you don't know. On top of all that, it's often extremely lonely work.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3986288&forum_id=2#36125748)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:28 AM
Author: Mischievous excitant pervert



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3986288&forum_id=2#36125626)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:31 AM
Author: ivory sound barrier

Her family adores me and her colleagues respect me cause I’m tall handsome and have a great sense of humor. Who gives a fuck about a little admin work at the end of every month

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3986288&forum_id=2#36125653)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:39 AM
Author: Mischievous excitant pervert



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3986288&forum_id=2#36125734)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:42 AM
Author: ivory sound barrier

She’ll lose that battle quickly. It’s not to say she couldn’t get another guy like me but it would sure as shit take a while

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3986288&forum_id=2#36125769)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:48 AM
Author: Mischievous excitant pervert



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3986288&forum_id=2#36125814)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:30 AM
Author: insane curious persian

My woman wants me to make a ton of money, do the morning routine with the kids, take them both to (separate) daycares, and be home by 5:30 every night. She also wants me to spend 1/2 the weekend doing yardwork and do most of the cooking.

She then complains about ensuring the bills are paid and doing laundry and accuses me of not doing my share. Women are insane.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3986288&forum_id=2#36125649)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:31 AM
Author: ivory sound barrier

I think I’m gonna leave for a week. This shit is a slippery slope

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3986288&forum_id=2#36125659)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:33 AM
Author: insane curious persian

do you ever put her in her place?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3986288&forum_id=2#36125672)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:36 AM
Author: ivory sound barrier

I don’t put her in her place per se, but she knows I never run from a fight even if it’s inconvenient for me. I will go back and forth for an hour just to prove my point. Further, she knows other women find me attractive so me leaving isn’t a punishment so much as it is a vacation for me



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3986288&forum_id=2#36125710)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:39 AM
Author: insane curious persian

ugh my biggest fear is that if we got divorced i wouldn't fare well on the singles market and my wife would get swooped up by some chad.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3986288&forum_id=2#36125739)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:39 AM
Author: Mischievous excitant pervert



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3986288&forum_id=2#36125741)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:50 PM
Author: ivory sound barrier

Not schtick

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3986288&forum_id=2#36129946)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:32 AM
Author: Dashing space

Too much shit to do for dual income households with children. Just be at peace with not having time for fun and leisure. Unless you get lots of help (family or paid).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3986288&forum_id=2#36125662)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:36 AM
Author: insane curious persian

Maybe i just need to figure out a way to make way more money. then she can stay home and do some real damage when we get divorced.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3986288&forum_id=2#36125699)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:37 AM
Author: Dashing space

Staying at home sucks too.

Everything sucks.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3986288&forum_id=2#36125717)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:41 AM
Author: insane curious persian

i would love to stay home. especially if the kids still go to daycare.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3986288&forum_id=2#36125753)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:45 AM
Author: Dashing space

Only really rich wives stay home AND have nannies. I think it can be credited if they're school age. Staying at home with an infant or toddler is more work than most work.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3986288&forum_id=2#36125792)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:47 AM
Author: insane curious persian

soooo cr.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3986288&forum_id=2#36125807)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:41 AM
Author: Rambunctious university crotch

just do leave the community you were born into for economic gain and try to function as a family haha

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3986288&forum_id=2#36125759)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:45 AM
Author: Dashing space

Boomers won't help you ime. Doesn't matter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3986288&forum_id=2#36125798)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:45 AM
Author: Rambunctious university crotch

fuck

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3986288&forum_id=2#36125799)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:39 AM
Author: Cowardly Mint Immigrant Market

Do you both work? If not she can do the laundry and cooking. If so, you can outsource that shit. Also ljl @ separate daycares.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3986288&forum_id=2#36125737)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:42 AM
Author: ultramarine shrine

TMF does the laundry, its pretty great. But he gets to pick the most high end washer/dryer and play with all the features.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3986288&forum_id=2#36125765)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:44 AM
Author: insane curious persian

Yes but she is a teacher with tenure. No stress and out of work by 3.

separate daycares because the younger one is not old enough to go to the older one's daycare. Taking 2 young children to separate daycares both in the opposite direction of my office is the worst part of my life right now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3986288&forum_id=2#36125782)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:38 AM
Author: Marvelous menage

People who do routine administrative tasks often end up wielding an enormous amount of power within an organization, even if technically speaking they are at the very bottom of the pecking order.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3986288&forum_id=2#36125722)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 1:35 PM
Author: ivory sound barrier

Is alotting 45 minutes once a month to pay bills really that cumbersome

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3986288&forum_id=2#36126546)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:50 PM
Author: infuriating jet-lagged gaming laptop

Just do auto debit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3986288&forum_id=2#36129947)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:57 PM
Author: Beta Irradiated Casino

Cr what the fuck is op taking about, paying bills takes zero time. We write one check per month, to the cleaning service. Everything else is autopay.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3986288&forum_id=2#36129971)



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Date: May 26th, 2018 12:20 AM
Author: ivory sound barrier

Yeah well some people apparently believe in emotional labor

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3986288&forum_id=2#36130036)