she kept snuggling into me, and i leaned in to kiss her on the lips. she demurely looked down as i made several attempts, then relented and giggled.

from the neck up, she made me feel warm and fuzzy inside, and indeed could have saved my life. i could have been happy and i could have renounced my racism toward white women.

from the neck down, she was FAT and i knew that whatever attraction i felt for her, could not last. i knew she was another victim of american obesity, another cheerful kid-like personality succumbed to her environment.

i knew it would come to a heart-wrenching farewell as i unexpectedly break up with her for seemingly no reason, almost as if on a whim. but ultimately i would know, inside, the real reason.

american obesity has claimed so many "good" girls. even the ones who are wholesome enough to resist the myriad temptations of shitliberalism, hypergamous hedonism, edgy sarcastic causticness, the queering and pozzing of millenial minds, etc., even the best of these are then given over to a corporeal disease of body that makes them unloveable no matter how great their personalities are, or how full of youth they otherwise could be.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002510&forum_id=2#36248912)

75% of adults are fat, and this isn't without struggle. the type of personality i'm attracted to - silly, carefree - is precisely the type that would not be able to keep temptation at bay and keep weight off.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002510&forum_id=2#36248992)

The thing you forget is that the ultimate linchpin of success has little to do with whether the chick exercises or not, and everything to do with what she eats, which you have no control over when you're not around. When what the chick is TELLING you she eats in a day adds up to less than 1000 calories and she isn't losing weight, there's nothing you can do.

Also, sadly after a point all the positive reinforcement in the world didn't do shit. Eventually the only thing that actually got her to lose weight was being a complete asshole which wasn't good for either of us. The only way I'd EVER even consider dating an overweight chick again is if she was ALREADY on a hardcore training routine and showing a big downtrend in weight BEFORE we met. It's a waste of fucking time to try to make a fat chick thin if it matters to you. She's better off with one of the many Melvins who won't demand more of her than what she can do.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002510&forum_id=2#36249831)

the girl in your example got fat briefly and was young. the girl(s) i'm talking about have been much fatter their entire lives and are not so young. that should be the assumption we start off with, not your exception(s) to the rule.

again, ample data backs me up that fat people DO NOT change and become skinny. it's incredibly rare for significant weight loss to occur and to be maintained past a few years. every person in america wants to be skinny, and yet 75% of them remain fat year after year after year. each one has their own personal struggles, and adding in the emotional support of an autistic asian incel cheering from the sidelines with love and dedication isn't going to be the extra boost they need to finally overcome their obstacles and accomplish their goals, let me tell you. it's a ridiculous, laughable conclusion. it was arrived at purely by your most foolhardy of emotions, and flies against all logic. and you spend considerable energy and investment putting forth such flawed and dangerous theses, for all to read, when if anyone takes such advice, it would be extremely harmful for the trajectory of their lives, a la diamond dallas page. and yet you keep spouting such inane ideas because there's no cost to you as an anonymous wiseman, there will never be any accountability you will be held to, while considerable short-term pleasure is to be gained in being perceived as virtuous/right. you should take a step back, repent, and feel ashamed about yourself.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002510&forum_id=2#36252944)

all you have to do is look around, read some general forums, do a google search for "why it's hard to lose weight" and the evidence is overwhelming that going from fat to skinny is damn near impossible. even mainstream sources admit it!

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2015/07/18/one-chart-shows-why-its-nearly-impossible-to-lose-weight-and-keep-it-off/

your willful ignorance is not a mere blind spot. you are being an emotional vampire, sucking out the sentimentality of those around you with problems, but offering them feel-good bad advice that kills them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002510&forum_id=2#36252991)

they already broke up. he said he tried everything to no avail. it seems he regrets getting into a relationship and wasting both of their time, as well as damaging each other psychologically when he should have moved on knowing that it would be near impossible for her to change, and she should have moved on and found someone with lower weight standards.

you're veering into "i can't read shit and i interpret posts in the exact opposite of the way they are intended" territory.

DDC is indeed a well-meaning guy (as well-meaning as a selfish old sex addict can get, i mean) and even HE failed to make a dent in the ingrained patterns of an affliction that DOMINATES 75% of the population. it's not a matter of lack of effort, or lack of love. it's that your advice is obviously and transparently a crock of shit, totally useless at best, destructive at worst.

and you say it in such a slimy, glib, morally exhortatory fashion. you really could ruin someone's life. if DDC had just started his relationship today, he would have listened to you.

fuck

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002510&forum_id=2#36253570)

if she's fat 20, she's going to be a literal boar at 30

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002510&forum_id=2#36248995)

she had just come back from study abroad in ASIA. that plus her demeanor, i knew she hadn't been slutting it up and wasn't blown out.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002510&forum_id=2#36249028)

are you a student?

yes i was studying thats why i was so busy when you texted.

bangarang, u wanna get some noodles?

(no reply)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002510&forum_id=2#36250218)

a fattie and a midget, possibly a wgwag.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002510&forum_id=2#36249684)