Date: June 15th, 2018 8:17 AM
Author: chocolate fanboi sweet tailpipe
Timeline:
T-4 years: My sister is a good nursing student
T-3: She meets this white trash kid who lied to her about being a student (maybe 5'4" (163cm), skinny, stupid, poor)
T-2: Graduates and moves to Texas to be with this unemployed loser but has a good job as a healthcare consultant
T-2: HE dumps HER lol (my whole family is ecstatic). She says she will listen to us and have higher standards
T-1.5: She somehow meets another white trash guy (this time a devout borderline-white-nationalist church-goer. very hairy, very smelly, balding (late 20s), almost fat, large frame (not quite 6ft tall), type 2 diabetes since birth, high-school-level education, blue-collar job as a desk sitter for a self-storage facility). (my whole family is depressed again). I tell her he only went for her because not even trailer trash white girls want him.
T-1.25: She quits her Master's in Public Health program. Leaves her consulting job. Moves into his apartment. Starts work part-time as a barista and data analyst. Intends to become a housewife [because his ego can't handle a woman being the breadwinner of the family]
T-1: I discover r/Hapas and r/aznidentity and become even more upset and angry
T-0.75: She secretly marries him (no ring, no wedding - says such things are materialistic and unholy [he really brainwashed her well to cover up his broke-ness])
T-0.60: I delete reddit accounts and get adjusted again
T-0.20: Back to reddit, but not-so-angry
T-0: she's pregnant. I heard through another sister since that one doesn't really talk to me anymore
This kid will look Asian-passing/Mexican hapa, since his father is a dark-haired, light-brown skinned white man, yet will attend a borderline white-nationalist church. A potential white supremacist with an Asian face... I think he will face a lot of racism and self-hate, especially in Texas
I feel like it will be my responsibility as the only woke member of the family to help this kid, assuming my sister even talks to me again.
I will continue to try to encourage her to resume her MPH program and become a healthcare consultant again. She and I were really close until she started messing with these desperate guys. I want her with a decent guy, rather than a guy who is keeping her below his own social status.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002629&forum_id=2#36250042)