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Wife said she wasn't happy in the marriage.
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Date: June 15th, 2018 10:13 AM Author: Awkward juggernaut stage I told her im not ready to give up but if she wants to leave i wont stop her.
I said if she wants to date someone else just let a brother know.
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:31 AM Author: khaki very tactful kitchen giraffe are u actually black, or just like to call yourself 'a brother'? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36250876) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:38 AM Author: vermilion contagious corn cake He's a NIGGER. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36250920) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:26 AM Author: cerebral lodge He meant she can only date black guys. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264950) |
Date: June 15th, 2018 10:17 AM Author: Bronze range Both kinda beta. I’d just say “ok.” Or “same here.” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36250470) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:58 AM Author: Nubile Diverse Becky "Me too haha" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251042) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 10:17 AM Author: aquamarine insane famous landscape painting ape women: don't smother me! also women: why won't you fight for me?! |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:30 AM Author: Awkward juggernaut stage cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36250865) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:38 AM Author: Buck-toothed trailer park (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36250919) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:41 AM Author: Big marketing idea (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36250937) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:30 AM Author: Rose indirect expression you're too clingy!
you haven't been showing me enough attention! |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:55 AM Author: Painfully honest lay rigpig (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265217) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 10:18 AM Author: grizzly karate you just don't have that girthy emotional connection (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36250476) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:38 AM Author: seedy macaca reading party (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36250917) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:31 AM Author: ivory casino deer antler (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36250869) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:31 AM Author: thriller orange genital piercing mad-dog skullcap the pua slow neg doesn't work once you're married (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36250872) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:35 AM Author: Confused wine church When married women stop being attracted to their husbands, they start to resent them. You should still be negging her if it's funny, but not when she's pissed at you. It's more important to come off confident and in control of your situation than anything else. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36250906) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:52 AM Author: Awkward juggernaut stage i am confident. That neg came from a sincere place. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251009) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 12:03 PM Author: Confused wine church Your response was probably fine imo. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251083) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:37 AM Author: Slate Trust Fund Factory Reset Button you gotta BLAST her.
Tell her that a girl in her situation should be happy as heck, enjoying her time every day and every day should be a delight and fun--youre the husband and shes the wife and you don't ask that much of her and she's better start acting like it. |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:39 AM Author: vermilion contagious corn cake I suggest punching her right in the face. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36250924) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:59 AM Author: Nubile Diverse Becky If op had the capability to have this type of conversation, do you think he'd be in his current situation? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251054) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 12:21 PM Author: Slate Trust Fund Factory Reset Button You mean still married over more than a decade. GTFOutta here. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251196) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:57 AM Author: Sapphire galvanic doctorate i don't see a problem with how OP handled it.
fuck this psychological "testing" BS women do.
don't engage in the game.
if she's made up her mind to resent you, she's going to find ways to resent you no matter what you do, anyway. so better to know and move on now if that's what she's thinking. |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 12:18 PM Author: Awkward juggernaut stage That was my attitude. I love her but i am not play this little groveling game because she thinks our marriage should be more like the shit she sees on TV. Fuck her.
She was very offended by me asking her would she like to date someone else |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 12:22 PM Author: Sapphire galvanic doctorate good for you. we see it exactly the same way.
i'm sick of women pulling this card. life isn't a fucking fairy tale. go date or marry someone else.
and let's face it, she was going to be offended by whatever answer you gave. if you groveled, you would indicate weakness and she'd respect you even less. |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 1:54 PM Author: Slate Trust Fund Factory Reset Button You guys are aspie as fuck (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251920) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 2:03 PM Author: Sapphire galvanic doctorate if refusing to get dragged into the sick female emotional roller coaster and psychological "tests" is aspie.
i think it's better described as not putting up with bullshit. |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 2:08 PM Author: grizzly karate who are you to judge anyone? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36252020) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 12:22 PM Author: grizzly karate I agree. Best to not engage. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251204) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 12:22 PM Author: Sapphire galvanic doctorate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251207) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:57 AM Author: Nubile Diverse Becky (Rob Greenberg) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251037) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:57 AM Author: seedy macaca reading party (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251039) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 12:01 PM Author: sinister twisted whorehouse ran here (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251064) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 2:05 PM Author: magenta provocative heaven death wish (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251996) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 12:23 PM Author: Adulterous sable haunted graveyard set I will be the first to point out that my boy FATCEPs' wife significantly outearns him, so he knows he can ride that alimony train if she leaves him. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251216) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 12:24 PM Author: Adulterous sable haunted graveyard set Also -- you should hold off on cheatmoing for a while -- it's likley he divorce lawyer will have a PI investigate you before she files for divorce.
Delete all your cheatmo email accounts / tinder accounts, etc. |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 12:58 PM Author: Awkward juggernaut stage why would a PI have access to my email accounts how is that even possible (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251490) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 1:51 PM Author: Drab senate (dude about to get wrecked) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251883) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:57 AM Author: dashing dopamine public bath 2 subpoenas, pradeep (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265236) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:24 AM Author: Awkward juggernaut stage who said anything about cheatmo'n (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264937) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:52 AM Author: Brass Drunken Theater Do you? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265191) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:57 AM Author: dashing dopamine public bath he does with permission (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265237) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:59 AM Author: Brass Drunken Theater Why does she permit that? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265246) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 1:52 PM Author: Disturbing locus chances she is taking BAC? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251900) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 2:05 PM Author: magenta provocative heaven death wish 0.00001% (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251999) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:11 AM Author: Awkward juggernaut stage still beefing with her. father's day wasn't exactly a hit this year. im stuck between acquiescing or simply antagonizing her more (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264825) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:12 AM Author: mischievous native fuck her butthole. you own that shit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264832) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:14 AM Author: magenta provocative heaven death wish Make her a) state the exact problem she has, and b) present a reasonable solution. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264845) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:16 AM Author: Awkward juggernaut stage i don't do enough around the house and i don't spend enough time with her (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264854) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:17 AM Author: magenta provocative heaven death wish "i don't do enough around the house"
Offer to hire a maid. Problem solved. FYI - this was our solution to this problem and everyone is now happy.
"and i don't spend enough time with her"
Ok, so spend more time with her.
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:23 AM Author: Awkward juggernaut stage i need a certain amount of time to myself for my own mental health. i've been this way from the start (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264926) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:23 AM Author: Sadistic Irradiated Sound Barrier He doesn’t have time with the blatant cheating and concealing the cheating. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264928) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:25 AM Author: mischievous native if you were able... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264942) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:36 AM Author: light passionate useless brakes fanboi Lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265060) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:58 AM Author: dashing dopamine public bath rofl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265241) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 12:01 PM Author: magenta provocative heaven death wish lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265261) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:27 AM Author: racy locale From a man who has weathered some major marital storms: 1. you have to be a courteous housemate, i.e. do not leave a mess for her to clean up. Take care of your own shit.
Also, if she wants you to clean, make her make concessions. If she cooks, you'll clean. Or, she wants you to clean the house, the deal is that you'll do it but you're going to drink beer and listen to Skynard the whole time. Make her make concessions to you, even if they are stupid, because women instinctively hate pushovers.
The spending time thing is irritating because it's not what you think. You're thinking, bitch, I'm here every fucking day, what more do you want of me? She means that she wants you to take her out and have fun. Get a sitter, call an Uber, and tell her you're going out to have a good time. Most importantly, you plan it and it has to be fun. Go to a bar, get a strong drink, and go do stupid crap - I took my wife to a bar that I knew was going to do Disney trivial a few weeks ago, she absolutely loved it.
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:21 AM Author: racy locale My advice: buy a boat, spend time on it. Get in shape.
You cannot rely on your Wife to be a source of happiness for you. You need to be happy with your life independent of her. If you feel awesome, if your life is awesome, you're kicking ass, your marriage will change. If she senses that you don't really care of she lays'or'stays, it is the nature of women that she will be attracted to you and start pursuing you.
Or, if that doesn't work, you'll be a good looking single guy with a boat, which seems to be to be a major improvement on your current life situation. |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:24 AM Author: Awkward juggernaut stage our finances are too intertwined for me to ever buy a boat
im already in great shape and i have a great group of friends |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:27 AM Author: Sadistic Irradiated Sound Barrier Lol that’s one way to describe it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264965) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 12:02 PM Author: Magical national security agency dog poop lol, damn (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265272) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 12:04 PM Author: magenta provocative heaven death wish (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265290) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:28 AM Author: racy locale You know, when it was looking bad with my Wife, I separated our finances. That got my Wife's attention, bigly, and also ended a lot of bad arguments that we had. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264973) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 12:02 PM Author: Sadistic Irradiated Sound Barrier She is the breadwinner. He just travels and concocts various excuses to cheat on her weekly. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265275) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 12:04 PM Author: grizzly karate earl are you anti-cheatmo or just anti-OP? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265289) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 12:55 PM Author: Sadistic Irradiated Sound Barrier i am anti cheatmo if the wife is ignorant of it and if the cheater would not be okay with his wife fucking around on him. I have a particular problem with the OP because he is so blatant and spends so much time doing it, while his wife supports his escapades.
I think EPAH's lol worthy open marriage was hilarious and doomed, but at least he was not dishonest about his cheating (though he was dishonest with himself that his wife only wanted to fuck around with hot women that he could watch - lol). |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:28 AM Author: mischievous native just empty the account for a boat! boat! boat! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264976) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:30 AM Author: racy locale If you're at the point to where your wife is floating the idea of fucking other dudes, you're probably about to endure some financial trauma anyways.
It doesn't have to be a boat. It is something for you, it's a way that you reclaim your life. It also makes it clear to her that you have a pulse, you're alive, and that your life is going to be awesome with or without her. |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:31 AM Author: mischievous native i agree. but i'd get a robalo 26" center console and fuck bitches. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265004) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 1:08 PM Author: Awkward juggernaut stage Why would I care about the opinion of a man who’s ashamed of being half azn (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265736) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:30 AM Author: Violent theater stage codepig Almost all marital problems can be solved with daily sex (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264995) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:37 AM Author: light passionate useless brakes fanboi That's true (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265070) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:59 AM Author: dashing dopamine public bath OP is on roids and his balls don't work properly (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265247) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 12:02 PM Author: grizzly karate lol @ op (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265274) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 1:00 PM Author: Violent theater stage codepig (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265681) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 12:32 PM Author: Aphrodisiac brethren A serial cheater has a shitty marriage? I am SHOCKED (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265485) |