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Wife said she wasn't happy in the marriage.
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Date: June 15th, 2018 10:13 AM Author: french bearded giraffe I told her im not ready to give up but if she wants to leave i wont stop her.
I said if she wants to date someone else just let a brother know.
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:31 AM Author: Trip Judgmental Factory Reset Button Death Wish are u actually black, or just like to call yourself 'a brother'? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36250876) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:38 AM Author: Aquamarine Swashbuckling Gas Station He's a NIGGER. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36250920) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:26 AM Author: Provocative Geriatric Place Of Business He meant she can only date black guys. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264950) |
Date: June 15th, 2018 10:17 AM Author: Buck-toothed rebellious meetinghouse Both kinda beta. I’d just say “ok.” Or “same here.” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36250470) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:58 AM Author: shimmering field "Me too haha" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251042) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 10:17 AM Author: beady-eyed slimy idea he suggested women: don't smother me! also women: why won't you fight for me?! |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:30 AM Author: french bearded giraffe cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36250865) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:38 AM Author: lascivious trump supporter (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36250919) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:41 AM Author: Bateful chestnut wagecucks (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36250937) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:30 AM Author: demanding dragon you're too clingy!
you haven't been showing me enough attention! |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:55 AM Author: Yellow Volcanic Crater (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265217) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 10:18 AM Author: Aromatic Alcoholic Temple Degenerate you just don't have that girthy emotional connection (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36250476) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:38 AM Author: Excitant Bearded Background Story Depressive (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36250917) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:31 AM Author: ultramarine hospital selfie (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36250869) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:31 AM Author: Flesh den mexican the pua slow neg doesn't work once you're married (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36250872) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:35 AM Author: hideous casino When married women stop being attracted to their husbands, they start to resent them. You should still be negging her if it's funny, but not when she's pissed at you. It's more important to come off confident and in control of your situation than anything else. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36250906) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:52 AM Author: french bearded giraffe i am confident. That neg came from a sincere place. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251009) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 12:03 PM Author: hideous casino Your response was probably fine imo. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251083) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:37 AM Author: electric heaven athletic conference you gotta BLAST her.
Tell her that a girl in her situation should be happy as heck, enjoying her time every day and every day should be a delight and fun--youre the husband and shes the wife and you don't ask that much of her and she's better start acting like it. |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:39 AM Author: Aquamarine Swashbuckling Gas Station I suggest punching her right in the face. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36250924) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:59 AM Author: shimmering field If op had the capability to have this type of conversation, do you think he'd be in his current situation? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251054) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 12:21 PM Author: electric heaven athletic conference You mean still married over more than a decade. GTFOutta here. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251196) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:57 AM Author: cerebral maroon clown theatre i don't see a problem with how OP handled it.
fuck this psychological "testing" BS women do.
don't engage in the game.
if she's made up her mind to resent you, she's going to find ways to resent you no matter what you do, anyway. so better to know and move on now if that's what she's thinking. |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 12:18 PM Author: french bearded giraffe That was my attitude. I love her but i am not play this little groveling game because she thinks our marriage should be more like the shit she sees on TV. Fuck her.
She was very offended by me asking her would she like to date someone else |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 12:22 PM Author: cerebral maroon clown theatre good for you. we see it exactly the same way.
i'm sick of women pulling this card. life isn't a fucking fairy tale. go date or marry someone else.
and let's face it, she was going to be offended by whatever answer you gave. if you groveled, you would indicate weakness and she'd respect you even less. |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 1:54 PM Author: electric heaven athletic conference You guys are aspie as fuck (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251920) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 2:03 PM Author: cerebral maroon clown theatre if refusing to get dragged into the sick female emotional roller coaster and psychological "tests" is aspie.
i think it's better described as not putting up with bullshit. |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 2:08 PM Author: Aromatic Alcoholic Temple Degenerate who are you to judge anyone? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36252020) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 12:22 PM Author: Aromatic Alcoholic Temple Degenerate I agree. Best to not engage. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251204) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 12:22 PM Author: cerebral maroon clown theatre (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251207) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:57 AM Author: shimmering field (Rob Greenberg) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251037) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:57 AM Author: Excitant Bearded Background Story Depressive (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251039) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 12:01 PM Author: massive roast beef church building ran here (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251064) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 2:05 PM Author: Obsidian Fat Ankles (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251996) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 12:23 PM Author: Plum area I will be the first to point out that my boy FATCEPs' wife significantly outearns him, so he knows he can ride that alimony train if she leaves him. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251216) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 12:24 PM Author: Plum area Also -- you should hold off on cheatmoing for a while -- it's likley he divorce lawyer will have a PI investigate you before she files for divorce.
Delete all your cheatmo email accounts / tinder accounts, etc. |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 12:58 PM Author: french bearded giraffe why would a PI have access to my email accounts how is that even possible (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251490) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 1:51 PM Author: Jade Tripping Alpha Sound Barrier (dude about to get wrecked) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251883) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:57 AM Author: Vermilion Mind-boggling Gaping 2 subpoenas, pradeep (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265236) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:24 AM Author: french bearded giraffe who said anything about cheatmo'n (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264937) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:52 AM Author: exciting rough-skinned yarmulke pit Do you? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265191) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:57 AM Author: Vermilion Mind-boggling Gaping he does with permission (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265237) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:59 AM Author: exciting rough-skinned yarmulke pit Why does she permit that? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265246) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 1:52 PM Author: Passionate Tattoo Nursing Home chances she is taking BAC? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251900) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 2:05 PM Author: Obsidian Fat Ankles 0.00001% (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251999) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:11 AM Author: french bearded giraffe still beefing with her. father's day wasn't exactly a hit this year. im stuck between acquiescing or simply antagonizing her more (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264825) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:12 AM Author: orchid set fuck her butthole. you own that shit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264832) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:14 AM Author: Obsidian Fat Ankles Make her a) state the exact problem she has, and b) present a reasonable solution. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264845) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:16 AM Author: french bearded giraffe i don't do enough around the house and i don't spend enough time with her (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264854) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:17 AM Author: Obsidian Fat Ankles "i don't do enough around the house"
Offer to hire a maid. Problem solved. FYI - this was our solution to this problem and everyone is now happy.
"and i don't spend enough time with her"
Ok, so spend more time with her.
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:23 AM Author: french bearded giraffe i need a certain amount of time to myself for my own mental health. i've been this way from the start (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264926) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:23 AM Author: boyish tantric roommate He doesn’t have time with the blatant cheating and concealing the cheating. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264928) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:25 AM Author: orchid set if you were able... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264942) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:36 AM Author: Purple 180 Church Organic Girlfriend Lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265060) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:58 AM Author: Vermilion Mind-boggling Gaping rofl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265241) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 12:01 PM Author: Obsidian Fat Ankles lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265261) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:27 AM Author: deep shivering chapel goal in life From a man who has weathered some major marital storms: 1. you have to be a courteous housemate, i.e. do not leave a mess for her to clean up. Take care of your own shit.
Also, if she wants you to clean, make her make concessions. If she cooks, you'll clean. Or, she wants you to clean the house, the deal is that you'll do it but you're going to drink beer and listen to Skynard the whole time. Make her make concessions to you, even if they are stupid, because women instinctively hate pushovers.
The spending time thing is irritating because it's not what you think. You're thinking, bitch, I'm here every fucking day, what more do you want of me? She means that she wants you to take her out and have fun. Get a sitter, call an Uber, and tell her you're going out to have a good time. Most importantly, you plan it and it has to be fun. Go to a bar, get a strong drink, and go do stupid crap - I took my wife to a bar that I knew was going to do Disney trivial a few weeks ago, she absolutely loved it.
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:21 AM Author: deep shivering chapel goal in life My advice: buy a boat, spend time on it. Get in shape.
You cannot rely on your Wife to be a source of happiness for you. You need to be happy with your life independent of her. If you feel awesome, if your life is awesome, you're kicking ass, your marriage will change. If she senses that you don't really care of she lays'or'stays, it is the nature of women that she will be attracted to you and start pursuing you.
Or, if that doesn't work, you'll be a good looking single guy with a boat, which seems to be to be a major improvement on your current life situation. |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:24 AM Author: french bearded giraffe our finances are too intertwined for me to ever buy a boat
im already in great shape and i have a great group of friends |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:27 AM Author: boyish tantric roommate Lol that’s one way to describe it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264965) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 12:02 PM Author: Diverse Indigo National Water Buffalo lol, damn (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265272) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 12:04 PM Author: Obsidian Fat Ankles (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265290) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:28 AM Author: deep shivering chapel goal in life You know, when it was looking bad with my Wife, I separated our finances. That got my Wife's attention, bigly, and also ended a lot of bad arguments that we had. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264973) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 12:02 PM Author: boyish tantric roommate She is the breadwinner. He just travels and concocts various excuses to cheat on her weekly. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265275) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 12:04 PM Author: Aromatic Alcoholic Temple Degenerate earl are you anti-cheatmo or just anti-OP? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265289) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 12:55 PM Author: boyish tantric roommate i am anti cheatmo if the wife is ignorant of it and if the cheater would not be okay with his wife fucking around on him. I have a particular problem with the OP because he is so blatant and spends so much time doing it, while his wife supports his escapades.
I think EPAH's lol worthy open marriage was hilarious and doomed, but at least he was not dishonest about his cheating (though he was dishonest with himself that his wife only wanted to fuck around with hot women that he could watch - lol). |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:28 AM Author: orchid set just empty the account for a boat! boat! boat! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264976) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:30 AM Author: deep shivering chapel goal in life If you're at the point to where your wife is floating the idea of fucking other dudes, you're probably about to endure some financial trauma anyways.
It doesn't have to be a boat. It is something for you, it's a way that you reclaim your life. It also makes it clear to her that you have a pulse, you're alive, and that your life is going to be awesome with or without her. |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:31 AM Author: orchid set i agree. but i'd get a robalo 26" center console and fuck bitches. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265004) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 1:08 PM Author: french bearded giraffe Why would I care about the opinion of a man who’s ashamed of being half azn (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265736) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:30 AM Author: Vigorous Mint Spot Almost all marital problems can be solved with daily sex (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264995) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:37 AM Author: Purple 180 Church Organic Girlfriend That's true (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265070) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:59 AM Author: Vermilion Mind-boggling Gaping OP is on roids and his balls don't work properly (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265247) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 12:02 PM Author: Aromatic Alcoholic Temple Degenerate lol @ op (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265274) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 1:00 PM Author: Vigorous Mint Spot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265681) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 12:32 PM Author: crimson arousing feces dog poop A serial cheater has a shitty marriage? I am SHOCKED (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265485) |