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Wife said she wasn't happy in the marriage.
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Date: June 15th, 2018 10:13 AM Author: vermilion becky I told her im not ready to give up but if she wants to leave i wont stop her.
I said if she wants to date someone else just let a brother know.
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:31 AM Author: Contagious jet messiness bawdyhouse are u actually black, or just like to call yourself 'a brother'? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36250876) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:38 AM Author: mint vigorous resort He's a NIGGER. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36250920) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:26 AM Author: Beady-eyed Insanely Creepy Love Of Her Life Corn Cake He meant she can only date black guys. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264950) |
Date: June 15th, 2018 10:17 AM Author: comical gunner international law enforcement agency Both kinda beta. I’d just say “ok.” Or “same here.” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36250470) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:58 AM Author: aphrodisiac slate heaven indirect expression "Me too haha" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251042) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 10:17 AM Author: Up-to-no-good Shrine women: don't smother me! also women: why won't you fight for me?! |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:30 AM Author: vermilion becky cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36250865) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:38 AM Author: chocolate flatulent plaza (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36250919) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:41 AM Author: Razzmatazz Idiot Psychic (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36250937) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:30 AM Author: Bateful main people you're too clingy!
you haven't been showing me enough attention! |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:55 AM Author: Rose tantric kitty cat new version (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265217) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 10:18 AM Author: frum rehab boltzmann you just don't have that girthy emotional connection (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36250476) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:38 AM Author: green pistol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36250917) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:31 AM Author: Translucent diverse selfie (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36250869) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:31 AM Author: Big House-broken Keepsake Machete Newt the pua slow neg doesn't work once you're married (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36250872) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:35 AM Author: Cowardly Abode When married women stop being attracted to their husbands, they start to resent them. You should still be negging her if it's funny, but not when she's pissed at you. It's more important to come off confident and in control of your situation than anything else. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36250906) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:52 AM Author: vermilion becky i am confident. That neg came from a sincere place. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251009) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 12:03 PM Author: Cowardly Abode Your response was probably fine imo. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251083) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:37 AM Author: indigo know-it-all coffee pot hall you gotta BLAST her.
Tell her that a girl in her situation should be happy as heck, enjoying her time every day and every day should be a delight and fun--youre the husband and shes the wife and you don't ask that much of her and she's better start acting like it. |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:39 AM Author: mint vigorous resort I suggest punching her right in the face. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36250924) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:59 AM Author: aphrodisiac slate heaven indirect expression If op had the capability to have this type of conversation, do you think he'd be in his current situation? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251054) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 12:21 PM Author: indigo know-it-all coffee pot hall You mean still married over more than a decade. GTFOutta here. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251196) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:57 AM Author: flickering turdskin parlor i don't see a problem with how OP handled it.
fuck this psychological "testing" BS women do.
don't engage in the game.
if she's made up her mind to resent you, she's going to find ways to resent you no matter what you do, anyway. so better to know and move on now if that's what she's thinking. |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 12:18 PM Author: vermilion becky That was my attitude. I love her but i am not play this little groveling game because she thinks our marriage should be more like the shit she sees on TV. Fuck her.
She was very offended by me asking her would she like to date someone else |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 12:22 PM Author: flickering turdskin parlor good for you. we see it exactly the same way.
i'm sick of women pulling this card. life isn't a fucking fairy tale. go date or marry someone else.
and let's face it, she was going to be offended by whatever answer you gave. if you groveled, you would indicate weakness and she'd respect you even less. |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 1:54 PM Author: indigo know-it-all coffee pot hall You guys are aspie as fuck (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251920) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 2:03 PM Author: flickering turdskin parlor if refusing to get dragged into the sick female emotional roller coaster and psychological "tests" is aspie.
i think it's better described as not putting up with bullshit. |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 2:08 PM Author: frum rehab boltzmann who are you to judge anyone? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36252020) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 12:22 PM Author: frum rehab boltzmann I agree. Best to not engage. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251204) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 12:22 PM Author: flickering turdskin parlor (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251207) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:57 AM Author: aphrodisiac slate heaven indirect expression (Rob Greenberg) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251037) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 11:57 AM Author: green pistol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251039) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 12:01 PM Author: Supple spot ran here (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251064) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 2:05 PM Author: stimulating startling set (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251996) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 12:23 PM Author: Poppy personal credit line I will be the first to point out that my boy FATCEPs' wife significantly outearns him, so he knows he can ride that alimony train if she leaves him. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251216) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 12:24 PM Author: Poppy personal credit line Also -- you should hold off on cheatmoing for a while -- it's likley he divorce lawyer will have a PI investigate you before she files for divorce.
Delete all your cheatmo email accounts / tinder accounts, etc. |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 12:58 PM Author: vermilion becky why would a PI have access to my email accounts how is that even possible (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251490) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 1:51 PM Author: cyan submissive field codepig (dude about to get wrecked) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251883) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:57 AM Author: Doobsian background story french chef 2 subpoenas, pradeep (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265236) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:24 AM Author: vermilion becky who said anything about cheatmo'n (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264937) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:52 AM Author: flushed area Do you? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265191) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:57 AM Author: Doobsian background story french chef he does with permission (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265237) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:59 AM Author: flushed area Why does she permit that? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265246) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 1:52 PM Author: cocky mahogany therapy private investor chances she is taking BAC? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251900) |
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Date: June 15th, 2018 2:05 PM Author: stimulating startling set 0.00001% (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36251999) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:11 AM Author: vermilion becky still beefing with her. father's day wasn't exactly a hit this year. im stuck between acquiescing or simply antagonizing her more (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264825) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:12 AM Author: Lake slippery stock car fuck her butthole. you own that shit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264832) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:14 AM Author: stimulating startling set Make her a) state the exact problem she has, and b) present a reasonable solution. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264845) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:16 AM Author: vermilion becky i don't do enough around the house and i don't spend enough time with her (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264854) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:17 AM Author: stimulating startling set "i don't do enough around the house"
Offer to hire a maid. Problem solved. FYI - this was our solution to this problem and everyone is now happy.
"and i don't spend enough time with her"
Ok, so spend more time with her.
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:23 AM Author: vermilion becky i need a certain amount of time to myself for my own mental health. i've been this way from the start (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264926) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:23 AM Author: Vivacious coral volcanic crater He doesn’t have time with the blatant cheating and concealing the cheating. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264928) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:25 AM Author: Lake slippery stock car if you were able... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264942) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:36 AM Author: hideous aquamarine stage genital piercing Lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265060) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:58 AM Author: Doobsian background story french chef rofl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265241) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 12:01 PM Author: stimulating startling set lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265261) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:27 AM Author: Floppy Tank Base From a man who has weathered some major marital storms: 1. you have to be a courteous housemate, i.e. do not leave a mess for her to clean up. Take care of your own shit.
Also, if she wants you to clean, make her make concessions. If she cooks, you'll clean. Or, she wants you to clean the house, the deal is that you'll do it but you're going to drink beer and listen to Skynard the whole time. Make her make concessions to you, even if they are stupid, because women instinctively hate pushovers.
The spending time thing is irritating because it's not what you think. You're thinking, bitch, I'm here every fucking day, what more do you want of me? She means that she wants you to take her out and have fun. Get a sitter, call an Uber, and tell her you're going out to have a good time. Most importantly, you plan it and it has to be fun. Go to a bar, get a strong drink, and go do stupid crap - I took my wife to a bar that I knew was going to do Disney trivial a few weeks ago, she absolutely loved it.
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:21 AM Author: Floppy Tank Base My advice: buy a boat, spend time on it. Get in shape.
You cannot rely on your Wife to be a source of happiness for you. You need to be happy with your life independent of her. If you feel awesome, if your life is awesome, you're kicking ass, your marriage will change. If she senses that you don't really care of she lays'or'stays, it is the nature of women that she will be attracted to you and start pursuing you.
Or, if that doesn't work, you'll be a good looking single guy with a boat, which seems to be to be a major improvement on your current life situation. |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:24 AM Author: vermilion becky our finances are too intertwined for me to ever buy a boat
im already in great shape and i have a great group of friends |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:27 AM Author: Vivacious coral volcanic crater Lol that’s one way to describe it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264965) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 12:02 PM Author: Tripping racy business firm gaping lol, damn (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265272) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 12:04 PM Author: stimulating startling set (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265290) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:28 AM Author: Floppy Tank Base You know, when it was looking bad with my Wife, I separated our finances. That got my Wife's attention, bigly, and also ended a lot of bad arguments that we had. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264973) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 12:02 PM Author: Vivacious coral volcanic crater She is the breadwinner. He just travels and concocts various excuses to cheat on her weekly. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265275) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 12:04 PM Author: frum rehab boltzmann earl are you anti-cheatmo or just anti-OP? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265289) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 12:55 PM Author: Vivacious coral volcanic crater i am anti cheatmo if the wife is ignorant of it and if the cheater would not be okay with his wife fucking around on him. I have a particular problem with the OP because he is so blatant and spends so much time doing it, while his wife supports his escapades.
I think EPAH's lol worthy open marriage was hilarious and doomed, but at least he was not dishonest about his cheating (though he was dishonest with himself that his wife only wanted to fuck around with hot women that he could watch - lol). |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:28 AM Author: Lake slippery stock car just empty the account for a boat! boat! boat! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264976) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:30 AM Author: Floppy Tank Base If you're at the point to where your wife is floating the idea of fucking other dudes, you're probably about to endure some financial trauma anyways.
It doesn't have to be a boat. It is something for you, it's a way that you reclaim your life. It also makes it clear to her that you have a pulse, you're alive, and that your life is going to be awesome with or without her. |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:31 AM Author: Lake slippery stock car i agree. but i'd get a robalo 26" center console and fuck bitches. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265004) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 1:08 PM Author: vermilion becky Why would I care about the opinion of a man who’s ashamed of being half azn (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265736) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:30 AM Author: Curious Garrison Nibblets Almost all marital problems can be solved with daily sex (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36264995) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:37 AM Author: hideous aquamarine stage genital piercing That's true (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265070) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 11:59 AM Author: Doobsian background story french chef OP is on roids and his balls don't work properly (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265247) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 12:02 PM Author: frum rehab boltzmann lol @ op (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265274) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 1:00 PM Author: Curious Garrison Nibblets (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265681) |
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Date: June 18th, 2018 12:32 PM Author: cerise mood A serial cheater has a shitty marriage? I am SHOCKED (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4002678&forum_id=2#36265485) |