The most prestigious law school admissions discussion board in the world.
|
 |
 
|
How is it possible for 30s men/women to date when getting fat/going bald? (DTP)
Poast new message in this thread
Date: July 15th, 2018 2:17 PM Author: Puce nibblets i mean this as a general phenomenon.
you know that both parties are declining at a rapid clip, such that they look almost nothing like they used to look a mere 3-5 years ago. you know that their value is in constant flux and more precisely, in exponential decline.
and yet, if we hear accounts of these relationships from either party, the content of what they report is the usual stuff that could be said about ANY relationship, almost like it were between two carefree teenagers, without a word said about the elephants in the room: his norwood #, her BMI index, etc.
when i see such displays of obliviousness i'm astounded that such naive creatures can exist and carry on in the world in a state of blissful ignorance, without breaking down and weeping at all the decay and ugliness around them as i constantly do. |
Date: July 15th, 2018 2:20 PM Author: sepia sanctuary BMI index, ATM machine, HIV virus
DTP done here |
 |
Date: July 15th, 2018 2:24 PM Author: sticky state (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431005) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 2:25 PM Author: razzle-dazzle soggy codepig a DTP pumo (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431011) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 2:32 PM Author: Puce nibblets this is needlessly pedantic (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431075) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 2:34 PM Author: sepia sanctuary (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431087) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:34 PM Author: pink heady hell regret To be fair,
CR what is this guy some sort of fucking angry weightlifter or something? How dare he. |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 4:45 PM Author: flickering vivacious rigor ladyboy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431811) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 2:36 PM Author: Shimmering multi-billionaire women can sleep with anyone they want until 40 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431093) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 2:37 PM Author: Dashing Liquid Oxygen Cumskin You suffer from mental illness while most others don't. That's why you poast and they live their lives. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431101) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 2:41 PM Author: Puce nibblets on an abstract level, i understand this. still looking for a nuanced explanation though.
like these are the same people who would have panic attacks if they saw their financial portfolio tumble 10%. why, then, do they prattle on about mundane inanities while neglecting that their sexual values have plummeted 50%+ and are in danger of complete collapse? can they not see this? at what level of the processing of objective reality are their brains failing to function? |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 2:42 PM Author: supple indirect expression You have cancer of the mind while they don't. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431129) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 2:47 PM Author: Puce nibblets yes, i already acknowledged this. but could you break it down for me on a more nuanced level? thanks
to put it another way, a lot of people have a fine-grained appreciation of artworks or fashion or culinary delicacies. they are sensitive to and get irate about slight deviations in their preferred form of entertainment/indulgence. yet they are seemingly immune to the fact that their partners' bodies, also a canvas of artwork, is fat and unrecognizable and totally grotesque. they either don't SEE this, or they process it differently than they would every other object of aesthetic worth. |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 2:54 PM Author: sticky state Lol jfc at u itt (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431189) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:09 PM Author: kink-friendly pocket flask theater stage this makes sense. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431273) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:17 PM Author: supple indirect expression They have a visceral orientation towards life, whereas yours is towards death. Even the most degraded creature wants to love and to live and to go on. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431347) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:23 PM Author: Puce nibblets i disagree. i have an orientation towards life. someone's peak attractiveness is them at their PEAK LIFE. afterwards, and this begins relatively young, at like 20 or so, they are just marching towards death. skin sagging, muscles decaying, fat drooping. it is this march towards deaeth that horrifies me, because i want to CLING onto life. others seem perfectly fine with marching towards death. i, on the other hand, don't want things to change, and can't stop looking back towards life. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431384) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:30 PM Author: seedy mint laser beams church building (guy who has unprotected butt sex with random gay men talking about having an "orientation towards life") (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431438) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:31 PM Author: supple indirect expression You're ignoring the wabi-sabi-ness of existence. You spend the majority of your life in a state of becoming, not fully mature, and as soon as you reach the apogee of your physical, your mental form, in that instant you decline and degrade. But in the journey towards your "peak" you make friends, you gain knowledge, you love, and that happens afterwards as well, you take care of those coming after you, you mentor other people, you are the strong one there when hardship comes...you are not at your peak openness to life and experience when you are at your physical peak, that is when you are much younger, you are not strong and like a rock to your family and friends at your peak that comes when you are older, life isn't this simple progression from acorn to sapling to a tall tree that soon dies, it is you as a new and changing person every day, and I am a different man than I was when I was 12, and I'll be a different man at 38, but I loved my grandfather when he was old and frail, and I love my younger relatives though they are young and dumb, but there is constantly a becoming at whatever part of life you are at, the young are alive like the old are alive like those in their prime are alive, you don't lose your humanity ever for a second for how saggy or how bent or how fat you are. There is no looking back towards life. There is life now in every second and ahead until the end. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431446) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:32 PM Author: seedy mint laser beams church building really unfortunate that scholarship of this caliber is tainted by being located in a DTP subthread (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431462) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:43 PM Author: sticky state (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431530) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:47 PM Author: Puce nibblets i already agree with you that there's more to life than youth and attractiveness, and there is more to a partner than their looks.
however, it's untrue that looks don't matter to any significant degree, or that people "don't lose their humanity" as romantic partners as they get older or whatever other euphemisms you said.
now, if people simply said "i'm old, i acknowledge that my looks and my partner's looks are in no way comparable to someone who is younger, and i choose to value other things instead," then i would say fine. that's their choice, and it's rational.
instead, what i'm confused by is people who seemingly ARE still enamored by looks and attractiveness, but simply slide the scale of attractiveness along the age range, adapting for any conceivable standard of aging/obesity, and seem happy as a clam about the looks of their heavily balding / heavily obese partners, pretty much evincing the same qualitative joyfulness ABOUT looks that much younger people do. that's the bizarre aspect that confuses and confounds me.
most people do NOT go through some intense process of introspection and maturation and discard the importance of looks. they simply shoehorn america's 75% obesity rate into what it MEANs to "look good." that's what i don't get.
|
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:51 PM Author: supple indirect expression You're calling other people animals because they don't verbalize their philosophy of life, and maybe there is not much of an introspective process where they take their life into perspective and say "I'm okay with this now", but you are okay at verbalizing, introspecting, expounding on your philosophy, and you came to all the wrong conclusions anyways, so it's not like it matters either way. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431573) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 4:00 PM Author: Puce nibblets nah, that's where i disagree.
you basically assume that they've changed inside and live by the philosophy that looks don't matter.
i see some of the most IMMATURE specimens who are MOST prone to letting their standards slip. with these people (and they probably form the majority) i get the sense that if america becomes 100% morbidly obese, they would find some way to adapt their vision of what is "beautiful" and "good looking" to fit precisely with their new reality. and that is what is shocking to me: this unlimited adaptability and insensitivity.
you provide a good rationale for why looks shouldn't matter in an ideal world, perhaps a worldview that is lived by a small minority of zen masters. what unsettles me is everyone else, who are still creatures of a preening vain immaturity (cosmetic expenses go UP lol), who still prize beauty but find ways to rationalize the obscenely ugly as beautiful. |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 4:59 PM Author: flickering vivacious rigor ladyboy it's called a defense mechanism (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431890) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 2:59 PM Author: seedy mint laser beams church building the more I read your screeds the more I realize you have the testosterone level of a 95 year old man (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431216) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 2:59 PM Author: sticky state (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431218) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:01 PM Author: Puce nibblets can you explain this to me?
is it because i can appreciate that an overweight, blown out, aged woman is vastly inferior to a young petite girl, instead of happily sticking my dick in everything and finding maximal joy in every single vagina i'm able to fuck?
is that what counts as low-t to you? a discontentment with fucking the fatties and degenerates typically on offer around me? |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:05 PM Author: seedy mint laser beams church building I doubt if you had a "young petite girl," whatever kind of creepy semi-pedophilic shit that means, naked and ready to go in front of you that you could even get it up and perform.
your hormones and mental chemistry are so clearly out of the norm for a male your age you are probably beyond hope.
that's why I choose to believe you're schtick run by donny, because that makes the whole thing top 3 schticks on xo.
|
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:08 PM Author: Puce nibblets again, why do you infer that i wouldn't be able to get hard for a cute girl, or that my "mental chemistry" is out of whack because i constantly despair that 75% of americans are fat? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431263) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:09 PM Author: sticky state Tbf you’ve posted several times about instances where you couldn’t get it up (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431271) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:11 PM Author: Puce nibblets yeah that's true, i have mild ED and depression, and i did get my T-levels checked: they're on the lower side of normal, but nothing extraordinary.
i literally have normal-range T-levels and yet this poster and several others continually insinuate that i have the t-levels of an octagenerian or something, simply because i balk at the idea of fucking fatties.
what is it with US men and fucking fatties like it gives them a stamp of masculinity or something? so bizarre. |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:12 PM Author: seedy mint laser beams church building stopped reading this at "I have mild ED" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431304) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:14 PM Author: sticky state Cr Lol at this sad nowag with a dick that won’t work (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431321) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:16 PM Author: Puce nibblets your theory doesn't even make any sense.
neutered guys with low-T usually have lowered sex drives, and hence care less about female's sexuality. |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:18 PM Author: sticky state lol Wut? Maybe if ur dick worked u’d B more coherent (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431351) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:13 PM Author: kink-friendly pocket flask theater stage midwestern xians have no shame or affinity for looks. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431315) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:10 PM Author: seedy mint laser beams church building (Elliot Rodger wondering why people thought he was annoying and low-T) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431279) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:13 PM Author: Puce nibblets i literally got my T levels checked, and they're normal.
it's unconscionable that my masculinity is being attacked because i don't like fat chicks! |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:15 PM Author: seedy mint laser beams church building you find almost every woman who isn't BMI underweight disgusting and fat and can't understand why men would want to fuck them.
want to know why that is? because you're actually gay. you've even fucked men before and ostensibly kept it up/nutted in the process.
gays think women are repulsive. you just need to give up and find the training twink of your dreams. |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:17 PM Author: Puce nibblets your theory doesn't hold any weight.
the entire continent of asia thinks about women's attractiveness in pretty much the same way as i do.
you do realize that right? |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:18 PM Author: seedy mint laser beams church building (guy who has literally butt fucked other men and thinks most women are repulsive in denial about being gay) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431349) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:19 PM Author: Puce nibblets ?? you were saying that my preference for thin women was indicative of me being gay. i totally destroyed your argument when i pointed out that ALL people in non-fat countries prefer thin women. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431358) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:20 PM Author: seedy mint laser beams church building we are way beyond "argument" here, little breh. this is more like an intervention before you go on a spree shooting (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431361) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:22 PM Author: Razzmatazz Frisky Mad-dog Skullcap Headpube you’re like if caesar crossed the rubicon but then tried to go about his business like nothing happened. literally everything you say about heterosexual sex is invalid almost by definition (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431381) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:27 PM Author: Puce nibblets "every guy who's had sex with a man has nothing valuable to say about heterosexual relations"
totally wrong, but thanks for offering this turd of an insight in every thread |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:34 PM Author: Razzmatazz Frisky Mad-dog Skullcap Headpube we obviously differ on the implications of having had actual full on gay sex (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431474) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 4:33 PM Author: sticky state (Actual fag) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431760) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:10 PM Author: Razzmatazz Frisky Mad-dog Skullcap Headpube “i’m really fucking crazy and utterly confused about my sexuality. i’m still right and you’re wrong about random heterosexual dating norms.”
all of your posts make the above point much less efficiently. God bless you. |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:12 PM Author: Racy mischievous messiness "you know that their value is in constant flux and more precisely, in exponential decline"
i dont understand why people think you are a good writer. you are a hack writer.
to be fair, that is probably one of your worst sentences, and your most pathetic attempt at sounding grand. but its a symptom of the larger disease. your mental illness likely causes you to construct such laughably idiotic sentences. you can probably feel they are stupid but you cant help yourself. you keep trying to make your writing colorful, forceful, and grand, but at its core its quite frankly, mentally ill and deranged and juvenile. |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:15 PM Author: Puce nibblets can you tell me what's so bad about that phrase? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431329) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:18 PM Author: supple indirect expression lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431352) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:18 PM Author: Racy mischievous messiness and more precisely... in EXPONENTIAL DECLINE. like you were setting us up with the constant flux, and then you hit us with the decline. like you are shocking us into understanding your point or something? if you knew you were going to tell us that their value is in exponential decline, why first finger us with the in constant flux part? just give it to us straight, dont toy with me bitch. more precisely... ljl at that shit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431355) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:21 PM Author: Puce nibblets nah i don't agree. "in a state of change" adds something versus just telling you that they're dropping. because the quality of change itself is concerning and somewhat scary to me. then add on to that, that the change is marked DECLINE. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431375) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:22 PM Author: sticky state Very cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431380) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:17 PM Author: Poppy orchestra pit dopamine where can fat ugly people find people to date when 75% of the dating pool are fat and ugly? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431348) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:38 PM Author: Glittery Antidepressant Drug School Got an HJ from a new, 20 y/o redhead kyootie last night. Mid 30's bro. U mad? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431507) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:47 PM Author: sticky state (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431560) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:49 PM Author: Puce nibblets not really.
it wouldn't be satisfying to get sex from a cute young girl while knowing that i, myself, am old and gross. |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:51 PM Author: Razzmatazz Frisky Mad-dog Skullcap Headpube gay man would not enjoy sex with cute young girl for strange reasons. news at 11. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431577) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:52 PM Author: Glittery Antidepressant Drug School What if you got into great shape? Exercising, aggressive skin care regimen, nutritious diet, etc. Which by the way would make it more likely that you would get to bang cute young women. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431582) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 4:03 PM Author: Puce nibblets you're an insensitive white dolt. i don't expect you to understand that it's impossible for a 35 y/o to have the youthful glow of a 20 y/o, and any exorbitant attempt at mimicry is a sad display. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431626) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 4:08 PM Author: Glittery Antidepressant Drug School Not trying to spend all afternoon arguing with you, but wouldn't you rather be at least marginally less disgusting? Say, look late 20's at 35 even if you couldn't look 20 at 35? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431665) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 4:10 PM Author: Puce nibblets of course you should do the best with what you've still got. all i'm saying is that it's ridiculous to think you'll look good enough to justify having sex w/ 20 year olds without this weird disjointed sugar-daddy vibe, which is perverted and gross. hth (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431673) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:52 PM Author: chocolate talking twinkling uncleanness i'm mad on your behalf. she should have used her mouth (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431581) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 3:58 PM Author: Glittery Antidepressant Drug School TY bro. Hopefully I'll get there next time. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431605) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 4:04 PM Author: chocolate talking twinkling uncleanness by sexual encounter #2 you should be rawdogging her butthold in a dive bar mens room stall. she needs to pick up the pace here (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431631) |
|
Date: July 15th, 2018 10:36 PM Author: Puce nibblets (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36433837) |
|
Date: July 16th, 2018 12:55 AM Author: sooty mind-boggling institution lulzy thread (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36434759) |