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Divorcedmos of xo - were you blindsided by spouse unhappiness or affair?

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thirsty passionate hall
  08/08/18
Tell your story first.
multi-colored deep doctorate idiot
  08/08/18
No story to tell yet
thirsty passionate hall
  08/08/18
[space reserved]
titillating place of business
  08/08/18
Do you think she is having an affair?
thirsty passionate hall
  08/08/18
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misanthropic swashbuckling mood bawdyhouse
  08/08/18
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Wine erotic theater marketing idea
  08/09/18
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purple base
  11/24/19
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Electric impertinent fat ankles old irish cottage
  11/24/19
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arousing bistre shrine roommate
  11/25/19
I was surprised when she finally left but she had been becom...
Poppy forum
  08/08/18
In what ways was she showing this embitteredness?
thirsty passionate hall
  08/08/18
just increasingly treated me like shit all the time and espe...
Poppy forum
  08/08/18
That sucks.
thirsty passionate hall
  08/08/18
yeah I doubt your situation is as bad as mine was. add to th...
Poppy forum
  08/08/18
at least you tried bro
maroon yarmulke
  08/08/18
I tried very hard and would never have left as I don't belie...
Poppy forum
  08/08/18
This is a sad subthread
beady-eyed sable mediation
  08/08/18
PROTIP: Almost never apologize to a woman.
tantric nubile wrinkle
  08/08/18
Why?
Shimmering associate
  08/08/18
It signifies weakness. Women psychologically react poorly to...
tantric nubile wrinkle
  08/08/18
Word.
Big National Security Agency
  08/08/18
(unmarriedmo)
misunderstood twinkling field water buffalo
  08/11/19
I think I’ve told my wife I’m sorry maybe 15 tim...
insecure pearly round eye feces
  11/24/19
or a man for that matter
Marvelous Brunch
  08/11/19
What do you think made her become so bitter?
bipolar immigrant
  08/08/18
I can’t speak for him, but it’s usually jealousy of what oth...
tantric nubile wrinkle
  08/08/18
Is there a way to overcome this, or is a woman like that jus...
bipolar immigrant
  08/08/18
Once a woman’s switch is flipped against you, there’s no swi...
tantric nubile wrinkle
  08/08/18
it's kind of strange that you seem to really be interested i...
beady-eyed sable mediation
  08/08/18
Well, now that I've crossed the Rubicon of trying to date al...
bipolar immigrant
  08/08/18
don't overthink it
beady-eyed sable mediation
  08/08/18
I don't have much else to do, alas.
bipolar immigrant
  08/08/18
keep in mind that XO bad marriage/divorce stories always see...
beady-eyed sable mediation
  08/08/18
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floppy cruise ship
  08/11/19
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Red orchestra pit rigor
  11/24/19
It’s good to be aware of all this stuff involved with modern...
tantric nubile wrinkle
  08/08/18
Yikes.
bipolar immigrant
  08/08/18
Yeah, I’m not proud of it. Shows the effects modern dating c...
tantric nubile wrinkle
  08/08/18
Eat. Pray. Love.
multi-colored deep doctorate idiot
  08/08/18
Ugh. Had no idea what its plot was. Just looked it up and, y...
tantric nubile wrinkle
  08/08/18
btw the "loser" first husband who doesn't have car...
salmon juggernaut reading party
  08/08/18
she divorced the second husband as well. she then "marr...
Razzle-dazzle citrine nowag business firm
  08/08/18
Will never read the book, & if I come across the movie o...
tantric nubile wrinkle
  08/08/18
You’d kill yourself too if married to an awful narciss...
Electric impertinent fat ankles old irish cottage
  11/24/19
How long have you been divorced? How's dating been since th...
Adventurous stag film
  08/08/18
been separate for 8 months. still not divorced as there are ...
Poppy forum
  08/08/18
that is awful
Big National Security Agency
  08/08/18
Oh hi me
Stimulating Maize Pit
  08/11/19
was there cheating involved?
obsidian temple volcanic crater
  08/08/18
no. not on my part at least and I seriously doubt on her par...
Poppy forum
  08/08/18
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lemon incel hissy fit
  08/08/18
Women are usually known for concealing their unhappiness fro...
maroon yarmulke
  08/08/18
I doubt that it’s 100%.
thirsty passionate hall
  08/08/18
I knew she was down but actually divorcing was something I d...
embarrassed to the bone native love of her life
  08/08/18
Can you talk about her being down and how she broke the news...
thirsty passionate hall
  08/08/18
Aren’t you having a 180 post divorce singlemo experience?
alcoholic irate property
  08/08/18
Not really, modern dating is a nightmarish hellscape. I've s...
embarrassed to the bone native love of her life
  08/08/18
Was the noreplypwn from the crazy monkey paw chick?
bipolar immigrant
  08/08/18
No, just a 2.5 hr app date. Monkey's paw is still in the pic...
embarrassed to the bone native love of her life
  08/08/18
180
arousing bistre shrine roommate
  11/25/19
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alcoholic irate property
  08/08/18
Hellish
Stimulating Maize Pit
  08/11/19
You must be incredibly good looking and the toast of BIGYAKI...
Red orchestra pit rigor
  11/24/19
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Crusty Senate
  11/25/19
When you're in the middle of it, most people tend to be in d...
dashing burgundy factory reset button library
  08/08/18
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comical mischievous principal's office
  08/08/18
That's just because they are results oriented morons.
multi-colored deep doctorate idiot
  08/08/18
To be fair, there's all kinds of research that people delude...
Spectacular dun school windowlicker
  08/08/18
Why does thread assume it is spouse and not poaster who init...
Vivacious Henna Circlehead Black Woman
  08/08/18
Women usually initiate divorce and most posters are men. On...
thirsty passionate hall
  08/08/18
Vast majority of poasters are men, vast majority of divorces...
aromatic dilemma pocket flask
  08/08/18
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Shimmering associate
  08/08/18
lol something we should discuss?
aromatic dilemma pocket flask
  08/08/18
You tell me.
Shimmering associate
  08/08/18
Lmaooo
bossy aquamarine messiness deer antler
  08/08/18
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bipolar immigrant
  08/08/18
"Most of the men here who are stuck in unhappy marriage...
multi-colored deep doctorate idiot
  08/08/18
I didn't read that as expressing contempt for the fathers.
Exhilarant startling corner
  08/08/18
Seriously wtf
aromatic dilemma pocket flask
  08/08/18
get a job. your current situation is contemptible.
beady-eyed sable mediation
  11/25/19
How much did the divorce rape your finances?
Talented deranged faggotry shitlib
  08/08/18
lol at wife havers. what a waste.
thriller site
  08/08/18
Almost every divorce I’ve seen goes the same. Guy thinks bri...
Umber Bateful Gaming Laptop
  08/08/18
Isn't it more common that the wife went to shit too and the ...
embarrassed to the bone native love of her life
  08/08/18
Yeah the guys are almost always losers in their own way. A ...
Umber Bateful Gaming Laptop
  08/08/18
"A lot of time wife will send out feelers post divorce ...
Wine erotic theater marketing idea
  08/09/18
It means they try to cozy up with their ex husbands
Umber Bateful Gaming Laptop
  08/09/18
Why
Wine erotic theater marketing idea
  08/09/18
Because the only reason they divorced was a gush of confiden...
fragrant slate piazza
  11/24/19
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pink federal trailer park
  11/24/19
lol what kind of mentally ill lib nonsense is this. lit...
salmon juggernaut reading party
  08/08/18
They’re acceptable enough to devastate their husbands when t...
Umber Bateful Gaming Laptop
  08/08/18
kill yourself
salmon juggernaut reading party
  08/08/18
tcr
Wine erotic theater marketing idea
  08/09/18
Lol no
boyish range
  11/24/19
Love dies. Nobody tell you that. But that's a fact. And a ma...
Idiotic Azn
  08/09/18
180 man, I love it when you hit us with DAT introspection.
arousing bistre shrine roommate
  11/25/19
No, she gained 60lbs, constantly bitched about work and was ...
Copper shivering area dopamine
  08/15/18
did you get ALIMONYPWNED based on an assumption that you cou...
Coral karate
  08/15/18
no luckily she had the decency not to ask for that. i got a ...
Copper shivering area dopamine
  08/15/18
I'm just imagining you as Collin Farrell in that scene from ...
Bearded Zippy Church Building
  08/15/18
Sounds CR
Electric impertinent fat ankles old irish cottage
  11/24/19
LOL so you pretend to be Australian.
arousing bistre shrine roommate
  11/25/19
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thirsty passionate hall
  08/11/19
oh cool Sunday morning on xo...
angry regret
  11/24/19
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purple base
  11/24/19
Nah. We separated first.
fragrant slate piazza
  11/24/19
no we spent endless time in couples counseling before separa...
Topaz ladyboy locale
  11/24/19
Yes. Completely blindsided
brindle autistic stage twinkling uncleanness
  11/24/19
describe
Stimulating Maize Pit
  11/25/19
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purple base
  11/25/19


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Date: August 8th, 2018 1:56 PM
Author: thirsty passionate hall



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578723)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 1:57 PM
Author: multi-colored deep doctorate idiot

Tell your story first.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578728)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:03 PM
Author: thirsty passionate hall

No story to tell yet

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578761)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:04 PM
Author: titillating place of business

[space reserved]

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578763)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:10 PM
Author: thirsty passionate hall

Do you think she is having an affair?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578804)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:30 PM
Author: misanthropic swashbuckling mood bawdyhouse



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578931)



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Date: August 9th, 2018 11:46 AM
Author: Wine erotic theater marketing idea



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36585330)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:04 PM
Author: purple base



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165178)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:46 PM
Author: Electric impertinent fat ankles old irish cottage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165378)



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Date: November 25th, 2019 4:21 AM
Author: arousing bistre shrine roommate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39168093)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:05 PM
Author: Poppy forum

I was surprised when she finally left but she had been becoming increasingly embittered toward me for a while and probably never *really* loved me to begin with

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578770)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:07 PM
Author: thirsty passionate hall

In what ways was she showing this embitteredness?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578789)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:11 PM
Author: Poppy forum

just increasingly treated me like shit all the time and especially when her family was around. constantly getting pissed about me not doing things right with regard to parenting. made a comment that she wished she hadn't moved so fast in getting married and having a kid with me. would lash out on major holidays such as valentines day and my birthday and never gave a shit to do anything nice to begin with. before she started acting like this she was at least occasionally pleasant and loving

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578816)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:13 PM
Author: thirsty passionate hall

That sucks.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578825)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:14 PM
Author: Poppy forum

yeah I doubt your situation is as bad as mine was. add to this that I would occasionally come home blackout from work happy hours (once every 3-6 months) because it was my only respite as she and I stopped having fun together long ago and she was like fuck it i'm out

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578837)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:15 PM
Author: maroon yarmulke

at least you tried bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578839)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:18 PM
Author: Poppy forum

I tried very hard and would never have left as I don't believe in divorce. sorry became the word I said most. I showed her affection and was constantly planning dates and whatnot. but she just wasn't having any of it and probably hated me. it hurt to have someone tell you they essentially didn't love you but what can you do just gotta move on and at least dottirdoodette is in the picture. she and I are best buds

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578857)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:41 PM
Author: beady-eyed sable mediation

This is a sad subthread

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579020)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:48 PM
Author: tantric nubile wrinkle

PROTIP: Almost never apologize to a woman.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579102)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:55 PM
Author: Shimmering associate

Why?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579146)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:06 PM
Author: tantric nubile wrinkle

It signifies weakness. Women psychologically react poorly to hearing men say “sorry” even if they think they want to hear it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579219)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:08 PM
Author: Big National Security Agency

Word.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579232)



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Date: August 11th, 2019 11:53 AM
Author: misunderstood twinkling field water buffalo

(unmarriedmo)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#38669941)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:51 PM
Author: insecure pearly round eye feces

I think I’ve told my wife I’m sorry maybe 15 times in 7 years

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165396)



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Date: August 11th, 2019 11:53 AM
Author: Marvelous Brunch

or a man for that matter

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#38669949)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:11 PM
Author: bipolar immigrant

What do you think made her become so bitter?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579246)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:19 PM
Author: tantric nubile wrinkle

I can’t speak for him, but it’s usually jealousy of what other women have and/or the feeling that there isn’t much more in her life that holds promise for a more exciting future. So she gets jaded & resentful. The thrill of a new relationship & new life are gone, so she’s not getting the same rush of hormones she used to get.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579303)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:20 PM
Author: bipolar immigrant

Is there a way to overcome this, or is a woman like that just busted?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579311)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:49 PM
Author: tantric nubile wrinkle

Once a woman’s switch is flipped against you, there’s no switching it back. Her mind is made up. Probably the only chance would be after you have truly moved on to something better, which is the premise of Swingers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579513)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:20 PM
Author: beady-eyed sable mediation

it's kind of strange that you seem to really be interested in this topic

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579760)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:30 PM
Author: bipolar immigrant

Well, now that I've crossed the Rubicon of trying to date all this shit is pretty important to know and not fuck up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579872)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:44 PM
Author: beady-eyed sable mediation

don't overthink it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36580013)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:45 PM
Author: bipolar immigrant

I don't have much else to do, alas.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36580031)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 6:34 PM
Author: beady-eyed sable mediation

keep in mind that XO bad marriage/divorce stories always seem to involve the guy being this perfect angel whose only fault is that he says I love you too much and the women is always some perpetually angry, irrational, cold hearted wombat. not saying big dog's wife isn't a miserable selfish bitch but he's also probably not as awesome as he thinks he is. he probably is a passive aggressive detail obsessed little prick but because he spends his days surrounded by jew lawyers he thinks thats just how people act.

take it all with a grain of salt

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36581019)



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Date: August 11th, 2019 11:53 AM
Author: floppy cruise ship



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#38669942)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:44 PM
Author: Red orchestra pit rigor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165371)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 6:19 PM
Author: tantric nubile wrinkle

It’s good to be aware of all this stuff involved with modern dating, & you seem a good & eager student.

But, beware, it can also give you paralysis by analysis.

I’m about to stand up a date just because I dread going through with the ordeal, & I’m a guy who had pretty good success in the past. I also think I look like shit today. Never confirmed it with her anyway so hopefully she doesn’t show.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36580912)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 6:26 PM
Author: bipolar immigrant

Yikes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36580959)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 6:33 PM
Author: tantric nubile wrinkle

Yeah, I’m not proud of it. Shows the effects modern dating can have on people. A lot of it is that first dates in one’s late 30s are simply sad & degrading, & I’m not a fan of degrading myself in public places.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36581016)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:24 PM
Author: multi-colored deep doctorate idiot

Eat. Pray. Love.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579337)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:58 PM
Author: tantric nubile wrinkle

Ugh. Had no idea what its plot was. Just looked it up and, yes, pretty much sums up the modern white woman.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579582)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:23 PM
Author: salmon juggernaut reading party

btw the "loser" first husband who doesn't have career ambition or whatever is a tenured human rights scholar at Georgetown law center

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579790)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:40 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle citrine nowag business firm

she divorced the second husband as well. she then "married" a third guy, who died.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579966)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 6:22 PM
Author: tantric nubile wrinkle

Will never read the book, & if I come across the movie on tv I think I’d throw the remote through it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36580929)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:50 PM
Author: Electric impertinent fat ankles old irish cottage

You’d kill yourself too if married to an awful narcissist like Elizabeth Gilbert

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165389)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:16 PM
Author: Adventurous stag film

How long have you been divorced? How's dating been since the divorce?

Having issues finding never-married chicks ok with your divorce?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578845)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:26 PM
Author: Poppy forum

been separate for 8 months. still not divorced as there are a bunch of issues to work through before we can finalize. dating has been fine for the most part. exclusively using apps but need to meet girls irl like at a country club or something. feel like prospects will be higher quality there. I saw one girl for like three months but decided it wasn't working. now seing another one with promise. i'm a pretty in shape dude with a good job and a house and all this stability so maybe that helps. that said, every 1 in 3 girls is like nah i'm good with having a step kid. but I don't go any too many random dates to begin with not enough time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578904)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:46 PM
Author: Big National Security Agency

that is awful

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579080)



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Date: August 11th, 2019 11:49 AM
Author: Stimulating Maize Pit

Oh hi me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#38669930)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:21 PM
Author: obsidian temple volcanic crater

was there cheating involved?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578872)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:21 PM
Author: Poppy forum

no. not on my part at least and I seriously doubt on her part either

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578875)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:07 PM
Author: lemon incel hissy fit



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:10 PM
Author: maroon yarmulke

Women are usually known for concealing their unhappiness from their spouse, so I would think the answer is almost always yes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578801)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:10 PM
Author: thirsty passionate hall

I doubt that it’s 100%.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578808)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:14 PM
Author: embarrassed to the bone native love of her life

I knew she was down but actually divorcing was something I didn't see coming.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578838)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:16 PM
Author: thirsty passionate hall

Can you talk about her being down and how she broke the news?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578844)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:30 PM
Author: alcoholic irate property

Aren’t you having a 180 post divorce singlemo experience?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578925)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:57 PM
Author: embarrassed to the bone native love of her life

Not really, modern dating is a nightmarish hellscape. I've slept with some really attractive women, but too sporadically and with too much annoyance and effort for it to have been worthwhile on the whole.

Plus, the options are pretty bad in the small city I'm in now because apps are pretty dead and I don't like going out much (nor would I be likely to meet someone my type "out"). Basically when I know I have a hearing or depo in one of the bigger cities a couple of hours away, I swipe there a ton with the idea of setting up a date or two. Usually I don't bother to chat with or meet my matches because they seem incredibly boring and indistinguishable from each other.

The last 7 or so chicks I had met (some that were poasted about here) have either slept with me, asked me out again, directly asked me to be their boyfriend, etc. Then a few weeks ago when I was out of town, I FINALLY met a chick I had a really good connection with and I got noreplypwned after a date that seemed to to well. In retrospect I probably said some stupid shit because I had only slept 3 hrs the night before and didn't really have a filter, but I didn't want to cancel.

So that's kind of how it is. I'll probably get a date with a chick who is a good match for me every 6-12 months. Doesn't take many missed chances like that to be done here, and potentially settle for someone I find unsatisfying in some critical respect.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579154)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:12 PM
Author: bipolar immigrant

Was the noreplypwn from the crazy monkey paw chick?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579249)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:10 PM
Author: embarrassed to the bone native love of her life

No, just a 2.5 hr app date. Monkey's paw is still in the picture lobbying to be my GF, as is another chick who is pretty attractive and would be a good match for me but for the fact that she's a single mom and way too obsessed with her kid (overprotective helicopter parent).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579676)



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Date: November 25th, 2019 4:37 AM
Author: arousing bistre shrine roommate

180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39168097)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:44 PM
Author: alcoholic irate property



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579465)



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Date: August 11th, 2019 11:52 AM
Author: Stimulating Maize Pit

Hellish

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#38669939)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:52 PM
Author: Red orchestra pit rigor

You must be incredibly good looking and the toast of BIGYAKIMALAW if women are willing to overlook you substantial autism.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165402)



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Date: November 25th, 2019 3:50 AM
Author: Crusty Senate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39168063)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:31 PM
Author: dashing burgundy factory reset button library

When you're in the middle of it, most people tend to be in denial, but after the fact, when they can objectively reflect, most seem to to not be surprised it happened.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578936)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:12 PM
Author: comical mischievous principal's office



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579248)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:12 PM
Author: multi-colored deep doctorate idiot

That's just because they are results oriented morons.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579252)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 6:34 PM
Author: Spectacular dun school windowlicker

To be fair, there's all kinds of research that people delude themselves AFTER something happens to fit whatever happened into their "story". So at least a good percentage of those who suddenly realize a year later that it "made sense" are just deluding themselves after the fact. Depressing but true.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36581018)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:35 PM
Author: Vivacious Henna Circlehead Black Woman

Why does thread assume it is spouse and not poaster who initiated?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578971)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:37 PM
Author: thirsty passionate hall

Women usually initiate divorce and most posters are men. Only interested in that situation, but please share the opposite if you would like for the benefit of the scholarship.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578986)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:38 PM
Author: aromatic dilemma pocket flask

Vast majority of poasters are men, vast majority of divorces are initiated by women. Most of the men here who are stuck in unhappy marriages refuse to initiate b/c of kids or money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578989)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:44 PM
Author: Shimmering associate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579057)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:45 PM
Author: aromatic dilemma pocket flask

lol something we should discuss?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579066)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:45 PM
Author: Shimmering associate

You tell me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579068)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:46 PM
Author: bossy aquamarine messiness deer antler

Lmaooo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579077)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:12 PM
Author: bipolar immigrant



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579254)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:05 PM
Author: multi-colored deep doctorate idiot

"Most of the men here who are stuck in unhappy marriages refuse to initiate b/c of kids"

LOL @ describing braving miserable conditions for a cause greater than yourself as contemptible.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579212)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:19 PM
Author: Exhilarant startling corner

I didn't read that as expressing contempt for the fathers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579301)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:27 PM
Author: aromatic dilemma pocket flask

Seriously wtf

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579353)



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Date: November 25th, 2019 11:27 AM
Author: beady-eyed sable mediation

get a job. your current situation is contemptible.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39169202)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:16 PM
Author: Talented deranged faggotry shitlib

How much did the divorce rape your finances?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579281)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:22 PM
Author: thriller site

lol at wife havers. what a waste.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579328)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:41 PM
Author: Umber Bateful Gaming Laptop

Almost every divorce I’ve seen goes the same. Guy thinks bringing in cash and being a ‘good father’ is enough and he gets fat and lazy. Wife blindsides him after sleeping with some young stud

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579434)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:12 PM
Author: embarrassed to the bone native love of her life

Isn't it more common that the wife went to shit too and the guy she banged is pretty mediocre (as opposed to a young stud) ?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579694)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:44 PM
Author: Umber Bateful Gaming Laptop

Yeah the guys are almost always losers in their own way. A lot of time wife will send out feelers post divorce as well

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36580016)



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Date: August 9th, 2018 11:46 AM
Author: Wine erotic theater marketing idea

"A lot of time wife will send out feelers post divorce as well"

What does this mean?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36585324)



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Date: August 9th, 2018 3:52 PM
Author: Umber Bateful Gaming Laptop

It means they try to cozy up with their ex husbands

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36587021)



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Date: August 9th, 2018 9:16 PM
Author: Wine erotic theater marketing idea

Why

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36588717)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:31 PM
Author: fragrant slate piazza

Because the only reason they divorced was a gush of confidence from getting dicked by a man “better” than their husband. Confidence fades once they divorce and realize that they will never actually get in a relationship with someone as good as their husband ever again.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165304)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:56 PM
Author: pink federal trailer park



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165423)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:17 PM
Author: salmon juggernaut reading party

lol what kind of mentally ill lib nonsense is this.

literally zero women initiating divorce meet the BARE MINIMUM of acceptable wife behavior from two generations ago

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579730)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:42 PM
Author: Umber Bateful Gaming Laptop

They’re acceptable enough to devastate their husbands when they head for more fertile pastures

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579993)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 6:26 PM
Author: salmon juggernaut reading party

kill yourself

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36580960)



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Date: August 9th, 2018 9:17 PM
Author: Wine erotic theater marketing idea

tcr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36588722)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:06 PM
Author: boyish range

Lol no

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165193)



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Date: August 9th, 2018 9:19 PM
Author: Idiotic Azn

Love dies. Nobody tell you that. But that's a fact. And a marriage without love is a marriage made in hell. One day, you decide to end to pain of union, for better rather than worse.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36588740)



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Date: November 25th, 2019 4:49 AM
Author: arousing bistre shrine roommate

180 man, I love it when you hit us with DAT introspection.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39168104)



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Date: August 15th, 2018 12:01 AM
Author: Copper shivering area dopamine

No, she gained 60lbs, constantly bitched about work and was always "sick" w some ailment or another.

i ran through my BIGLAW salary drinking my face off and smoking pot and basically had to be fucked up to function civilly around her which never failed to descend into fights every weekend.

divorce and BIGLAWSHITCANNING were the biggest reliefs of my life. we were actually pretty polite to one another through the process

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36618791)



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Date: August 15th, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: Coral karate

did you get ALIMONYPWNED based on an assumption that you could cop dat biglaw salary forever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36618852)



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Date: August 15th, 2018 4:56 PM
Author: Copper shivering area dopamine

no luckily she had the decency not to ask for that. i got a decent severance, moved back to CA and dicked around for 2 months living in my parents rent property before sobering up and even bothering to send a resume out.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36622357)



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Date: August 15th, 2018 5:01 PM
Author: Bearded Zippy Church Building

I'm just imagining you as Collin Farrell in that scene from S2 of True Detective where he's railing coke and chugging whiskey in that shitty apartment like an animal

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36622386)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:53 PM
Author: Electric impertinent fat ankles old irish cottage

Sounds CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165403)



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Date: November 25th, 2019 4:53 AM
Author: arousing bistre shrine roommate

LOL so you pretend to be Australian.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39168107)



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Date: August 11th, 2019 11:37 AM
Author: thirsty passionate hall



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#38669898)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:08 PM
Author: angry regret

oh cool Sunday morning on xo...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165209)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:22 PM
Author: purple base



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165269)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:33 PM
Author: fragrant slate piazza

Nah. We separated first.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165309)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:46 PM
Author: Topaz ladyboy locale

no we spent endless time in couples counseling before separating. it was a slow downward slog.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165379)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:55 PM
Author: brindle autistic stage twinkling uncleanness

Yes. Completely blindsided

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165416)



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Date: November 25th, 2019 4:39 AM
Author: Stimulating Maize Pit

describe

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39168098)



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Date: November 25th, 2019 11:21 AM
Author: purple base



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39169169)