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Divorcedmos of xo - were you blindsided by spouse unhappiness or affair?

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cyan soul-stirring piazza famous landscape painting
  08/08/18
Tell your story first.
chrome senate
  08/08/18
No story to tell yet
cyan soul-stirring piazza famous landscape painting
  08/08/18
[space reserved]
stirring puce meetinghouse hissy fit
  08/08/18
Do you think she is having an affair?
cyan soul-stirring piazza famous landscape painting
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Wild Address Boiling Water
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peach bespoke station degenerate
  11/25/19
I was surprised when she finally left but she had been becom...
bossy chocolate chapel
  08/08/18
In what ways was she showing this embitteredness?
cyan soul-stirring piazza famous landscape painting
  08/08/18
just increasingly treated me like shit all the time and espe...
bossy chocolate chapel
  08/08/18
That sucks.
cyan soul-stirring piazza famous landscape painting
  08/08/18
yeah I doubt your situation is as bad as mine was. add to th...
bossy chocolate chapel
  08/08/18
at least you tried bro
Milky forum boistinker
  08/08/18
I tried very hard and would never have left as I don't belie...
bossy chocolate chapel
  08/08/18
This is a sad subthread
Slippery navy center
  08/08/18
PROTIP: Almost never apologize to a woman.
pearly market
  08/08/18
Why?
orchid pontificating hall mad-dog skullcap
  08/08/18
It signifies weakness. Women psychologically react poorly to...
pearly market
  08/08/18
Word.
Chartreuse church
  08/08/18
(unmarriedmo)
up-to-no-good stimulating feces stag film
  08/11/19
I think I’ve told my wife I’m sorry maybe 15 tim...
wine appetizing site crotch
  11/24/19
or a man for that matter
Hideous titillating blood rage office
  08/11/19
What do you think made her become so bitter?
indecent space potus
  08/08/18
I can’t speak for him, but it’s usually jealousy of what oth...
pearly market
  08/08/18
Is there a way to overcome this, or is a woman like that jus...
indecent space potus
  08/08/18
Once a woman’s switch is flipped against you, there’s no swi...
pearly market
  08/08/18
it's kind of strange that you seem to really be interested i...
Slippery navy center
  08/08/18
Well, now that I've crossed the Rubicon of trying to date al...
indecent space potus
  08/08/18
don't overthink it
Slippery navy center
  08/08/18
I don't have much else to do, alas.
indecent space potus
  08/08/18
keep in mind that XO bad marriage/divorce stories always see...
Slippery navy center
  08/08/18
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Ruby community account elastic band
  11/24/19
It’s good to be aware of all this stuff involved with modern...
pearly market
  08/08/18
Yikes.
indecent space potus
  08/08/18
Yeah, I’m not proud of it. Shows the effects modern dating c...
pearly market
  08/08/18
Eat. Pray. Love.
chrome senate
  08/08/18
Ugh. Had no idea what its plot was. Just looked it up and, y...
pearly market
  08/08/18
btw the "loser" first husband who doesn't have car...
Aggressive amethyst alpha resort
  08/08/18
she divorced the second husband as well. she then "marr...
soggy vivacious death wish depressive
  08/08/18
Will never read the book, & if I come across the movie o...
pearly market
  08/08/18
You’d kill yourself too if married to an awful narciss...
magenta impertinent jewess church building
  11/24/19
How long have you been divorced? How's dating been since th...
infuriating snowy location background story
  08/08/18
been separate for 8 months. still not divorced as there are ...
bossy chocolate chapel
  08/08/18
that is awful
Chartreuse church
  08/08/18
Oh hi me
Curious cheese-eating athletic conference ape
  08/11/19
was there cheating involved?
Orange sick love of her life circlehead
  08/08/18
no. not on my part at least and I seriously doubt on her par...
bossy chocolate chapel
  08/08/18
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Beady-eyed fishy candlestick maker menage
  08/08/18
Women are usually known for concealing their unhappiness fro...
Milky forum boistinker
  08/08/18
I doubt that it’s 100%.
cyan soul-stirring piazza famous landscape painting
  08/08/18
I knew she was down but actually divorcing was something I d...
flickering idea he suggested
  08/08/18
Can you talk about her being down and how she broke the news...
cyan soul-stirring piazza famous landscape painting
  08/08/18
Aren’t you having a 180 post divorce singlemo experience?
supple pocket flask puppy
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Not really, modern dating is a nightmarish hellscape. I've s...
flickering idea he suggested
  08/08/18
Was the noreplypwn from the crazy monkey paw chick?
indecent space potus
  08/08/18
No, just a 2.5 hr app date. Monkey's paw is still in the pic...
flickering idea he suggested
  08/08/18
180
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supple pocket flask puppy
  08/08/18
Hellish
Curious cheese-eating athletic conference ape
  08/11/19
You must be incredibly good looking and the toast of BIGYAKI...
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When you're in the middle of it, most people tend to be in d...
tripping point trust fund
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That's just because they are results oriented morons.
chrome senate
  08/08/18
To be fair, there's all kinds of research that people delude...
Maize step-uncle's house lettuce
  08/08/18
Why does thread assume it is spouse and not poaster who init...
Hairraiser purple pisswyrm
  08/08/18
Women usually initiate divorce and most posters are men. On...
cyan soul-stirring piazza famous landscape painting
  08/08/18
Vast majority of poasters are men, vast majority of divorces...
Iridescent Persian Locus
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orchid pontificating hall mad-dog skullcap
  08/08/18
lol something we should discuss?
Iridescent Persian Locus
  08/08/18
You tell me.
orchid pontificating hall mad-dog skullcap
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Lmaooo
Charismatic spot
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indecent space potus
  08/08/18
"Most of the men here who are stuck in unhappy marriage...
chrome senate
  08/08/18
I didn't read that as expressing contempt for the fathers.
Heady clear nursing home
  08/08/18
Seriously wtf
Iridescent Persian Locus
  08/08/18
get a job. your current situation is contemptible.
Slippery navy center
  11/25/19
How much did the divorce rape your finances?
aphrodisiac electric furnace
  08/08/18
lol at wife havers. what a waste.
Big hell
  08/08/18
Almost every divorce I’ve seen goes the same. Guy thinks bri...
Opaque theatre mexican
  08/08/18
Isn't it more common that the wife went to shit too and the ...
flickering idea he suggested
  08/08/18
Yeah the guys are almost always losers in their own way. A ...
Opaque theatre mexican
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"A lot of time wife will send out feelers post divorce ...
useless sneaky criminal pistol
  08/09/18
It means they try to cozy up with their ex husbands
Opaque theatre mexican
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Why
useless sneaky criminal pistol
  08/09/18
Because the only reason they divorced was a gush of confiden...
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Dark cruise ship
  11/24/19
lol what kind of mentally ill lib nonsense is this. lit...
Aggressive amethyst alpha resort
  08/08/18
They’re acceptable enough to devastate their husbands when t...
Opaque theatre mexican
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kill yourself
Aggressive amethyst alpha resort
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tcr
useless sneaky criminal pistol
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Lol no
fear-inspiring pit telephone
  11/24/19
Love dies. Nobody tell you that. But that's a fact. And a ma...
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  08/09/18
180 man, I love it when you hit us with DAT introspection.
peach bespoke station degenerate
  11/25/19
No, she gained 60lbs, constantly bitched about work and was ...
henna irate rehab police squad
  08/15/18
did you get ALIMONYPWNED based on an assumption that you cou...
Frum laser beams
  08/15/18
no luckily she had the decency not to ask for that. i got a ...
henna irate rehab police squad
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I'm just imagining you as Collin Farrell in that scene from ...
well-lubricated stage
  08/15/18
Sounds CR
magenta impertinent jewess church building
  11/24/19
LOL so you pretend to be Australian.
peach bespoke station degenerate
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cyan soul-stirring piazza famous landscape painting
  08/11/19
oh cool Sunday morning on xo...
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Wild Address Boiling Water
  11/24/19
Nah. We separated first.
chestnut newt indian lodge
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no we spent endless time in couples counseling before separa...
Wonderful casino
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Yes. Completely blindsided
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  11/24/19
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Date: August 8th, 2018 1:56 PM
Author: cyan soul-stirring piazza famous landscape painting



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578723)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 1:57 PM
Author: chrome senate

Tell your story first.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578728)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:03 PM
Author: cyan soul-stirring piazza famous landscape painting

No story to tell yet

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578761)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:04 PM
Author: stirring puce meetinghouse hissy fit

[space reserved]

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578763)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:10 PM
Author: cyan soul-stirring piazza famous landscape painting

Do you think she is having an affair?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578804)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:30 PM
Author: bonkers cracking organic girlfriend milk



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578931)



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Date: August 9th, 2018 11:46 AM
Author: useless sneaky criminal pistol



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36585330)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:04 PM
Author: Wild Address Boiling Water



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165178)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:46 PM
Author: magenta impertinent jewess church building



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165378)



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Date: November 25th, 2019 4:21 AM
Author: peach bespoke station degenerate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39168093)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:05 PM
Author: bossy chocolate chapel

I was surprised when she finally left but she had been becoming increasingly embittered toward me for a while and probably never *really* loved me to begin with

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578770)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:07 PM
Author: cyan soul-stirring piazza famous landscape painting

In what ways was she showing this embitteredness?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578789)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:11 PM
Author: bossy chocolate chapel

just increasingly treated me like shit all the time and especially when her family was around. constantly getting pissed about me not doing things right with regard to parenting. made a comment that she wished she hadn't moved so fast in getting married and having a kid with me. would lash out on major holidays such as valentines day and my birthday and never gave a shit to do anything nice to begin with. before she started acting like this she was at least occasionally pleasant and loving

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578816)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:13 PM
Author: cyan soul-stirring piazza famous landscape painting

That sucks.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578825)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:14 PM
Author: bossy chocolate chapel

yeah I doubt your situation is as bad as mine was. add to this that I would occasionally come home blackout from work happy hours (once every 3-6 months) because it was my only respite as she and I stopped having fun together long ago and she was like fuck it i'm out

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578837)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:15 PM
Author: Milky forum boistinker

at least you tried bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578839)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:18 PM
Author: bossy chocolate chapel

I tried very hard and would never have left as I don't believe in divorce. sorry became the word I said most. I showed her affection and was constantly planning dates and whatnot. but she just wasn't having any of it and probably hated me. it hurt to have someone tell you they essentially didn't love you but what can you do just gotta move on and at least dottirdoodette is in the picture. she and I are best buds

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578857)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:41 PM
Author: Slippery navy center

This is a sad subthread

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579020)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:48 PM
Author: pearly market

PROTIP: Almost never apologize to a woman.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579102)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:55 PM
Author: orchid pontificating hall mad-dog skullcap

Why?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579146)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:06 PM
Author: pearly market

It signifies weakness. Women psychologically react poorly to hearing men say “sorry” even if they think they want to hear it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579219)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:08 PM
Author: Chartreuse church

Word.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579232)



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Date: August 11th, 2019 11:53 AM
Author: up-to-no-good stimulating feces stag film

(unmarriedmo)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#38669941)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:51 PM
Author: wine appetizing site crotch

I think I’ve told my wife I’m sorry maybe 15 times in 7 years

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165396)



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Date: August 11th, 2019 11:53 AM
Author: Hideous titillating blood rage office

or a man for that matter

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#38669949)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:11 PM
Author: indecent space potus

What do you think made her become so bitter?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579246)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:19 PM
Author: pearly market

I can’t speak for him, but it’s usually jealousy of what other women have and/or the feeling that there isn’t much more in her life that holds promise for a more exciting future. So she gets jaded & resentful. The thrill of a new relationship & new life are gone, so she’s not getting the same rush of hormones she used to get.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579303)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:20 PM
Author: indecent space potus

Is there a way to overcome this, or is a woman like that just busted?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579311)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:49 PM
Author: pearly market

Once a woman’s switch is flipped against you, there’s no switching it back. Her mind is made up. Probably the only chance would be after you have truly moved on to something better, which is the premise of Swingers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579513)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:20 PM
Author: Slippery navy center

it's kind of strange that you seem to really be interested in this topic

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579760)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:30 PM
Author: indecent space potus

Well, now that I've crossed the Rubicon of trying to date all this shit is pretty important to know and not fuck up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579872)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:44 PM
Author: Slippery navy center

don't overthink it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36580013)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:45 PM
Author: indecent space potus

I don't have much else to do, alas.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36580031)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 6:34 PM
Author: Slippery navy center

keep in mind that XO bad marriage/divorce stories always seem to involve the guy being this perfect angel whose only fault is that he says I love you too much and the women is always some perpetually angry, irrational, cold hearted wombat. not saying big dog's wife isn't a miserable selfish bitch but he's also probably not as awesome as he thinks he is. he probably is a passive aggressive detail obsessed little prick but because he spends his days surrounded by jew lawyers he thinks thats just how people act.

take it all with a grain of salt

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36581019)



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Date: August 11th, 2019 11:53 AM
Author: carmine misanthropic useless brakes



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#38669942)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:44 PM
Author: Ruby community account elastic band



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165371)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 6:19 PM
Author: pearly market

It’s good to be aware of all this stuff involved with modern dating, & you seem a good & eager student.

But, beware, it can also give you paralysis by analysis.

I’m about to stand up a date just because I dread going through with the ordeal, & I’m a guy who had pretty good success in the past. I also think I look like shit today. Never confirmed it with her anyway so hopefully she doesn’t show.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36580912)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 6:26 PM
Author: indecent space potus

Yikes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36580959)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 6:33 PM
Author: pearly market

Yeah, I’m not proud of it. Shows the effects modern dating can have on people. A lot of it is that first dates in one’s late 30s are simply sad & degrading, & I’m not a fan of degrading myself in public places.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36581016)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:24 PM
Author: chrome senate

Eat. Pray. Love.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579337)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:58 PM
Author: pearly market

Ugh. Had no idea what its plot was. Just looked it up and, yes, pretty much sums up the modern white woman.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579582)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:23 PM
Author: Aggressive amethyst alpha resort

btw the "loser" first husband who doesn't have career ambition or whatever is a tenured human rights scholar at Georgetown law center

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579790)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:40 PM
Author: soggy vivacious death wish depressive

she divorced the second husband as well. she then "married" a third guy, who died.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579966)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 6:22 PM
Author: pearly market

Will never read the book, & if I come across the movie on tv I think I’d throw the remote through it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36580929)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:50 PM
Author: magenta impertinent jewess church building

You’d kill yourself too if married to an awful narcissist like Elizabeth Gilbert

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165389)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:16 PM
Author: infuriating snowy location background story

How long have you been divorced? How's dating been since the divorce?

Having issues finding never-married chicks ok with your divorce?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578845)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:26 PM
Author: bossy chocolate chapel

been separate for 8 months. still not divorced as there are a bunch of issues to work through before we can finalize. dating has been fine for the most part. exclusively using apps but need to meet girls irl like at a country club or something. feel like prospects will be higher quality there. I saw one girl for like three months but decided it wasn't working. now seing another one with promise. i'm a pretty in shape dude with a good job and a house and all this stability so maybe that helps. that said, every 1 in 3 girls is like nah i'm good with having a step kid. but I don't go any too many random dates to begin with not enough time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578904)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:46 PM
Author: Chartreuse church

that is awful

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579080)



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Date: August 11th, 2019 11:49 AM
Author: Curious cheese-eating athletic conference ape

Oh hi me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#38669930)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:21 PM
Author: Orange sick love of her life circlehead

was there cheating involved?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578872)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:21 PM
Author: bossy chocolate chapel

no. not on my part at least and I seriously doubt on her part either

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578875)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:07 PM
Author: Beady-eyed fishy candlestick maker menage



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:10 PM
Author: Milky forum boistinker

Women are usually known for concealing their unhappiness from their spouse, so I would think the answer is almost always yes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578801)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:10 PM
Author: cyan soul-stirring piazza famous landscape painting

I doubt that it’s 100%.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578808)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:14 PM
Author: flickering idea he suggested

I knew she was down but actually divorcing was something I didn't see coming.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578838)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:16 PM
Author: cyan soul-stirring piazza famous landscape painting

Can you talk about her being down and how she broke the news?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578844)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:30 PM
Author: supple pocket flask puppy

Aren’t you having a 180 post divorce singlemo experience?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578925)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:57 PM
Author: flickering idea he suggested

Not really, modern dating is a nightmarish hellscape. I've slept with some really attractive women, but too sporadically and with too much annoyance and effort for it to have been worthwhile on the whole.

Plus, the options are pretty bad in the small city I'm in now because apps are pretty dead and I don't like going out much (nor would I be likely to meet someone my type "out"). Basically when I know I have a hearing or depo in one of the bigger cities a couple of hours away, I swipe there a ton with the idea of setting up a date or two. Usually I don't bother to chat with or meet my matches because they seem incredibly boring and indistinguishable from each other.

The last 7 or so chicks I had met (some that were poasted about here) have either slept with me, asked me out again, directly asked me to be their boyfriend, etc. Then a few weeks ago when I was out of town, I FINALLY met a chick I had a really good connection with and I got noreplypwned after a date that seemed to to well. In retrospect I probably said some stupid shit because I had only slept 3 hrs the night before and didn't really have a filter, but I didn't want to cancel.

So that's kind of how it is. I'll probably get a date with a chick who is a good match for me every 6-12 months. Doesn't take many missed chances like that to be done here, and potentially settle for someone I find unsatisfying in some critical respect.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579154)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:12 PM
Author: indecent space potus

Was the noreplypwn from the crazy monkey paw chick?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579249)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:10 PM
Author: flickering idea he suggested

No, just a 2.5 hr app date. Monkey's paw is still in the picture lobbying to be my GF, as is another chick who is pretty attractive and would be a good match for me but for the fact that she's a single mom and way too obsessed with her kid (overprotective helicopter parent).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579676)



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Date: November 25th, 2019 4:37 AM
Author: peach bespoke station degenerate

180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39168097)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:44 PM
Author: supple pocket flask puppy



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579465)



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Date: August 11th, 2019 11:52 AM
Author: Curious cheese-eating athletic conference ape

Hellish

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#38669939)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:52 PM
Author: Ruby community account elastic band

You must be incredibly good looking and the toast of BIGYAKIMALAW if women are willing to overlook you substantial autism.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165402)



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Date: November 25th, 2019 3:50 AM
Author: ruddy vigorous round eye shrine



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39168063)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:31 PM
Author: tripping point trust fund

When you're in the middle of it, most people tend to be in denial, but after the fact, when they can objectively reflect, most seem to to not be surprised it happened.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578936)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:12 PM
Author: Crawly Juggernaut Tank



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579248)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:12 PM
Author: chrome senate

That's just because they are results oriented morons.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579252)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 6:34 PM
Author: Maize step-uncle's house lettuce

To be fair, there's all kinds of research that people delude themselves AFTER something happens to fit whatever happened into their "story". So at least a good percentage of those who suddenly realize a year later that it "made sense" are just deluding themselves after the fact. Depressing but true.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36581018)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:35 PM
Author: Hairraiser purple pisswyrm

Why does thread assume it is spouse and not poaster who initiated?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578971)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:37 PM
Author: cyan soul-stirring piazza famous landscape painting

Women usually initiate divorce and most posters are men. Only interested in that situation, but please share the opposite if you would like for the benefit of the scholarship.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578986)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:38 PM
Author: Iridescent Persian Locus

Vast majority of poasters are men, vast majority of divorces are initiated by women. Most of the men here who are stuck in unhappy marriages refuse to initiate b/c of kids or money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578989)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:44 PM
Author: orchid pontificating hall mad-dog skullcap



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579057)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:45 PM
Author: Iridescent Persian Locus

lol something we should discuss?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579066)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:45 PM
Author: orchid pontificating hall mad-dog skullcap

You tell me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579068)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:46 PM
Author: Charismatic spot

Lmaooo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579077)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:12 PM
Author: indecent space potus



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579254)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:05 PM
Author: chrome senate

"Most of the men here who are stuck in unhappy marriages refuse to initiate b/c of kids"

LOL @ describing braving miserable conditions for a cause greater than yourself as contemptible.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579212)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:19 PM
Author: Heady clear nursing home

I didn't read that as expressing contempt for the fathers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579301)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:27 PM
Author: Iridescent Persian Locus

Seriously wtf

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579353)



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Date: November 25th, 2019 11:27 AM
Author: Slippery navy center

get a job. your current situation is contemptible.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39169202)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:16 PM
Author: aphrodisiac electric furnace

How much did the divorce rape your finances?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579281)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:22 PM
Author: Big hell

lol at wife havers. what a waste.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579328)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:41 PM
Author: Opaque theatre mexican

Almost every divorce I’ve seen goes the same. Guy thinks bringing in cash and being a ‘good father’ is enough and he gets fat and lazy. Wife blindsides him after sleeping with some young stud

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579434)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:12 PM
Author: flickering idea he suggested

Isn't it more common that the wife went to shit too and the guy she banged is pretty mediocre (as opposed to a young stud) ?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579694)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:44 PM
Author: Opaque theatre mexican

Yeah the guys are almost always losers in their own way. A lot of time wife will send out feelers post divorce as well

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36580016)



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Date: August 9th, 2018 11:46 AM
Author: useless sneaky criminal pistol

"A lot of time wife will send out feelers post divorce as well"

What does this mean?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36585324)



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Date: August 9th, 2018 3:52 PM
Author: Opaque theatre mexican

It means they try to cozy up with their ex husbands

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36587021)



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Date: August 9th, 2018 9:16 PM
Author: useless sneaky criminal pistol

Why

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36588717)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:31 PM
Author: chestnut newt indian lodge

Because the only reason they divorced was a gush of confidence from getting dicked by a man “better” than their husband. Confidence fades once they divorce and realize that they will never actually get in a relationship with someone as good as their husband ever again.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165304)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:56 PM
Author: Dark cruise ship



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165423)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:17 PM
Author: Aggressive amethyst alpha resort

lol what kind of mentally ill lib nonsense is this.

literally zero women initiating divorce meet the BARE MINIMUM of acceptable wife behavior from two generations ago

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579730)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:42 PM
Author: Opaque theatre mexican

They’re acceptable enough to devastate their husbands when they head for more fertile pastures

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579993)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 6:26 PM
Author: Aggressive amethyst alpha resort

kill yourself

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36580960)



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Date: August 9th, 2018 9:17 PM
Author: useless sneaky criminal pistol

tcr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36588722)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:06 PM
Author: fear-inspiring pit telephone

Lol no

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165193)



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Date: August 9th, 2018 9:19 PM
Author: awkward vibrant azn lay

Love dies. Nobody tell you that. But that's a fact. And a marriage without love is a marriage made in hell. One day, you decide to end to pain of union, for better rather than worse.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36588740)



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Date: November 25th, 2019 4:49 AM
Author: peach bespoke station degenerate

180 man, I love it when you hit us with DAT introspection.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39168104)



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Date: August 15th, 2018 12:01 AM
Author: henna irate rehab police squad

No, she gained 60lbs, constantly bitched about work and was always "sick" w some ailment or another.

i ran through my BIGLAW salary drinking my face off and smoking pot and basically had to be fucked up to function civilly around her which never failed to descend into fights every weekend.

divorce and BIGLAWSHITCANNING were the biggest reliefs of my life. we were actually pretty polite to one another through the process

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36618791)



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Date: August 15th, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: Frum laser beams

did you get ALIMONYPWNED based on an assumption that you could cop dat biglaw salary forever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36618852)



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Date: August 15th, 2018 4:56 PM
Author: henna irate rehab police squad

no luckily she had the decency not to ask for that. i got a decent severance, moved back to CA and dicked around for 2 months living in my parents rent property before sobering up and even bothering to send a resume out.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36622357)



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Date: August 15th, 2018 5:01 PM
Author: well-lubricated stage

I'm just imagining you as Collin Farrell in that scene from S2 of True Detective where he's railing coke and chugging whiskey in that shitty apartment like an animal

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36622386)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:53 PM
Author: magenta impertinent jewess church building

Sounds CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165403)



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Date: November 25th, 2019 4:53 AM
Author: peach bespoke station degenerate

LOL so you pretend to be Australian.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39168107)



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Date: August 11th, 2019 11:37 AM
Author: cyan soul-stirring piazza famous landscape painting



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#38669898)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:08 PM
Author: Smoky mewling sound barrier gas station

oh cool Sunday morning on xo...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165209)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:22 PM
Author: Wild Address Boiling Water



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165269)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:33 PM
Author: chestnut newt indian lodge

Nah. We separated first.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165309)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:46 PM
Author: Wonderful casino

no we spent endless time in couples counseling before separating. it was a slow downward slog.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165379)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:55 PM
Author: Swashbuckling narrow-minded temple people who are hurt

Yes. Completely blindsided

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165416)



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Date: November 25th, 2019 4:39 AM
Author: Curious cheese-eating athletic conference ape

describe

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39168098)



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Date: November 25th, 2019 11:21 AM
Author: Wild Address Boiling Water



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39169169)