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Divorcedmos of xo - were you blindsided by spouse unhappiness or affair?

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Pearly Pontificating Meetinghouse Alpha
  08/08/18
Tell your story first.
Territorial Tantric Roast Beef Hall
  08/08/18
No story to tell yet
Pearly Pontificating Meetinghouse Alpha
  08/08/18
[space reserved]
confused state
  08/08/18
Do you think she is having an affair?
Pearly Pontificating Meetinghouse Alpha
  08/08/18
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Snowy Diverse Gas Station
  08/08/18
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Costumed mauve kitchen
  08/09/18
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Razzmatazz lavender jewess spot
  11/24/19
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fighting slate turdskin partner
  11/24/19
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Zombie-like House Trust Fund
  11/25/19
I was surprised when she finally left but she had been becom...
pungent home background story
  08/08/18
In what ways was she showing this embitteredness?
Pearly Pontificating Meetinghouse Alpha
  08/08/18
just increasingly treated me like shit all the time and espe...
pungent home background story
  08/08/18
That sucks.
Pearly Pontificating Meetinghouse Alpha
  08/08/18
yeah I doubt your situation is as bad as mine was. add to th...
pungent home background story
  08/08/18
at least you tried bro
Honey-headed Mischievous Place Of Business
  08/08/18
I tried very hard and would never have left as I don't belie...
pungent home background story
  08/08/18
This is a sad subthread
amethyst athletic conference
  08/08/18
PROTIP: Almost never apologize to a woman.
glittery sadistic idiot
  08/08/18
Why?
Emerald bonkers theater stage rigpig
  08/08/18
It signifies weakness. Women psychologically react poorly to...
glittery sadistic idiot
  08/08/18
Word.
exciting stage
  08/08/18
(unmarriedmo)
Vermilion Dilemma
  08/11/19
I think I’ve told my wife I’m sorry maybe 15 tim...
Charismatic heaven
  11/24/19
or a man for that matter
Copper galvanic plaza mad-dog skullcap
  08/11/19
What do you think made her become so bitter?
thriller roommate
  08/08/18
I can’t speak for him, but it’s usually jealousy of what oth...
glittery sadistic idiot
  08/08/18
Is there a way to overcome this, or is a woman like that jus...
thriller roommate
  08/08/18
Once a woman’s switch is flipped against you, there’s no swi...
glittery sadistic idiot
  08/08/18
it's kind of strange that you seem to really be interested i...
amethyst athletic conference
  08/08/18
Well, now that I've crossed the Rubicon of trying to date al...
thriller roommate
  08/08/18
don't overthink it
amethyst athletic conference
  08/08/18
I don't have much else to do, alas.
thriller roommate
  08/08/18
keep in mind that XO bad marriage/divorce stories always see...
amethyst athletic conference
  08/08/18
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Bat-shit-crazy bossy location national security agency
  08/11/19
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Zippy pit multi-billionaire
  11/24/19
It’s good to be aware of all this stuff involved with modern...
glittery sadistic idiot
  08/08/18
Yikes.
thriller roommate
  08/08/18
Yeah, I’m not proud of it. Shows the effects modern dating c...
glittery sadistic idiot
  08/08/18
Eat. Pray. Love.
Territorial Tantric Roast Beef Hall
  08/08/18
Ugh. Had no idea what its plot was. Just looked it up and, y...
glittery sadistic idiot
  08/08/18
btw the "loser" first husband who doesn't have car...
Gaped avocado corner yarmulke
  08/08/18
she divorced the second husband as well. she then "marr...
olive locus
  08/08/18
Will never read the book, & if I come across the movie o...
glittery sadistic idiot
  08/08/18
You’d kill yourself too if married to an awful narciss...
fighting slate turdskin partner
  11/24/19
How long have you been divorced? How's dating been since th...
Indigo motley goyim
  08/08/18
been separate for 8 months. still not divorced as there are ...
pungent home background story
  08/08/18
that is awful
exciting stage
  08/08/18
Oh hi me
khaki menage
  08/11/19
was there cheating involved?
Azure Passionate Headpube Gaping
  08/08/18
no. not on my part at least and I seriously doubt on her par...
pungent home background story
  08/08/18
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Flushed Yapping Whorehouse Legal Warrant
  08/08/18
Women are usually known for concealing their unhappiness fro...
Honey-headed Mischievous Place Of Business
  08/08/18
I doubt that it’s 100%.
Pearly Pontificating Meetinghouse Alpha
  08/08/18
I knew she was down but actually divorcing was something I d...
Dashing Peach Rigor
  08/08/18
Can you talk about her being down and how she broke the news...
Pearly Pontificating Meetinghouse Alpha
  08/08/18
Aren’t you having a 180 post divorce singlemo experience?
translucent bateful private investor
  08/08/18
Not really, modern dating is a nightmarish hellscape. I've s...
Dashing Peach Rigor
  08/08/18
Was the noreplypwn from the crazy monkey paw chick?
thriller roommate
  08/08/18
No, just a 2.5 hr app date. Monkey's paw is still in the pic...
Dashing Peach Rigor
  08/08/18
180
Zombie-like House Trust Fund
  11/25/19
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translucent bateful private investor
  08/08/18
Hellish
khaki menage
  08/11/19
You must be incredibly good looking and the toast of BIGYAKI...
Zippy pit multi-billionaire
  11/24/19
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Pale nowag piazza
  11/25/19
When you're in the middle of it, most people tend to be in d...
hilarious jew
  08/08/18
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Spectacular canary sanctuary water buffalo
  08/08/18
That's just because they are results oriented morons.
Territorial Tantric Roast Beef Hall
  08/08/18
To be fair, there's all kinds of research that people delude...
Electric Metal Indirect Expression Legend
  08/08/18
Why does thread assume it is spouse and not poaster who init...
Beta fortuitous meteor
  08/08/18
Women usually initiate divorce and most posters are men. On...
Pearly Pontificating Meetinghouse Alpha
  08/08/18
Vast majority of poasters are men, vast majority of divorces...
Dun space
  08/08/18
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Emerald bonkers theater stage rigpig
  08/08/18
lol something we should discuss?
Dun space
  08/08/18
You tell me.
Emerald bonkers theater stage rigpig
  08/08/18
Lmaooo
seedy black base round eye
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thriller roommate
  08/08/18
"Most of the men here who are stuck in unhappy marriage...
Territorial Tantric Roast Beef Hall
  08/08/18
I didn't read that as expressing contempt for the fathers.
Outnumbered Cruise Ship Affirmative Action
  08/08/18
Seriously wtf
Dun space
  08/08/18
get a job. your current situation is contemptible.
amethyst athletic conference
  11/25/19
How much did the divorce rape your finances?
Amber Bat Shit Crazy Foreskin Old Irish Cottage
  08/08/18
lol at wife havers. what a waste.
buff mind-boggling range
  08/08/18
Almost every divorce I’ve seen goes the same. Guy thinks bri...
well-lubricated sickened incel
  08/08/18
Isn't it more common that the wife went to shit too and the ...
Dashing Peach Rigor
  08/08/18
Yeah the guys are almost always losers in their own way. A ...
well-lubricated sickened incel
  08/08/18
"A lot of time wife will send out feelers post divorce ...
Costumed mauve kitchen
  08/09/18
It means they try to cozy up with their ex husbands
well-lubricated sickened incel
  08/09/18
Why
Costumed mauve kitchen
  08/09/18
Because the only reason they divorced was a gush of confiden...
concupiscible set
  11/24/19
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light autistic site
  11/24/19
lol what kind of mentally ill lib nonsense is this. lit...
Gaped avocado corner yarmulke
  08/08/18
They’re acceptable enough to devastate their husbands when t...
well-lubricated sickened incel
  08/08/18
kill yourself
Gaped avocado corner yarmulke
  08/08/18
tcr
Costumed mauve kitchen
  08/09/18
Lol no
mustard ticket booth electric furnace
  11/24/19
Love dies. Nobody tell you that. But that's a fact. And a ma...
Saffron voyeur
  08/09/18
180 man, I love it when you hit us with DAT introspection.
Zombie-like House Trust Fund
  11/25/19
No, she gained 60lbs, constantly bitched about work and was ...
Soul-stirring Aquamarine Kitty Cat Rehab
  08/15/18
did you get ALIMONYPWNED based on an assumption that you cou...
orange vigorous giraffe love of her life
  08/15/18
no luckily she had the decency not to ask for that. i got a ...
Soul-stirring Aquamarine Kitty Cat Rehab
  08/15/18
I'm just imagining you as Collin Farrell in that scene from ...
racy yellow windowlicker resort
  08/15/18
Sounds CR
fighting slate turdskin partner
  11/24/19
LOL so you pretend to be Australian.
Zombie-like House Trust Fund
  11/25/19
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Pearly Pontificating Meetinghouse Alpha
  08/11/19
oh cool Sunday morning on xo...
Violent deer antler abode
  11/24/19
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Razzmatazz lavender jewess spot
  11/24/19
Nah. We separated first.
concupiscible set
  11/24/19
no we spent endless time in couples counseling before separa...
gold irradiated coffee pot
  11/24/19
Yes. Completely blindsided
carnelian duck-like hunting ground
  11/24/19
describe
khaki menage
  11/25/19
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Razzmatazz lavender jewess spot
  11/25/19


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Date: August 8th, 2018 1:56 PM
Author: Pearly Pontificating Meetinghouse Alpha



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578723)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 1:57 PM
Author: Territorial Tantric Roast Beef Hall

Tell your story first.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578728)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:03 PM
Author: Pearly Pontificating Meetinghouse Alpha

No story to tell yet

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578761)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:04 PM
Author: confused state

[space reserved]

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578763)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:10 PM
Author: Pearly Pontificating Meetinghouse Alpha

Do you think she is having an affair?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578804)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:30 PM
Author: Snowy Diverse Gas Station



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578931)



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Date: August 9th, 2018 11:46 AM
Author: Costumed mauve kitchen



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36585330)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:04 PM
Author: Razzmatazz lavender jewess spot



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165178)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:46 PM
Author: fighting slate turdskin partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165378)



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Date: November 25th, 2019 4:21 AM
Author: Zombie-like House Trust Fund



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39168093)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:05 PM
Author: pungent home background story

I was surprised when she finally left but she had been becoming increasingly embittered toward me for a while and probably never *really* loved me to begin with

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578770)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:07 PM
Author: Pearly Pontificating Meetinghouse Alpha

In what ways was she showing this embitteredness?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578789)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:11 PM
Author: pungent home background story

just increasingly treated me like shit all the time and especially when her family was around. constantly getting pissed about me not doing things right with regard to parenting. made a comment that she wished she hadn't moved so fast in getting married and having a kid with me. would lash out on major holidays such as valentines day and my birthday and never gave a shit to do anything nice to begin with. before she started acting like this she was at least occasionally pleasant and loving

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578816)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:13 PM
Author: Pearly Pontificating Meetinghouse Alpha

That sucks.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578825)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:14 PM
Author: pungent home background story

yeah I doubt your situation is as bad as mine was. add to this that I would occasionally come home blackout from work happy hours (once every 3-6 months) because it was my only respite as she and I stopped having fun together long ago and she was like fuck it i'm out

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578837)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:15 PM
Author: Honey-headed Mischievous Place Of Business

at least you tried bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578839)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:18 PM
Author: pungent home background story

I tried very hard and would never have left as I don't believe in divorce. sorry became the word I said most. I showed her affection and was constantly planning dates and whatnot. but she just wasn't having any of it and probably hated me. it hurt to have someone tell you they essentially didn't love you but what can you do just gotta move on and at least dottirdoodette is in the picture. she and I are best buds

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578857)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:41 PM
Author: amethyst athletic conference

This is a sad subthread

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579020)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:48 PM
Author: glittery sadistic idiot

PROTIP: Almost never apologize to a woman.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579102)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:55 PM
Author: Emerald bonkers theater stage rigpig

Why?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579146)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:06 PM
Author: glittery sadistic idiot

It signifies weakness. Women psychologically react poorly to hearing men say “sorry” even if they think they want to hear it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579219)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:08 PM
Author: exciting stage

Word.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579232)



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Date: August 11th, 2019 11:53 AM
Author: Vermilion Dilemma

(unmarriedmo)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#38669941)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:51 PM
Author: Charismatic heaven

I think I’ve told my wife I’m sorry maybe 15 times in 7 years

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165396)



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Date: August 11th, 2019 11:53 AM
Author: Copper galvanic plaza mad-dog skullcap

or a man for that matter

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#38669949)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:11 PM
Author: thriller roommate

What do you think made her become so bitter?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579246)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:19 PM
Author: glittery sadistic idiot

I can’t speak for him, but it’s usually jealousy of what other women have and/or the feeling that there isn’t much more in her life that holds promise for a more exciting future. So she gets jaded & resentful. The thrill of a new relationship & new life are gone, so she’s not getting the same rush of hormones she used to get.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579303)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:20 PM
Author: thriller roommate

Is there a way to overcome this, or is a woman like that just busted?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579311)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:49 PM
Author: glittery sadistic idiot

Once a woman’s switch is flipped against you, there’s no switching it back. Her mind is made up. Probably the only chance would be after you have truly moved on to something better, which is the premise of Swingers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579513)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:20 PM
Author: amethyst athletic conference

it's kind of strange that you seem to really be interested in this topic

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579760)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:30 PM
Author: thriller roommate

Well, now that I've crossed the Rubicon of trying to date all this shit is pretty important to know and not fuck up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579872)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:44 PM
Author: amethyst athletic conference

don't overthink it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36580013)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:45 PM
Author: thriller roommate

I don't have much else to do, alas.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36580031)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 6:34 PM
Author: amethyst athletic conference

keep in mind that XO bad marriage/divorce stories always seem to involve the guy being this perfect angel whose only fault is that he says I love you too much and the women is always some perpetually angry, irrational, cold hearted wombat. not saying big dog's wife isn't a miserable selfish bitch but he's also probably not as awesome as he thinks he is. he probably is a passive aggressive detail obsessed little prick but because he spends his days surrounded by jew lawyers he thinks thats just how people act.

take it all with a grain of salt

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36581019)



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Date: August 11th, 2019 11:53 AM
Author: Bat-shit-crazy bossy location national security agency



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#38669942)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:44 PM
Author: Zippy pit multi-billionaire



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165371)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 6:19 PM
Author: glittery sadistic idiot

It’s good to be aware of all this stuff involved with modern dating, & you seem a good & eager student.

But, beware, it can also give you paralysis by analysis.

I’m about to stand up a date just because I dread going through with the ordeal, & I’m a guy who had pretty good success in the past. I also think I look like shit today. Never confirmed it with her anyway so hopefully she doesn’t show.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36580912)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 6:26 PM
Author: thriller roommate

Yikes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36580959)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 6:33 PM
Author: glittery sadistic idiot

Yeah, I’m not proud of it. Shows the effects modern dating can have on people. A lot of it is that first dates in one’s late 30s are simply sad & degrading, & I’m not a fan of degrading myself in public places.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36581016)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:24 PM
Author: Territorial Tantric Roast Beef Hall

Eat. Pray. Love.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579337)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:58 PM
Author: glittery sadistic idiot

Ugh. Had no idea what its plot was. Just looked it up and, yes, pretty much sums up the modern white woman.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579582)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:23 PM
Author: Gaped avocado corner yarmulke

btw the "loser" first husband who doesn't have career ambition or whatever is a tenured human rights scholar at Georgetown law center

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579790)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:40 PM
Author: olive locus

she divorced the second husband as well. she then "married" a third guy, who died.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579966)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 6:22 PM
Author: glittery sadistic idiot

Will never read the book, & if I come across the movie on tv I think I’d throw the remote through it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36580929)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:50 PM
Author: fighting slate turdskin partner

You’d kill yourself too if married to an awful narcissist like Elizabeth Gilbert

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165389)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:16 PM
Author: Indigo motley goyim

How long have you been divorced? How's dating been since the divorce?

Having issues finding never-married chicks ok with your divorce?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578845)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:26 PM
Author: pungent home background story

been separate for 8 months. still not divorced as there are a bunch of issues to work through before we can finalize. dating has been fine for the most part. exclusively using apps but need to meet girls irl like at a country club or something. feel like prospects will be higher quality there. I saw one girl for like three months but decided it wasn't working. now seing another one with promise. i'm a pretty in shape dude with a good job and a house and all this stability so maybe that helps. that said, every 1 in 3 girls is like nah i'm good with having a step kid. but I don't go any too many random dates to begin with not enough time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578904)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:46 PM
Author: exciting stage

that is awful

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579080)



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Date: August 11th, 2019 11:49 AM
Author: khaki menage

Oh hi me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#38669930)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:21 PM
Author: Azure Passionate Headpube Gaping

was there cheating involved?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578872)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:21 PM
Author: pungent home background story

no. not on my part at least and I seriously doubt on her part either

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578875)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:07 PM
Author: Flushed Yapping Whorehouse Legal Warrant



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578784)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:10 PM
Author: Honey-headed Mischievous Place Of Business

Women are usually known for concealing their unhappiness from their spouse, so I would think the answer is almost always yes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578801)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:10 PM
Author: Pearly Pontificating Meetinghouse Alpha

I doubt that it’s 100%.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578808)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:14 PM
Author: Dashing Peach Rigor

I knew she was down but actually divorcing was something I didn't see coming.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578838)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:16 PM
Author: Pearly Pontificating Meetinghouse Alpha

Can you talk about her being down and how she broke the news?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578844)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:30 PM
Author: translucent bateful private investor

Aren’t you having a 180 post divorce singlemo experience?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578925)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:57 PM
Author: Dashing Peach Rigor

Not really, modern dating is a nightmarish hellscape. I've slept with some really attractive women, but too sporadically and with too much annoyance and effort for it to have been worthwhile on the whole.

Plus, the options are pretty bad in the small city I'm in now because apps are pretty dead and I don't like going out much (nor would I be likely to meet someone my type "out"). Basically when I know I have a hearing or depo in one of the bigger cities a couple of hours away, I swipe there a ton with the idea of setting up a date or two. Usually I don't bother to chat with or meet my matches because they seem incredibly boring and indistinguishable from each other.

The last 7 or so chicks I had met (some that were poasted about here) have either slept with me, asked me out again, directly asked me to be their boyfriend, etc. Then a few weeks ago when I was out of town, I FINALLY met a chick I had a really good connection with and I got noreplypwned after a date that seemed to to well. In retrospect I probably said some stupid shit because I had only slept 3 hrs the night before and didn't really have a filter, but I didn't want to cancel.

So that's kind of how it is. I'll probably get a date with a chick who is a good match for me every 6-12 months. Doesn't take many missed chances like that to be done here, and potentially settle for someone I find unsatisfying in some critical respect.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579154)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:12 PM
Author: thriller roommate

Was the noreplypwn from the crazy monkey paw chick?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579249)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:10 PM
Author: Dashing Peach Rigor

No, just a 2.5 hr app date. Monkey's paw is still in the picture lobbying to be my GF, as is another chick who is pretty attractive and would be a good match for me but for the fact that she's a single mom and way too obsessed with her kid (overprotective helicopter parent).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579676)



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Date: November 25th, 2019 4:37 AM
Author: Zombie-like House Trust Fund

180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39168097)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:44 PM
Author: translucent bateful private investor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579465)



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Date: August 11th, 2019 11:52 AM
Author: khaki menage

Hellish

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#38669939)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:52 PM
Author: Zippy pit multi-billionaire

You must be incredibly good looking and the toast of BIGYAKIMALAW if women are willing to overlook you substantial autism.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165402)



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Date: November 25th, 2019 3:50 AM
Author: Pale nowag piazza



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39168063)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:31 PM
Author: hilarious jew

When you're in the middle of it, most people tend to be in denial, but after the fact, when they can objectively reflect, most seem to to not be surprised it happened.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578936)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:12 PM
Author: Spectacular canary sanctuary water buffalo



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579248)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:12 PM
Author: Territorial Tantric Roast Beef Hall

That's just because they are results oriented morons.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579252)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 6:34 PM
Author: Electric Metal Indirect Expression Legend

To be fair, there's all kinds of research that people delude themselves AFTER something happens to fit whatever happened into their "story". So at least a good percentage of those who suddenly realize a year later that it "made sense" are just deluding themselves after the fact. Depressing but true.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36581018)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:35 PM
Author: Beta fortuitous meteor

Why does thread assume it is spouse and not poaster who initiated?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578971)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:37 PM
Author: Pearly Pontificating Meetinghouse Alpha

Women usually initiate divorce and most posters are men. Only interested in that situation, but please share the opposite if you would like for the benefit of the scholarship.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578986)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:38 PM
Author: Dun space

Vast majority of poasters are men, vast majority of divorces are initiated by women. Most of the men here who are stuck in unhappy marriages refuse to initiate b/c of kids or money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578989)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:44 PM
Author: Emerald bonkers theater stage rigpig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579057)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:45 PM
Author: Dun space

lol something we should discuss?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579066)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:45 PM
Author: Emerald bonkers theater stage rigpig

You tell me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579068)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:46 PM
Author: seedy black base round eye

Lmaooo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579077)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:12 PM
Author: thriller roommate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579254)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:05 PM
Author: Territorial Tantric Roast Beef Hall

"Most of the men here who are stuck in unhappy marriages refuse to initiate b/c of kids"

LOL @ describing braving miserable conditions for a cause greater than yourself as contemptible.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579212)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:19 PM
Author: Outnumbered Cruise Ship Affirmative Action

I didn't read that as expressing contempt for the fathers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579301)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:27 PM
Author: Dun space

Seriously wtf

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579353)



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Date: November 25th, 2019 11:27 AM
Author: amethyst athletic conference

get a job. your current situation is contemptible.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39169202)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:16 PM
Author: Amber Bat Shit Crazy Foreskin Old Irish Cottage

How much did the divorce rape your finances?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579281)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:22 PM
Author: buff mind-boggling range

lol at wife havers. what a waste.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579328)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:41 PM
Author: well-lubricated sickened incel

Almost every divorce I’ve seen goes the same. Guy thinks bringing in cash and being a ‘good father’ is enough and he gets fat and lazy. Wife blindsides him after sleeping with some young stud

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579434)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:12 PM
Author: Dashing Peach Rigor

Isn't it more common that the wife went to shit too and the guy she banged is pretty mediocre (as opposed to a young stud) ?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579694)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:44 PM
Author: well-lubricated sickened incel

Yeah the guys are almost always losers in their own way. A lot of time wife will send out feelers post divorce as well

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36580016)



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Date: August 9th, 2018 11:46 AM
Author: Costumed mauve kitchen

"A lot of time wife will send out feelers post divorce as well"

What does this mean?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36585324)



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Date: August 9th, 2018 3:52 PM
Author: well-lubricated sickened incel

It means they try to cozy up with their ex husbands

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36587021)



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Date: August 9th, 2018 9:16 PM
Author: Costumed mauve kitchen

Why

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36588717)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:31 PM
Author: concupiscible set

Because the only reason they divorced was a gush of confidence from getting dicked by a man “better” than their husband. Confidence fades once they divorce and realize that they will never actually get in a relationship with someone as good as their husband ever again.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165304)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:56 PM
Author: light autistic site



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165423)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:17 PM
Author: Gaped avocado corner yarmulke

lol what kind of mentally ill lib nonsense is this.

literally zero women initiating divorce meet the BARE MINIMUM of acceptable wife behavior from two generations ago

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579730)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:42 PM
Author: well-lubricated sickened incel

They’re acceptable enough to devastate their husbands when they head for more fertile pastures

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579993)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 6:26 PM
Author: Gaped avocado corner yarmulke

kill yourself

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36580960)



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Date: August 9th, 2018 9:17 PM
Author: Costumed mauve kitchen

tcr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36588722)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:06 PM
Author: mustard ticket booth electric furnace

Lol no

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165193)



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Date: August 9th, 2018 9:19 PM
Author: Saffron voyeur

Love dies. Nobody tell you that. But that's a fact. And a marriage without love is a marriage made in hell. One day, you decide to end to pain of union, for better rather than worse.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36588740)



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Date: November 25th, 2019 4:49 AM
Author: Zombie-like House Trust Fund

180 man, I love it when you hit us with DAT introspection.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39168104)



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Date: August 15th, 2018 12:01 AM
Author: Soul-stirring Aquamarine Kitty Cat Rehab

No, she gained 60lbs, constantly bitched about work and was always "sick" w some ailment or another.

i ran through my BIGLAW salary drinking my face off and smoking pot and basically had to be fucked up to function civilly around her which never failed to descend into fights every weekend.

divorce and BIGLAWSHITCANNING were the biggest reliefs of my life. we were actually pretty polite to one another through the process

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36618791)



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Date: August 15th, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: orange vigorous giraffe love of her life

did you get ALIMONYPWNED based on an assumption that you could cop dat biglaw salary forever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36618852)



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Date: August 15th, 2018 4:56 PM
Author: Soul-stirring Aquamarine Kitty Cat Rehab

no luckily she had the decency not to ask for that. i got a decent severance, moved back to CA and dicked around for 2 months living in my parents rent property before sobering up and even bothering to send a resume out.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36622357)



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Date: August 15th, 2018 5:01 PM
Author: racy yellow windowlicker resort

I'm just imagining you as Collin Farrell in that scene from S2 of True Detective where he's railing coke and chugging whiskey in that shitty apartment like an animal

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36622386)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:53 PM
Author: fighting slate turdskin partner

Sounds CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165403)



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Date: November 25th, 2019 4:53 AM
Author: Zombie-like House Trust Fund

LOL so you pretend to be Australian.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39168107)



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Date: August 11th, 2019 11:37 AM
Author: Pearly Pontificating Meetinghouse Alpha



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#38669898)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:08 PM
Author: Violent deer antler abode

oh cool Sunday morning on xo...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165209)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:22 PM
Author: Razzmatazz lavender jewess spot



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165269)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:33 PM
Author: concupiscible set

Nah. We separated first.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165309)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:46 PM
Author: gold irradiated coffee pot

no we spent endless time in couples counseling before separating. it was a slow downward slog.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165379)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:55 PM
Author: carnelian duck-like hunting ground

Yes. Completely blindsided

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165416)



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Date: November 25th, 2019 4:39 AM
Author: khaki menage

describe

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39168098)



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Date: November 25th, 2019 11:21 AM
Author: Razzmatazz lavender jewess spot



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39169169)