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Divorcedmos of xo - were you blindsided by spouse unhappiness or affair?

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Hairraiser insecure rehab
  08/08/18
Tell your story first.
vivacious offensive tanning salon
  08/08/18
No story to tell yet
Hairraiser insecure rehab
  08/08/18
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Brindle milk
  08/08/18
Do you think she is having an affair?
Hairraiser insecure rehab
  08/08/18
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Vengeful fear-inspiring crackhouse idiot
  08/08/18
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appetizing smoky site
  08/09/18
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vibrant meetinghouse dragon
  11/24/19
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amethyst stage
  11/24/19
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charcoal exhilarant cuckoldry boltzmann
  11/25/19
I was surprised when she finally left but she had been becom...
swollen gas station
  08/08/18
In what ways was she showing this embitteredness?
Hairraiser insecure rehab
  08/08/18
just increasingly treated me like shit all the time and espe...
swollen gas station
  08/08/18
That sucks.
Hairraiser insecure rehab
  08/08/18
yeah I doubt your situation is as bad as mine was. add to th...
swollen gas station
  08/08/18
at least you tried bro
Startled Milky Weed Whacker Masturbator
  08/08/18
I tried very hard and would never have left as I don't belie...
swollen gas station
  08/08/18
This is a sad subthread
Balding 180 haunted graveyard striped hyena
  08/08/18
PROTIP: Almost never apologize to a woman.
aromatic home
  08/08/18
Why?
tan comical community account
  08/08/18
It signifies weakness. Women psychologically react poorly to...
aromatic home
  08/08/18
Word.
apoplectic elite dopamine telephone
  08/08/18
(unmarriedmo)
Contagious fighting becky
  08/11/19
I think I’ve told my wife I’m sorry maybe 15 tim...
henna laughsome nibblets fanboi
  11/24/19
or a man for that matter
clear aphrodisiac set
  08/11/19
What do you think made her become so bitter?
federal deranged property
  08/08/18
I can’t speak for him, but it’s usually jealousy of what oth...
aromatic home
  08/08/18
Is there a way to overcome this, or is a woman like that jus...
federal deranged property
  08/08/18
Once a woman’s switch is flipped against you, there’s no swi...
aromatic home
  08/08/18
it's kind of strange that you seem to really be interested i...
Balding 180 haunted graveyard striped hyena
  08/08/18
Well, now that I've crossed the Rubicon of trying to date al...
federal deranged property
  08/08/18
don't overthink it
Balding 180 haunted graveyard striped hyena
  08/08/18
I don't have much else to do, alas.
federal deranged property
  08/08/18
keep in mind that XO bad marriage/divorce stories always see...
Balding 180 haunted graveyard striped hyena
  08/08/18
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White Talented Kitty Cat
  08/11/19
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mind-boggling free-loading heaven
  11/24/19
It’s good to be aware of all this stuff involved with modern...
aromatic home
  08/08/18
Yikes.
federal deranged property
  08/08/18
Yeah, I’m not proud of it. Shows the effects modern dating c...
aromatic home
  08/08/18
Eat. Pray. Love.
vivacious offensive tanning salon
  08/08/18
Ugh. Had no idea what its plot was. Just looked it up and, y...
aromatic home
  08/08/18
btw the "loser" first husband who doesn't have car...
spectacular trust fund
  08/08/18
she divorced the second husband as well. she then "marr...
Yapping High-end Toaster Toilet Seat
  08/08/18
Will never read the book, & if I come across the movie o...
aromatic home
  08/08/18
You’d kill yourself too if married to an awful narciss...
amethyst stage
  11/24/19
How long have you been divorced? How's dating been since th...
Arrogant greedy ladyboy skinny woman
  08/08/18
been separate for 8 months. still not divorced as there are ...
swollen gas station
  08/08/18
that is awful
apoplectic elite dopamine telephone
  08/08/18
Oh hi me
rose address
  08/11/19
was there cheating involved?
Arousing mood
  08/08/18
no. not on my part at least and I seriously doubt on her par...
swollen gas station
  08/08/18
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poppy range roast beef
  08/08/18
Women are usually known for concealing their unhappiness fro...
Startled Milky Weed Whacker Masturbator
  08/08/18
I doubt that it’s 100%.
Hairraiser insecure rehab
  08/08/18
I knew she was down but actually divorcing was something I d...
canary vigorous nowag tank
  08/08/18
Can you talk about her being down and how she broke the news...
Hairraiser insecure rehab
  08/08/18
Aren’t you having a 180 post divorce singlemo experience?
autistic headpube really tough guy
  08/08/18
Not really, modern dating is a nightmarish hellscape. I've s...
canary vigorous nowag tank
  08/08/18
Was the noreplypwn from the crazy monkey paw chick?
federal deranged property
  08/08/18
No, just a 2.5 hr app date. Monkey's paw is still in the pic...
canary vigorous nowag tank
  08/08/18
180
charcoal exhilarant cuckoldry boltzmann
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autistic headpube really tough guy
  08/08/18
Hellish
rose address
  08/11/19
You must be incredibly good looking and the toast of BIGYAKI...
mind-boggling free-loading heaven
  11/24/19
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Cream electric sweet tailpipe
  11/25/19
When you're in the middle of it, most people tend to be in d...
heady dark den son of senegal
  08/08/18
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Useless Coral Point
  08/08/18
That's just because they are results oriented morons.
vivacious offensive tanning salon
  08/08/18
To be fair, there's all kinds of research that people delude...
Orchid patrolman athletic conference
  08/08/18
Why does thread assume it is spouse and not poaster who init...
Crimson Hyperventilating Public Bath Rigpig
  08/08/18
Women usually initiate divorce and most posters are men. On...
Hairraiser insecure rehab
  08/08/18
Vast majority of poasters are men, vast majority of divorces...
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  08/08/18
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tan comical community account
  08/08/18
lol something we should discuss?
orange abnormal ceo location
  08/08/18
You tell me.
tan comical community account
  08/08/18
Lmaooo
swashbuckling indirect expression volcanic crater
  08/08/18
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federal deranged property
  08/08/18
"Most of the men here who are stuck in unhappy marriage...
vivacious offensive tanning salon
  08/08/18
I didn't read that as expressing contempt for the fathers.
lime box office
  08/08/18
Seriously wtf
orange abnormal ceo location
  08/08/18
get a job. your current situation is contemptible.
Balding 180 haunted graveyard striped hyena
  11/25/19
How much did the divorce rape your finances?
At-the-ready lodge
  08/08/18
lol at wife havers. what a waste.
Pearl Giraffe Abode
  08/08/18
Almost every divorce I’ve seen goes the same. Guy thinks bri...
Nubile Friendly Grandma
  08/08/18
Isn't it more common that the wife went to shit too and the ...
canary vigorous nowag tank
  08/08/18
Yeah the guys are almost always losers in their own way. A ...
Nubile Friendly Grandma
  08/08/18
"A lot of time wife will send out feelers post divorce ...
appetizing smoky site
  08/09/18
It means they try to cozy up with their ex husbands
Nubile Friendly Grandma
  08/09/18
Why
appetizing smoky site
  08/09/18
Because the only reason they divorced was a gush of confiden...
honey-headed supple round eye azn
  11/24/19
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Haunting Yellow Temple
  11/24/19
lol what kind of mentally ill lib nonsense is this. lit...
spectacular trust fund
  08/08/18
They’re acceptable enough to devastate their husbands when t...
Nubile Friendly Grandma
  08/08/18
kill yourself
spectacular trust fund
  08/08/18
tcr
appetizing smoky site
  08/09/18
Lol no
Thriller state
  11/24/19
Love dies. Nobody tell you that. But that's a fact. And a ma...
sooty filthy wrinkle
  08/09/18
180 man, I love it when you hit us with DAT introspection.
charcoal exhilarant cuckoldry boltzmann
  11/25/19
No, she gained 60lbs, constantly bitched about work and was ...
Purple cruel-hearted sneaky criminal dysfunction
  08/15/18
did you get ALIMONYPWNED based on an assumption that you cou...
pale stubborn pistol locus
  08/15/18
no luckily she had the decency not to ask for that. i got a ...
Purple cruel-hearted sneaky criminal dysfunction
  08/15/18
I'm just imagining you as Collin Farrell in that scene from ...
Impressive exciting garrison mad-dog skullcap
  08/15/18
Sounds CR
amethyst stage
  11/24/19
LOL so you pretend to be Australian.
charcoal exhilarant cuckoldry boltzmann
  11/25/19
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Hairraiser insecure rehab
  08/11/19
oh cool Sunday morning on xo...
maize cocky indian lodge
  11/24/19
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vibrant meetinghouse dragon
  11/24/19
Nah. We separated first.
honey-headed supple round eye azn
  11/24/19
no we spent endless time in couples counseling before separa...
Narrow-minded school cafeteria digit ratio
  11/24/19
Yes. Completely blindsided
green hateful gunner french chef
  11/24/19
describe
rose address
  11/25/19
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vibrant meetinghouse dragon
  11/25/19


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Date: August 8th, 2018 1:56 PM
Author: Hairraiser insecure rehab



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578723)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 1:57 PM
Author: vivacious offensive tanning salon

Tell your story first.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578728)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:03 PM
Author: Hairraiser insecure rehab

No story to tell yet

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578761)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:04 PM
Author: Brindle milk

[space reserved]

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578763)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:10 PM
Author: Hairraiser insecure rehab

Do you think she is having an affair?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578804)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:30 PM
Author: Vengeful fear-inspiring crackhouse idiot



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578931)



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Date: August 9th, 2018 11:46 AM
Author: appetizing smoky site



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36585330)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:04 PM
Author: vibrant meetinghouse dragon



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165178)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:46 PM
Author: amethyst stage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165378)



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Date: November 25th, 2019 4:21 AM
Author: charcoal exhilarant cuckoldry boltzmann



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39168093)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:05 PM
Author: swollen gas station

I was surprised when she finally left but she had been becoming increasingly embittered toward me for a while and probably never *really* loved me to begin with

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578770)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:07 PM
Author: Hairraiser insecure rehab

In what ways was she showing this embitteredness?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578789)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:11 PM
Author: swollen gas station

just increasingly treated me like shit all the time and especially when her family was around. constantly getting pissed about me not doing things right with regard to parenting. made a comment that she wished she hadn't moved so fast in getting married and having a kid with me. would lash out on major holidays such as valentines day and my birthday and never gave a shit to do anything nice to begin with. before she started acting like this she was at least occasionally pleasant and loving

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578816)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:13 PM
Author: Hairraiser insecure rehab

That sucks.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578825)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:14 PM
Author: swollen gas station

yeah I doubt your situation is as bad as mine was. add to this that I would occasionally come home blackout from work happy hours (once every 3-6 months) because it was my only respite as she and I stopped having fun together long ago and she was like fuck it i'm out

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578837)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:15 PM
Author: Startled Milky Weed Whacker Masturbator

at least you tried bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578839)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:18 PM
Author: swollen gas station

I tried very hard and would never have left as I don't believe in divorce. sorry became the word I said most. I showed her affection and was constantly planning dates and whatnot. but she just wasn't having any of it and probably hated me. it hurt to have someone tell you they essentially didn't love you but what can you do just gotta move on and at least dottirdoodette is in the picture. she and I are best buds

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578857)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:41 PM
Author: Balding 180 haunted graveyard striped hyena

This is a sad subthread

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579020)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:48 PM
Author: aromatic home

PROTIP: Almost never apologize to a woman.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579102)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:55 PM
Author: tan comical community account

Why?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579146)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:06 PM
Author: aromatic home

It signifies weakness. Women psychologically react poorly to hearing men say “sorry” even if they think they want to hear it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579219)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:08 PM
Author: apoplectic elite dopamine telephone

Word.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579232)



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Date: August 11th, 2019 11:53 AM
Author: Contagious fighting becky

(unmarriedmo)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#38669941)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:51 PM
Author: henna laughsome nibblets fanboi

I think I’ve told my wife I’m sorry maybe 15 times in 7 years

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165396)



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Date: August 11th, 2019 11:53 AM
Author: clear aphrodisiac set

or a man for that matter

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#38669949)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:11 PM
Author: federal deranged property

What do you think made her become so bitter?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579246)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:19 PM
Author: aromatic home

I can’t speak for him, but it’s usually jealousy of what other women have and/or the feeling that there isn’t much more in her life that holds promise for a more exciting future. So she gets jaded & resentful. The thrill of a new relationship & new life are gone, so she’s not getting the same rush of hormones she used to get.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579303)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:20 PM
Author: federal deranged property

Is there a way to overcome this, or is a woman like that just busted?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579311)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:49 PM
Author: aromatic home

Once a woman’s switch is flipped against you, there’s no switching it back. Her mind is made up. Probably the only chance would be after you have truly moved on to something better, which is the premise of Swingers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579513)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:20 PM
Author: Balding 180 haunted graveyard striped hyena

it's kind of strange that you seem to really be interested in this topic

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579760)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:30 PM
Author: federal deranged property

Well, now that I've crossed the Rubicon of trying to date all this shit is pretty important to know and not fuck up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579872)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:44 PM
Author: Balding 180 haunted graveyard striped hyena

don't overthink it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36580013)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:45 PM
Author: federal deranged property

I don't have much else to do, alas.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36580031)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 6:34 PM
Author: Balding 180 haunted graveyard striped hyena

keep in mind that XO bad marriage/divorce stories always seem to involve the guy being this perfect angel whose only fault is that he says I love you too much and the women is always some perpetually angry, irrational, cold hearted wombat. not saying big dog's wife isn't a miserable selfish bitch but he's also probably not as awesome as he thinks he is. he probably is a passive aggressive detail obsessed little prick but because he spends his days surrounded by jew lawyers he thinks thats just how people act.

take it all with a grain of salt

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36581019)



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Date: August 11th, 2019 11:53 AM
Author: White Talented Kitty Cat



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#38669942)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:44 PM
Author: mind-boggling free-loading heaven



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165371)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 6:19 PM
Author: aromatic home

It’s good to be aware of all this stuff involved with modern dating, & you seem a good & eager student.

But, beware, it can also give you paralysis by analysis.

I’m about to stand up a date just because I dread going through with the ordeal, & I’m a guy who had pretty good success in the past. I also think I look like shit today. Never confirmed it with her anyway so hopefully she doesn’t show.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36580912)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 6:26 PM
Author: federal deranged property

Yikes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36580959)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 6:33 PM
Author: aromatic home

Yeah, I’m not proud of it. Shows the effects modern dating can have on people. A lot of it is that first dates in one’s late 30s are simply sad & degrading, & I’m not a fan of degrading myself in public places.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36581016)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:24 PM
Author: vivacious offensive tanning salon

Eat. Pray. Love.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579337)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:58 PM
Author: aromatic home

Ugh. Had no idea what its plot was. Just looked it up and, yes, pretty much sums up the modern white woman.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579582)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:23 PM
Author: spectacular trust fund

btw the "loser" first husband who doesn't have career ambition or whatever is a tenured human rights scholar at Georgetown law center

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579790)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:40 PM
Author: Yapping High-end Toaster Toilet Seat

she divorced the second husband as well. she then "married" a third guy, who died.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579966)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 6:22 PM
Author: aromatic home

Will never read the book, & if I come across the movie on tv I think I’d throw the remote through it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36580929)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:50 PM
Author: amethyst stage

You’d kill yourself too if married to an awful narcissist like Elizabeth Gilbert

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165389)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:16 PM
Author: Arrogant greedy ladyboy skinny woman

How long have you been divorced? How's dating been since the divorce?

Having issues finding never-married chicks ok with your divorce?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578845)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:26 PM
Author: swollen gas station

been separate for 8 months. still not divorced as there are a bunch of issues to work through before we can finalize. dating has been fine for the most part. exclusively using apps but need to meet girls irl like at a country club or something. feel like prospects will be higher quality there. I saw one girl for like three months but decided it wasn't working. now seing another one with promise. i'm a pretty in shape dude with a good job and a house and all this stability so maybe that helps. that said, every 1 in 3 girls is like nah i'm good with having a step kid. but I don't go any too many random dates to begin with not enough time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578904)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:46 PM
Author: apoplectic elite dopamine telephone

that is awful

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579080)



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Date: August 11th, 2019 11:49 AM
Author: rose address

Oh hi me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#38669930)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:21 PM
Author: Arousing mood

was there cheating involved?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578872)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:21 PM
Author: swollen gas station

no. not on my part at least and I seriously doubt on her part either

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578875)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:07 PM
Author: poppy range roast beef



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:10 PM
Author: Startled Milky Weed Whacker Masturbator

Women are usually known for concealing their unhappiness from their spouse, so I would think the answer is almost always yes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578801)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:10 PM
Author: Hairraiser insecure rehab

I doubt that it’s 100%.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578808)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:14 PM
Author: canary vigorous nowag tank

I knew she was down but actually divorcing was something I didn't see coming.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578838)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:16 PM
Author: Hairraiser insecure rehab

Can you talk about her being down and how she broke the news?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578844)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:30 PM
Author: autistic headpube really tough guy

Aren’t you having a 180 post divorce singlemo experience?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578925)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:57 PM
Author: canary vigorous nowag tank

Not really, modern dating is a nightmarish hellscape. I've slept with some really attractive women, but too sporadically and with too much annoyance and effort for it to have been worthwhile on the whole.

Plus, the options are pretty bad in the small city I'm in now because apps are pretty dead and I don't like going out much (nor would I be likely to meet someone my type "out"). Basically when I know I have a hearing or depo in one of the bigger cities a couple of hours away, I swipe there a ton with the idea of setting up a date or two. Usually I don't bother to chat with or meet my matches because they seem incredibly boring and indistinguishable from each other.

The last 7 or so chicks I had met (some that were poasted about here) have either slept with me, asked me out again, directly asked me to be their boyfriend, etc. Then a few weeks ago when I was out of town, I FINALLY met a chick I had a really good connection with and I got noreplypwned after a date that seemed to to well. In retrospect I probably said some stupid shit because I had only slept 3 hrs the night before and didn't really have a filter, but I didn't want to cancel.

So that's kind of how it is. I'll probably get a date with a chick who is a good match for me every 6-12 months. Doesn't take many missed chances like that to be done here, and potentially settle for someone I find unsatisfying in some critical respect.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579154)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:12 PM
Author: federal deranged property

Was the noreplypwn from the crazy monkey paw chick?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579249)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:10 PM
Author: canary vigorous nowag tank

No, just a 2.5 hr app date. Monkey's paw is still in the picture lobbying to be my GF, as is another chick who is pretty attractive and would be a good match for me but for the fact that she's a single mom and way too obsessed with her kid (overprotective helicopter parent).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579676)



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Date: November 25th, 2019 4:37 AM
Author: charcoal exhilarant cuckoldry boltzmann

180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39168097)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:44 PM
Author: autistic headpube really tough guy



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579465)



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Date: August 11th, 2019 11:52 AM
Author: rose address

Hellish

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#38669939)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:52 PM
Author: mind-boggling free-loading heaven

You must be incredibly good looking and the toast of BIGYAKIMALAW if women are willing to overlook you substantial autism.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165402)



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Date: November 25th, 2019 3:50 AM
Author: Cream electric sweet tailpipe



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39168063)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:31 PM
Author: heady dark den son of senegal

When you're in the middle of it, most people tend to be in denial, but after the fact, when they can objectively reflect, most seem to to not be surprised it happened.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578936)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:12 PM
Author: Useless Coral Point



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:12 PM
Author: vivacious offensive tanning salon

That's just because they are results oriented morons.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579252)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 6:34 PM
Author: Orchid patrolman athletic conference

To be fair, there's all kinds of research that people delude themselves AFTER something happens to fit whatever happened into their "story". So at least a good percentage of those who suddenly realize a year later that it "made sense" are just deluding themselves after the fact. Depressing but true.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36581018)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:35 PM
Author: Crimson Hyperventilating Public Bath Rigpig

Why does thread assume it is spouse and not poaster who initiated?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578971)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:37 PM
Author: Hairraiser insecure rehab

Women usually initiate divorce and most posters are men. Only interested in that situation, but please share the opposite if you would like for the benefit of the scholarship.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578986)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:38 PM
Author: orange abnormal ceo location

Vast majority of poasters are men, vast majority of divorces are initiated by women. Most of the men here who are stuck in unhappy marriages refuse to initiate b/c of kids or money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36578989)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:44 PM
Author: tan comical community account



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579057)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:45 PM
Author: orange abnormal ceo location

lol something we should discuss?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579066)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:45 PM
Author: tan comical community account

You tell me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579068)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 2:46 PM
Author: swashbuckling indirect expression volcanic crater

Lmaooo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579077)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:12 PM
Author: federal deranged property



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579254)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:05 PM
Author: vivacious offensive tanning salon

"Most of the men here who are stuck in unhappy marriages refuse to initiate b/c of kids"

LOL @ describing braving miserable conditions for a cause greater than yourself as contemptible.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579212)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:19 PM
Author: lime box office

I didn't read that as expressing contempt for the fathers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579301)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:27 PM
Author: orange abnormal ceo location

Seriously wtf

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579353)



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Date: November 25th, 2019 11:27 AM
Author: Balding 180 haunted graveyard striped hyena

get a job. your current situation is contemptible.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39169202)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:16 PM
Author: At-the-ready lodge

How much did the divorce rape your finances?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579281)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:22 PM
Author: Pearl Giraffe Abode

lol at wife havers. what a waste.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579328)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 3:41 PM
Author: Nubile Friendly Grandma

Almost every divorce I’ve seen goes the same. Guy thinks bringing in cash and being a ‘good father’ is enough and he gets fat and lazy. Wife blindsides him after sleeping with some young stud

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579434)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:12 PM
Author: canary vigorous nowag tank

Isn't it more common that the wife went to shit too and the guy she banged is pretty mediocre (as opposed to a young stud) ?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579694)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:44 PM
Author: Nubile Friendly Grandma

Yeah the guys are almost always losers in their own way. A lot of time wife will send out feelers post divorce as well

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36580016)



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Date: August 9th, 2018 11:46 AM
Author: appetizing smoky site

"A lot of time wife will send out feelers post divorce as well"

What does this mean?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36585324)



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Date: August 9th, 2018 3:52 PM
Author: Nubile Friendly Grandma

It means they try to cozy up with their ex husbands

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36587021)



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Date: August 9th, 2018 9:16 PM
Author: appetizing smoky site

Why

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36588717)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:31 PM
Author: honey-headed supple round eye azn

Because the only reason they divorced was a gush of confidence from getting dicked by a man “better” than their husband. Confidence fades once they divorce and realize that they will never actually get in a relationship with someone as good as their husband ever again.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165304)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:56 PM
Author: Haunting Yellow Temple



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165423)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:17 PM
Author: spectacular trust fund

lol what kind of mentally ill lib nonsense is this.

literally zero women initiating divorce meet the BARE MINIMUM of acceptable wife behavior from two generations ago

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579730)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 4:42 PM
Author: Nubile Friendly Grandma

They’re acceptable enough to devastate their husbands when they head for more fertile pastures

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36579993)



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Date: August 8th, 2018 6:26 PM
Author: spectacular trust fund

kill yourself

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36580960)



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Date: August 9th, 2018 9:17 PM
Author: appetizing smoky site

tcr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36588722)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:06 PM
Author: Thriller state

Lol no

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165193)



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Date: August 9th, 2018 9:19 PM
Author: sooty filthy wrinkle

Love dies. Nobody tell you that. But that's a fact. And a marriage without love is a marriage made in hell. One day, you decide to end to pain of union, for better rather than worse.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36588740)



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Date: November 25th, 2019 4:49 AM
Author: charcoal exhilarant cuckoldry boltzmann

180 man, I love it when you hit us with DAT introspection.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39168104)



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Date: August 15th, 2018 12:01 AM
Author: Purple cruel-hearted sneaky criminal dysfunction

No, she gained 60lbs, constantly bitched about work and was always "sick" w some ailment or another.

i ran through my BIGLAW salary drinking my face off and smoking pot and basically had to be fucked up to function civilly around her which never failed to descend into fights every weekend.

divorce and BIGLAWSHITCANNING were the biggest reliefs of my life. we were actually pretty polite to one another through the process

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36618791)



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Date: August 15th, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: pale stubborn pistol locus

did you get ALIMONYPWNED based on an assumption that you could cop dat biglaw salary forever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36618852)



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Date: August 15th, 2018 4:56 PM
Author: Purple cruel-hearted sneaky criminal dysfunction

no luckily she had the decency not to ask for that. i got a decent severance, moved back to CA and dicked around for 2 months living in my parents rent property before sobering up and even bothering to send a resume out.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36622357)



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Date: August 15th, 2018 5:01 PM
Author: Impressive exciting garrison mad-dog skullcap

I'm just imagining you as Collin Farrell in that scene from S2 of True Detective where he's railing coke and chugging whiskey in that shitty apartment like an animal

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#36622386)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:53 PM
Author: amethyst stage

Sounds CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165403)



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Date: November 25th, 2019 4:53 AM
Author: charcoal exhilarant cuckoldry boltzmann

LOL so you pretend to be Australian.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39168107)



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Date: August 11th, 2019 11:37 AM
Author: Hairraiser insecure rehab



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:08 PM
Author: maize cocky indian lodge

oh cool Sunday morning on xo...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165209)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:22 PM
Author: vibrant meetinghouse dragon



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:33 PM
Author: honey-headed supple round eye azn

Nah. We separated first.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165309)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:46 PM
Author: Narrow-minded school cafeteria digit ratio

no we spent endless time in couples counseling before separating. it was a slow downward slog.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165379)



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Date: November 24th, 2019 2:55 PM
Author: green hateful gunner french chef

Yes. Completely blindsided

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39165416)



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Date: November 25th, 2019 4:39 AM
Author: rose address

describe

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4046241&forum_id=2#39168098)



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Date: November 25th, 2019 11:21 AM
Author: vibrant meetinghouse dragon



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