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Going to date and try to wife next thoughtful girl I meet that likes me

Assuming she’s not hideous, then as long as she’s a good gi...
Swashbuckling brass affirmative action
  09/10/18
godspeed friend
Unholy lodge rigor
  09/10/18
How u mean nurture?
Chestnut Karate
  09/10/18
Someone who’s not self absorbed/not overly into shit like he...
Swashbuckling brass affirmative action
  09/10/18
*dies waiting*
Soggy fluffy main people theater stage
  09/10/18
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Insanely creepy aphrodisiac boiling water
  09/10/18
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startled hospital private investor
  09/10/18
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Sapphire pisswyrm
  10/20/18
age?
brilliant school cafeteria voyeur
  09/10/18
25
Swashbuckling brass affirmative action
  09/10/18
maybe this is cr. we want to go out and conquer dating like ...
Big Wine Shrine Patrolman
  09/10/18
I’m not gonna wait around but will settle for the next girl ...
Swashbuckling brass affirmative action
  09/10/18
Don’t think a woman has liked me in like 8 years. U could b...
Iridescent self-absorbed ratface selfie
  09/10/18
lol i predict this will end poorly
puce splenetic athletic conference
  09/10/18
Sounds like you're ready to SETTLE down. I support you an...
Flirting misunderstood range
  09/10/18
...
Swashbuckling brass affirmative action
  09/10/18
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Green adventurous tanning salon
  09/10/18
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Spruce Meetinghouse
  09/10/18
I am dating this girl right now but I can't commit to her ev...
Diverse sanctuary
  09/10/18
Girls like that are 180 and women don’t need to be smart. On...
Swashbuckling brass affirmative action
  09/10/18
I've had a couple of 180 experiences where I fuck the chick ...
Diverse sanctuary
  09/10/18
How much of this will matter once you've heard it all, and d...
Flirting misunderstood range
  09/10/18
not saying you can't have both, but in a marriage the practi...
Unholy lodge rigor
  09/10/18
That's all probably true, but I want some balance between bo...
Diverse sanctuary
  09/10/18
This seems cr. Romanticism seems like a function of respect,...
Green adventurous tanning salon
  09/10/18
This overlooks the tremendous companionship value of someone...
heady mother candlestick maker
  10/21/18
Very cr and I have dinged girls because of your argument. Th...
Swashbuckling brass affirmative action
  10/21/18
But she eats her peas one at a time!
territorial potus
  09/10/18
She smelled like soup!
Flirting misunderstood range
  09/10/18
UPDATE: Met a girl that meets the requirements in OP. Onl...
Swashbuckling brass affirmative action
  09/18/18
hapa is an asset not a liability
Misanthropic genital piercing
  09/18/18
Why? Not flame
Swashbuckling brass affirmative action
  09/18/18
I think hapa kids are the cutest it really comes down to ...
Misanthropic genital piercing
  09/18/18
Are you part Asian and/or a woman? Not flame just need to kn...
Swashbuckling brass affirmative action
  09/18/18
an asian? you said "[a]ssuming she’s not hideous.&qu...
boyish self-centered juggernaut
  09/18/18
She’s not like most Asians who I agree are completely fucked...
Swashbuckling brass affirmative action
  09/18/18
looks are looks.
boyish self-centered juggernaut
  09/18/18
Hone this shtick it’ll get better
Swashbuckling brass affirmative action
  09/18/18
been doing this over 2 decades.
boyish self-centered juggernaut
  09/18/18
No worries it doesn’t come easily to everyone
Swashbuckling brass affirmative action
  09/18/18
hapa daughters are cr. hapa sons are a liability
drab up-to-no-good tank location
  09/18/18
Why roll the dice on gender of children tho
Swashbuckling brass affirmative action
  09/18/18
just abort until daughter is made
drab up-to-no-good tank location
  09/18/18
U mean the first
Glittery Gunner Box Office
  09/18/18
lol cr
Misanthropic genital piercing
  09/18/18
Tbf given how surrounded I am by mfh shrews it’s been a whil...
Swashbuckling brass affirmative action
  09/18/18
Is it possible to flip a mentally unstable shrew?
Glittery Gunner Box Office
  09/18/18
I tried my best and ultimately failed. Hence this OP
Swashbuckling brass affirmative action
  09/18/18
Ty
Glittery Gunner Box Office
  09/18/18
(Typical xoposter in 2006)
Thirsty hyperventilating hall hunting ground
  09/18/18
The hardest part is finding women that like me
topaz station alpha
  09/18/18
UPDATE: Slept with Asian girl I met who meets personality re...
Swashbuckling brass affirmative action
  09/28/18
UPDATE: I met her, bros. She's french and a bit goofy but in...
Swashbuckling brass affirmative action
  10/20/18
Bigly
Chestnut Karate
  10/20/18
she's coming over tomorrow evening we'll make dinner and dri...
Swashbuckling brass affirmative action
  10/20/18
You met her quickly- it is possible again She sounds 180 bu...
Chestnut Karate
  10/21/18
Yeah very true
Swashbuckling brass affirmative action
  10/21/18
fucking lol at this Chad's BEAUTIFUL WOMAN WIFE AUDITION meg...
fighting address
  10/21/18
...
Chestnut Karate
  10/21/18
ljl
Swashbuckling brass affirmative action
  10/21/18
180! Hope it works out. Make sure you don't overlook major d...
heady mother candlestick maker
  10/21/18
GL bro.
brindle community account
  10/21/18


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Date: September 10th, 2018 12:32 AM
Author: Swashbuckling brass affirmative action

Assuming she’s not hideous, then as long as she’s a good girl with a head on her shoulders who seems nurturing and who is into me, then I will attempt to wife her. Will post itt with updates as they come up

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36779200)



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Date: September 10th, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Unholy lodge rigor

godspeed friend

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36779228)



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Date: September 10th, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Chestnut Karate

How u mean nurture?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36779233)



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Date: September 10th, 2018 12:40 AM
Author: Swashbuckling brass affirmative action

Someone who’s not self absorbed/not overly into shit like her career/would like to have children before she’s 40

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36779243)



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Date: September 10th, 2018 12:55 AM
Author: Soggy fluffy main people theater stage

*dies waiting*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36779320)



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Date: September 10th, 2018 12:56 AM
Author: Insanely creepy aphrodisiac boiling water



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36779329)



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Date: September 10th, 2018 8:26 PM
Author: startled hospital private investor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36783970)



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Date: October 20th, 2018 11:17 PM
Author: Sapphire pisswyrm



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#37064968)



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Date: September 10th, 2018 12:56 AM
Author: brilliant school cafeteria voyeur

age?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36779323)



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Date: September 10th, 2018 7:29 PM
Author: Swashbuckling brass affirmative action

25

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36783639)



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Date: September 10th, 2018 12:56 AM
Author: Big Wine Shrine Patrolman

maybe this is cr. we want to go out and conquer dating like any other problem, but maybe just chilling out and waiting for any good opportunity is the only cr.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36779328)



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Date: September 10th, 2018 7:30 PM
Author: Swashbuckling brass affirmative action

I’m not gonna wait around but will settle for the next girl that meets minimum requirements. I’m not gonna nitpick otherwise good girls. This was a problem I’ve had several times in the past couple years

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36783648)



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Date: September 10th, 2018 12:57 AM
Author: Iridescent self-absorbed ratface selfie

Don’t think a woman has liked me in like 8 years. U could be searching a while

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36779331)



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Date: September 10th, 2018 12:57 AM
Author: puce splenetic athletic conference

lol i predict this will end poorly

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36779334)



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Date: September 10th, 2018 1:02 AM
Author: Flirting misunderstood range

Sounds like you're ready to SETTLE down.

I support you and of similar mindset

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36779363)



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Date: September 10th, 2018 7:30 PM
Author: Swashbuckling brass affirmative action



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36783649)



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Date: September 10th, 2018 7:33 PM
Author: Green adventurous tanning salon



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36783661)



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Date: September 10th, 2018 7:51 PM
Author: Spruce Meetinghouse



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36783759)



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Date: September 10th, 2018 8:04 PM
Author: Diverse sanctuary

I am dating this girl right now but I can't commit to her even though she really wants a relationship. Would be amazing at the day to day aspects of being a wife but the strong mental connection isn't there. It's possible that I might eventually just stick with it through inertia, helped along by the fact that she has an insatiable sex drive and is better in bed than anyone else I've dated.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36783837)



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Date: September 10th, 2018 8:06 PM
Author: Swashbuckling brass affirmative action

Girls like that are 180 and women don’t need to be smart. Only one of you needs to do the hard thinking and 99% of life doesn’t require you to be smart anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36783852)



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Date: September 10th, 2018 8:12 PM
Author: Diverse sanctuary

I've had a couple of 180 experiences where I fuck the chick early on and we just stayed up all night talking in bed because that type of connection was there. That's definitely the way I'd want to feel about whoever I wife. The current chick fucks admirably, will never gain weight, games with me, and is domestically inclined. But the romantic energy is missing. I probably sound like a chick myself.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36783889)



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Date: September 10th, 2018 8:17 PM
Author: Flirting misunderstood range

How much of this will matter once you've heard it all, and desperately need sleep to balance kids and work?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36783919)



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Date: September 10th, 2018 8:18 PM
Author: Unholy lodge rigor

not saying you can't have both, but in a marriage the practical realities of day-to-day life are much more important than romantic spark. if she's bad at the first you will lose the second. but if she's good at the first over the long haul you will respect and cherish her in a sustained fashion

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36783928)



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Date: September 10th, 2018 8:26 PM
Author: Diverse sanctuary

That's all probably true, but I want some balance between both. I dated the chick that I had the amazing connection with but who would have been shitty day-to-day, and she did me a massive favor by breaking it off 6 months after I moved away rather than eventually coming with me as we had planned. The current chick is the other extreme, treats me like a god but I'm not sure if I'll ever love her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36783974)



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Date: September 10th, 2018 8:29 PM
Author: Green adventurous tanning salon

This seems cr. Romanticism seems like a function of respect, desire and timing, not something in itself

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36783991)



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Date: October 21st, 2018 3:38 PM
Author: heady mother candlestick maker

This overlooks the tremendous companionship value of someone you enjoy talking to all the time, and for plenty of people, there's an intellectual baseline that's necessary (though it obviously differs from person to person).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#37067402)



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Date: October 21st, 2018 3:48 PM
Author: Swashbuckling brass affirmative action

Very cr and I have dinged girls because of your argument. That’s the biggest thing I vaccilate on: whether to settle for a dumber but more cheerful girl or a smarter but less cheerfu/more angsty girl. There’s a happy medium I haven’t had luck finding in the past

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#37067438)



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Date: September 10th, 2018 8:15 PM
Author: territorial potus

But she eats her peas one at a time!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36783906)



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Date: September 10th, 2018 8:16 PM
Author: Flirting misunderstood range

She smelled like soup!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36783911)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 4:05 PM
Author: Swashbuckling brass affirmative action

UPDATE:

Met a girl that meets the requirements in OP. Only problem is she’s Asian and not sure I want hapa kids. Worried they’ll go postal like Elliot Rogers or otherwise suffer from the existential angst common among East Asian Americans. Should I get over my racism against Asian women or keep looking?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36834205)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 4:06 PM
Author: Misanthropic genital piercing

hapa is an asset not a liability

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36834211)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 4:07 PM
Author: Swashbuckling brass affirmative action

Why? Not flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36834222)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 4:10 PM
Author: Misanthropic genital piercing

I think hapa kids are the cutest

it really comes down to that

also imagining some of the upsides of having a kid who is assumed to be smarter - studies show that kids who are expected to do well tend to do better overall

I kinda pulled that last part out of my butt

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36834253)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 4:12 PM
Author: Swashbuckling brass affirmative action

Are you part Asian and/or a woman? Not flame just need to know who I’m dealing with before I take your opinion into account

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36834273)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 4:06 PM
Author: boyish self-centered juggernaut

an asian?

you said "[a]ssuming she’s not hideous."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36834219)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 4:07 PM
Author: Swashbuckling brass affirmative action

She’s not like most Asians who I agree are completely fucked. American

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36834229)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 4:09 PM
Author: boyish self-centered juggernaut

looks are looks.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36834245)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 4:14 PM
Author: Swashbuckling brass affirmative action

Hone this shtick it’ll get better

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36834291)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 4:18 PM
Author: boyish self-centered juggernaut

been doing this over 2 decades.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36834336)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 4:19 PM
Author: Swashbuckling brass affirmative action

No worries it doesn’t come easily to everyone

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36834348)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 4:06 PM
Author: drab up-to-no-good tank location

hapa daughters are cr. hapa sons are a liability

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36834221)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 4:08 PM
Author: Swashbuckling brass affirmative action

Why roll the dice on gender of children tho

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36834236)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 4:33 PM
Author: drab up-to-no-good tank location

just abort until daughter is made

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36834463)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 4:14 PM
Author: Glittery Gunner Box Office

U mean the first

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36834285)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 4:15 PM
Author: Misanthropic genital piercing

lol cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36834298)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 4:17 PM
Author: Swashbuckling brass affirmative action

Tbf given how surrounded I am by mfh shrews it’s been a while since I was with a girl who was nurturing and level headed in the ways I’m looking for

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36834322)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 4:25 PM
Author: Glittery Gunner Box Office

Is it possible to flip a mentally unstable shrew?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36834397)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 4:26 PM
Author: Swashbuckling brass affirmative action

I tried my best and ultimately failed. Hence this OP

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36834408)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 4:35 PM
Author: Glittery Gunner Box Office

Ty

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36834486)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 4:18 PM
Author: Thirsty hyperventilating hall hunting ground

(Typical xoposter in 2006)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36834330)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 4:19 PM
Author: topaz station alpha

The hardest part is finding women that like me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36834350)



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Date: September 28th, 2018 1:59 PM
Author: Swashbuckling brass affirmative action

UPDATE: Slept with Asian girl I met who meets personality requirements of OP. Problem is I’m just not attracted to her asian features (basically her flat face). Will probably continue looking since I don’t think I can make myself be attracted to her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#36914844)



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Date: October 20th, 2018 11:10 PM
Author: Swashbuckling brass affirmative action

UPDATE: I met her, bros. She's french and a bit goofy but in a very french way, so still super social and is good conversation. Beautiful and thoughtful, e.g. she actively thinks about what it means to have a "good life," and is just generally able to have conversations about abstract concepts. In a year I'll either be engaged or bitter as fuck about my chances of finding someone this sweet/nice again.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#37064921)



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Date: October 20th, 2018 11:15 PM
Author: Chestnut Karate

Bigly

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#37064953)



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Date: October 20th, 2018 11:22 PM
Author: Swashbuckling brass affirmative action

she's coming over tomorrow evening we'll make dinner and drink. not flame if it doesn't work out Im gonna be pretty bummed

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#37065018)



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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: Chestnut Karate

You met her quickly- it is possible again

She sounds 180 but there are other great girls

That said, u know it is worthwhile af so keep figuring her out and make sure she meets your ideas and initial enthusiasm

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#37065475)



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Date: October 21st, 2018 3:28 PM
Author: Swashbuckling brass affirmative action

Yeah very true

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#37067381)



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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: fighting address

fucking lol at this Chad's BEAUTIFUL WOMAN WIFE AUDITION megathread

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#37065493)



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Date: October 21st, 2018 12:35 AM
Author: Chestnut Karate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#37065520)



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Date: October 21st, 2018 3:30 PM
Author: Swashbuckling brass affirmative action

ljl

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#37067386)



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Date: October 21st, 2018 3:36 PM
Author: heady mother candlestick maker

180! Hope it works out. Make sure you don't overlook major differences - that's a good way to get locked into a bad marriage or divorcepwned later. Make sure her values track with yours, and that she's somewhat malleable.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#37067398)



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Date: October 21st, 2018 3:38 PM
Author: brindle community account

GL bro.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4073799&forum_id=2#37067403)