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Bros, what happens when you hit 40 and realize didn't accomplish jack shit
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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:23 AM Author: Passionate telephone You held an average job, did not get to the top of the corporate ladder, did not start a business, do not desire family or babby... and are looking forward to your own death.
Is this the time to kill self, or do you wait it out until you're 60? |
Date: September 15th, 2018 12:24 AM Author: Aqua mad cow disease kill everyone you know and disappear to the scottish highlands (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812134) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:25 AM Author: Passionate telephone Why would I kill them? Disappearing to the Scottish highlands sounds credited, without all the mindless killing. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812146) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:25 AM Author: Boyish Boistinker How is marriage and children an accomplishment. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812151) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:28 AM Author: Passionate telephone It isn't, but society thinks otherwise. Lots of people think that if you raised a family and have relatively normal adult children, you're an accomplished man/woman. I have acquaintances who spent their 20's, 30's and 40's raising their children. The women did not do anything other than that, and today they show their offspring as a HUGE accomplishment. Fucked up shit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812171) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:30 AM Author: Boyish Boistinker Yeah and they are the sort who roll like 10 deep into a restaurant and spend the entire time on their phones and can only generate conversation by either (a) taking photos or (b) making fun of each other or other patrons. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812192) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:32 AM Author: Passionate telephone Titcr, there should be a society for people like us, who find that lifestyle revolting. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812204) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:34 AM Author: Boyish Boistinker xoxohth.com/audoadmit.com (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812215) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:36 AM Author: Passionate telephone right, if you want to be among trolls, bullies and mentally ill ppl as well. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812223) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:36 AM Author: Boyish Boistinker ? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812224) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:38 AM Author: Passionate telephone Don't start with your question marks, whokebe. You know exactly what I mean. This place is not for normal people who don't want babby, it is also for psycho losers who are willing to ruin other people's lives for the fun of it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812235) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:46 AM Author: Passionate telephone There's lots of married people here, btw. So no, we're not only among ppl who find marriage+babby revolting. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812270) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:47 AM Author: sienna floppy dysfunction Well, the children thing is the whole purpose of life. If you aren't passing on your genes that's pretty much the definition of a failed life (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812474) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:50 AM Author: Passionate telephone Dude, my dad is a failure and a miserable being. He brought me to the world to live a shitty life and now I won't pass on his genes. Are you saying he's a failed life or I am? I refuse to do this to another being just to avoid "being a failed life" so that's the real question here. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812483) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:27 AM Author: Cerebral Zippy Church Building i'm coming up on 40 and on the brink of bankruptcy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812161) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:28 AM Author: Passionate telephone Srsly? This is sad, bro. How did it come to this? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812176) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:36 AM Author: Cerebral Zippy Church Building i got a wife and kids that love me though (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812226) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:39 AM Author: Passionate telephone Do you feel great to have them? I had a shitty upbringing and would never have children or a marriage. I got pretty fucked up by living through my parents' shitty marriage that I would not want to even consider the idea. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812242) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:48 AM Author: Cerebral Zippy Church Building :(
i love them, and they love me. but money is the number one reason people get divorced, so i dunno. |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:56 AM Author: Adventurous Puce Temple Dog Poop Your own business going under? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812320) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:00 AM Author: Cerebral Zippy Church Building how'd you guess? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812340) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:02 AM Author: Adventurous Puce Temple Dog Poop Sorry to hear-- fwiw at least you tried, which is more than can be said for a lot of other men.
what was the business? |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:35 AM Author: chest-beating laughsome theater idea he suggested (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812217) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:36 AM Author: Bipolar coral depressive kitty Why are you a wagecuck without a family? Get a phd in something you like (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812222) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:37 AM Author: Passionate telephone I don't want a fucking family. My family was a fucking nightmare already, don't need to repeat the story. You make it sound like a PhD would be a glorious thing to do. I had a close friend who was doing a PhD in Columbia and she was ready to kill herself because of the bureaucracy and her inability to express her ideas. She literally spiraled down into a horrible depression just by being there. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812233) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:41 AM Author: Bipolar coral depressive kitty Idk man studying something you enjoy sounds better than working in some corporation for money you don’t need (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812247) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:44 AM Author: Passionate telephone I like the money. If I could do something, I'd do a job I enjoy. I would enjoy photography, design, writing... all the shit that pays nothing unless you're a star. And I do like the money, so it seems pretty far-fetched to get to do that. My sad reality is that I need a shitty job to enjoy the things that I like and live a lifestyle that makes me comfortable. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812265) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:59 AM Author: Adventurous Puce Temple Dog Poop youre a catlady male shrew, but at least you own it. lib too? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812330) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:07 AM Author: Diverse Disgusting Main People move to the PNW, take a zero-stress job for minimal pay and spend all your free time hiking/biking/paddling. EZ life (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812368) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:46 AM Author: Aqua mad cow disease (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812470) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:23 AM Author: Bipolar coral depressive kitty Then become a star. As a single man there is nothing holding you back besides yourself (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812410) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:37 AM Author: Provocative kitty cat Get divorced and assail the character your children. Or gang up on one child for entertainment. This is what my father did. Main thing is to get divorced and ngaf. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812230) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:47 AM Author: claret autistic public bath oh hai me. luckily my career is pretty good. but will probably be a bachelor for life. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812272) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:50 AM Author: Passionate telephone Srsly? Will you be able to retire early? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812288) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:51 AM Author: claret autistic public bath i barely work now as it is. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812293) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:53 AM Author: Passionate telephone Srsly? What do you do? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812304) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:52 AM Author: Soul-stirring Home ITT: What straight bored people get up to. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812298) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:54 AM Author: Cerebral Zippy Church Building there's nothing compared to having a family, for better or worse (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812308) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:55 AM Author: Passionate telephone You probably mean a NORMAL family. For us people from broken families, some of us wish we'd never been born. My family was a shitshow and I don't talk to most of them. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812311) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:56 AM Author: Soul-stirring Home Been there and done that. Make a life for yourself. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812319) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:58 AM Author: Passionate telephone Dude, you don't turn out normal after living 18 years with psychos. You're have no clue how bad you end up. I wouldn't want to bring a kid to go through the same shit. I want to have the freedom to one day pull the trigger without leaving an innocent life behind. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812327) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:04 AM Author: Soul-stirring Home I was raised in a household with a narcissist. My brother the narcissist now has a kid. I make the best of it. Shit happens.
Make friends and do you.
I'm sure there are worse things that have happened to people other than you not being the center of attention.
More importantly, I think you would have an awesome child. |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:03 AM Author: Diverse Disgusting Main People my parents both came from terrible families but I turned out okay... well apart from posting on xo (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812354) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 12:55 AM Author: Soul-stirring Home There's a lot of definitions of family. Pick yours. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812312) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:00 AM Author: claret autistic public bath i consider you my dad (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812337) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:09 AM Author: Soul-stirring Home common mistake (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812372) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:19 AM Author: mahogany spectacular giraffe i don't understand why a confirmed bachelor would care very much about money tbh. the only reason I care about money is to provide a stable family life. if I decided it was not going to get married or have kids id be a park ranger or a fireman or a bartender at a beach bar or some shit. I enjoy having nice things and being "comfortable" but wagecucking isn't worth it just for that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812397) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:22 AM Author: Soul-stirring Home I have a 5 bedroom/4 bath house. The struggle is real. We have the same expectations of marrieds on a single salary. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812409) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:25 AM Author: mahogany spectacular giraffe but why man? you could do whatever the fuck you want (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812418) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:28 AM Author: Soul-stirring Home Did that for a decade. Lived in Manhattan, Chicago, LA....at some point you just settle down. I now own what people expected. It's hella expensive to maintain, though. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812423) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:30 AM Author: mahogany spectacular giraffe yes I know I own plenty but it's all for the sake of family. if I wasn't a family man id tend sheep on a hillside in new Zealand or something (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812426) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:31 AM Author: Soul-stirring Home I had a divorce and that ended my fantasy on that end. Rebuilding on what I have left. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812428) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:33 AM Author: mahogany spectacular giraffe im not saying get married again im saying stop spending money on a multi bedroom house like you were married. every situation has its advantages - I like family - but there are amazing advantages to not having one too. I feel like your getting the worst of both worlds but do you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812430) |
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Date: September 15th, 2018 1:35 AM Author: Soul-stirring Home bought cash when the market crashed. I'm riding this out. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4077757&forum_id=2#36812434) |