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Having kids and getting a divorce seems credited
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Date: September 17th, 2018 10:47 AM Author: Swashbuckling Domesticated Pervert Got a couple divorced friends who have a kid. They each have significant others. They get to pass the kid off to the ex-spouse and have 180 non-kid time to do fun shit with their bf/gf.
Meanwhile in regular relationships a husband and wife can't do shit together without securing childcare or have to lug the kid around everywhere.
Divorcemos FTW |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:04 AM Author: Free-loading institution except for the fact that it's shitty for the kids then yes it would be totally cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824660) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:37 AM Author: Swashbuckling Domesticated Pervert nope, kids are happy and fine. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824875) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 1:21 PM Author: flushed center nope. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825631) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 1:41 PM Author: Swashbuckling Domesticated Pervert yup, just had em over yesterday. they're great (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825753) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 1:38 PM Author: Primrose state the "divorce fucks up kids for life" thing is severely overblown - it only really has a chance of happening if the kids are 6 or younger and can't understand why daddy is suddenly gone 5-6 days/week.
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Date: September 17th, 2018 3:29 PM Author: Free-loading institution my wife's parents divorced when she was 18 and has definitely left a scar (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36826614) |
Date: September 17th, 2018 11:18 AM Author: narrow-minded immigrant I have been thinking about this a lot lately. I probably spend 5-10% of my day dreaming about being single and being able to do whatever the fuck I want with my free time. Would spend a lot of time hiking, being outside, and banging divorced OC MILFs. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824746) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:35 AM Author: Filthy hominid station there's maybe like two divorced of counsel milfs in the entire country. I actually know one and she is quite milfy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824861) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 12:10 PM Author: Arousing lime school cafeteria ljl @ the looming divorce disaster for TC. This guy will be bald, broke, divorced, and completely alone in <5 years (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825101) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 1:46 PM Author: narrow-minded immigrant I spend a lot of time thinking about this possibility as well. Except the bald part. I will never lose my hair. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825784) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 1:50 PM Author: Smoky hilarious ticket booth milk (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825818) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:18 AM Author: Alcoholic Stage This is unbelievably toxic (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824754) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:30 AM Author: Provocative amber garrison dog poop (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824821) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:29 AM Author: diverse forum boltzmann it's a smart thing to do for people who don't care about hurting their children or spending time with them. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824810) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:29 AM Author: Titillating ocher theater digit ratio lol exactly wtf is this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824815) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:36 AM Author: Swashbuckling Domesticated Pervert not at all. The kids of the people I know are very happy and well-adjusted. And the parents really value the time they have with them. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824866) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:39 AM Author: diverse forum boltzmann if its near 50/50 custody and the parents are civil, it's not the worst thing in the world. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824888) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:30 AM Author: Galvanic cheese-eating lodge I'm going to blow ur mind: if ur goal is to maximize opportunities for hedonism, you can do even better by not having kids at all (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824824) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:31 AM Author: diverse forum boltzmann (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824829) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:32 AM Author: Bull headed indian lodge (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824838) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:32 AM Author: floppy infuriating marketing idea range (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824840) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:33 AM Author: Titillating ocher theater digit ratio (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824846) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:34 AM Author: Sticky fanboi meetinghouse (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824853) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:35 AM Author: Swashbuckling Domesticated Pervert nah ding man
having kids brings a joy and fulfillment to your life. but having to be around them 24/7 starts to get irritating. being able to hand them off to a reliable party and having adult time is pretty 180 |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:35 AM Author: Galvanic cheese-eating lodge Having kids is a joy, but a sacrifice too. If you're not willing to sacrifice then you deserve the fucked up kids you will inevitably create (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824863) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:37 AM Author: Swashbuckling Domesticated Pervert nah, as long as the parents are decent, the kids turn out fine too. They are actually exposed to more experiences since they have two sets of parents, more or less. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824874) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:37 AM Author: Galvanic cheese-eating lodge I take it you don't have kids brother (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824877) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:40 AM Author: Swashbuckling Domesticated Pervert don't assume my dude (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824896) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:36 AM Author: floppy infuriating marketing idea range (postradamus’ pregnant mom as she gets blackout drunk watching iron man 5 and shits her pants in the movie theater seats) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824870) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:46 AM Author: Smoky hilarious ticket booth milk (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824924) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:51 AM Author: French Corn Cake harsh but fair (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824959) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:44 AM Author: Provocative amber garrison dog poop (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824913) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:36 AM Author: Filthy hominid station as a divorcemo take it from me that it goes the other way tho. you miss your kids when they're not around and would trade all that free time for time with the kids. plus you feel like a loser when you're for example eating lunch somewhere on a sunday and your family isn't around. a man should have a large brood around him at most times (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824873) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:38 AM Author: Swashbuckling Domesticated Pervert meh it seems cool to have a couple weekends a month to yourself to have fun, blow off steam and do hoodrat shit, and then when you get the kids again you really appreciate them because you've got to miss them a little (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824885) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:42 AM Author: Filthy hominid station I know it *seems* that way but I am telling you it *isn't* that way. that is, I am living the life you are envisioning, with just more time with my kids each week than I think you are describing. you want it to be one way, but it's the other (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824906) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:42 AM Author: dun locale Missing stuff like x-mas with them (not just the day itself, but the lead up: Santa visits, the night before when they are AMPED UP) sounds 120 though. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824907) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:46 AM Author: narrow-minded immigrant (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824927) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:43 AM Author: Bull headed indian lodge Have you factored in Child Support into this equation?
It's not fun paying my ex-wife $1,200 a month tax free child support, despite having 50/50 custody. My ex-wife probably thinks your idea is great though. She gets "GNO" and free time for two weeks straight. And she gets paid to go out and party with the CS money. |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:46 AM Author: Filthy hominid station (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824926) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:47 AM Author: Swashbuckling Domesticated Pervert yeah this is the only rub
for the people I know, their ex-spouses both have decent careers and make similar money to them |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 2:27 PM Author: narrow-minded immigrant I don't know how you aren't consumed by rage about this. If I get divorced, I will still probably end up paying child support even though by wife makes a ton of money. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36826125) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:46 AM Author: French Corn Cake why don't you care about your potential kids (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824917) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:48 AM Author: wonderful church building party of the first part (My dead mother) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824935) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:54 AM Author: Coiffed selfie rehab After I had a kid my life really just became about them. I don't care about myself anymore (and maybe I never did). I wouldn't go out of my way to create a situation where my kid is not under the same roof as me every single day -- and definitely not because it gave me more time to pursue hobbies or go on dating apps. That's idiotic. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36824987) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:56 AM Author: Swashbuckling Domesticated Pervert think about all the frustration and time wasted trying to get your toddler to sleep night after night...wouldn't it be cool to have a little break from that every now and them? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825001) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:56 AM Author: French Corn Cake so you can go "have fun"? jfc you're a woman (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825006) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:57 AM Author: Coiffed selfie rehab Yeah it's called when your kid turns 11 and starts junior high. I'll have plenty of breaks then. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825012) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 11:58 AM Author: Swashbuckling Domesticated Pervert your soul has already withered away by then from night after night of wiping your toddler's shitty anus (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825023) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 12:00 PM Author: dun locale The hardest part is coming to the realization you'll never again grind on some little spinner while "promiscuous girl" thumps and your buddies are doing shots. If you chase that dragon you'll end up in a dark place. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825037) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 12:02 PM Author: French Corn Cake if this is so pleasurable it'll fuck up the rest of your life, you probably shouldn't be doing it in the first place (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825049) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 12:04 PM Author: dun locale 23 year old me would have kicked you in the dick for suggesting that (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825059) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 12:05 PM Author: French Corn Cake 23 year old me would probably be passed out in the bathroom unable to suggest anything shitcons might've been right about degeneracy |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 12:12 PM Author: translucent personal credit line buddhists and stoics understand this too all sensory pleasure is dangerous to a degree |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 12:12 PM Author: glittery dragon U should still do this but not fuck (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825109) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 12:06 PM Author: translucent personal credit line jfc just admit you're a raging shitlib and be done with it, why don't you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825070) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 12:45 PM Author: Galvanic cheese-eating lodge OP=Casey Anthony (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825358) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 1:36 PM Author: crusty 180 feces set Toxicity level off the charts (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825718) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 1:37 PM Author: Histrionic antidepressant drug key is to do it when the kids are young so they grow up thinking it's normal to have one mom and 3 dads. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825733) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 1:47 PM Author: Smoky hilarious ticket booth milk it's normal in 2018 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825793) |
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Date: September 17th, 2018 1:50 PM Author: laughsome stage High level of toxicity on display here (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4079320&forum_id=2#36825816) |