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Un-retiring for an hour to share what the divorce attorney told me (Muscadine)

So, I was finally getting my shit together to get a divorce....
180 associate
  09/25/18
How long would the alimony last for? There's got to be a su...
bateful tantric school cafeteria
  09/25/18
Depends. If we couldn't settle, it would be until death/ re...
180 associate
  09/25/18
Holy shit!
bateful tantric school cafeteria
  09/25/18
The fuck? In futuro alimony barely exists anymore
adventurous mexican kitchen
  09/25/18
wtf. how old are you? in NJ you only get permanent alimony i...
crawly chapel foreskin
  09/25/18
40.
180 associate
  09/25/18
Your state sucks fucking ass.
Passionate range love of her life
  09/25/18
There’s no way this is true even in california unless you we...
well-lubricated plaza weed whacker
  09/25/18
I do this kind of work, but I'm sharing what I was told when...
180 associate
  09/25/18
who whoa whoa...you consulted with a female lawyer?
Marvelous high-end den
  09/25/18
Lmao
Passionate range love of her life
  09/25/18
pwn3d
charismatic meetinghouse clown
  09/25/18
lmao
autistic apoplectic resort
  09/25/18
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cerebral smoky police squad center
  09/25/18
how cucky is this guy?
Nofapping heaven nowag
  09/25/18
the only jew in south carolina.
Marvelous high-end den
  09/25/18
Is that the state? I’ve heard horror stories about their div...
harsh soggy fat ankles
  09/25/18
yes, and that's what he's said over the years.
Marvelous high-end den
  09/25/18
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Unholy chad set
  09/26/18
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naked nibblets
  07/31/23
You don't know what you are talking about. A long term marri...
underhanded stage stain
  09/25/18
you should seriously consider murdering your wife bro. take ...
motley indian lodge
  09/25/18
"I could have been getting tatted up, smoking pot, drin...
motley indian lodge
  09/25/18
You can be a great lawyer and smoke pot and get wasted every...
Cocky Hospital
  09/26/18
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Purple razzle-dazzle temple mad-dog skullcap
  04/04/23
Don't divorce
Heady bossy kitty box office
  09/25/18
that appears to be the answer
180 associate
  09/25/18
Would giving her a 1000 dollar allowance make her happy? You...
Heady bossy kitty box office
  09/25/18
She has about 1500 a month to blow and is very unhappy about...
180 associate
  09/25/18
The peterman story
aphrodisiac hell
  09/25/18
haha wow, i'm guessing you don't hit her.
Marvelous high-end den
  09/25/18
This is insane. How can her alimony be so high - child suppo...
boyish umber people who are hurt
  09/25/18
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razzmatazz house quadroon
  09/25/18
you must also think "she promised until death do us par...
Marvelous high-end den
  09/25/18
Don't divorce
sickened electric furnace
  09/25/18
That appears to be the answer. I feel bad for my children, ...
180 associate
  09/25/18
They would not be better off with your wife 100% of the time...
boyish umber people who are hurt
  09/25/18
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Cocky Hospital
  09/26/18
yeah... not sure what divorce would accomplish here other th...
disgusting sick legend
  09/25/18
And relegating you to shack-in-the-hood-like living conditio...
Olive roast beef stage
  09/25/18
Really, this is a shitty way to go through life, although it...
180 associate
  09/25/18
i'm sorry, brother. good luck, i hope your wife calms down s...
disgusting sick legend
  09/25/18
"Maybe something will change." Me on marriage/ cry...
180 associate
  09/25/18
ouch
bateful tantric school cafeteria
  09/25/18
What a shitty set of options. Sorry bro. As an unmarriedmo, ...
Fragrant Flickering Hairy Legs
  09/25/18
FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE! you signed the contract. You know...
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  09/25/18
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autistic apoplectic resort
  09/25/18
At no time in my life was this ever more crystal clear than ...
180 associate
  09/25/18
How does alimony work in your state? In my state, spousal su...
Stimulating office twinkling uncleanness
  09/25/18
How are those alimony calculations correct? You'd be homeles...
Slate Home Filthpig
  09/25/18
What was this?
180 associate
  09/25/18
I mean he's not counting the 100k bonus, but yeah that does ...
adventurous mexican kitchen
  09/25/18
Distributions from past year are going to be factored into m...
180 associate
  09/25/18
why not do monthly based on cash flow with an additional pay...
snowy area
  09/25/18
In a negotiation, if it came to that, I would have to work s...
180 associate
  09/25/18
So if you wait a year or two and don't work as hard, maybe t...
bateful tantric school cafeteria
  09/25/18
How could I do that as a lawyer?
180 associate
  09/25/18
Take fewer cases/clients. Bill fewer hours. Fish more.
bateful tantric school cafeteria
  09/25/18
Not at age 40. That’s make or break time.
Passionate range love of her life
  09/25/18
Given the circumstances, a one-year slow down might be worth...
bateful tantric school cafeteria
  09/25/18
you're getting divorced? you used to be one of the most obno...
sinister point laser beams
  09/25/18
Sorry, when I said "I'm in the same boat" I meant ...
bateful tantric school cafeteria
  09/25/18
I could pull that off with remarkable ease
boyish umber people who are hurt
  09/25/18
might still get "imputed income" pwn3d
charismatic meetinghouse clown
  09/25/18
Yeah, I'm ignorant about how it works (in general and in SC)...
bateful tantric school cafeteria
  09/25/18
Wait a year and bank all the cash from distributions. Say y...
Passionate range love of her life
  09/25/18
divorce and move to thailand
Pontificating razzle church building rigor
  09/25/18
Staying married longer is stupid if this is your situation. ...
crawly chapel foreskin
  09/25/18
I remember you bragging about how good SC divorce law was fo...
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  09/25/18
If she commits adultery, it would be great. She's not going...
180 associate
  09/25/18
Do you need a 6'4" jacked pumo PE baller to help you (h...
bateful tantric school cafeteria
  09/25/18
Hire a PI to frame her. This is legal advice.
rose hominid
  09/25/18
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  09/25/18
hire a man to seduce her and document the evidence of her ch...
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  09/25/18
You actually can't in most places
adventurous mexican kitchen
  09/25/18
I hate libs
Slate Home Filthpig
  09/25/18
His only shot is gaslighting her into trying (and hopefully ...
autistic apoplectic resort
  09/25/18
but....wait a minute....wouldn't that mean....
submissive legal warrant coffee pot
  09/25/18
South Carolina allows fault based divorce and not providing ...
Fragrant Flickering Hairy Legs
  09/25/18
Cruel and inhuman treatment then
adventurous mexican kitchen
  09/25/18
Hit her as hard as you can in the face with a closed fist.
Supple Corner Karate
  09/25/18
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  09/25/18
Best advice ITT.
Godawful opaque locale
  09/25/18
cr. then do it at least 10 more times.
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  09/25/18
I still don't fully understand why many women get so mean an...
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  09/25/18
This happens because nu-males don't control their women. No...
sickened electric furnace
  09/25/18
Domestic violence laws make it impossible
autistic apoplectic resort
  09/25/18
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Balding Elastic Band
  09/26/18
OP doesn't strike me as a nu-male who listens to pop culture...
bateful tantric school cafeteria
  09/25/18
really? he strikes me as a whiny gigaqueer, which he is, whi...
Nofapping heaven nowag
  09/25/18
There's not a fucking thing I can do. I'm not a push over a...
180 associate
  09/25/18
Yeah I have trouble with this. Never got married cause I jus...
cream cheese-eating menage personal credit line
  09/25/18
you are 100% a pushover. you let your wife walk all ov...
Nofapping heaven nowag
  09/25/18
What's your suggestion? Knock her ass out?
180 associate
  09/25/18
deus vult, you're a solid dude, but I'm not sure if you real...
180 associate
  09/25/18
were not talking about her, were talking about you. you...
Nofapping heaven nowag
  09/25/18
Cr. And Ljl at getting married without a prenup
Floppy Base
  09/25/18
ljl at thinking a prenup means shit against a psycho wife wi...
bearded sadistic pit
  09/25/18
lol yea sure
Violent senate tank
  09/26/18
lol
vibrant new version whorehouse
  09/26/18
Reminds me of the time my wife got concerned about my guns ...
curious hyperactive preventive strike sex offender
  09/26/18
This is why Robin Williams killedself basicallt. Why not...
autistic apoplectic resort
  09/25/18
You've got nothing to lose, just live the life you want at t...
honey-headed community account
  09/25/18
This is probably the best response of the thread
180 associate
  09/25/18
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autistic apoplectic resort
  09/25/18
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Bat-shit-crazy exhilarant business firm kitty cat
  09/25/18
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green international law enforcement agency mad cow disease
  09/25/18
Maybe I should accept my fate and go buy a big boat.
180 associate
  09/25/18
I would 100% start blowing money and hiding assets somewhere...
big-titted bonkers bawdyhouse
  09/25/18
wish for the best for you brother. Sorry to hear all of this
kink-friendly brunch yarmulke
  09/25/18
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galvanic magical parlor telephone
  09/25/18
jfc sorry you're going through this. i'd say it will get be...
Rambunctious Stead National Security Agency
  09/25/18
He can leave the country when daughter turns 18
autistic apoplectic resort
  09/25/18
Sounds like you need to put the divorce lawyer on hold and r...
sepia theater
  09/25/18
I normally would tell people not to divorce, but, in your si...
Trip Digit Ratio
  09/25/18
There's a part of me that wants to say, fuck it, let's do it...
180 associate
  09/25/18
I mean how much worse could divorce actually make things? Yo...
Trip Digit Ratio
  09/25/18
"not all women are hateful whores" Extraordin...
Nofapping heaven nowag
  09/25/18
as someone who's skipped out of more codependent relationshi...
Marvelous high-end den
  09/25/18
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Unholy chad set
  09/25/18
"you can create pdfs of brokerage statements showing lo...
bateful tantric school cafeteria
  09/25/18
mazel tov
Marvelous high-end den
  09/25/18
"cheating on you with tattooed men with criminal record...
Peach Library
  09/25/18
"good family court judge"
Marvelous high-end den
  09/25/18
Naw man, I think he's thinking of someone else.
180 associate
  09/25/18
no, i'm saying what you can say about her.
Marvelous high-end den
  09/25/18
He couldn’t lie about her. That would be immoral.
autistic apoplectic resort
  09/25/18
i didn't account for that.
Marvelous high-end den
  09/25/18
Lol
Passionate range love of her life
  09/25/18
cr
puce state
  09/25/18
Get a side piece. Maybe your wife is the type that is ok, j...
Vigorous Khaki Dopamine Lettuce
  09/25/18
she'll call him a disgusting asshole and not give him sex to...
Marvelous high-end den
  09/25/18
He's not getting sex now though. Not much to lose at this p...
Vigorous Khaki Dopamine Lettuce
  09/25/18
I cannot allow a situation where my wife has full custody of...
180 associate
  09/25/18
Would she want them full time? Perhaps that's your leverage.
snowy area
  09/25/18
- Marriage counseling or therapy - start putting liquid as...
Deep Azure Pistol
  09/25/18
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Chocolate Generalized Bond
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green international law enforcement agency mad cow disease
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The important question is how many years is she likely to ge...
adventurous mexican kitchen
  09/25/18
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Trip Digit Ratio
  09/25/18
doesn't it make more sense to gut it out until the end of th...
vibrant new version whorehouse
  09/25/18
It will take that long anyway and that's just more money for...
adventurous mexican kitchen
  09/25/18
okay so he only gets half of it. That still gives him a cush...
vibrant new version whorehouse
  09/25/18
yeah just open the books up. hell hire a sox compliance offi...
Marvelous high-end den
  09/25/18
http://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3735127&mc=43&...
Bat-shit-crazy exhilarant business firm kitty cat
  09/25/18
She's a SAHM, right? Did she have a career before? Definitel...
Peach Library
  09/25/18
Wrong. The cause is the divorce/alimony laws and this chick'...
snowy area
  09/25/18
JFC
Fragrant Flickering Hairy Legs
  09/25/18
she jokingly suggested she be my mistress (we were FWBs at o...
snowy area
  09/25/18
Hungry little buttsluts for GC
autistic apoplectic resort
  09/25/18
run
racy keepsake machete
  09/25/18
:(
thriller parlour haunted graveyard
  09/25/18
Thoughts and prayers.
Soul-stirring school
  09/25/18
Move to a state or country with no alimony/little alimony, t...
talking gas station doctorate
  09/25/18
Texas is one of the hardest states to get alimony payments ...
talking gas station doctorate
  09/25/18
Is this true?
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  07/31/23
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cowardly bearded prole mood
  09/25/18
Any family lawyers in here?
sepia theater
  09/25/18
I think two years in Texas would do it.
Passionate range love of her life
  09/25/18
Crrr. “Baby let’s move our life anywhere else and try again....
harsh soggy fat ankles
  09/25/18
Ran here for this. Also, do not underestimate at fault ...
Ruddy bull headed turdskin jap
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green international law enforcement agency mad cow disease
  09/25/18
dont divorce, just get your whore wife in line. man up.
Nofapping heaven nowag
  09/25/18
You know what man, fucking CR. But after years of this shit...
180 associate
  09/25/18
you have kids. fix it.
Nofapping heaven nowag
  09/25/18
Cr. Theres no winning with a woman like this. They actually ...
aqua cracking death wish
  09/25/18
I once read in a book that emotional women do this to feel a...
startling translucent market
  09/26/18
Can you have her committed to a mental institution? Some sta...
talking gas station doctorate
  09/25/18
Wow not flame: http://www.scalimonyreform.com Actually i...
amethyst university
  09/25/18
Jfc he's in literally the worst place for this
adventurous mexican kitchen
  09/25/18
LJL at that video of two women titled "Alimony is like ...
Fragrant Flickering Hairy Legs
  09/25/18
"I thought about it and realized: I don't want to work ...
maroon offensive hall
  09/25/18
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cowardly bearded prole mood
  09/25/18
Sorry to hear this. Can you elaborate on behavior? History ...
Obsidian son of senegal
  09/25/18
Hilarious that her mental illness gets her more money in SC...
amethyst university
  09/25/18
Get divorced. You'll be way happier and feel like you're in ...
aqua cracking death wish
  09/25/18
Can you ONE WEIRD TRICK this by moving to Georgia? Or is tha...
snowy area
  09/25/18
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Brilliant gaping
  09/25/18
Move to Russia or Mexico for 3 to 6 months, then divorcepwn ...
Arousing incel
  09/25/18
Get a job transfer to Texas, wait 6 months, divorce her.
concupiscible silver blood rage tanning salon
  09/25/18
Tcr
talking gas station doctorate
  09/25/18
This is the most credited advice so far.
Slate Home Filthpig
  09/25/18
100% cr.
Chocolate Generalized Bond
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underhanded stage stain
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feels like youve been giving this some thought.
crawly chapel foreskin
  09/25/18
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  11/19/19
Don't divorce. Also unretire from XO to cope. That said, a s...
histrionic institution genital piercing
  09/25/18
like all dudes, he was tricked by the facade she built as sh...
Marvelous high-end den
  09/25/18
Ljl at this naive virginal papist bullshit. Live with a wom...
adventurous mexican kitchen
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Buff Native Becky
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Very Tactful Rehab Degenerate
  09/25/18
sorry charles but this is cr
At-the-ready Lodge Antidepressant Drug
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*Naive person asks experienced person about his experiences*...
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  09/25/18
it's not an honest question you had an edge to it as if you'...
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At-the-ready Lodge Antidepressant Drug
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sinister point laser beams
  09/25/18
It’s weird to realize which poasters read certain threads v ...
amethyst university
  09/25/18
this is true. MW acted stupidly. but it doesn't mean he shou...
boyish umber people who are hurt
  09/25/18
Oh, I've read most of his threads and knew it was something ...
histrionic institution genital piercing
  09/25/18
Welcome home; we missed you. It's good to have you back.
irradiated pearl shrine
  09/25/18
cr, Muscadine is a top poaster and a great guy
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puce state
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burgundy reading party
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MW furiously googling South Carolina coastal wind patterns
Balding Elastic Band
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henna electric organic girlfriend
  11/15/19
The replies in this thread are amazing some giving conc...
Unholy chad set
  09/25/18
i really like it here
Hairraiser lay juggernaut
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autistic apoplectic resort
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underhanded stage stain
  09/25/18
u hittin the vape?
Fantasy-prone fear-inspiring step-uncle's house psychic
  09/25/18
yee
Unholy chad set
  09/25/18
"The Muscadine responses fall within roughly three cate...
aqua cracking death wish
  09/26/18
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Unholy chad set
  09/26/18
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Odious sooty deer antler hissy fit
  11/15/19
This is heartbreaking.
Passionate range love of her life
  09/25/18
Daddy Beds (aka a couch) would be a good moniker
Passionate range love of her life
  09/25/18
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startling translucent market
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Would your wife or her potential lawyer know about crypto? ...
contagious half-breed
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Brilliant gaping
  09/25/18
for old's time sake link to a poast where you debated why ge...
Marvelous high-end den
  09/25/18
Would your partners agree to cook the books for you? Might m...
rose hominid
  09/25/18
believe this has been covered, brother.
Marvelous high-end den
  09/25/18
suicide seems like a good idea
titillating mentally impaired sneaky criminal main people
  09/25/18
I’m really sorry to hear this bro and I hope that you maek i...
aromatic flatulent dingle berry
  09/25/18
All I can say is that I’m sorry for your awful situation.
comical onyx macaca
  09/25/18
Have you tried giving yourself a chance to love her?
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Big Wagecucks Location
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Carnelian stock car field
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Dashing codepig black woman
  09/26/18
Love you brother One of my all time favorite poasters an...
big-titted bonkers bawdyhouse
  09/25/18
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comical onyx macaca
  09/25/18
Can you find a way to get her committed to a mental hospital...
Up-to-no-good mental disorder piazza
  09/25/18
Russian passport + leave the US. Pay not one cent to your Ya...
Filthy messiness private investor
  09/25/18
Sorry to hear you are going through this. If anyone on XO ca...
Vivacious Dull National
  09/25/18
you see the answer. we all do. it's just what are the chance...
Marvelous high-end den
  09/25/18
The answer is keep your money in Russia and get the fuck out...
Filthy messiness private investor
  09/25/18
haha wow holy shit
appetizing charcoal ticket booth dysfunction
  09/25/18
stuffwhitepeoplelike: pretending they live in the first worl...
provocative nursing home
  09/25/18
Fake some attacks by her. Run into a wall, call the cops an...
Sienna Wrinkle
  09/25/18
Brother: I retired for the same reason.... our story is t...
diverse idiot puppy
  09/25/18
lol@ this thread literally being a battered husband syndrome...
provocative nursing home
  09/25/18
it’s not like that I’m not battered. I made choices. But...
diverse idiot puppy
  09/25/18
denial...yes
provocative nursing home
  09/25/18
(Guy whose wife fleeced him and went back to Russia)
aromatic flatulent dingle berry
  09/25/18
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provocative nursing home
  07/05/23
muscadine seems like a sincere guy but most of the posturing...
sinister point laser beams
  09/25/18
bro why are you even playing armchair psychiatrist with this...
provocative nursing home
  09/25/18
women are horrible. i have no reason to doubt his side. and ...
Marvelous high-end den
  09/25/18
I don't doubt that his wife is a bitch and he doesn't want t...
sinister point laser beams
  09/25/18
suppose it weren’t muscadine. I want to hear what u have to...
diverse idiot puppy
  09/25/18
i've almost married the flip hookers and law is actually, fu...
Marvelous high-end den
  09/25/18
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Date: September 25th, 2018 4:59 PM
Author: 180 associate

So, I was finally getting my shit together to get a divorce. Quitting XO was a part of that, being that coming hear to vent frustrations was a crutch that helped keep me complacent and stuck in this horrible marriage.

So, I sit down with the attorney, and we go into income. I had a good year last year, but I spent most of my excess money paying down my commercial building loan. Really, I feel like I have no money at all.

The attorney tells me that I'm looking at between 4k - 5k in alimony and then an additional 1k in child support. My base salary is 100k (with an additional 25k-100k in partnership distributions depending on the year). Thus, on my normal month, I have approx. 6,700 in take home pay, and I'm looking at seeing 5k at best going out the door.

I just can't stress enough how much I hate the situation I'm in. I worked so hard, kept my student loans down, took enormous chances to start my own business and suffered financial deprivation getting this business running, and it was all for nothing.

I could have been getting tatted up, smoking pot, drinking every night, working as a bartender or a first mate on a fishing boat, having a great time for the past 15 years. No, I chose to be a lawyer and work hard. It was all a lie. All of it.

The sheer magnitude of how badly I have fucked up my life is simply staggering. It's so bad that it's almost too profound to fully grasp.

So, my choices are stay married to just horrible, aggressive, frigid, awful shrew of a woman who cries and yells from the second she gets up until the second she can reach a state of disassociation through multiple hours of watching the fucking Bravo channel, or face what appears to be financial suicide.

Side note, I decided to get real about divorce because my daughter is starting to react to my wife's insanity. Some of it is funny, like her telling people that "Mommy hates Daddy, she's soooooo mad at him" frequently or referring to couches as "daddy beds," but some of it is not funny and I'm not going to share that.

I love my kids so much and that is the only reason that I don't put a bullet in my head.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887052)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:15 PM
Author: bateful tantric school cafeteria

How long would the alimony last for? There's got to be a sunset on that, right?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887201)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:18 PM
Author: 180 associate

Depends. If we couldn't settle, it would be until death/ remarriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887228)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:19 PM
Author: bateful tantric school cafeteria

Holy shit!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887247)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:20 PM
Author: adventurous mexican kitchen

The fuck? In futuro alimony barely exists anymore

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887253)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:24 PM
Author: crawly chapel foreskin

wtf. how old are you? in NJ you only get permanent alimony if the marriage is > 20 years.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887297)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:24 PM
Author: 180 associate

40.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887304)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:05 PM
Author: Passionate range love of her life

Your state sucks fucking ass.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887608)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:27 PM
Author: well-lubricated plaza weed whacker

There’s no way this is true even in california unless you were married for 30+ years. The alimony term shouldnt be for any longer than the length of the marriage and should likely be for less. However the Court would retain jurisdiction and could theoretically potentially order it to continue for some specified period of time but no way would it be for that long.

You will be paying child support for quite a while. Enjoy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887332)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:29 PM
Author: 180 associate

I do this kind of work, but I'm sharing what I was told when I went to a consult with another attorney. Maybe she was a little high on the figures(?)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887357)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:59 PM
Author: Marvelous high-end den

who whoa whoa...you consulted with a female lawyer?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887571)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:06 PM
Author: Passionate range love of her life

Lmao

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887613)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:08 PM
Author: charismatic meetinghouse clown

pwn3d

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887628)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 7:02 PM
Author: autistic apoplectic resort

lmao

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887989)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 8:10 PM
Author: cerebral smoky police squad center



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888429)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 8:27 PM
Author: Nofapping heaven nowag

how cucky is this guy?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888546)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 8:29 PM
Author: Marvelous high-end den

the only jew in south carolina.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888567)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:06 PM
Author: harsh soggy fat ankles

Is that the state? I’ve heard horror stories about their divorce law

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888864)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:14 PM
Author: Marvelous high-end den

yes, and that's what he's said over the years.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889321)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:18 PM
Author: Very Tactful Rehab Degenerate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888936)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:46 PM
Author: Big Wagecucks Location



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889158)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:03 PM
Author: Hairraiser lay juggernaut



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889261)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:04 PM
Author: Bat-shit-crazy exhilarant business firm kitty cat



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889263)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:04 PM
Author: burgundy reading party



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889269)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 9:24 AM
Author: Stubborn glassy locus depressive



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36891179)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 10:03 AM
Author: Unholy chad set



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36891402)



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Date: July 31st, 2023 1:27 PM
Author: naked nibblets



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46611991)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:38 PM
Author: underhanded stage stain

You don't know what you are talking about. A long term marriage is 10 years in California. On the hook for paying spousal support for life on a long term marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887433)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 8:28 PM
Author: motley indian lodge

you should seriously consider murdering your wife bro. take a vacation to the grand canyon then.....ooops.

*gently shoves her off* "honey! no no NO!! well kids....terrible, really terrible. but we'll move past it as a family."

not professional advice btw, but...some kind of advice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888558)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 8:29 PM
Author: motley indian lodge

"I could have been getting tatted up, smoking pot, drinking every night, working as a bartender or a first mate on a fishing boat, having a great time for the past 15 years. No, I chose to be a lawyer and work hard. It was all a lie. All of it."

hmmm.....yeah idk if that would work.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888564)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 9:46 AM
Author: Cocky Hospital

You can be a great lawyer and smoke pot and get wasted every night

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36891290)



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Date: April 4th, 2023 8:41 PM
Author: Purple razzle-dazzle temple mad-dog skullcap



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46144776)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:00 PM
Author: Heady bossy kitty box office

Don't divorce

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887061)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:02 PM
Author: 180 associate

that appears to be the answer

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887077)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:08 PM
Author: Heady bossy kitty box office

Would giving her a 1000 dollar allowance make her happy? You'd both win

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887136)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:11 PM
Author: 180 associate

She has about 1500 a month to blow and is very unhappy about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887174)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: aphrodisiac hell

The peterman story

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887551)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:06 PM
Author: Marvelous high-end den

haha wow, i'm guessing you don't hit her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887616)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:01 PM
Author: boyish umber people who are hurt

This is insane. How can her alimony be so high - child support I get.

Wait how does she get the kids anyway? Doesn’t she have a recorded history of mental problems.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887070)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:06 PM
Author: unhinged garnet feces



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887120)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:15 PM
Author: razzmatazz house quadroon



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887205)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: Marvelous high-end den

you must also think "she promised until death do us part; ergo she gets nothing for lying."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887454)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:03 PM
Author: sickened electric furnace

Don't divorce

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887083)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:08 PM
Author: 180 associate

That appears to be the answer. I feel bad for my children, it's an awful environment at my house.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887135)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:12 PM
Author: boyish umber people who are hurt

They would not be better off with your wife 100% of the time. That seems clear

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887176)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 9:47 AM
Author: Cocky Hospital



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36891294)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:07 PM
Author: disgusting sick legend

yeah... not sure what divorce would accomplish here other than destroying your daughter

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887133)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:10 PM
Author: Olive roast beef stage

And relegating you to shack-in-the-hood-like living conditions until (if) your salary

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887155)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:10 PM
Author: 180 associate

Really, this is a shitty way to go through life, although it seems clear now that I don't have any viable alternatives.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887162)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:11 PM
Author: disgusting sick legend

i'm sorry, brother. good luck, i hope your wife calms down somehow, although that might not seem likely.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887171)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:14 PM
Author: 180 associate

"Maybe something will change." Me on marriage/ crypto

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887198)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:16 PM
Author: bateful tantric school cafeteria

ouch

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887215)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:08 PM
Author: Fragrant Flickering Hairy Legs

What a shitty set of options. Sorry bro. As an unmarriedmo, I can't imagine having to live with that everyday. But it sounds like divorce isn't a viable option either.

Good luck.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887139)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:08 PM
Author: sickened electric furnace

FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE!

you signed the contract. You know how this works, Mr. Lawyer

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887140)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:09 PM
Author: autistic apoplectic resort



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887146)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:16 PM
Author: 180 associate

At no time in my life was this ever more crystal clear than today.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887214)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:09 PM
Author: Stimulating office twinkling uncleanness

How does alimony work in your state? In my state, spousal support only goes on for a certain amount of time. You might be fucked financially for a few years, but you'll be way happier and long term will be able to get back what you have given up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887150)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:10 PM
Author: Slate Home Filthpig

How are those alimony calculations correct? You'd be homeless.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887153)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:11 PM
Author: 180 associate

What was this?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887170)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:12 PM
Author: adventurous mexican kitchen

I mean he's not counting the 100k bonus, but yeah that does suck

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887180)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:13 PM
Author: 180 associate

Distributions from past year are going to be factored into monthly alimony.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887186)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:14 PM
Author: snowy area

why not do monthly based on cash flow with an additional payment at distribution time, i.e., her alimony would mirror your comp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887197)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:16 PM
Author: 180 associate

In a negotiation, if it came to that, I would have to work something like into an agreement. I would be left with almost nothing if it were done on a monthly basis (which is the way that courts prefer to award alimony).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887209)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:18 PM
Author: bateful tantric school cafeteria

So if you wait a year or two and don't work as hard, maybe the alimony amount would be less?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887224)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:18 PM
Author: 180 associate

How could I do that as a lawyer?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887233)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:20 PM
Author: bateful tantric school cafeteria

Take fewer cases/clients. Bill fewer hours. Fish more.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887254)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:08 PM
Author: Passionate range love of her life

Not at age 40. That’s make or break time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887624)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:12 PM
Author: bateful tantric school cafeteria

Given the circumstances, a one-year slow down might be worth it.

Also, fuck that. I'm in the same boat and lazy as shit about making $$$.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887651)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:53 PM
Author: sinister point laser beams

you're getting divorced? you used to be one of the most obnoxious marriage+kids=human destiny trolls on this shitbort.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889656)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 11:22 PM
Author: bateful tantric school cafeteria

Sorry, when I said "I'm in the same boat" I meant approximately 40 with my own law practice. I am an unabashed marriage and kids troll, but not sure about the human destiny part.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889873)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 7:41 PM
Author: boyish umber people who are hurt

I could pull that off with remarkable ease

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888215)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:09 PM
Author: charismatic meetinghouse clown

might still get "imputed income" pwn3d

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887631)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:12 PM
Author: bateful tantric school cafeteria

Yeah, I'm ignorant about how it works (in general and in SC).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887654)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:07 PM
Author: Passionate range love of her life

Wait a year and bank all the cash from distributions. Say you lost it all in crypto.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887623)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:10 PM
Author: Pontificating razzle church building rigor

divorce and move to thailand

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887157)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:10 PM
Author: crawly chapel foreskin

Staying married longer is stupid if this is your situation. How long was the marriage? There's a light at the end of the tunnel re: alimony, but if you stay married for much longer it becomes but a fleeting glimmer.

No idea what state you are in but I could provide my general thoughts if you were interested.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887158)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:10 PM
Author: walnut low-t sweet tailpipe sanctuary

I remember you bragging about how good SC divorce law was for men one time.

Anyways, how does she get alimony?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887163)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:12 PM
Author: 180 associate

If she commits adultery, it would be great. She's not going to do that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887178)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:19 PM
Author: bateful tantric school cafeteria

Do you need a 6'4" jacked pumo PE baller to help you (her) out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887241)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:14 PM
Author: rose hominid

Hire a PI to frame her. This is legal advice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887666)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:35 PM
Author: ultramarine exciting masturbator crackhouse



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889483)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:12 PM
Author: submissive legal warrant coffee pot

hire a man to seduce her and document the evidence of her cheating, and use that as ammo in the divorce. i'm not a lawyer but i'm pretty sure you can get alimony reduced or thrown out if your partner is caught blatantly cheating on you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887177)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:13 PM
Author: adventurous mexican kitchen

You actually can't in most places

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887189)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:15 PM
Author: Slate Home Filthpig

I hate libs

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887200)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:15 PM
Author: autistic apoplectic resort

His only shot is gaslighting her into trying (and hopefully failing) to kill him

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887203)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:15 PM
Author: submissive legal warrant coffee pot

but....wait a minute....wouldn't that mean....

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887204)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:23 PM
Author: Fragrant Flickering Hairy Legs

South Carolina allows fault based divorce and not providing for alimony to the spouse at fault

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887280)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:24 PM
Author: adventurous mexican kitchen

Cruel and inhuman treatment then

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887289)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:12 PM
Author: Supple Corner Karate

Hit her as hard as you can in the face with a closed fist.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887179)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:03 PM
Author: idiotic talented giraffe milk



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887598)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:18 PM
Author: Godawful opaque locale

Best advice ITT.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887689)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:35 PM
Author: ultramarine exciting masturbator crackhouse

cr. then do it at least 10 more times.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889489)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:12 PM
Author: cream cheese-eating menage personal credit line

I still don't fully understand why many women get so mean and angry as they age. I don't believe it's just genetic nuttiness. I'm not saying its your fault but do you have any insight into why it happened in your case or what you could have done differently to stop it? Do you think the change in American culture over the past ten years did it or was she headed down this path anyways?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887181)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:16 PM
Author: sickened electric furnace

This happens because nu-males don't control their women. Now his wife has turned into a raging banshee to the detriment of his kids... all because he didn't control his woman because GC told him that's wrong.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887207)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:17 PM
Author: autistic apoplectic resort

Domestic violence laws make it impossible

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887218)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 1:15 PM
Author: Balding Elastic Band



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36892929)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:22 PM
Author: bateful tantric school cafeteria

OP doesn't strike me as a nu-male who listens to pop culture re interpersonal affairs.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887271)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:26 PM
Author: Nofapping heaven nowag

really? he strikes me as a whiny gigaqueer, which he is, which is why his wife hates him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887321)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:24 PM
Author: 180 associate

There's not a fucking thing I can do. I'm not a push over and there is only so much shit I tolerate from her before I just leave the house.

I say this from the bottom of my heart: there is something seriously wrong with my wife. It's some sort of chemical imbalance, or autism, or just severe BP. But there is something wrong, her behavior is fucking nuts.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887299)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:28 PM
Author: cream cheese-eating menage personal credit line

Yeah I have trouble with this. Never got married cause I just walk away. Have no real desire to try to use passive aggressive husband and wife nonsense to keep a woman from going nuts. I suspect a lot of it has to do with gc frying their brains too. They see people consuming so much on instagram and don't fully understand the dynamics of 200k today vs thirty years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887343)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:30 PM
Author: Nofapping heaven nowag

you are 100% a pushover.

you let your wife walk all over you and just cry about it on xo. there is literally no way you could be more of a pushover. literally nothing could make you more of a pushover faggot.

you wouldnt be a pushover if you "left the house" because there was "only so much you could take." but you didnt. because youre a pushover.

edit: her chemical imbalance is being married to a bitchmade faggot.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887369)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:34 PM
Author: 180 associate

What's your suggestion? Knock her ass out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887405)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: 180 associate

deus vult, you're a solid dude, but I'm not sure if you really get what's going on here. When you have a woman that thrives on violent confrontation, regularly, and is perpetually angry, how do you think you can deal with this?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887422)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:39 PM
Author: Nofapping heaven nowag

were not talking about her, were talking about you.

you think she would get violent with me? if she did shed be making a mistake she wouldnt make twice.

time to tell her she thinks its one way but its the other way. you want to draw a line in the sand--so draw it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887441)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:15 PM
Author: Floppy Base

Cr. And Ljl at getting married without a prenup

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887672)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:40 PM
Author: bearded sadistic pit

ljl at thinking a prenup means shit against a psycho wife with a half-decent lawyer.

also, to respond to the poast above you: shut the fuck up steez you clitdick virgin.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889527)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 8:39 AM
Author: Violent senate tank

lol yea sure

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36891055)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 9:50 AM
Author: vibrant new version whorehouse

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36891323)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 9:55 AM
Author: curious hyperactive preventive strike sex offender

Reminds me of the time my wife got concerned about my guns

“What if you get drunk and want to hurt me?”

“If I want to hurt you I don’t need a gun.”

*panties moisten*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36891367)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:12 PM
Author: autistic apoplectic resort

This is why Robin Williams killedself basicallt.

Why not get a seperation ?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887182)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:13 PM
Author: honey-headed community account

You've got nothing to lose, just live the life you want at this point.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887193)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:18 PM
Author: 180 associate

This is probably the best response of the thread

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887236)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:21 PM
Author: autistic apoplectic resort



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887265)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: Bat-shit-crazy exhilarant business firm kitty cat



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887427)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:21 PM
Author: green international law enforcement agency mad cow disease



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888961)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:22 PM
Author: 180 associate

Maybe I should accept my fate and go buy a big boat.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887275)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 7:10 PM
Author: big-titted bonkers bawdyhouse

I would 100% start blowing money and hiding assets somewhere for your daughter jic

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888047)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:15 PM
Author: kink-friendly brunch yarmulke

wish for the best for you brother. Sorry to hear all of this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887206)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:16 PM
Author: galvanic magical parlor telephone



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887210)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:17 PM
Author: Rambunctious Stead National Security Agency

jfc sorry you're going through this. i'd say it will get better but it probably wont. we lost by playing in the first place.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887220)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:18 PM
Author: autistic apoplectic resort

He can leave the country when daughter turns 18

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887229)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:17 PM
Author: sepia theater

Sounds like you need to put the divorce lawyer on hold and retain an asset protection lawyer.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887223)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:18 PM
Author: Trip Digit Ratio

I normally would tell people not to divorce, but, in your situation, I would take the financial hit. Divorce is tough on kids, but it is not like your daughter is growing up in a stable household now. Would your wife actually want custody? She seems like she would rather not bother with raising a kid.

Free yourself from this situation, even if it means making a huge financial sacrifice. Learn to live like a poor dude and it could end up being a benefit to you in the end when you are raking in more money and have learned that GC-forced mass consumption is bullshit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887227)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:20 PM
Author: 180 associate

There's a part of me that wants to say, fuck it, let's do it anyways and see what happens.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887255)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:26 PM
Author: Trip Digit Ratio

I mean how much worse could divorce actually make things? You would be poorer, sure, but at least you can get on with your life. You are resigning yourself to a life of no sex and no love. Divorced, you might fall in love again with someone else who would make you happy. Despite xo consensus, not all women are hateful whores.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887317)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 8:26 PM
Author: Nofapping heaven nowag

"not all women are hateful whores"

Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888542)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:18 PM
Author: Marvelous high-end den

as someone who's skipped out of more codependent relationships with personality disorder laden women...start dissipating your marital estate into foreign accounts disguising the losses as business expenses or bad investments (you can create pdfs of brokerage statements showing losses in shit you never bought). i won't go into details but suffice to say you need three things:

(1) your kid(s) - so dirty her up. start calling dcf and mentioning her cursing, cheating on you with tattooed men with criminal records, her drug and drinking problem, her suicide attempts, her miscarriage taking it on your daughter, etc. etc.

(2) no alimony. guise up the demise of the marital estate and your own income. have your partners "fire you" or knock your salary down to $40K with deferred bonuses sitting on muni funds for interest under a shell company's account.

(3) you can't be with her. as much as being a lawyer sucks, being a lawyer with no reason to make money for someone to make you suffer regardless, there's a world of difference.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887232)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:22 PM
Author: Unholy chad set



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887267)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:24 PM
Author: bateful tantric school cafeteria

"you can create pdfs of brokerage statements showing losses in shit you never bought"

That sounds like some top-notch legal advice right there.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887301)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:29 PM
Author: Marvelous high-end den

mazel tov

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887366)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:26 PM
Author: Peach Library

"cheating on you with tattooed men with criminal records, her drug and drinking problem, her suicide attempts, her miscarriage taking it on your daughter,"

His wife did all that? Oh dear lord. Hang in there OP.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887322)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:30 PM
Author: Marvelous high-end den

"good family court judge"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887370)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: 180 associate

Naw man, I think he's thinking of someone else.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887373)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:39 PM
Author: Marvelous high-end den

no, i'm saying what you can say about her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887438)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: autistic apoplectic resort

He couldn’t lie about her. That would be immoral.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887453)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: Marvelous high-end den

i didn't account for that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887459)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:09 PM
Author: Passionate range love of her life

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887633)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:48 PM
Author: puce state

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887908)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:19 PM
Author: Vigorous Khaki Dopamine Lettuce

Get a side piece. Maybe your wife is the type that is ok, just as long as it's not too obvious.

If that's too much I would at least raise the option the next time she jokes about not having sex with you. Watch her reaction. She might surprise you.

At the very least, she will know you don't find it very funny.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887239)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:20 PM
Author: Marvelous high-end den

she'll call him a disgusting asshole and not give him sex too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887252)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:22 PM
Author: Vigorous Khaki Dopamine Lettuce

He's not getting sex now though. Not much to lose at this point.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887274)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:27 PM
Author: 180 associate

I cannot allow a situation where my wife has full custody of the kids. That woman can't take care of a dog much less children on a full time basis.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887328)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:29 PM
Author: snowy area

Would she want them full time? Perhaps that's your leverage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887362)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:19 PM
Author: Deep Azure Pistol

- Marriage counseling or therapy

- start putting liquid assets in a trust for the kid

- take on a shitload of debt for new commercia ventures

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887244)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:21 PM
Author: kink-friendly brunch yarmulke



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887259)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:22 PM
Author: Unholy chad set



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887273)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:34 PM
Author: Chocolate Generalized Bond



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887402)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 8:47 PM
Author: Hairraiser lay juggernaut



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888712)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:36 PM
Author: green international law enforcement agency mad cow disease



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889498)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:19 PM
Author: adventurous mexican kitchen

The important question is how many years is she likely to get. Bloodacre is right that you're better off acting sooner rather than later. Yes you'll be dirt ass poor until your distribution, but that's doable and it will only get worse.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887246)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:20 PM
Author: Trip Digit Ratio



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887250)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:21 PM
Author: vibrant new version whorehouse

doesn't it make more sense to gut it out until the end of the year so at least you have the distribution in the bank to live off of for the next year?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887261)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:23 PM
Author: adventurous mexican kitchen

It will take that long anyway and that's just more money for her to get initially. So fuck no

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887283)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:25 PM
Author: vibrant new version whorehouse

okay so he only gets half of it. That still gives him a cushion and keeps him from having to stay in some flop house

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887309)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:29 PM
Author: Marvelous high-end den

yeah just open the books up. hell hire a sox compliance officer for your wife to review your financials.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887359)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:20 PM
Author: Bat-shit-crazy exhilarant business firm kitty cat

http://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3735127&mc=43&forum_id=2

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887248)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:20 PM
Author: Peach Library

She's a SAHM, right? Did she have a career before? Definitely one of the potential drawbacks with trying to live in a "traditional" marriage with the wife at home. With social media and modern lifestyles, the desire to consume is endless and women without real jobs don't appreciate how hard it is nowadays to bring in the dough. When each side is bringing in about the same an amicable split is a lot easier.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887249)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:25 PM
Author: snowy area

Wrong. The cause is the divorce/alimony laws and this chick's illness and personality, not that a wife is raising the kids at home.

Women with jobs consume just as much -- more even. My fiend who is a senior associate has been laid off a bunch of times. and each time after YEARS of making 250-400k per year by herself, she was literally 90 days from being on the streets and destitute with no money. That's how much she consumed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887307)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: Fragrant Flickering Hairy Legs

JFC

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887398)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: snowy area

she jokingly suggested she be my mistress (we were FWBs at one point). i guarantee she would have accepted if i had offered.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887417)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: autistic apoplectic resort

Hungry little buttsluts for GC

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887423)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:21 PM
Author: racy keepsake machete

run

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887258)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:21 PM
Author: thriller parlour haunted graveyard

:(

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887260)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:21 PM
Author: Soul-stirring school

Thoughts and prayers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887266)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:23 PM
Author: talking gas station doctorate

Move to a state or country with no alimony/little alimony, then get divorced.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887278)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:24 PM
Author: talking gas station doctorate

Texas is one of the hardest states to get alimony payments in the country. ..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887303)



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Date: July 31st, 2023 7:33 PM
Author: Alcoholic theater stage

Is this true?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46613626)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:34 PM
Author: cowardly bearded prole mood



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887406)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:46 PM
Author: sepia theater

Any family lawyers in here?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887498)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:10 PM
Author: Passionate range love of her life

I think two years in Texas would do it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887637)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:16 PM
Author: harsh soggy fat ankles

Crrr. “Baby let’s move our life anywhere else and try again. For our kids sake. How about Texas?”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888926)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:26 PM
Author: Ruddy bull headed turdskin jap

Ran here for this.

Also, do not underestimate at fault states and how effectively you can entrap her into being at fault.

I post this as my standard thought on divorce law.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/H._Beatty_Chadwick



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889405)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:36 PM
Author: green international law enforcement agency mad cow disease



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889493)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:23 PM
Author: Nofapping heaven nowag

dont divorce, just get your whore wife in line.

man up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887284)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:28 PM
Author: 180 associate

You know what man, fucking CR. But after years of this shit, at some point you have to be real and admit defeat. This woman thrives on conflict and loves nothing more than to fly off the handle in a rage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887344)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: Nofapping heaven nowag

you have kids. fix it.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887396)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:40 PM
Author: aqua cracking death wish

Cr. Theres no winning with a woman like this. They actually enjoy the conflict because it's how they feel like they matter

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887451)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 4:56 PM
Author: startling translucent market

I once read in a book that emotional women do this to feel alive. It's very common for emotional women to start conflicts when their life is boring because they need to feel. Negative or positive emotions are better than none. Drama makes them feel alive which is better than straight boredom of everyday life, especially for a sahm.

I forgot exactly how you're supposed to respond but they said she will appreciate a spanking. She needs boundaries and wants you, as a man, to set them for her. She will respect you more and feel safer when you spank her. Google it if you're serious about improving your situation without resorting to expensive divorce. Not flame.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36894728)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:26 PM
Author: talking gas station doctorate

Can you have her committed to a mental institution? Some states allow involuntary commitment.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887325)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:28 PM
Author: amethyst university

Wow not flame:

http://www.scalimonyreform.com

Actually if Muscadine was a super long running men’s rights flame schtick I bow down.

Lol at you SC cucks. Texas caps at 5k or 20% of gross income per month, whichever is lower and cuts it off at 5 years if the marriage lasted 10-20. I make more than your best year and would pay a mere 5k per month in alimony and child support and have a glorious 3500 a month to live on, and would jump to 6k plus whatever additional earnings I build minus child support for the 10 remaining years until our youngest was 18.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887346)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:30 PM
Author: adventurous mexican kitchen

Jfc he's in literally the worst place for this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887368)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: Fragrant Flickering Hairy Legs

LJL at that video of two women titled "Alimony is like winning the lottery!"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887420)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 11:20 PM
Author: maroon offensive hall

"I thought about it and realized: I don't want to work that hard!"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889852)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:29 PM
Author: cowardly bearded prole mood



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887363)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:32 PM
Author: Obsidian son of senegal

Sorry to hear this. Can you elaborate on behavior? History of mental illness or substance use? Does she think she has an issue?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887380)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:32 PM
Author: amethyst university

Hilarious that her mental illness gets her more money in SC.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887387)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: aqua cracking death wish

Get divorced. You'll be way happier and feel like you're in control even if you're a poor. Try to get her to settle for no alimony even if it means surrendering almost everything you have including retirement accounts

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887399)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:35 PM
Author: snowy area

Can you ONE WEIRD TRICK this by moving to Georgia? Or is that too far?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887408)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: Brilliant gaping



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887419)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:38 PM
Author: Arousing incel

Move to Russia or Mexico for 3 to 6 months, then divorcepwn that bitch.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887436)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:43 PM
Author: concupiscible silver blood rage tanning salon

Get a job transfer to Texas, wait 6 months, divorce her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887470)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:44 PM
Author: talking gas station doctorate

Tcr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887476)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:44 PM
Author: Slate Home Filthpig

This is the most credited advice so far.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887480)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:46 PM
Author: Chocolate Generalized Bond

100% cr.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887491)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:47 PM
Author: cowardly bearded prole mood



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887504)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:02 PM
Author: maize excitant indirect expression



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887596)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:07 PM
Author: green international law enforcement agency mad cow disease



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887618)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:40 PM
Author: underhanded stage stain



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887850)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:52 PM
Author: crawly chapel foreskin

feels like youve been giving this some thought.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889652)



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Date: November 19th, 2019 10:54 AM
Author: lilac multi-colored place of business trailer park



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39139282)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:46 PM
Author: histrionic institution genital piercing

Don't divorce. Also unretire from XO to cope. That said, a serious question: Why did you want to marry the woman who became your wife in the first place? How did you end up together and what factors made you choose her as "the one?"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887499)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:50 PM
Author: Marvelous high-end den

like all dudes, he was tricked by the facade she built as she disguised her psychotic craziness until inertia brought the relationship here, whether pre-engagement or the facade falling around year 5 f marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887525)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: adventurous mexican kitchen

Ljl at this naive virginal papist bullshit. Live with a woman then get back to us

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887580)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 7:03 PM
Author: Buff Native Becky



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888001)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:20 PM
Author: Very Tactful Rehab Degenerate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888952)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:24 PM
Author: At-the-ready Lodge Antidepressant Drug

sorry charles but this is cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888983)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:39 PM
Author: histrionic institution genital piercing

*Naive person asks experienced person about his experiences*

XO: WTF idiot!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889112)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:15 PM
Author: Marvelous high-end den

it's not an honest question you had an edge to it as if you're above this occurrence and nobody is, ever.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889329)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 12:37 PM
Author: At-the-ready Lodge Antidepressant Drug



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36892583)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:58 PM
Author: shimmering wonderful internal respiration



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889697)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:55 PM
Author: sinister point laser beams



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889680)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 7:06 PM
Author: amethyst university

It’s weird to realize which poasters read certain threads v other poasters who completely miss them. Muscadine has explained at some length more than once that she was blatantly crazy from the jump and he willed himself to excuse and overlook it. His wife was the hot, big titted, crazy chick at the bar one night, and he met her when he was drunk and feeling good about himself. And then his dick took over and next thing he knew he was married.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888024)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 7:40 PM
Author: boyish umber people who are hurt

this is true. MW acted stupidly. but it doesn't mean he should be getting fucked

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888210)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 7:52 PM
Author: histrionic institution genital piercing

Oh, I've read most of his threads and knew it was something like that, but I was just interested in a refresher and getting more details, for the sake of possibly learning from this human tragedy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888298)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:51 PM
Author: irradiated pearl shrine

Welcome home; we missed you. It's good to have you back.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887527)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:52 PM
Author: snowy area

cr, Muscadine is a top poaster and a great guy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887532)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:38 PM
Author: curious hyperactive preventive strike sex offender



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889108)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:39 PM
Author: Infuriating Alcoholic Newt Abode



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889522)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:54 PM
Author: aphrodisiac hell

You can get an amateur weather balloon for $300 that would take something the same weight as an average human up to an altitude so high that it would probably travel 100 miles over the sea before falling from a height so great that whatever was attached would disintegrate on impact and quickly be eaten by fish&sharks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887546)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:59 PM
Author: Marvelous high-end den



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887568)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:07 PM
Author: Unholy chad set



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Date: September 25th, 2018 7:04 PM
Author: Deep Azure Pistol



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888007)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 8:04 PM
Author: Impertinent Immigrant



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888383)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 8:12 PM
Author: cerebral smoky police squad center



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888445)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:00 PM
Author: Hairraiser lay juggernaut



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888824)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:24 PM
Author: green international law enforcement agency mad cow disease



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888986)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:25 PM
Author: At-the-ready Lodge Antidepressant Drug



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888992)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:37 PM
Author: Rusted mind-boggling background story



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889104)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 11:31 PM
Author: puce state



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889942)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 4:20 AM
Author: burgundy reading party



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36890801)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 1:25 PM
Author: Balding Elastic Band

MW furiously googling South Carolina coastal wind patterns

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36893005)



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Date: November 15th, 2019 5:23 AM
Author: henna electric organic girlfriend



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39121244)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:02 PM
Author: Unholy chad set

The replies in this thread are amazing

some giving concrete advice based on legal reasoning

others giving advice from personal exp

others giving examples of toxic women

others coming from a religious point of view

some lamenting the end of western civilization

some giving possibly illegal legal advice

some providing methods in which OP could murder his wife and get away with it

just lulzy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887592)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:01 PM
Author: Hairraiser lay juggernaut

i really like it here

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888829)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:48 PM
Author: autistic apoplectic resort



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889597)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 11:27 PM
Author: underhanded stage stain



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889909)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:16 PM
Author: Fantasy-prone fear-inspiring step-uncle's house psychic

u hittin the vape?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888928)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:26 PM
Author: Unholy chad set

yee

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889401)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 9:50 AM
Author: aqua cracking death wish

"The Muscadine responses fall within roughly three categories"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36891331)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 3:21 PM
Author: Unholy chad set



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36894019)



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Date: November 15th, 2019 6:46 AM
Author: Odious sooty deer antler hissy fit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39121349)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:04 PM
Author: Passionate range love of her life

This is heartbreaking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887602)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:05 PM
Author: Passionate range love of her life

Daddy Beds (aka a couch) would be a good moniker

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887611)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 4:59 PM
Author: startling translucent market



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36894757)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:08 PM
Author: contagious half-breed

Would your wife or her potential lawyer know about crypto?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887627)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:11 PM
Author: Brilliant gaping



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887643)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:12 PM
Author: Marvelous high-end den

for old's time sake link to a poast where you debated why getting engaged to her was a great idea on your part.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887650)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:25 PM
Author: rose hominid

Would your partners agree to cook the books for you? Might mean filing a felonious tax return. Not sure I'd do that for a friend.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887741)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:41 PM
Author: Marvelous high-end den

believe this has been covered, brother.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887853)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:25 PM
Author: titillating mentally impaired sneaky criminal main people

suicide seems like a good idea

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887744)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:38 PM
Author: aromatic flatulent dingle berry

I’m really sorry to hear this bro and I hope that you maek it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887835)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:38 PM
Author: comical onyx macaca

All I can say is that I’m sorry for your awful situation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887838)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:48 PM
Author: spruce public bath

Have you tried giving yourself a chance to love her?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887902)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 7:08 PM
Author: amethyst university



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:01 PM
Author: Big Wagecucks Location



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Date: September 25th, 2018 11:45 PM
Author: puce state



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Date: September 26th, 2018 9:32 AM
Author: Carnelian stock car field



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Date: September 26th, 2018 1:35 PM
Author: Dashing codepig black woman



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Date: September 25th, 2018 7:01 PM
Author: big-titted bonkers bawdyhouse

Love you brother

One of my all time favorite poasters and have been following this awhile

Let this be a cautionary i told you so take for all poasters to see that all is flame under the sun, but nothing moar flame than love and marriage

im a Chad btw

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887985)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 7:07 PM
Author: comical onyx macaca



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888029)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 7:08 PM
Author: Up-to-no-good mental disorder piazza

Can you find a way to get her committed to a mental hospital instead?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888032)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 7:09 PM
Author: Filthy messiness private investor

Russian passport + leave the US. Pay not one cent to your Yankee wife. Glory to the empire.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888037)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 7:13 PM
Author: Vivacious Dull National

Sorry to hear you are going through this. If anyone on XO can relate to your situation, it has to be me. It is not your fault your wife is a raving cluster B bitch. There is no "controlling" a person who innately has these traits. It is not a reflection on you as a man.

It enrages me to hear this is how you would be treated by the court system - you don't deserve this and the way men are treated by family courts is a huge injustice. I don't see any good answer for your situation, but wish you luck.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888067)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 7:24 PM
Author: Marvelous high-end den

you see the answer. we all do. it's just what are the chances of getting away clean plus the happiness co-efficient of starting over divided over the csi skills needed to avoid the electric chair.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888143)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 7:36 PM
Author: Filthy messiness private investor

The answer is keep your money in Russia and get the fuck out of Yankeestan.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888187)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 7:15 PM
Author: appetizing charcoal ticket booth dysfunction

haha wow holy shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888074)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 8:48 PM
Author: provocative nursing home

stuffwhitepeoplelike: pretending they live in the first world

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888719)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:33 PM
Author: Sienna Wrinkle

Fake some attacks by her. Run into a wall, call the cops and say she attacked you. File for divorce for cause. No alimony that way

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889078)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:14 PM
Author: diverse idiot puppy

Brother:

I retired for the same reason.... our story is the same. Daughter, wife, illness, condition. I am younger than you but not by much. Our daughters are the same age

I wish I could reach out to you. I know you are hurting so bad

Fuck deus vult. Morons like him don’t understand

I’m going underground after posting this and will never come back, but stay strong and I’m going to try to do the same

I promise (and I mean it) I think about you and will pray for you often

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889324)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:19 PM
Author: provocative nursing home

lol@ this thread literally being a battered husband syndrome support thread

when will cumskins take control of their women? serious question.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889360)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:33 PM
Author: diverse idiot puppy

it’s not like that

I’m not battered. I made choices. But it is what it is.

Good luck to all

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889462)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:36 PM
Author: provocative nursing home

denial...yes

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889492)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:54 PM
Author: aromatic flatulent dingle berry

(Guy whose wife fleeced him and went back to Russia)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889666)



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Date: July 5th, 2023 1:17 AM
Author: provocative nursing home



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46510297)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:24 PM
Author: sinister point laser beams

muscadine seems like a sincere guy but most of the posturing in the OP is a massive red flag that he's heavily in denial about some of what is occurring here.

people that are this one-sided and self-martyring about their domestic circumstances are rarely willing to relate the whole truth of the matter. it's natural - he's posting to receive support and encouragement, so you're going to get a pitch of some sort.

muscadine, brother, please don't let alcohol and self-pity over aging out of being too old to get pussy like when you were young completely remove you from rational hesitancy. i'm not saying don't deal with your problems, but you're an alcoholic, an egoist, and underdeveloped due to your nostalgia for your salad says. if you devolve further into this victim/cross-dragging mentality over your failed marriage to the extent that you start having middle-aged Baby Boomer pity parties because of 'all the lies you were told,' then you're bound to fail at this life transition.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889387)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:27 PM
Author: provocative nursing home

bro why are you even playing armchair psychiatrist with this guy.

its simple: the guy is trapped by a third world marriage and now he realizes there is NO WAY OUT

you act as if he ever had a choice to begin with. and that makes him a true tragedy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889413)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:27 PM
Author: Marvelous high-end den

women are horrible. i have no reason to doubt his side. and i'm sure the shit his kids say is as bad as watching that golden retriever video. women are disgusting monsters.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889414)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:46 PM
Author: sinister point laser beams

I don't doubt that his wife is a bitch and he doesn't want to be married to her anymore. i also believe he loves his kids and he has grown to think that this is all for their sake. can't really comment on the latter point and he'll inevitably fly into a rage if i suggest i really know the truth of his situation, so I'll back away from that.

the real thrust is that this guy sees himself as a faultless lamb in a hellstorm of completely unfair circumstances. his marriage is a fraud. his career is a fraud. his life broadly is a fraud because he could have been having so much fucking fun as a merchant marine making $32K a year and banging flip hookers on his once-a-month 11 hours of shore leave. he'd get tats and rail lines! he'd be a bartender and life in a cool loft where he would bang hot chicks!

he's in full blown self-pitying indulgence mode. it's part and parcel to wistful boozing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889579)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:49 PM
Author: diverse idiot puppy

suppose it weren’t muscadine. I want to hear what u have to say. Don’t hold back.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889617)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:50 PM
Author: Marvelous high-end den

i've almost married the flip hookers and law is actually, fuck, equal in shitiness.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889627)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 11:01 PM
Author: Irate stirring theatre cumskin



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889721)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 3:17 PM
Author: Violent senate tank

I don't doubt that his wife is a horrible bitch and all the shit he says about her is true but I also get that sense too that he's not as perfect as he let's on.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36893976)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:24 PM
Author: green international law enforcement agency mad cow disease

Seriously, you must know that this can't actually stand. No point in continuing on as is.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889391)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:49 PM
Author: sinister point laser beams

what is your murder-suicide plan if, on one of your routine fidelity checks, you discover that seven years ago mandy made out with a drunk law school acquaintance in an opportunistic moment?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889607)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 11:09 PM
Author: green international law enforcement agency mad cow disease

I'm confident she has never done that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889764)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 11:20 PM
Author: Ruddy bull headed turdskin jap

Because neither of you interacted with other students in law school or for some other reason?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889851)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 11:21 PM
Author: green international law enforcement agency mad cow disease

The fact that she is totally antisocial helps, sure.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889862)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 11:24 PM
Author: Irate stirring theatre cumskin

Do you think Mandy ever fantasizes about a taller guy with a bigger dick and less sour breath?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889888)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 11:24 PM
Author: green international law enforcement agency mad cow disease

No and wtf @ the sour breath???

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889893)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 12:40 PM
Author: bateful tantric school cafeteria

That was the best part

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36892614)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 4:02 AM
Author: cruel-hearted wild goal in life

Keep talking shit about Bravo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36890779)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 3:23 PM
Author: boyish umber people who are hurt



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36894045)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 4:16 AM
Author: Lascivious canary water buffalo

I thought you love BBW

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36890796)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 8:31 AM
Author: laughsome site

Hey man i hope you're still lurking at least. Your situation is toxic as fuck and will only get worse. Your interpersonal relationship with her will never improve but the longer this goes on the worse the financial impact will be. You will have been married for longer and you will likely be earning more. So if you are at this point you need to bite the bullet and move forward. A year from now you will not believe you ever waited so long.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36891043)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 9:02 AM
Author: cruel-hearted wild goal in life

He's 180. Needs to dump her fast and post more

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36891112)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 11:50 PM
Author: bisexual principal's office fortuitous meteor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36897812)



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Date: November 15th, 2019 1:44 AM
Author: Lascivious canary water buffalo

His solution was to impregnate the sack of shit again.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39121093)



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Date: November 15th, 2019 1:53 AM
Author: big-titted bonkers bawdyhouse



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39121108)



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Date: November 15th, 2019 6:02 AM
Author: cerebral smoky police squad center



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39121302)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 9:09 AM
Author: bisexual principal's office fortuitous meteor

Sorry friend. If you ever need to chat. Xojoedirtexo@gmail.com.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36891139)



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Date: November 15th, 2019 1:28 AM
Author: provocative nursing home

good times

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39121057)



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Date: November 15th, 2019 1:36 AM
Author: Lascivious canary water buffalo

180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39121076)



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Date: November 15th, 2019 1:39 AM
Author: provocative nursing home

muscadine is in a better place now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39121084)



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Date: November 15th, 2019 1:40 AM
Author: Lascivious canary water buffalo

Now he has 3 kids with the same nutbag. The world is now an infinitely worse place.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39121085)



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Date: November 15th, 2019 1:44 AM
Author: provocative nursing home

lol no way

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39121092)



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Date: November 15th, 2019 1:45 AM
Author: Lascivious canary water buffalo

Yeah he made a post about it this week. He got the bitch pregnant again!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39121094)



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Date: November 15th, 2019 1:52 AM
Author: provocative nursing home

lollercausting hard ITT

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39121106)



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Date: November 15th, 2019 1:55 AM
Author: Lascivious canary water buffalo

Nothing funny about it, it's profoundly fucked up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39121111)



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Date: April 4th, 2023 8:42 PM
Author: Passionate range love of her life

He reached an emotionally mature place.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46144784)



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Date: November 19th, 2019 9:46 AM
Author: 180 associate

I'm glad that I didn't file for divorce. My wife and I are getting along much better and my life is much better today having stayed married than what I imagine a divorce would have brought.

That being said, this thread was fun to read, if anything just to reminisce about how bad things really got.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39138982)



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Date: November 19th, 2019 10:45 AM
Author: Spectacular Station

charles was right

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39139219)



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Date: November 19th, 2019 10:49 AM
Author: 180 associate

yea, seems he was

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39139251)



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Date: November 19th, 2019 11:07 AM
Author: histrionic institution genital piercing

180, glad to hear it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39139350)



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Date: November 19th, 2019 11:16 AM
Author: Brass space



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39139385)



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Date: November 15th, 2019 1:44 AM
Author: swashbuckling church useless brakes

180 thread... confirms all the horror of modern day marriage and western womens

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39121091)



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Date: November 15th, 2019 5:26 AM
Author: henna electric organic girlfriend



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39121246)



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Date: November 15th, 2019 1:42 AM
Author: Cerise Orchestra Pit Cuckold

how is she entitled to that much alimony wtf

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39121089)



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Date: November 15th, 2019 6:03 AM
Author: Glittery address



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39121306)



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Date: April 4th, 2023 9:30 PM
Author: 180 associate

Big W muscadine bumped this today, and it almost brought me to tears reading this. I forgot all about this post.

I am so thankful, and I mean I thank God in heaven, that I did not divorce my wife. I can't believe how close I was to losing my family, and I think about our youngest child and how she wouldn't be here today if we hadn't stayed together. It would have been such an awful mistake to divorce.

Times were hard, and I don't know how I kept it together through these tough times, but I am so thankful that I did.

I can't imagine where I would be if this had gone the wrong way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46145007)



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Date: April 4th, 2023 9:33 PM
Author: Beady-eyed boistinker dilemma

180 brother

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46145014)



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Date: April 4th, 2023 9:33 PM
Author: misanthropic spot

1800000 so happy to hear, man.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46145016)



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Date: July 5th, 2023 1:22 AM
Author: Mischievous Cruise Ship Scourge Upon The Earth

unmitigated 190, i'm always happy to see bros here turn they life around

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46510309)



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Date: July 31st, 2023 3:03 PM
Author: misunderstood casino

How is it turned around? Seems like he is OK with not having sex. Maybe he decided if he got divorcepwned he'd have no $$ to even hire a whore.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46612595)



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Date: July 31st, 2023 12:05 AM
Author: Hairraiser lay juggernaut



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46610153)



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Date: July 31st, 2023 1:12 AM
Author: misunderstood casino

How often do u fuck? How much does she weight and any change since 2018?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46610244)



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Date: July 31st, 2023 1:22 PM
Author: 180 associate

About once a month, and her body remains fantastic.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46611969)



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Date: July 31st, 2023 1:24 PM
Author:  crystalline roommate

Damn dude how do you not make if your life's mission to try and fuck her more. Like, get into Broadway musicals. Whatever it takes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46611974)



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Date: August 1st, 2023 12:08 PM
Author: 180 associate

Reasonable expectations go a long way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46616142)



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Date: August 1st, 2023 12:11 PM
Author:  crystalline roommate

I have no clue what this means. Translate into English?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46616148)



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Date: July 31st, 2023 3:02 PM
Author: misunderstood casino

Do u have such low sex drive or what? I don't have a bitch and I easily afford a whore once a month. Really 1 hr with a whore in euro costs no more than my 1 night stay at a hotel. I thought the advantage of marriage is that u pay the same for the hotel or your house but get to fuck each day, which would otherwise cost $300+/hr.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46612587)



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Date: July 31st, 2023 1:24 PM
Author:  carmine forum gay wizard



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46611977)



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Date: July 31st, 2023 12:01 AM
Author: Purple razzle-dazzle temple mad-dog skullcap



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46610142)



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Date: July 31st, 2023 4:58 PM
Author: Bright Stag Film Faggot Firefighter

What's the lookback window for income? Meaning can you earn shit for a year or two then divorce and be on the hook for much lower alimony? Maybe now is the time to discover your altrustic side and devote tike to your local legal aid society.

Also, keep in mind people usually end up with the right person for them and this is the mother of your children. Maybe shes just in the wrong and youre the good guy but take a long hard look at yourself and your future prospects before you go down this path.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46613070)



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Date: July 31st, 2023 5:02 PM
Author: misunderstood casino

He chose life of 1x/month sex with 40yo woman that had 3 kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46613080)



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Date: July 31st, 2023 5:10 PM
Author: Sable pungent alpha

I haven’t read the other responses yet but have you considered fleeing to Baja or Southeast Asia?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46613112)



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Date: August 1st, 2023 12:13 PM
Author: Passionate range love of her life

I really love that this thread is evergreen

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46616152)